how to get what you want without affirmations
you don’t need words. you don’t need to sit in front of a mirror and say “i am rich, i am powerful, i am devastatingly beautiful” fifty times like a malfunctioning wind-up doll. reality does not care for your diction. you are not a salesman, and the universe is not some reluctant buyer waiting to be convinced.
the mistake is thinking you need to tell it what you want. the bigger mistake is thinking you need to tell yourself. affirmations are training wheels. good for beginners, good for those who still need to hear it. but the minute you’re relying on them, you’re admitting that some part of you doesn’t believe it’s already true.
belief is the whole game. not logic, not effort, not obsessively restating your desires as if you’re a student cramming the night before an exam. have you ever noticed how the things that come easiest are the things you never had to try for? how the moment you stop fixating on something, it seems to slip right into your hands? it’s not luck. it’s not irony. it’s that you moved into the having state without resistance.
forget the script. forget the language. what would you feel if you already had it? what would you not feel? because the absence of desire is the presence of fulfillment.
get into that state.
not the one where you are trying to be, but the one where you already are. it’s not about pretending. it’s not about hoping. it’s about settling into the quiet, absolute certainty of someone who does not need to ask. because the ones who have never ask.
The right way to react to the 3D. - guide
- first of all, I want to you remind and tell you, why are you worrying about something you deserve to have? Why are you doubting something that is already yours?
- your subconscious does not have eyes, so why are you not telling it what you want to see? Your subconscious is what molds your reality, your mind is powerful. Even if you don’t see— nor understand that now, trust me you will eventually.
- “I doubt so much, how can I fix that” first of all that is completely normal, you are human and you will adjust to this mindset if you really want to. You must want what belongs to you, so if you really want it, try and “get out of your comfort zone, to get comfortable” — Thewizardliz
- having doubts is okay, just make sure to correct those thoughts with things like;
• “oh that was my old self”
• “just joking, I have my desire”
• “no matter what my doubts say, I have what I desire”
• “why am I thinking that when I already have my desire?”
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Even if you don’t see your desire tomorrow, the next day, or your desired day, you will still get it eventually by the law of assumption.
i know people can find states of consciousness a bit confusing, so here's a super simple exercise you can do to locate (and then be and persist in) your ideal self.
imagine somebody comes to you and says you can be anybody, instantly. you think--in terms of manifestation--well, i want to manifest my SP, so i guess that means i want to be SP's girlfriend?
ok, but what does that mean? what does that look like for you? what does that feel like?
well, i want my SP lovingly obsessed with me, spoiling me, blowing up my phone 24/7, buying me flowers and gifts and a ring, taking me on all sorts of fancy dates and trips, racing home to me at the end of the work day...
ok, so your new identity is "obsessed over, spoiled girlfriend."
i want you to imagine, now, you're on a movie set, and the director comes to you and says, "your job is to be THE obsessed over, spoiled girlfriend. i'm not giving you any lines, though. i'm not telling you how to dress or how to act. you gotta adlib, you gotta do it now, and you gotta keep doing it. that's it. that's the task."
you say ok, and you feel a switch go off within you, right?
you're no longer the person who's obsessively manifesting an SP. no. your SP is chasing you. you cannot get this man to stop texting you. you're thinking, "oh my god. he is such a simp for me, it's almost funny. he'll do anything he can to spend every second with me." you get home from shopping and--he left flowers on your doorstep? and a note? holy shit. your SP wrote you a love poem?!!?! and bought you tickets to ITALY?!
you probably feel...different...in your body, too. energetically. much more secure, powerful, maybe even sensual, a bit savage. focused on yourself and your goals, other areas of your life like friendships and work. all that neediness and yearning and pain just--dissipated. you're no longer the desirer. you're the desired.
feels good, doesn't it?
well, you just shifted your state.
that all took place in imagination, but it felt real because...spoiler alert...it is real.
you're not imagining to become.
you imagine and you are.
instantly.
so you continue imagining. not because you want to "get" your SP (though you will, by law), but because "obsessed over, spoiled girlfriend" is the identity you've chosen, and you love being her. it feels right to you, natural, effortless, authentic. feels like who you are, like your truth.
