“She may not be a wild child, honey. But she has freedom in her soul. And she found where she belongs, and she found her ticket out. And you may never be ready to, but it’s time to let her go.”
-E. // what my aunt told my dad //
Trauma Bonding is when you’re so heavily attached to a toxic person, that you are willing to maintain a relationship, even at the expense of yourself for the few and far between highs.
Your brain gets highly addicted to the habitual ups and downs of oxytocin, dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin, that even when the relationship ends, you will seek and crave the person or become obsessive or seek similar people, in order to get your fix. It’s the rewiring of the neurological pathways of love, turning against itself.
The loss of the love, makes you crave them more. You’re dependent in the same way a heroin addict is 🤔🤓😈
“I had seen the world as either white or black. It is only when I read the pages of her diary that I understood why the sky looked so grey.” ― Sanhita Baruah
Requested by @im-john-lock3d 💫
I'm hollering this is the most painfully accurate masterpiece of a shitpost
“Love can make even nice people do awful things.”
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“Take care of all your memories. For you cannot relive them.”
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“Make it a habit to think positive.”
— Anonymous (via neckkiss)
““I understand that nobody understands me, but I can’t be someone I’m not.””
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Drink lots of water!!!
Thanks for the reminder!