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Purva Phalguni

is a celebration of life. The fun of a family gathering together to celebrate tradition. Purva Phalguni is all of the wishes we throw into a well. It is the process of dreaming and knowing that those dreams are sure to come true.

It’s about honoring love and commitment and enjoying the finer things in life. About preserving the soul from “falling” or being distorted by the darkness of the world. This nakshatra is self worth & gloriously bathing in it through luxury, sometimes to the point compromising other people’s lives.

About preserving the soul from “falling” or being distorted by the darkness of the world. Purva Phalguni is often connected to the fiery pits of hell itself, with one of its symbols being the fireplace, and as it is located completely in the fire sign of Leo. The prior Venus-ruled nakshatra deals with hell & punishment as well. This is more so being given a choice (like Adam when he was presented with the forbidden fruit) to preserve one’s soul or sell it for fame & riches.

It’s the wishes we whisper to ourselves while planting a new seed into soil (Magha). Purva Phalguni is like the fertilizer bringing everything into fruition with its pure life-force abundance and JOY (because it’s a celebration of life!)

Purva Phalguni nakshatra definitely gives its natives a certain kind of “privilege” in life, whether it’s through their financial status, beauty, wisdom or intellect (oftentimes all of these things at once). This ties into Venus’ exclusive, gatekeeping nature. They understand that the finer things in life are kept private & locked down. Not everyone knows how to worship the finer things and life and abstract all of its splendor for good prosperity. These privileges are usually inherited by their family.

This is similar to Uttara Phalguni’s endlessly wish-fulfilling nature, except Purva Phalguni can sometimes feel a little bit more “dreamy” while Uttara Phalguni focuses on the outcomes of our choices.

The fifth house rules fun, and Purva Phalguni is located completely in sidereal Leo. These women tend to love expressing themselves in the most fun & beautiful ways. Highly similar to Uttara Phalguni’s fun, vibrant and stylish aesthetic seen in Nicki Minaj, Doja Cat, etc.

while dhanishta and revati possess an innate sense of rhythm and musicality, purva phalguni, jyeshtha, uttara ashadha and shatabhisha are the true musical genius nakshatras

bharani possesses the skill of evoking intense emotion through their works of art. chitras are virtuosic. magha, ardra and shravana command the stage.

PURE CONSCIOUSNESS: THE SOURCE WITHIN US ALL

pure consciousness is the pure awareness that was here before you before you were given a name, an identity, a body, a story. everything around is all just consciousness every thought is just consciousness, every emotion is just a state of consciousness. anger, happiness, love, sadness, envy, greed etc every emotion and every thought is just a state of consciousness because being aware of your 4d reality and 3d reality is how you consciously manifest, often negative thoughts can arise which comes part of your ego.

fighting against it feeds your ego, because it thrives on resistance, the more you resist the stronger it becomes. now, negative thoughts don’t actually have a meaning unless you give it a meaning, the key is either to ignore the thought and let it pass like a cloud and don’t engage or you flip it, so whatever you are affirming, introducing a new belief like my SP is obsessed with me for example ahem, you may have a belief part of your self concept that completely contradicts that such as i am not good enough or men just prefer other women or whatever, when you introduce a new thought that you are trying to create as an assumption your ego comes in with the alarm bells ringing, now it’s up to you to either ignore your ego or flip the thought and say nope he is obsessed with me now this is basically telling your ego to shut the fuck up the more you keep affirming and ignoring the negative thoughts and flipping them to say NOPE and whatever you are affirming.

nope, i’m a master of the void. nope, i’m loved and adored by all. nope, i’m a money magnet. nope my sp loves me

these are just examples of affirmations of you flipping it against the negative thoughts because you don’t want to engage with them you want to keep persisting, persisting shuts the ego down and allows the new belief to form.