(also, you don't want to get fired by the movie director, who is the most badass person alive...oh, right, that's you, too).
this applies to anything, and doesn't need to be a singular identity. you can be "obsessed over, spoiled girlfriend" and "rich as fuck powerhouse crossfit champion of the world" and "the most sought after dog walker in all the land" and "baker extraordinaire" and "bestselling author with a three-book deal." these are all just states of consciousness, and your ideal self is all you assume you are, all wrapped in one.
have FUN.
be because it feels good, because it's true, because it's you.
your world will--because it must--re-shape itself around you.
sc affirmations
i am a master manifestor
this is my reality so i call the fucking shots
i have the world wrapped around my fingers
i am the creator and god of my reality
i am the main character and the main bitch of my reality
i am really the girl/boy who has it all
everyone idolizes and worships me
i am above everyone and everything
anything is possible for me because I AM GOD
there’s barely any words that can describe how powerful and limitless i am
my life is so fucking perfect
how can someone as powerful as me be a victim to their 3D reality?
the 3D doesn’t have any power over me because i am the one who’s in fucking control
isn’t it crazy how i can manifest whatever i want so fucking fast?
➵ vaunt ☁️
for master manifestor + wonderful life + self concept
i am such a master manifestor. i literally manifest instantly. the 3d just conforms at a blink of an eye. my life is so perfect. everything in my life is perfect. i am beyond perfection. i have the perfect self concept. the second i think of my desire, it just appears. like i always manifest so quickly it's too fast for me to keep up. it takes zero effort for me to manifest my desires. no matter how i manifest it always works instantly. i see it, i like it, i want it, i got it. everything in my life is exactly the way i want it to be. my life is so wonderful. i'm so happy i have everything i want cause i'm sooo good at manifesting. isn't it wonderful? 💙
Omg it clicked for me , so try to be instead of have in order to manifest . The goal is being the person with clear skin instead trying to have clear skin for example !!
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you're not trying or waiting. you're BEING it NOW. you must BE it within first and then you be it in the outer world.
you BE it in imagination and then your body follows.
I will come again and receive you to myself, that where I am, there you(body) may be also -john 14:6
this is you(inner self/consciousness) speaking to your body(outer self)!!
this is why techniques don't matter. techniques are only there to help you BE it. to BE in the state of consciousness of BEING it. and you be it by assuming you are it so it's like assuming x being yk???
you can be it in imagination(consciousness) because creation is finished and that version of you already exists. you simply BE that version of yourself.
it's really simple when you understand it. you don't have to be it in the 3d. it's okay if the 3d is overwhelming because it's not about changing the 3d. it's about BEING it in consciousness(imagination) ONLY.
I remember my only goal is to BECOME the one I want to be IN IMAGINATION ONLY. So I think about something I want to be, anything. Then I assume I AM that IN IMAGINATION, and in Imagination I can be all things -ed art
you fulfill your desires in imagination by BEING the person who has it already. it's okay if you're not that person in the 3d yet. you identify yourself with imagination/consciousness. you really already are it. abdullah was right when he said "you're already in Barbados"
this is why neville's book at your command is my favorite because that book really focuses on being conscious of being it.
Praying, as we have shown you before, is recognition – the injunction to believe that ye receive in first person, present tense. This means that you must BE in the nature of the things asked for before you can receive them -neville
what can you not be in imagination? in this infinite plane of existence? ask yourself that and dare to be it by daring to assume that you are it. continue being that person within yourself as a present fact regardless of the senses. your body will catch up.
everyday you believe things without thinking twice. think about it:
when you order food at a restaurant, you expect the kitchen to cook it, you don't run back there to make sure they're doing it right because you know the food is on its way. even if you can’t see your plate yet. you just expect it to show up.
when you flip a light switch, you assume the light will turn on. when you send a text, you're not panicking if it'll deliver or not.
this is manifestation, believing before you see' it. we trust the process without hovering. we already believe every day. circumstances don’t matter.
you don’t script 100 times to make the sun rise. you don’t visualize air filling your lungs every second just to be sure you keep breathing. you don't do methods or rituals for these things, because you expect it to work because you've seen it happen enough times.
you decide your desire is real & yours, trust it like you trust the air, the electricity, the kitchen, the sunlight. let it be as natural as everything else you already believe in.
remember that.
