More To Come! Part 1 - Considering It Just Happened And That’s All I’ve Got So Far 😂

Part 2 of 2 - GF ditched me to be with a tinder hookup. She typically wouldn’t do this however I told her how it’s a turn on if she takes control and makes decisions for herself instead of asking permission. I used the example of her fucking someone else and standing me up to fuck them more, so she took that idea and ran with it!

Ya, very true, plenty of people cheat but did they even TALK to their partner first? How can you call yourself a ladies man if you can't even seduce your own woman?

Cuck my wife for me Sue!

Dear Sue,

I want my wife/girlfriend to be just like you! I want her to sit quietly and submissively while I am granted my God given right to be a man and bang multiple bitches! So, Sue, how do I do this? How do I make my wife just like you? -Random Tumblr man, usually accompanied by a dick avatar

Dear Dick Avatar,

Hello! Thanks for your question. Has your other half ever expressed interest in this lifestyle? - Sue

Dear Sue,

Not really. -DA

Dear DA,

Have you ever expressed interest in the lifestyle to her? - Sue

Dear Sue,

Not really. -DA

Dear DA,

Have you given thought to discussing your thoughts, needs, desires, feelings and fantasies with her? - Sue

Dear Sue,

Not really. - DA

Dear DA,

Has she ever shown a submissive side? Have you ever had a threesome? Have you ever had a conversation at ALL with her about ANYTHING? - Sue

Dear Sue,

Not really. -DA

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I have this same conversation seven days a week with all kinds of Daddydoms and their dick avatars. It’s a real treat.

So I shall clarify. There don’t need to be more women like me. Only the women that want to be like me should be like me.

And once they are “like” me, don’t think it’s a walk in the park on a cool autumn day, and the park is you and a harem of hot, sexy, naked women on their knees BEGGING you to stick that Avatar down their throats.

The VERY first thing all the men need to be able to do (well, very first thing AFTER the ability to swiftly lick a woman to orgasm, put the woman’s sexual needs first EVERY time, and act like a man) is TALK.

“TALK? But Sue! I don’t want to talk! I want to fuck bitches while my sub sits quietly and takes it like a good little SLUT!”

“Yeah DA, talk to her.” Then the conversation ends.

Not only do you need to TALK openly, honestly and sometimes endlessly, but you also have to LISTEN. And then you have to have a valuable dialogue in return.

Since the convo always ends with “talk to her” I imagine any man that tried to continue would say “so I have to fucking LISTEN and then exchange words in return? This is bull shit! Which websites does Jay use to find whores?!”

But here is where it gets really rough: there is conversation, and lots of it, and then you negotiate needs, wants and desires. Followed by more conversation.

For example: I told Jay I wanted to know before he fucked someone. He told me that made him feel like he was asking permission, which made him unhappy. So I said “okay, what about you tell me after it happens? And you tell me in graphic detail while fucking me?” And he said “I don’t know that I want to do that every time I have sex, or at all. I feel silly verbalizing it. What if I send snap chats while I’m fucking?”

And we settled on that. Now, if he is with someone new, he tells me beforehand - not for permission, but because he can’t really snap chat them to me. He will very occasionally not send pics and will tell me after he sees someone, but overall - the method of communication in regard to him fucking the Others that works best for us is snap chat. I get visuals, he doesn’t have to speak in graphic detail. But we decided all of that together.

We had a VERY similar conversation when we laid out boundaries. And whenever we adjust the boundaries.

Do we fight? Oh yeah we do (there go your dreams of me acting like a quiet horny sub in the corner). But even fighting is communication. If you can’t tolerate even the simplest of conversations, your CQ relationship will never ever work.

The success of a CQ relationship is almost completely on the shoulders of the man. You must respect, lead and cherish your partner. You must be patient with her. You must not feed insecurity, but you also can not cater to it. You must stick to guidelines but can not allow her to run the show. You must always be willing to communicate. It is a delicate balance, it is not easy. More often than not, it is not 24/7 sex. But it can have so much beauty and love and encouragement and support.

Now, go change that avatar to something a bit more reasonable.

I think you should fuck another man while on the phone with your bf, and maybe later when you're done with him, break up with him while he walks in on you in his bed taking two guys telling him with a cock in your mouth that it isn't working out

Mmmm both filthy ideas. I’ve talked to him whilst fucking another guy before through a door ;) 

This would be so hot! To swap wives with someone and then they both get pregnant!

the weirdest thing about my girl is she doesnt watch porn. Maybe thats why shes always cheating, and if she did watch porn it would get those urges out in a healthier way...

She now has permission to cheat

You watched them make out on the bed for a while. Then clothes started to come off. He took out his big hard cock and before he made her suck it, he led you to the door, and gave you a smirk. You couldn’t do a thing but freeze and get horny. He pushed you right in the chest so you would be out of the room and then he shut the door. Then all you could hear was giggling, blowjob noises, and moans and skin slapping noises for 30 minutes while you stood outside imagining what it looked like.

How many ex boyfriends does she have exactly?  Well at least the pressure is off of you.  Just focus on treating her like a queen and taking her out on fancy dates and buying her nice gifts.