Quick Update On My Daughter. My Fiance Thinks She Has Radical Attachment Disorder Which Makes Sense Since
Quick update on my daughter. My fiance thinks she has radical attachment disorder which makes sense since she cries when I leave the room for the bathroom. She always falls asleep around him and I love it because that means she feels safe enough to sleep. We've decided, in order to try and get rid of or lessen the disorder we're going to put her in the bedroom, she gets a little nursery. We're moving my desk to the living room and her pack n play to the bedroom. I finally get to make a little nursery which I'm SO HAPPY about because I wanted to do that but we were homeless and when we weren't we only had one bedroom but since I'm more comfortable in the living room anyway might as well make use of that room, right? I'm gonna put "Welcome Home Little One" posters on the walls and other posters. I need to get her a new nightlight because I don't know what happened to hers. I'm hopefully going to be getting a little TV with some movies for it and I'm going to put that in her room so I can just put a show on as background noise and she'll be okay for a little bit herself. At 4 months this kid could self soothe but now she can't because DCFS said it was wrong 😒 now she can't self soothe at all and she's one. Ughhh I hate not being able to use my own rules on my child. She doesn't go to bed until 10:00 PM because she takes an hour-long nap at 7:00 PM. She takes 4 naps, one an hour after she wakes up which is around 5 AM or 6 AM so about 7 AM, another one around 1 or 2 PM , a 3rd at about 4 or 5 PM, and one at 7 or 8 PM but my fiance and I are going to try and get her schedule to match ours.
This whole mothering with DCFS and a foster parent is irritating especially when this freaking foster parent are either extremely early, foster dad picks my daughter up 5 minutes early so I decided I'ma head downstairs 10 minutes early because hes not even supposed to be able to get upstairs without me letting him in, foster mum will literally drop off my babygirl 15-30 minutes late. Although on Friday foster dad was 30 minutes late picking her up and on Saturday foster mum was 15 minutes early which I was trying to use for cleaning and Sunday she was 30 minutes late picking her up. It wouldn't be an issue if they didn't complain about everything we did like leave a pizza box with no pizza on a clean counter because "it was there for 2 weeks" no it wasn't, it was there for a night. She tried to say she had to show me how to wash my daughter (she didn't) and how to make her bottle (I was a new mother and never had to make my siblings bottles, my grandma or mum did that) it's just so AGHHHH!!!!! It's like when I'm late because my phone alarm didn't go off and my phone didn't ring when called, I'm the bad guy but when she brings my child 30 minutes late almost every visit if I were to say something I'd still look like the bad guy. It's starting to get to me. It's like she doesn't care if my fiance and I have plans and need to have our daughter on time instead of early or late.
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This but also "I look normal but I draw hentai" "I look normal but I'm actually hypersexual and don't wear panties 90% of the time"
"Shhhhh, daddy, go back to bed, were having a meeting!!" -me in my head while daddy is 3/4s the way asleep but looked around for a second.
Backstory of how I got stuffies I got
My bear I got from my daddy, he gave it to me because he doesn't like the texture or the reminder. My daddy and I met at a homeless shelter last year on the 28th of October, a couple days later, on today, we started dating, and officially knew what we were each other. A while later his doggy died, he doesn't get sad when most family members die but when animals die it's different for him, he has more of a connection with fluffy friends than most human beings. He gave his teddy to me because
1. The texture
2. The memory
And 3. He knows I needed a piece of him to cuddle at night because they don't let you cuddle at shelters. You can hug and do quick kisses but at night when you're sleeping, you're not allowed cuddles.
The weird looking pink one came from a stuffie Jaide's "sperm donor" gave to her, it had a bigger stuffie and this one was in its tummy pocket like mommy and daughter so I took the baby one and Jaide has the mommy one.
The pastel cow I got from one of my friends I also met at the same shelter. He was gonna burn Pastella because she came from his ex-girlfriend who backstabbed him but I believe that it wasn't the stuffies fault so he gave her to me. I feel kinda bad though cause Pastella, Honey-Bun, and Jewel got put in the closet for a long time and got lost.
Honeybun and Jewel came from people giving a bunch of stuffies to my daughter but she has a bunch of stuffies already so I took a couple I thought were cute. I'm tempted to steal a stuffed Unicorn she has but I'm holding back.
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Mhm, those were the stuffies, I named HoneyBun, Pastella, and Jewel off the top of my head, they each had something that kinda fit the names, they didn't have names till yesterday though. Jewel has a lil diamond shape on her head, Pastella is pastel colors, and HoneyBun is a bunny and she's sweet so she reminded me of Honey. I don't remember my bear's old name but I'll probably call him Suga(r) because he reminds me of brown sugar. He's a cross dressing bear.
I have some stuffies you might find cute! I thought of you cause one of them is a bun bun. (I also have 2 cows and a bear ^OwO^)
oh!! were they the ones on your posts? ໒₍´˶> ⩊ <˶ ⑅ ₎ྀི১!!! the bun is so cute!! her ears r so cute in a little ponytail!! I did that to Bonnie once! >:3
ty for sharing 💗
Cute date idea, I’ll tie you up and cut your clothes off while you try and pretend I can’t see how wet you are.
A 20 year old, almost 21 year old, age regressor. Mother of a beautiful daughter. Older siblings of 2 intelligent kiddos. I am married.
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