so with pure consciousness this just the state of pure, raw awareness where you are connected with your higher self, your god self, your subconscious. it’s your home and usually the keys to unlocking these doors are normally thru SATS, like where you go to sleep or waking up first thing but it can also be achieved by meditating because meditating is just allowing your body to relax and fall asleep while the mind itself stays awake and this is what SATS is state akin to sleep but also mind awake body asleep! so behind every thought, feeling, identity, and your story there is just silence. this is a space untouched by time and space and matter it’s just you, it’s a state that’s within you so it’s not hard to reach. there is no way of purchasing a void ticket to board the consciousness express to the void state it’s a state within you, like i said every thought and feeling and emotion is also just a state of consciousness but this state of consciousness within you is PURE state it’s the pure and raw state where you are disconnected from this world with no name or body or identity essentially you are like a bubble just floating in nothingness. this is exactly what you are when you sleep, when you sleep and dream you also enter pure consciousness only you are just now aware because the conscious brain is fully shut off so when you dream you can’t see, hear, feel, smell or taste anything. with pure consciousness it’s only having your logical brain turn off so the ego shuts down and you stop identifying with yourself and your thoughts which neville goddard referred to as being unconditional.

so when trying to access pure consciousness, the key is to let go of everything and stop trying to force it because it’s your true nature and the only reason everything manifests instantly is because there is no space or time, there is no ego to interfere and there is no 3d reality you are connected to, you are just nothing but you become everything at the same time. you have no identity, no ego, no body, no past you are just aware you are existing in your raw and truest form.

most of you also struggle entering because you can’t drop the desire of trying to force it, you aren’t allowing yourself to relax and just surrender to become your true self, you may also try to enter with the idea of manifesting but also drop it, drop the need to control the desired outcome. as neville goddard taught it - being unconditional so affirming without conditioning those words to return to your true self and this means letting go of everything around you, your identity, your ego, your past. only then can you fully achieve pure consciousness when you drop the desire to enter and just surrender and let go of everything will you transcend to this pure and raw state. in this state once it’s reached do you want to condition those affirmations which will then manifest instantly as it’s free from resistance and interference of the ego and because you have no 3d reality in this state but your subconscious mind knows of everything you have lived for, the logistics of manifesting doesn’t matter in this state. you will shift to a reality with your desire and everything will be exactly as how you want it because you know what you want and your subconscious is you and it knows what you want.

ACCESSING IT:

now to enter, i wouldn’t essentially call this a method but more just a relaxation technique? idk but anyway this will involve using your 5 senses and also letting go of everything.

first i want you to think of your emotion, what are you feeling? excitement? nervous? angry? sad? whatever it is i want you to take a moment to calm yourself down because you want to be able to relax for this.

are you calm enough? if not keep going, if you are then good.

let’s move on.

now i want you to scan your body mentally from head to toe, scan each and every part to release the tension and let your body relax, when you feel relaxed you may feel like your body is asleep. if it doesn’t, then keep scanning or if you feel relaxed enough then you could choose to daydream or what. if you need to itch just go for it, it’s okay, moving your body for a second is okay because at this stage your only relaxing your body you haven’t focused on the mind part yet.

at some point your body should be asleep and you won’t feel any itching or the need to move it. have you reached it? great.

next part

okay onto the breathwork, this is for calming the mind fully now, take deep breaths, try the 4x4x4 method but i recommend trying to hold it as long as possible because this really really helps with trying to shut your mind off, there is no time process you just need to do it until you feel there’s no thoughts in your head or just until your mind feels relaxed enough.

now here is where you want to start engaging with your senses, the 5 senses. the goal is to disconnect from each one as you allow yourself to tracnscend deeper into your meditation or relaxation whatever you wanna call it but it allows you move towards the void.

so you can choose whatever sense you wanna focus on first but save your sight for last.

taste - bring your awareness to your taste, imagine you have no taste, no flavour, there is no sensation and disconnect from it, feel the absence in your mind.

smell- move your awareness on to your sense of smell, imagine you cannot smell anything around you, the air is clear, there is nothing and disconnect from it, feel that absence in your mind.

touch - move your awareness to your touch, feel your bed but now you want to start disconnecting from it, imagine yourself just floating, there is nothing there there is no body, disconnect from it and feel that absence in your mind.

hearing - move your awareness to your hearing, anything you hear around you imagine it fading away, you cannot hear anything, keep your focus on the surrounding all fading away one by one.

now is sight - this is where you want to focus on the blackness behind your lids and imagine that as all you can see, this is just nothing, it’s just black, it’s all you can see.

next step is basically shutting the ego down some thoughts may arise but just observe them because you want to be unconditional, don’t engage let them pass the more you ignore and focus on your breathing for now the faster the ego will turn itself off or just shut up basically.

