2023 Is:

Work on yourself in silence, don't expect to be revered by others for your improvements. Improve for yourself only and don't involve yourself in messy interpersonal situations. Be above all the mediocrity, toxicity, and chaos around you. You don't owe a reaction or complicity to the people around you.

I want everything nice in this life

I want a beautiful, luxurious apartment with a terrace and private pool

I want to travel whenever I want to wherever I want

I want a huge, walk-in wardrobe full of designer pieces

I want expensive jewellry

I want to eat in the best restaurants and most private clubs

I want a summer house in front of the sea and a cozy cottage to watch the leaves changing color in fall

I want to spend every minute of my day doing things I love

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Repeat 3 times: "𝑰 𝑹𝒆𝒄𝒆𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝑳𝒊𝒇𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒚𝒍𝒆!🧖‍♀️"

Love yourself, take pride in your appearance, self reflect, sculpt your body, prioritise beauty, stretch regularly, meditate, journal, eat nutritionally abundant food. You have one body — optimise, nourish and take pride in it.

The Provider Mindset

I absolutely love a walking green flag who has a provider mindset. I play close attention to the men around me that are happily married and take care of their families. Some of my favorite things they brag about:

- Setting up childcare so that their wife can enjoy working out, hobbies, etc

- Hiring help if their wife doesn’t enjoy cooking or cleaning to focus on other strengths

- Planning vacations and alone time for wife/husband

- Being heavily involved and picky about their children’s education

- Establishing their children’s credit/finances early on

- Encouraging multiple leisure activities for everyone

Bonus: When they talk about how they would not survive a day without their spouse because it shows how much they appreciate a good homemaker!