This anon↓
https://www.tumblr.com/etherealkissed88/726561206451732480/is-it-fine-if-i-feel-bad-or-upset-and-get-negative?source=share
Is it fine if I don't feel fulfilled for first few days is it normal? Cuz I started yesterday and it didn't felt that good but I'm sure it's because it's my was first day.
this is fine in my opinion bc the same happened to me once i started fulfilling myself in a new state. dont stress over not “fulfilling” yourself but the point is that you already have it. you either have it or you dont.
ways to fulfill yourself:
imagine your desired self in any pov and live life as you want in imagination, then accept it as true after you experienced it in imagination
listen to subliminals or your favorite song while affirming and/or imagining and/or meditating
imagine ppl telling you about what you have manifested (example: if you want to manifest a glow up, imagine your friends telling you “wow you glew up” “youre so pretty” while you thank them etc)
have inner convos with yourself like your talking to someone else, explaining to them all the things youve manifested and how good of a manifestor you are
script out your success stories like youre writing and bragging in your diary
once youve felt the feeling aka the KNOWING that you already have your desire, you are fulfilled. you already have it. congrats. if you feel like youre lacking, remind yourself you have it already and that nothing can change that because thats your assumption, and your new identification (you identify as the person who has their desire already). after you are fulfilled, there is no reason to feel like you have to do something else bc then youre not really fulfilled. its as simple as a decision. i have it now = i assume its already here = i identify as the person who has it. i dont need to worry about affirming or imagining for something that i already have.
you have a phone right now. ego can think “you dont have a phone” a million times and experience anxiety but either way you still have your phone right? another example, you can be in your room and think “i dont have a room” but you still have your room. dont let thoughts and emotions drag you to the state of lack. thoughts and emotions are normal and they dont mean anything. remind yourself you have it. decide that no thoughts can effect your manifestation. remember, you arent thinking those thoughts or feeling those emotions because you are consciousness which only observes those things so dont take them seriously. youve observed an opposing thought…okay. laugh at it and let it pass because your identity is the person who has it already. its no longer a desire, its now a FACT. thats fulfillment.
@etherealkissed88
ПЕРЕВОД:
анонимно спросил(а):
— должен ли я предполагать, что у меня есть мое желание в 3d или только в 4d?
Ответил(а):
— Вам нужно только убедить себя и реализовать себя в 4D!
do i have to assume that i have my desire in the 3d or just in the 4d?
You only need to convince yourself and fulfill yourself in the 4D!
ПЕРЕВОД:
Анонимно спросил(а):
Итак, это то, что я собираюсь сделать, чтобы проявить все свои желания :
1. Я вхожу в состояние, говоря: "У меня есть все мои желания" (даже если я не верю в это сознательно, но это не имеет значения, потому что мое подсознание всегда верит всему, что я говорю)
2. Всякий раз, когда у меня возникают сомнения или навязчивые мысли, я позволяю им пройти и позволяю мне почувствовать эмоции, затем я просто возвращаюсь в состояние, когда я снова думаю о своих желаниях / когда я чувствую себя хорошо
3. Живу своей жизнью, неважно, что я вижу или делаю в 3D, это не имеет никакого значения. Я всегда буду напоминать себе, что это еще не конец, и напоминать себе, что мне нужно только оставаться в состоянии исполненного желания.
4. Я не буду визуализировать, поскольку не могу, и я буду использовать аффирмацию, чтобы поддерживать и входить в состояние исполнения желаний и просто "знать", что мои желания будут / будут соответствовать, несмотря ни на что
5. Я не буду заставлять себя думать о мыслях, которые соответствуют моим желаниям (например: я хочу проявить свое желаемое тело, я не буду заставлять себя думать "Боже, я действительно люблю свое тело и т. Д."), Потому что я видел, как кто-то сказал, что вам нужно только поддерживать и упорствовать в своемсформулируйте, тогда мысли, которые согласуются с вашими желаниями, придут естественным образом.
Пожалуйста, скажите мне, правильно ли я все это делаю? Если что-то не так, пожалуйста, скажите мне, чтобы я мог понять и исправить это! Спасибо перед Rem ❤️
Ответила:
звучит здорово!!! у тебя есть этот bb🤍
So this is what i'm going to do to manifest all of my desires :
1. I get into the state by saying "i have all of my desires" (even if i don't believe it consciously but it doesn't matter because my subconscious always believes everything i say)
2. Whenever i get doubts or intrusive thoughts , i let them pass and let me feel the emotions , then i simply get back into the state when I think about my desires again / when i feel good.