now you should have relaxed ur body and disconnected from your senses or they should all feel faint start imaging yourself as a bubble or ball of light or whatever you want and pretend you don’t have a name, you don’t have a body or past: you don’t have an identity start telling yourself you don’t, imagine it. your ego may try to fight you but keep ignoring it eventually all will shut down, your ego will finally let go and shut up, you’ll feel as though you don’t have any identity or you are confident you don’t have one as you are just awareness without identity now.

by this point you should 100% be in SATS, start affirming I Am/I am pure consciousness/I am the void and try to convince yourself you are already there. focus on the darkness and keep affirming don’t engage with senses or your body leave it to sleep leave the surroundings to keep fading, leave the ego it’s quiet, leave the identity you don’t have one. keep affirming and surrender to it, you may feel symptoms you may not, you may float or spin, don’t pay attention to them ignore it and focus on being nothing eventually you will enter and you will feel a peace you may have never felt before, this is your true self and you’ll feel like your everything but nothing at the same time.

now you are here to either affirm and have it manifest instantly or just enjoy the peace!

THE VOID IS YOU! IT CANNOT EXIST WITHOUT YOU!

Manifestation is always instantaneous

I’ve been learning about manifestation and LOA for about 8 months now. It has finally clicked for me what instant manifestation is, after all this time. I don’t feel like a lot of people clearly explain it…and I’m someone who sometimes needs things explained to me like I’m a 5-year-old lol. So, I’m gonna break it down for you as clearly as I can, in case you’ve had a hard time understanding it, too.

The word instant is usually defined as something happening right now; immediately; in this present moment. So, when we’re told “you can manifest [this thing] instantly,” we might expect the thing to happen or appear immediately. I know, for me, this is how I’ve wavered because I’m like, “hey, where’s it at?” when it doesn’t show up quickly or I feel as if I’m waiting. And, I’m sure that you’ve experienced this feeling, too.

But, it’s not the thing that appears or happens instantly, it’s the bridge of events that happens instantly. After you affirm, reality immediately starts moving you towards the thing you want. You’re put onto that bridge instantly. Everything that needs to happen in order to get you to what you’re manifesting is already starting to happen. Sometimes it’ll be one small thing - the tiniest blip - that’ll get you there, sometimes it’ll be multiple things happening and people involved that’ll get you there.

So, this is why you can’t worry about the how and view it as “waiting.” There are so many different ways that your thing can happen. Thinking of how it will or questioning how it’s possible is what can make you feel doubtful. Affirming that you have what you want puts you on that bridge instantly. It’s already happening; you aren’t waiting. It’s already yours - you’re just being lead to it.

The analogy of manifesting being like ordering food at a restaurant can be used to understand how it works instantly. You’re telling the waitress (putting it out there) that you want a certain meal (the thing you’re manifesting). The waitress now knows and she’s in the process of writing it down, then giving the kitchen staff the information, and then the whole restaurant staff does whatever it is they need to do to make your meal and get it to you ASAP. This is how manifesting works and why it’s instant.

Also keep in the title “waitress/waiter” in mind - they’re waiting on you. It’s their job. They aren’t trying to make you wait - in fact, they don’t want to hear you complain lol. They’re waiting on you to tell them what you want and then making sure it gets to you. This is the same as your desired reality (the one where you have what you want) waiting on you to affirm for it, not listening to you say, “hey, why aren’t you here? I don’t believe that you’re mine and that I have what I want.”

Can you imagine going to a restaurant and as the waitress is writing down what you ordered, you go, “hey, where’s it at?” and start looking around the restaurant for your food. Or you say, “I don’t think you’ll give me my food. That’s not possible.” No? Because that’s crazy. People don’t do that. This is why you affirm and don’t ask where it’s at and go searching for it. You trust that it’s already yours and is coming to you because guess what? It’s guaranteed you’ll get it since you asked for it. Your meal (your manifestation) is already in the works; it’s your order that you put through. You don’t have to worry about anything else. Just enjoy life in the present moment as your thing gets to you. The less you focus on the time and more you reassure yourself that it’s yours, instead of worrying, the quicker it’ll show up or show up when you least expect it to.

