Y’all, I Know Most Mommy Bloggers Are Usually Absolutely Vile, And The “wine O’clock” Culture

y’all, i know most mommy bloggers are usually absolutely vile, and the “wine o’clock” culture is so annoying, but really think about it: why don’t we talk about how alarming it is that mothers feel the need to constantly talk about wine, drink wine, buy trinkets that have quirky sayings about wine, and yet no one is concerned that maybe patriarchal marriage structures are contributing to alcoholism in women? why is it that, if a mommy blogger says she takes shots of tequila to get through her day it would be alarming, but having a wine tumbler that says “mommy juice” or “i wine because my kids whine” (a real thing i have seen online for purchase) isn’t… scary?

i just think we need to have conversations about how the structure of modern motherhood and marriage is maybe super harmful for women? and maybe one solution is to normalize men taking more responsibility in the home and as parents. this goes along with useless husband “jokes” where women chuckle over a bottle or two of wine (!!!) about how their husbands are so clueless and helpless. normalize husbands doing the cooking and dishes. normalize husbands taking part time work in order to care for the kids. it’s not about shifting power from husband to wife, it’s about deconstructing the need for power in the first place.

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6 years ago

hi luv!! I notice you do a lot of pilates with blogilates! I love her sm lol she’s amazing but I was wondering,, do you have any fav videos of hers that you do regularly/more often than others? I love the 100 challenges that she does and a couple of other videos but I wanted to know which ones you like the most !!

hi angel!! eee i’m so glad so many of you seem to love cassey too, she’s great ✨ here are the videos i always go back to:

thighs

i really really like you squat challenge

plie squat challenge

shape of you(r thighs) squat challenge

call me maybe squat challenge

20 minute inner thigh isolation workout

5 moves to target inner thighs

obliques

extreme obliques workout

quick burn obliques workout

candle stick dippers workout

another quick burn obliques workout

back

backless bride workout

ultimate back workout

3 minute quick back workout

backless dress workout

arms

20 minute arm isolate

quick burn tricep workout

quick burn arm workout

bridal bootcamp arm workout

6 minute arm workout

pop pilates arm workout for beginners

abs (for abs, i typically just make up my own routine vs following videos, but i like these ones!!)

pop pilates ab workout for beginners

lower ab isolation exercises

abs and obliques workout

for cardio, i tend to just do piit workouts!! i typically only do this one but i’ve done this one a few times as well and i liked/hated it (hated bc it was painful and i felt like dying the entire time lmao)

6 years ago

26&27/100 days of productivity. 18th & 19th May 2019.

Completed five pastpapers.

One ab workout.

One topic of Food and Nutrition notes.

Math homework.

Made a study plan.

So this weekend was basically a chill one but mostly pastpapers took up most of my time. I didn't get to study as much as i would like too simce my finals start in two weeks. If you all have any tips feel free to message me! As always hope you all had a productive and happy day and if you didn't that's okay you always have tomorrow! ^.^

BTS - Not Today.

Zedd, Katy Perry - 365

JANNABI - A Story I Couldn't See.

4 years ago

life should really just be *wakes up refreshed* *drinks some coffee* *eats some oatmeal* *reads a book* *eats some stir fried vegetables* *reads a book* *eats a cookie* *reads a book* *drinks some soup* *reads a book* *goes to sleep content* *wakes up refreshed*

4 years ago
AUG 24 / 20 

AUG 24 / 20 

good morning have a great monday !!

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5 years ago

Hello! Sorry for bothering you. I've recently created a discord for people that are learning Japanese but unfortunately my studyblr is quite new and I don't have a large following. So i've been asking around if japanese langblrs could reblog it so that more people can see it, and that's why i'm here! You can absolutely say no if you don't want to, but i thought it would be worth to ask!!! Let me know, even privately!! Thank you 💖

oh absolutely, i would love to!! i’m sure it would be useful for a lot of my followers. could you please send me the link? 💛

5 years ago

Tag Game

Thank you for tagging me @sofa-sogood!!

rules: you have to tag 20 of your followers you want to know better!

nickname: Lily

gender: female

astrological sign: Sagittarius

height: 5ft 6in

sexuality: bisexual

hogwarts house: ravenclaw

number of blankets: 1

where I'm from: the caribbean

dream trip: seoul or japan.

when i created this blog: early 2017 or 2018

why i created this blog: i created this one just for fun and to meet people but the i created my side blog to motivate me to be more productive and also to interaxt with people who have similar interests.

The people I'm tagging: @learn-korean-with-alli @cals-desk @caffestudy @hardworkign @studie-s @studydiaryofamedstudent @studylustre @studypool @kookmint @koreanstudytips @jaidspo @rylie-studies @gwen-studies @milkystudies & @han-studiesss

Have fun!


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4 years ago
07.25.20 - I’m Gearing Up For Starting My 1L Year In Just A Few Weeks. I Am Super Excited And A Little

07.25.20 - I’m gearing up for starting my 1L year in just a few weeks. I am super excited and a little nervous. I have started setting up my Notion organization system and so far, I am loving it! 

6 years ago

Something amazing will happen to you in May 2019.

5 years ago
Namjoon’s Answer To A Question About What He Felt And Learned While Making The Album And Looking Back
Namjoon’s Answer To A Question About What He Felt And Learned While Making The Album And Looking Back
Namjoon’s Answer To A Question About What He Felt And Learned While Making The Album And Looking Back
Namjoon’s Answer To A Question About What He Felt And Learned While Making The Album And Looking Back
Namjoon’s Answer To A Question About What He Felt And Learned While Making The Album And Looking Back
Namjoon’s Answer To A Question About What He Felt And Learned While Making The Album And Looking Back
Namjoon’s Answer To A Question About What He Felt And Learned While Making The Album And Looking Back

namjoon’s answer to a question about what he felt and learned while making the album and looking back at their 7 years as BTS and looking forward to their next 7 years. (trans.credit)

4 years ago
09/01/2020
09/01/2020

09/01/2020

ran out of pages in my notebook just at the end of summer. very excited to find this dingbats notebook that coincidentally is both green and keeps up with my deer theme! plus it has so much less ghosting than my leuchtturm (bless). third in my dynasty of green notebooks to start the school year off!

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