This comeback is gonna leave me in complete shambles
HIS WAIST I AM GOING INSANE
You + nomin opening a cat cafe together đđźââď¸đ¨
I- ..... wow.......
good lord jen-
Omg please - I need this
JENO WEARING THIS.
Wowâ that really puts things into a different perspective and helps me with my journey soooo much
Your purpose in life is not to love yourself but to love being yourself.
If you goal is to love yourself, then your focus is directed inward toward yourself, and you end up constantly watching yourself from the outside, disconnected, trying to summon the âcorrectâ feelings towards yourself or fashion yourself into something you can approve of.
If your goal is to love being yourself, then your focus is directed outward towards life, on living and making decisions based on what brings you pleasure and fulfillment.
Be the subject, not the object. It doesnât matter what you think of yourself. You are experiencing life. Life is not experiencing you.
Screaming with and without the âsâ
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Jenos ⌠just jenosâŚ
NCT DREAM HEADCANONS : DOMESTICITY.
â mark â itâs the feeling of sinking into the bed, next to each other, after a long day; your leg on his or his on yours, feeling a sense of peace simply by the proximity. itâs him seeing you hit the snooze button again and again in the morning and instead of calling you out on it, he turns the alarm off for you so that you can sleep in peace. itâs him giving you massages and rubs when youâre tired. itâs you cooking dinner and him sitting on the counter, the two of you talking about your days, and you having to slap his hand away when he tries to steal some pieces of food that youâre preparing.
â renjun â itâs the feeling of warm tea in your hand on winter nights as you catch up with each otherâs days on the couch. itâs the casual and weirdly calm bickering in the morning while youâre getting ready because youâre both kinda grumpy and yet always giving each other a quick âhave a good dayâ peck before leaving the house. itâs using each otherâs skincare and cosmetic products when oneâs run out. itâs him waking up in the middle of night to see that youâre not under the covers then sleepily tucking you in and pulling you close to him before falling asleep again, with you in his arms.
â jeno â itâs the feeling of getting inside the house after being out for too long during a winter day, being greeted by his warm hug and instantly feeling at home. itâs the sight of him sleeping on the couch when you wake up in the morning and when you ask him why, he tells you that the cat fell asleep against his arm and he didnât want to wake it up. itâs him trying his best to quietly and gently adjust something around you when youâve fallen asleep: taking off your glasses, securing the blanket around you, pulling the open book away so that you donât bend the pages and bookmarking it for you, etc.
â haechan â itâs the feeling of waking up early in the morning then realizing you have no schedule for the day so you just happily cuddle up to him and drifting off to sleep to the sound of his soft breathing and chirping birds. itâs smiling at the heart-warming sight of him keeping your relativesâ kids entertained and happy. itâs giving your neighbors nicknames like âcat ladyâ or âspidey undiesâ because you never got a chance to learn their names. itâs helping each other with zips, buttons, and ties when getting ready while also casually having a conversation.
â jaemin â itâs the feeling of opening the windows after the rain has passed and breathing in the earthy scent. itâs him letting you hog the blankets (mostly because heâs too sleepy to care). itâs him, knowing and remembering your favorite characters â and the ones you hate â on your favorite shows even though he has never watched them. itâs you losing tv remote and spending the whole day trying to look for it; then him coming home and finding it in a minute. itâs him coming home from a hangout and holding up a bag containing desserts because he wants to share them with you.
â chenle â itâs the feeling of looking up at the sky from your balcony, and jumping in excitement and pure joy together because you can see the stars and thatâs rare in the city. itâs him knowing your exact clothing sizes and discreetly replacing your favorite clothes because he messed up and ruined them while doing laundry. itâs conversations like these when going out: âdid you turn off the stove?â âof course, i did.â âare you sure?â âyeahâŚwait, did i? did you see me do it?â âi donât know, i was switching off the lights.â this usually ends with the both of you begrudgingly going back home to make sure.
â jisung â itâs the feeling of being woken up in the morning with small kisses littered across your face, the feeling that instantly brings a smile upon your lips. itâs playing mobile games together on summer nights, the atmosphere lazily exciting yet calming, the faint sound of chirping outside can be heard. itâs the grocery shopping where heâs the one pushing the cart and itâs him trying to sneak a few too many snacks into the cart when youâre not looking, but begrudgingly relenting when you notice and take them out.
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As an Asexual - Iâm reposting this to not only spread awareness about it, but also as my positive affirmation for myself that Iâm not broken and itâs okay to feel this way
I just read this super sad post about this girl whoâs asexual and married and everyone is basically telling her that she doesnât deserve her husband/sheâs just a prude/she should just do it anyway. So I want to tell you all right now that if people tell you this, or if they tell you youâll never have a relationship, it is BULLSHIT. My husband is asexual and Iâm not. Heâs sex repulsed, we donât have sex, we never have. And it doesnât matter to me. You know what does? He does. His mental health and wellbeing matter to me. Because he is my best friend and heâs one of the smartest, kindest, funniest people Iâve ever met. And heâs had people tel him that heâs broken and it makes me SO ANGRY because they are WRONG. Being different doesnt mean youâre broken. If you donât like sex/donât want it/etc. Do not let anyone tell you that youâre inferior because youâre not. Do not let anyone convice you that youâll never have a relationship because theyâre wrong(if you want one). You are not broken, and it will be okay.