The One My Nana Wished She Had: Not Tripping Over Anything And Everything, Big And Small

@wonderingsam @chronosfear is it bad that there's no token straight among us?

“it’s unrealistic for so many of them to be gay’

shut up shut up shut UP every single person in my 3rd grade friend group turned out to be queer (except for one, the token straight guy) and there were EIGHT of us. queer people find each other, even if they don’t know they’re queer.

Gentle reminder here that there are elder queers out there. Real elders, people in their 80s and 90s who survived, who are here. You can get there, old age does exist for us.

I know an old lesbian couple who have been married since the moment they legalized it. One woman can hardly walk anymore but she loves Hallmark ornaments, so her wife supports her against her walker during Christmas so she can look at them more easily.

I know a transgender man who started transitioning only 10 years ago at 60, and he's brilliant and funny and brings his grandchildren by to get sweets.

I know an asexual woman who, beamed and told me she absolutely loved not having a husband, and that she "never once regretted not getting married. I never felt that way about anybody! Why force it?" She lives with her parrot and loves salsa dancing.

Our elders exist. So many of us have been wiped out and erased on purpose, but we're here. And that means you can get there. When you're old and grey, when you're retired and done, there will be people who will love you and will care for you.

It was never about the babies, but it doesn’t matter even if it was.

The god of Republicans fcuking hates women.

The abortion doctor being a woman is ultimate misogynist target for Conservatives.

Killing women to give men more power is the mission statement of the right wing.

Happy D E M O N y'all <3

You say the sweetest things darling 😘

@lizza-yarnscaping you've finally made it as my tumblr crush. So hot 🥵 I'm like, so obsessed with you.

society: you have to define your sexual attraction

alloaros: no, I’m just allo

society: you have have to use the SAM

non-SAM aros: no, I’m just aro

society: you have to feel some type of love

loveless aros: no, love isn’t universal

society: you have to fit my understanding of an aro person

aros: no, we don’t