The only time your manifestation won’t show up is if you change what you’re manifesting. Let’s say you originally ordered chicken fingers but then you pull the waitress aside and tell her you want steak instead. Then you’re simply getting the other thing you asked for instead of what you originally ordered.

The only time your manifestation will be delayed is if you keep focusing on how long it’s taking or don’t trust that you’ll get it. If you’re at a restaurant and keep nervously focusing on the time, it’ll feel like you’re waiting and like it’s taking a long time for your food to arrive. Or, if you keep saying to the waitress that you don’t trust that you’ll get the food, you’ll just stress her and the rest of the kitchen staff out which won’t help speed up the process of the food being prepared (the bridge of events happening to get you to your manifestation), it’ll just slow it down.

HOW to stop coming from a state of lack? Show me your ways master Emma

same . i am currently attempting to repair my soul using a roll of glitter tape and derealised self-talk, so like. welcome to the coven.

but. you are not lacking. you are looping.

lack is a trick of the light, and the light is currently being filtered through like… your seventh grade math trauma and whatever weird alchemical slop your brain decided to stew together from three unhealed tiktok videos and one badly-scripted childhood memory. you’re not lacking. you’re remembering something wrong.

manifesting / shifting from lack is like baking a cake while crying about how you don’t have a cake. girl you are the cake. you're literally in the oven. you’re halfway frosted. like yeah it feels hot and sticky and stupid in here but that’s just because you’re becoming dessert. trust the process

it’s not about trying to get something. it’s about being the version of you who already has it.

start assuming. start lying (but sexy). your current life is just fanfiction of the life you actually have, and every time you remember that, you shift. assume it’s done, assume it’s easy, assume you always get what you want.

you’re not waiting for it to happen. you’re relaxing into the fact that it already did. your desire isn’t a gap. it’s a memory.

and i’m hugging you now. it’s already done. you’ve already shifted. we’re just waiting for the light to catch up. <3

p.s. you’re not manifesting from lack anymore because we killed the idea of “lack” in a basement with a philosophy degree and a glock. i love when we commit semantic murder for healing. anyway. go be ethereal now. go be deeply, disgustingly abundant.

my sp success story + how i’m maintaining our relationship.

a little bit about myself pre-sp.

before meeting my current sp, i went through a rough breakup and let’s just say— that individual was extremely abusive. i think i manifested the breakup because it was so sudden and it didn’t make “any sense.” it was extremely random and out of that person’s “character” and honestly, i know i could’ve manifested a completely new relationship with them but i didn’t want to. i felt way more free after the breakup and it’s actually the reason why i became a better manifestor and manifested my current sp.

i was stuck in the same cycle. always in toxic relationships. always surrounded by individuals who weren’t my type at all. always in shitty situations until the breakup. i DECIDED that i don’t want to be stuck in the same cycle anymore. and looking back at my previous relationships, i really did not stick to my standards at all which made me a bit resentful towards my partners. i think i lowkey wanted to put myself in painful situations because that’s what i was used to. (ego feeling safe in toxic dynamics) i knew i was worth more, way more, but i chose to always belittle myself and settle for less and what was “normal.” i chose continuously to experience the worst version of people too. i always chose to be with the worst person i can possibly see and think of in any room. i always chose to continue being with people who were inconsistent and overall just horrible. this even led to me experiencing signs of cheating or disloyalty over and over. it was a form of self sabotage until it ruined my life. it ruined my mental health. my “image.” my self worth. my confidence. it even ruined the way i view relationships and how i experience love. i thought that i was done for at some point. that i’ll never be able to experience love because my brain was “too fried” atp and mentally drained to ever genuinely feel or experience it. i never knew what true and pure love was. and if you’re anything like i was, i promise you, that can all completely change once you decide that enough is enough.

after the breakup.

i remember that i was so mad and felt a lot of anger towards that person and honestly, that anger helped me A LOT. it was the part of me that wanted better for myself. that’s why i don’t believe that anger is always a bad thing. i let myself feel my emotions. and to be completely honest, i was way too emotionally exhausted by that person that it was so easy to let go of them. i felt nothing towards them afterwards (i’m pretty sure i never did, it was just the attachment to a certain idea) and i completely let go of the idea of being in a relationship at that time. i became so detached from my 3d.

