Either You End Up Hurting Someone Or They Hurt You. So, What's The Point?

I really really love you blog 🥹🫶 It's way too pretty.❤️

Being a writer myself I think writers do have answers of almost every question. I don't talk to ppl much but also I can't find answers of my own question.

So there's this guy I met almost 6-7 months back and gradually fell for him tho I tried my very best to guard my heart but ended up surrendering. Sometimes I do feel that he feels the same but sometimes it's all cold and empty.

Like sometimes he have got thousands of stories to tell or rant about everything he did or wanna do,but sometimes there are just mere words.

I do love him a lot and even if I want to unlove him it's something my heart would never allow. But sticking around is still fine when you don't even know if he holds something for you or not?

Firstly thank you for appreciating my blogs<33 and secondly sorry for replying little lateee

Well, about the question you asked i can't just suggest you anything personally here as i don't know how good things are between you two despite what you wonder but in my pov is that maybe he does like you but not as much as you expect him to. and always remember that if someone is in love than he/she doesn't behave as per mood, he/she behave like no matter whatever mood he/she is in, your feelings never should be compromised. okay either you be upfront with him which ig you probably won't or more useful would be create some boundaries for yourself atleast. like how much you'll allow yourself to be in his matters and how much you'll let him get away with if he's being so hot and cold. And note that when a man REALLY likes you he won't keep you hanging, EVER.

If there's one thing I've learned, it's this: We all want everything to be okay. We don't even wish so much for fantastic or marvelous or outstanding. We will happily settle for okay, because most of the time okay is enough.

There's an art to oversharing while simultaneously making sure that people still know nothing about you.

No lover brings annotated books, handwritten letters or happiness, now they only bring problems, jealousy and traumas.

“Someone will love you, but someone isn’t me.”

— Halsey

Sometimes, it’s not about how much you love someone.

It’s about timing.

I cared for her deeply, maybe even more than he ever will—

but he came at the right moment, and I didn’t.

It hurts, not because she chose him,

but because I never got the chance to show her what she truly meant to me.

There were no tears, but inside, it felt like something just broke.

People say time heals everything,

but time is also what took her away from me.

And the worst part is staying quiet,

pretending I’m fine,

while knowing that someone else is living the life I once dreamed of—

just because he got there first.

Your blog is really nice ✨🐇👍🏻

Thank you jii 🤍🌻

“What cannot be said will be wept.”

— Unknown

Sometimes, we don’t need fixing; we just need to be heard.

It’s about feeling safe to express ourselves without fear. A place where our feelings are accepted, not questioned. In the end, it’s not about finding solutions—it’s about knowing we’re not alone.