I Will Place My Laundry In The Wash

Yes, I’m literally posting this at the eleventh hour of International Asexual Day. Move past it.

ANYWAY. Story time (also TW mentions of sex):

So, as a tween, and throughout my early teen years, guys in my class would talk about being attracted to girls in a “certain way”, and I never felt the same type of attractions they were feeling. Yes, I had been attracted to girls, but never attracted to them sexually. So, I’d hear the “dude, you must be gay” or “there must be something wrong with you” claims.

And some of the girls I had dated tried coercing me into having phone sex and some would feel me up in efforts to try and turn me on, and of course it would make me super uncomfortable and they would get mad at me for “ruining the mood”. I had stopped bringing up the fact that I disliked sex and tried to force myself to be okay with doing it someday. But the more and more I thought about the idea of having sex, and it being a necessity in a relationship, overwhelmed me and made me feel like something was wrong with me and that I’d never get into a relationship if I wasn’t sexually attracted to anybody.

Fast forward to 2021 and I discovered a lovely part of the LGBTQIA+ community called ✨the asexual community✨. There I discovered the definition of asexuality and it described me to a fuckin’ T. And it lifted a huge weight from shoulders. Just knowing that not only were my feelings valid, but there were others like me who weren’t sexually attracted to anybody, and I can live my life knowing sex doesn’t matter in a relationship and I can love people for their hearts and souls without ever feeling uncomfortable.

I’m proud to be me. I’m proud to be part of such a community. And I’m proud for how I love! 💜

Thank you, thank you for reading this! And happy International Asexuality Day!

Legit looks like my tummy (‘:

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@dachell_ART

TW: mentions of fatshaming

If only (‘: I’d love to have a partner who loved all my chubbiness and the tigglishness that came with it. Unfortunately, Ive rarely been loved/admired for my body type and have experienced fat shaming from people I’ve shared face reveals with, and still experience people not preferring my body type. And I’m sad to say I’m still taken aback when someone says they love chubby bodies. Like, I’d love to believe it but am not used to the admiration.

BRO IMAGINE BEING INSECURE ABOUT UR WEIGHT AND BELLY AND UR PARTNER JUST PINS YOU ON A SOFA OR A BED OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT AND THEY START TO BLOW RASPBERRIES ON YOUR BELLY AND THEN SAYS "Im not stopping until you admit you're beautiful" AND THEY ACTUALLY DONT STOP UNTIL YOU SAY THAT YOURE BEAUTIFUL??? BRO I WOULD DIE

AND THEN WHEN THEY FINALLY STOP, THEY SAY SOMETHING LIKE "If you say that one more time, i will not just go for ur belly, im warning you"

AAAAAAAAAAA

I REALLY NEEDED TO SHARE THIS IDK WHY

Thank you. I feel validated.

I love you fat people I'm so sorry about the world

THERE’S GONNA BE A TWORD SCENE IN PIXAR’S LATEST FILM ELIO

OHGODOHGODOHGOD IM NOT READY FOR THISSSS…

YEESSS (obviously avoiding the no-no parts) IT’D BE FUN TO SEE WHERE ELSE I’M T-WORDISH. Maybe sports where I didn’t think I was! (Like ears, palms, face etc)

Also, I can’t live without cookies. They’re so so delicious. Top tier dessert. 🤌🏼

reblog if you wanna be tickled t-worded from head ta toe~!

..OR if you like cookies :3

And my unintentional fixation for January 2025 issss…

*spins wheel*

WALLACE & GROMIT!

*ta-da fanfare*

In all seriousness, I remember watching this wholesome little series when I was a kid. It honestly did strike a chord with me at the time, but I didn’t ever really become remotely obsessed with it. (I do have the core memory of me eating taquitos while watching it on tv, though.) It was always just kinda there for me to enjoy.

Because of this series I gained a major appreciation for stop motion animation and would happily sit down to watch a film by Aardman, whether if it was about Shaun the Sheep or the army of chickens from Chicken Run.

Years and years down the line, when news of a brand new Wallace and Gromit film broke out, I immediately took interest and awaited the pair’s grand return. And after watching Vengeance Most Fowl, I just had to get back in touch with the original series and rewatch their previous adventures, and I was surprised at how spectacular the series (as a whole) really is.

Such cracking grand and hilarious writing, beautiful music that encapsulates every bit of emotion in the scene, stunning and comforting visuals… AND CHEESE, GROMIT!

Gotta give lots of props to Ben Whitehead for carrying the torch that was once held by Peter Sallis. Ben really understood the silly essence of Wallace, and voices the role with the upmost love, dignity and respect.

I’m happy this iconic duo is back, and hopefully we’ll see more of them in the future, whether it be half hour or an hour special - I’ll be there! ❤️

(Also my friends and I got to try Wensleydale cheese and it’s quite phenomenal.)

Happy Trans Day of Visibility to all my trans brothers, sisters and in-betweens. I love you all so very much!! 🏳️‍⚧️❤️

I know being visible is hard right now, and you’re no less valid for having to hide. Deep down, know that this is your day too. I love you x

Please (‘:

Reblog to order a Tickle Tease Gram from your local teasing Ler.

IT’S TODAY!!!

Happy Birthday to Britain’s favorite pooch!!