the moment everything shifted.

i remember lying in my bed and imagining my ideal relationship. i thought about marriage and the person i’ll spend the rest of my life with. i imagined everything about that person. their personality, appearance, age, education, voice, background, where they live, etc. literally everything. i had that knowing/feeling that they’re mine already. that one day i’ll meet them. i was satisfied enough with the thought of them. it “almost felt like” i was already experiencing this relationship and truly felt the love and every other emotion i wanted to experience and slept. at that time, i didn’t know that what i did was SATS. since then, i’ve always sworn by it because it completely transformed my life even until this moment. (you can manifest however you want, i’m just saying that this is what worked for me) i told myself that i’ll no longer settle for less. this person is already mine and they’re the only person i’ll accept.

a few days after the breakup, my friends kept telling me that i should reinstall IG and i usually refuse or not care that much but i felt inclined to do so. it felt so natural to me and i didn’t think much about it. (which can be considered inspired action) i started to work on my self concept, my mental health, and only focused on myself and my well being. i received so many dms from so many different people and i rejected all of them. i stuck to my end, to the person i wanted and this time, i did not settle for anything less. i also completely detached from the idea of being in a relationship. i was open to it, but i didn’t NEED it. i already knew that my next relationship would be exactly how i wanted with my exact ideal person so i didn’t care when it happened. i received so many friend requests and i was like “why not accept?” and accepted them. my ex came back too, begging me to be with them but i still stuck to my end. i was unfazed by everything in the 3d. i just did whatever i felt like at that moment.

how my sp and i met and how did it work out between us.

while accepting the friend requests, my sp caught my attention because usually people who follow me, we have a lot of mutuals in common. my sp and i only had one mutual and that mutual was someone who followed me by accident and thought i was another person. i accepted them and didn’t think much about it. my sp then started replying to my notes and let me tell you— i did not like that mf at all. i ignored them a lot. i didn’t really want to talk to them. i was even talking to other people. despite having some negative assumptions about my sp, i developed a strong self concept regarding relationships and people in general. i fully knew that any person who is interested in me will do anything to be with me, even if they have to change themselves to the better. one of the traits i am really attracted to in people is determination, which my sp FULLY embodied. that mf was so determined to be with me despite me being a complete ass to them. they even messaged me exactly what i visualized before going to sleep such as whether i’m interested in marriage or not. i was completely and authentically myself and i didn’t care whether anyone liked me or not. (i was raised to become a people pleaser, which i always tried my best to reject) and when i tell you they handled me so well, they really did, and that’s when i became attracted to them.

i viewed their profile and it really caught my attention. they didn’t seem to use IG at all and they admitted so. they told me that they’re barely on IG and don’t really use social media that much which is something i liked a lot. they barely followed anyone too. barely posted. it didn’t even feel suspicious, it felt normal. usually i’d be like nah, that’s dangerous but with them, it felt different and i even manifested constant proof that they’re harmless. we started talking a lot and they pissed me off a lot too but they didn’t give up and really respected my feelings. they’d always apologize and never repeat the same mistake again. when we got closer, i realized that they are exactly the person i visualized down to the tee. personality, appearance, voice, interests, lifestyle, beliefs about relationships, age, where they live, their family members, their university, etc. etc. even their first initial ! literally everything. i started to panic a bit and i self sabotaged and pushed them away. then i was like no, they are exactly the person i visualized, let me give them a chance and i manifested them messaging me again after mutually deciding to not talk. (p.s i was a complete mess and i still manifested that so your emotions really don’t matter and your self concept doesn’t have to be perfect 24/7. you’ll have your moments and it’s okay. you’ll eventually get there. you just have to persist in your desire, however you want) we then got way closer and there are so many things about that person that completely changed too. i manifested them becoming better and better everyday. from accepting everything about me to doing everything i wanted. then we met irl and since then, i’ve been in the best relationship ever.

how am i maintaining the relationship ?

i’ve developed a better self concept but sometimes traumas and fears can arise and i’ve been learning to deal with them. i did self sabotage a lot even after getting together. i’ve manifested them hurting me multiple times too and that’s when i started to really get into loa. i’ve always known about loa and even beyond the surface level, but i really wanted to have a healthy relationship and i was determined to do so.

