Let's make it your reality.
Make your wife happy
There is nothing obscene in the things you do, in the submission you offer and I so greedily take.
There is nothing obscene in ravaging, the filling of every orifice, the whipping, flogging, and hard hands leaving the marks you crave. Each of them are an act of love. A decision between two people For whom obscene is a mild version of love.
We seek something wilder, a constant taking. Further than the imagination of mere movies and well lit studios.
We seek the truth of each other, the boundaries, the places we dared not go with anyone else, The madness of trust that leaves us gasping, and hungry for more.
With us, There is nothing obscene.
Take notes
Hearing me out even when he disagrees with me.
Backing off when I say something is really too much.
Keeping his ego in check when making decisions for us.
Respecting my limits.
Loving me for being me.
Handling tough discussions with care and a calm tone of voice.
Being my safe place.
Staying on top of his responsibilities within our relationship.
Seeing value in my personality, including the soft, cautious and sensitive parts.
Double-checking his views or decisions if I voice concerns.
Following the D/s hierarchy.
Recognizing and accepting our differences.
Working hard to earn my trust.
Holding me accountable.
Understanding that somedays submission is hard.
Using D/s to help me grow in ways I find meaningful.
Believing in me.
Showing up to support, guide, or discipline me as needed, even when it’s hard.
Trusting that I am trying even when I fall short.
Giving me boundaries.
Protecting my sensitive heart.
Being patient with me.
Setting goals for me that are achievable.
Building me up.
Considering his impact on me.
Trusting me.
Being dedicated to me.
Encouraging me to say ‘no’ when I need to.
Doing his best to make the best decisions.
Staying loyal to me.
Speaking kindly of me.
Advocating for what is best for me.
Caring about my pleasure.
Being clear about what he expects from me.
Analyzing his perspectives, beliefs, and actions regularly.
Being open and honest with me.
Forgiving me when I make mistakes.
Viewing us as a team.
Keeping his promises and commitments.
Remembering the value of my submission.
Here's to another trip around the sun🍻
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younger subs (18-21 year olds) or new to kink subs, please make friends with other subs. please talk to people who aren’t potential partners about your kinks, please create safety nets for yourselves, please don’t let doms hold too much power over you. it’s easy to miss red flags or to misread them as part of the kink, having other subs to check in with can really help you be less vulnerable to manipulation or coercion.
NSFW 18+ ONLY. 41/M Here you'll laugh, smile, blush, and worship BBC. I don't post for likes, I post what I like which may be anything from BDSM, ddlg kink, Hotwife/Vixen, cuck/stag play. I am not bi, but I will make your wife happy. Especially if you're in the Northeast. Let's vibe and meet.
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