3. Live my life , no matter what i see or do in the 3D it doesn't matter at all. I'll always remind myself that this is not the end and remind myself that I only need to persist in the state of wish fulfilled.
4. I won't visualize since i can't and i'll use affirmation to maintain and get into the state of wish fulfilled and simply "knowing" that my desires are going to/will conform no matter what
5. I won't force myself to think thoughts that align with my desires (for example : i want to manifest my desired body , i won't force myself to think "omg i really love my body , etc") because i saw someone said that you only need to maintain and persist in your state then the thoughts that align with your desires will come naturally.
Please tell me if i'm doing all of this right? If there is something wrong please do tell me , so i can understand and fix it ! Thanks before Rem ❤️
sounds great!!! you got this bb🤍
ПЕРЕВОД:
моя цель - не жить в желаниях. для чего угодно.
моя цель не в том, чтобы делать приемы идеально. моя цель не в том, чтобы утверждать 24/7 и переворачивать каждую мысль. моя цель не в том, чтобы увидеть изменения снаружи. моя цель не в том, чтобы превозносить других. моя цель не в том, чтобы “мыслить идеально”. моя цель не в том, чтобы проявить себя.
я просто живу, исходя из предположения, что я выполняю все свои желания внутри меня. idc, если это возможно или невозможно. если я захочу этого, я дам это себе. я проявлю безусловную Любовь к себе, воплотив все это в воображении.
и вы бы не хотели, чтобы было по-другому. вы не хотите контролировать, манипулировать и управлять своей жизнью на микроуровне. вы хотите жить и наслаждаться своей жизнью. тогда сделай это. отпустите контроль и контролируйте себя.
да, вы полностью контролируете ситуацию. но хотели бы вы, честно говоря, знать, что вы получите на свой день рождения, вплоть до мельчайших деталей? что в этом забавного? вы спустились на этот уровень, чтобы "ПРОЖИТЬ" свою человеческую жизнь, а не управлять ею на микроуровне.
ты не меняешь зеркало, ты меняешь свой наряд. вы не меняете тень, вы меняете объект.
одно из величайших открытий, которые я сделал в своем путешествии, - это осознание того, что вне меня нет ничего, что “нужно” менять. никогда не было и никогда не будет.
Пытаться изменить обстоятельства до того, как вы измените свое состояние сознания, значит бороться против самой природы вещей. Ты не можешь этого сделать. Как вы можете что то изменить и при этом сохранить это внутри себя? Если я буду спать в Нью-Йорке и все еще буду знать, что я в Нью-Йорке, я останусь там навсегда -Невилл
разве ты не понимаешь, что получаешь то, что хочешь, только когда даешь это себе?
разве вы не испытываете желания внутри себя? -ред арт
my goal is to not live in desire. for anything.
my goal isn’t to do techniques perfectly. my goal isn’t to affirm 24/7 and flip every single thought. my goal isn’t to see a change on the outside. my goal isn’t to exalt others. my goal isn’t to “think perfectly”. my goal isn’t to manifest.
i simply live from the assumption that i fulfill all my desires within me. idc if it’s possible or impossible. if i want it, i’ll give it to myself. i’ll show unconditional Love to myself by fulfilling it all in imagination.
and you wouldn’t want it to be the other way. you don’t want to control, manipulate and micromanage your life. you want to live and enjoy your life. then do that. let go of control and control self.
yes, you’re in full control. but would you honestly want to know what you’re going to get for your birthday down to the tiniest details? where’s the fun in that? you came down to this plane to ✨LIVE✨ your human life, not to micromanage it.
you don’t change the mirror, you change your outfit. you don’t change the shadow, you change the object.
one of the greatest discoveries i made in my journey is realizing that there is nothing outside of me that “needs” to change. there never was and there never will be.
To try to change circumstances before you change your state of consciousness is to struggle against the very nature of things. You can’t do it. How can you change a thing and still maintain it from within you? If I sleep in New York City and still know I am in New York City, I will remain there forever -neville
do you not realize you only get what you want when you give it to yourself?
are you not in desire within yourself? -ed art