and another thing: no child should ever be made fun of for things they love especially by their parents
thinking about the Trans teen who was murdered by his classmates not too long ago, who was referred to as “they” and “she” in every news outlet to downplay his identity.
The reason we don’t show up is because we’re “delusional women” according to the people MAKING THE STATISTICS.
its the same reason the 40% statistic for cops isn’t accurate and that’s because it only observed REPORTED accounts.
Hey, if you’re saying that transandrophobia isn’t real because trans men aren’t as oppressed as other trans people
And your evidence is that there aren’t as many trans men in history and that trans men don’t show up in public statistics as much
I need you to sit down, and think very very hard about why a population that consists of people who are considered to be women, property, barely not children, would not show up in statistics as trans men
I think someone desperately needs to explain the concept of statistics to “men are more unsafe walking home alone at night!!!!!!!!!!” guys.
because it’s seriously concerning to see people endlessly spouting that fact and not thinking just a little longer about what that actually means. Ignoring the fact that I actually looked for any sort of study that suggested even remotely that men were more likely to be attacked physically, do none of you realize that means they survived long enough to report the incident? More men reporting being attacked means they survived the encounter. Less women reporting incidents doesn’t inherently mean they’re not getting attacked, it just means they didn’t report it.. wonder why…….
TW FOR SU1CIDAL THINKING IM OKAY NOW IM TALKING ABOUT THE PAST
not to get vulnerable on main but a few years ago I didn’t think I’d make it this far in my life and I’m just amazed now looking at all these people that not only know me, but want to be around me. Like, people miss me when I’m not in the room. It’s bizarre to go half your life thinking that you could just walk out one day and nobody would notice to one day you wake up to people spamming you funny cat pictures or bugging you because they want to call you or spend time with you. I’m known. I’m loved. I made it. Happy birthday me.
If you are complaining about male reader x (male character) fics as a fem aligned person, you need to suck it up, 75 if not 85% of the fics posted on tumblr are for fem reader x male characters, and you’re complaining over the one male reader fic?!?!? Get over yourself.
So stop crying and go do something useful like re-blogging or commenting nice things on mlm fic blogs.
Also stop tagging male reader if your fic is clearly not for male reader, you look like a moron.
I am personally annoyed at the fans who take Garretts words as gospel...
Like sure it's fun to have him "confirm" characters as queer,but his word isn't god's, he's just one of the many people who worked on the project, albeit more popular.
G1 as we know it is dead,why can't we focus on the actual cannon representation we have in g3? Like,the infighting is so fucking nasty and for what? So you could be a little louder about your own headcannon and gatekeep and harass those who don't fit it?
Ugh the fandom is annoying sometimes istg
And like, them apologizing doesn't change the stuff about Steven belonging to a homophobic church and using Watcher to promote it, and it doesn't change the employees and spouses going on Personal Attacks towarda upset fans on other platforms, it doesn't change the comments of "We love when people tell us we got them through hard times " in the same video as making it so people going through hard times jo longer have access to them as a respite. Removing the paywall doesn't change them, subconsciously or consciously, thinking of poor fans as Worthless and Lesser, and unless they actively work at dismantling these notions in their minds They'll Do It Again. They showed, very clearly, that Fans Are Numbers And Not People to them. That Fans are this abstract concept of Praise and Adoration and Money that exist just to serve their endeavors. That's not something you can change your mentality around in 3 days- that's something that needs Active And Purposeful Dismantling Within The Deeper Psyche. And to be quite frank I don't believe they'll be willing to do such work, because it's not Profitable to remember that Your Audience Is Real People, Not Numbers.
So I’m not at all qualified to make any sweeping claims about DID or any disorders since I’m not professionally trained nor do I know the full intricacies of what causes dissociative disorders but like
Disclaimer aside, it’s the weirdest fucking feeling to find out that someone who had an inappropriate relationship with you and who hurt you in very personal ways is now claiming to have DID.
like I knew you for four years and now that you’re away from me you’re setting up a persona online of this cool edgy emo man with DID? I saw you in your darkest moments and it was still YOU. What the hell
does anyone have any tips to help cope or understand why people do this?
I hate Disney because they’re greedy
I hate Netflix because they’re morally corrupt
But I hate Monster High for a secret third thing (Gen 1 fans being whiny)
suck, and i cannot stress this enough, my cock to the fucking base
the genuine anger and hurt that comes from trying to plan your own damn birthday party after you didn’t even want to have one and actually getting excited to put everything together only to find out that nobody you want to be there can actually attend is so fucking frustrating.
how come every time it comes to something I want to happen nobody actually takes the time to attend
what the fuck is even the point I don’t understand
I know you’re not supposed to care about birthdays and stuff as you get older but what the fuck. Birthday party after birthday party for all these other people and yet when it comes to me only three people are willing to attend? I don’t fucking get it why does it seem like everyone in my fucking life have this weird “oh he can take care of himself” mentality
newsflash I’m literally backsliding in my mental health so hard if I’m not actively disassociating I’m crying.