What To Write In Your Journal To Move On

Basic Financial Rules To Live By 💰✨

Create a plan that shows how much money you get and how much you spend. This helps you see where your money goes.

Set aside a part of your money as savings. Try to save at least 10-20% of what you earn.

Be careful with borrowing money, especially if you have to pay back a lot of extra money (interest).

Save some money for unexpected things like medical bills or losing your job. Aim to have enough to cover your living costs for a few months.

Put your saved money into different things that can make it grow, like stocks or real estate. Be patient, as it takes time.

Don't spend more money than you make. Stick to buying what you really need, not just what you want.

Decide what you want to do with your money, both in the short term (like a vacation) and long term (like retirement).

Set up automatic transfers to your savings and bills so you don't forget to save or pay your bills on time.

Make saving money a top priority before spending on other things.

Regularly look at your money situation, adjust your plan as needed, and see how your investments are doing.

Pay your bills on time and use credit wisely (like credit cards) to keep a good credit score, which can help you get better deals on loans.

Save money for when you're older and don't work anymore. Use retirement accounts to help with this.

Think before you buy things. Don't buy something just because you want it; think if it's necessary.

Keep learning about how money works and how to make smart money choices.

Only use your emergency fund for real unexpected problems, not for things you just want to buy.

♰

Self care ideas ೄྀ࿐ ˊˎ

• Make yourself a cozy, warm beverage (I love tea and dark hot chocolate)

• Be active. Walk, run, bike, weightlifting, yoga, swim, calisthenics, pilates, dance, whatever! 💪

• Clean your room and look into feng shui

• Meditate, relax, and breathe for a moment 🧘‍♀️

• Lay in bed…. (Sometimes a girl needs to rest, okay?)

• Face mask, under-eye masks, face oils, vitamin C and E, aloe, gua sha, face massage. (you guys knew it was coming 🤷‍♀️)

• Dress up (fashion showwwww 😽😽) and prepare your outfits for the week

• Make a cute, healthy, satisfying treat

the cycle of waiting.

one of the most common reasons to why people fail to manifest their desires isn’t necessarily because they fail to "manifest it correctly" but because they don’t even start to assume a new reality for themselves.

waiting for the change.

the question is, why do people wait so long to take mental action? scarcity is a reason most are familiar with. being afraid to make a move towards your desire especially when the possibility of failure exists. some feel insecure or overwhelmed and don't think they are mentally prepared for big changes. some feel uncertain about what they really want. some are used to their current circumstances, they refuse to get uncomfortable and would rather endure unpleasant feelings. and some have limiting beliefs hindering them from fully realising their potential.

depending on the outside.

you don't need your desires in physical form in order to feel its associated feelings. you don't need proof of it. not only because you long for the FEELING of having your desire and not your desire itself, but because the 3D could never change on its own. the 3D looks at you for validation, and not the other way round. you are the only evidence you need and your imagination has always been the validation for everything in your life. you are self sabotaging yourself if you rely on changes from without and built your faith upon things you can perceive with your senses. this way, you will keep letting the outer world define how much you can have within yourself.

conditioning your desires.

if you keep waiting for the world to change so you have an "excuse", a "permission" or a "reason" to finally change as well, you will be stuck in a cycle that will constantly repeat itself as you will remain as you are. if you won't take action from within, you will forever remain in a state of stagnation, feeling unsatisfied with the way life turns out to be. additionally, waiting for outer movement can also be a form of conditioning your desires.

stop wasting time.

stop waiting and living in desire. realise that imagination is the only reality and allow yourself to give yourself your desires. don't expect to be saved when you can be your only saviour. and remember, you can't change what's inside with what's outside. only if you, from WITHIN, are willing to change, you can alter the physical.

be the change.

so, what are you waiting for? why not feel the way you would want to feel? why not feel beautiful, loved, successful, healthy, intelligent and wealthy? why not start today? there is no reason for why you should deny yourself to feel these feelings. don't hold back, don't resist and no longer hesitate to finally fulfill yourself, rather than expecting the 3D to change on its own (which it can't, never did and never will).

