Just Finished Watching 6.20, "The Man Who Would Be King", And I Just Wanna Say--

I love byler dynamic:

Will: *exists* Mike: *stares*

It is my biggest pet peeve when (mostly) straight people try to make queer people feel guilty for shipping two same gender characters together or say it's problematic to ship them, so I've made a little list debunking their ideas. I'll be talking a lot about Byler but this also applies to Elmax, Ronance, Steddie and queer ships in general.

"Why can't people be friends anymore?" Why can't a guy and a girl be friends either? Why aren't you saying this about Chrissy and Eddie shippers? Unless the issue is that they're gay.

"You're assuming Will is gay based on stereotypes!" Of course, the horrible stereotype that gay guys like men but not women, how problematic of me.

"You're fetishizing children!" No one says this about M*leven shippers. The fact that you view a queer relationship as inherently sexual and adult is sexualising young people much more than shipping Will and Mike does.

"Men will be scared to be affectionate to their friends in real life in case people think that they're gay!" First of all, I doubt some straight guy is going to stop hanging out with his friend because some random person on the internet drew Steddie fanart. And second of all, why are we treating straight men's fear of being perceived as gay as a perfectly valid and normal fear? (I elaborate a bit on this point in the reblogs)

"Why is it okay to say Mike Wheeler is gay but not say Robin is straight? You're erasing his sexuality!" First of all, when did Mike say he's straight? Sure he said he loves Eleven (which I doubt he does anyways) but bi people exist. Plus, there are so many straight characters and ships out there. Straight people don't look up lists of shows with canonical queer representation or watch a show because it has a straight girl in it. Lesbians like myself look up to characters like Robin and they are meaningful to them. No straight person feels seen in their heterosexuality because of Mike Wheeler. The only exception in my opinion is when people headcanon straight characters who are dating trans people as bi like Tao from Heartstopper because that comes off as transphobic.

"They're too young to know that they're gay and you're forcing a sexuality on them." I've known I'm gay since I was eleven or twelve which is the age they are in S1. And yet again, why aren't you saying this about straight people! Everyone accepted that Dustin and Lucas liked Max in S2. Yet Will is too young to know who he likes... Interesting.

"Grown adults wanting two young boys to kiss each other is pretty weird." The issue with this is again the hypocrisy. Adult M*leven shippers don't get told this. Mike kissed Eleven in S1 and it was completely cute and non-sexual because they are children so of course it isn't sexual. Hell they even made out when they were 13 and no one complained. Why would that be any different if he kissed Mike instead of Will? Yet again, people view queer people as being inherently sexual but queer people get cute little crushes or want to kiss people sometimes too. It's not a sexual thing. It's the exact same as a straight person doing it.

Anyways that's my rant done. It just annoys me when half of their arguements saying why it's wrong to ship these characters are just masked homophobia, even if the person saying it doesn't realize. Feel free to add more to this in the reblogs, this is just what I've seen.

ITS ALREADY BEEN TWO HOURS SINCE THIS???

The fact that my friends are having a perfectly normal day and I’m over here foaming at the mouth waiting for the script

ngl the van script is gonna be a win either way. we either get nothing from mike, which confirms his feelings for will are purposefully being hidden until a big reveal in s5, or we get really sweet reactions from mike confirming his feelings. we stay winning bylers

come get your medals everyone

I might be alone on this but I’m *not* excited for the ST Twitter script snippets. Idk it just feels weird that they’d dump the scam tweet and then immediately try and replace what we thought was the script with their own “real” snippets (I say “real” in quotations bc as the writers they’re at liberty to hide anything they consider a spoiler. What they give us could totally be doctored). Like they haven’t explained why the script through 8flix was fake and they didn’t reach out to Nick first? This has been going on for years. He’s in the industry AND in the Netflix circle. I’m not saying the 8flix script is real but I’m not convinced it’s fake and I also feel wary that they are just posting snippets weekly now. It’s SO fishy

And the longer they wait to post it the more sus it all seems to be perfectly honest.

i’m so excited for stranger things 5 to be so will-centric that all the homophobic fans whine and cry about how they watched 5 seasons of a sci-fi horror show over the span of 8 years just for it to end up being the coming of age story of a gay kid

I cant take it anymore, I’m angry, annoyed, sad, excited, and underwhelmed.

What if I was bloody and beaten on my knees while you (brainwashed) tried to kill me and instead of begging for my life I begged for you to come back to me because “I need you”, and that broke you out of your brainwashing spell thing.

But no homo.