βTo love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.β
β C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves
Some tips for finding yourself again, love from the sad ghost club <3
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im so miserable but i laugh at everything
βIβm in love with you, and I know that love is just a shout into the void, and that oblivion is inevitable, and that weβre all doomed and that there will come a day when all our labor has been returned to dust, and I know the sun will swallow the only earth weβll ever have, and I am in love with you.β
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John Green,Β
The Fault in Our StarsΒ (via coral)
such a gentle pupper
Some words to use when writing things:
winking
clenching
pulsing
fluttering
contracting
twitching
sucking
quivering
pulsating
throbbing
beating
thumping
thudding
pounding
humming
palpitate
vibrate
grinding
crushing
hammering
lashing
knocking
driving
thrusting
pushing
force
injecting
filling
dilate
stretching
lingering
expanding
bouncing
reaming
elongate
enlarge
unfolding
yielding
sternly
firmly
tightlyΒ
harshly
thoroughly
consistently
precision
accuracy
carefully
demanding
strictly
restriction
meticulously
scrupulously
rigorously
rim
edge
lip
circle
band
encircling
enclosing
surrounding
piercing
curl
lock
twist
coil
spiral
whorl
dip
wet
soak
madly
wildly
noisily
rowdily
rambunctiously
decadent
degenerate
immoral
indulgent
accept
take
invite
nook
indentation
niche
depression
indent
depress
delay
tossing
writhing
flailing
squirming
rolling
wriggling
wiggling
thrashing
struggling
grappling
striving
straining
I need your therapy
Things to distract you from feeling sad:
make playlists of songs that make you happyΒ
eat some fruits and mix them in yogurt
have a long cry if youβve been holding everything in
donβt go on your phone, brew some tea, sit in a warm comfortable spot and read a bookΒ
donβt stay in bed too long
write a list of things that make you excited or happy
listen to music and go for a walk if itβs sunny
watch a feel-good movie and drink a mug of hot chocolate
reminisce good memories, theyβre proof that life can be lovely
spray some perfume
read posts or quotes that inspire you