it's important that you always keep in mind that you don't change once your 3D changes. you only really change if you change from within, not from without.

with love, ella.

my current fav youtube channels

wildheartwaves - black women self accountability + analysis

pidgin doll - fashion sketching and doll composition

vintagecoochie - black girl cultural analysis

ruthy - bw beauty and makeup

chokolodka - psychological femininity and spirituality

fashion channel - vintage fashion shows

iconicallyiconic - deep dives into girly movies, brands and tv shows

darling dollz - doll releases and rankings

pretty boy xo - stripper vlogs and content

beauty and beyond - compilations of beautymaxxing content

r p - self help for women

earth rabbit - how to feel pretty

han ୨♡୧ - cute and calming doll + sanrio content

chrissie - content for bw mental reframing

kelsey the ballerina - minimalism and self love

msreadtheroom - mental level up content

style intellect - fashion analysis

lelegalliano - bw beauty content

sabrina lilliane - dolliest content

tea renee - hair and makeup tutorials

karine aloude - bw personality analysis

vogue - beauty secrets

codenamechanel - hypergamy content

just michelle - skin and beauty content

jaz turner - feminine development

the style and beauty doctor - skincare content

leah alexander - beauty and level up content

simonesimmo - mental level up

vinertria - beauty and fashion

bellazzi ent. - beauty utilization and self respect

how to become the best version of myself ? <3

Start by visualising the best version of yourself.

What does she look like?

What does she act like?

How does she dress?

Who does she surround herself with?

What are her hobbies?

Does she exercise?

What is her work ethic like?

What does her space look like?

What does her daily routine look like?

Once you have an outline, start acting like her.

Fake it until you make it <3

Signs You Are Vibrating Higher 👼☁️🤍✨

• People are drawn to your energy.

• You attract opportunities and experiences.

• Your intuition and gut feelings guide you effectively.

• You have a strong sense of purpose.

• You find it easy to let go of negative emotions.

• You manifest your intentions and goals effortlessly.

• You have a deep connection with the universe.

• Animals feel safe around you.

• Kids like you.

• Strangers confide in you.

• The energy in the room shifts when you walk in.

• You irritate toxic people just by being yourself.

new year, new me🕯🩰

new year, new era💗💗I really wanted to do a glow up plan to become the best version of myself before 2024.

STYLE

• Change my hair color

• Make a clothing vision board

• Find your signature scent

SPACE

• Organize my room

• Get rid of clothes/objects I no longer use

• Organize my workstation, make it an environment pretty, fun and productive

• Make your bed for 21 days

• Keep your room clean for 21 days.

BODY

• Find a skin care routine, invest in great skin products.

• Find a workout plan that works for you and stay consistent for a month.

• Get at least 8 hours of sleep for 21 days

MIND

• Set boundaries with school or work, prioritize my mental health.

• journal in the morning for a week Every day for two weeks, write down 3 things you are grateful for

•Avoid social media in the morning

FINANCIAL

• Set a budget

• Learn to say no when it comes to spending money.

• Find inexpensive date ideas (picnic, baking, movie night, etc.)

• Take part of my salary and invest or keep it

• Don't buy things you don't have need

INTELLECTUAL

• Read a book this month (self-help books are the best)

• Learn a new skill (piano, painting, makeup, sports, etc.)

• Listen to a podcast while getting ready in the morning

SOCIAL

• Stay away from toxic people

• Spend an hour with a friend every day for a week

• Call a friend instead of texting them

FOOD

• Drink three bottles of water every day for 21 days.

• Find new recipes and cook more

• drink detox water every day

My DAYOL diary My notion

I truly love manifesting and how everything always works out in my way. my birthday was yesterday and I wanted my crush to gift me something (flowers in particular), so I went to my classes, which we are together in, AND GUESS WHAT??? HE SURPRISED ME WITH A BIRTHDAY CAKE AND CANDLES<333 Also my new classmates gifted me things. I felt so loved on my 16th birthday and very thankful to the people and god who made it very special for me ♥️♥️