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y’all the new richard siken poems are so goddamned sad (and also so fucking good, as expected) y’gotta read them.

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Is there a way to be critical of gender without denying that trans men are men etc? Let me explain.

Gender dysphoria is real and trans and nonbinary people have to be respected - that's what I believe. However, I see that a lot of discource about gender and identities is focused on stereotypes - like afab people saying thay they knew they weren't a woman because of their interests, personal style and being gnc in general, while all those things can be done while being a woman. Also what I've seen get called woman vibes are mostly stuff like nail polish or a caring nature, which are stuff I actually love seing in men (and everyone tbh, we need more nice people but that's unrelated). Everyone has their own mind and autonomy and freedom to identify as they wish, and it's not my business to inquire why they choose to identify the way they do, I acknowledge that because it's just called being respectful. So if a fem presenting person told me their pronouns are he/they, I'd use that since it's not really something I should dig about. I'll use that and prob see them as transmasc or wtv label they wish to use, and I'd also be normal about that. But I'm also kinda critical of the root of this - like me thinking I was a demi girl or nb because I felt uncomfortable in my body during puberty and tiktok told me it was a sign, but I still identify as a cis girl and I feel fine. I don't think trans women are just porn addicted men or that trans men are confused women, I'm just wondering why it's so based in stereotypes, you know??

TL;DR I don't want to come off as a transphobe, I want to articulate that despite criticising the concept of gender and its stereotypes, people's choices and pronouns should be respected and acknowledged. Is it still gender critical, or is it called something else? I want to find people who think similar as me.

English isn't my first language sorry if I was unclear or used weird words or repeated myself lol

need something very lesbian to happen to me this December

I’m just saying that sapphic Destiel would have been so powerful. Not that they’re not powerful the way they are, but can you imagine???

I feel like I make it very obvious that I’m a lesbian sometimes. 🫣

For gyns who didn’t read my other repost, I’ll post it here.

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If you want help with answering interview questions, I will help you.

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god's own country has everything a country person would expect to see.the farms,gays, cows, deadborns, sex in a sheep field,a disabled relative, the skin biting cold feel everywhere, daddy issues,a young person's crisis over between university and modernity or the place he was born and supposed to take care of plus PLUS that tinge of warmth in all the greys when a character falls in love. oh also racism✨

listening to evermore while making lunch so I don't drop every responsibility in existence and binge watch fleabag

what does a man know about being a woman? Just the glimpses he caught when we weren't feeling in danger around him.

sometimes my brain tells me everything has been wrong from the start and no amount of crawling can make it right.But then I remember if the world was ending tomorrow I would still have 24 hours to love my people

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something in fleabag about the names. we see the most intimate, uncomfortable, raw moments in these people's lives and yet half of the main characters don't have names. we call the main character fleabag because not one character throughout the entire series ever addresses her by name. we call her fleabag. no one's asked her a question in forty-five minutes. they make jabs about her need to be the center of attention. they never say her name. we call her fleabag.