my current sp made me realize that my beliefs about myself and relationships matter more than anything as well as my assumptions about certain people. but even if i assume the worst about someone, it still all comes down to my self concept because it’s the reason why i’m assuming the worst in the first place. it all starts with self and that’s true. so i did a little experiment. whenever i thought negatively about love, assumed the worst, and put my full awareness on negative things, they’d manifest in my relationship. whenever i thought positively about love and my sp, assumed the best, and put my full awareness on positive things, they’d also manifest in my relationship. i didn’t do anything in either. i just observed my sp. i even visualized and affirmed them doing and saying specific things to me, whether good or bad, and they both happened. it reached to the point where any song i’d listen to, even the most random ones, would literally be on their phone and they’d randomly play them when we’re together or mention them while texting. i let go of resentment. i let go of trying. i let go of all that and just decided. i asked myself do i really want this person and relationship ? and decided that i do. i decided that i’ll only focus on the version i want them to be, the love i want to experience, and who i am choosing to be. the more i focus on myself and what i deserve, the more they reflect that back to me so i’d be insane to still choose to experience negative things when i can simply experience the positive. and to help myself even more, i assume that even if i’m overthinking or feeling negative emotions, they always prove to me that they’re false and that everything is okay. every day i see how they’re my type and ideal for me more and more.

i know i rambled a lot but i wanted this to be proof that manifesting your ideal person is not out of reach and is completely possible. i am a perfect example of that because i manifested my sp although i am barely close to anyone irl, don’t really meet a lot of people, was completely isolated, went through horrible breakups, had the shittiest self concept when it came to love, was going through a lot mentally, and so much more. i barely even talked about all the “crazy” things i’ve manifested with them and trust me, the way we met and everything we’ve been through together until this second proves that imagination is the actual reality and the decider of how your 3d unfolds. everything i’ve been through previously in life was also “proof” that i couldn’t experience what i wanted but i refused to accept that. i was told that i’ll never find someone like them and i didn’t accept that. now i have someone, who i’ve manifested out of thin air, literally worship the ground i walk on and we’ve been together for a long time now.

your 3d is not evidence for anything. it doesn’t prove anything. if you want something, you can have it no matter what anyone tells you and no matter what you see. if you want it, it’s yours. if you can imagine it, it’s yours. you deserve to experience love and be with someone who fits you perfectly, treats you well, and gives you everything you want. yes, EVERYTHING. it all comes down to you.

Let's talk about 3D/4D

There’s no 3d or 4d, just now. You have it now or you don’t. I believe all the 3D/4D stuff is confusing and complicated. If I want something, I'm going to decide I have it, in my 3d and 4d, bc it is the truth for me now. 

I used to be a believer in just fulfill my imagination only, but honey… the “3d” is also imagination. 

I think people who use terms (3d and 4d) in order to manifest, don’t truly realize that the “3d” can be changed instantly.

I guess you manifested this, below is the ask/ message I'm referencing. My parents are Congolese and know of the Law. One thing I was also taught since I was young was to never say or believe anything I don't want to be true. There are many crazy success stories ( manifesting a BWM, overcoming infertility, Michelin star restaurants visits etc.), but this is my fave: when my dad came to Europe to enter the country we are now living in, he was at the border with a group of other African migrants. It was deep in the Winter (-10 degrees) and the migrant smuggler announced he would only take 2 people into the border. Only 2 out of 24. It was so random, and so barbaric as he had a change of heard. He announced he would spin a bottle twice, and to whomever it points, he will take with him. Panic erupted and others wanted to fight. My dad wasn't alone. He was with a friend. He told him to stand next to him. My dad told me that he closed his eyes decided that him and his friend will be the one chosen. Guess what happens? The bottle pointed to my dad and his friend. The smuggler spun again the bottle, and it pointed to my dad again and again. Until the smuggler grew tired. My dad and his friends are still friends, and the friend can't stop talking about this story. He wonders still to this day if my dad is a sorcerer or chosen by god. My dad told me that it wasn't witch craft as he described the law with working with nature. Working with the energy around you (= your circumstances) and deciding what you want to experience. the ask/ message: I am referencing: https://www.tumblr.com/itsrlymine/780049332069187584/this-is-random-but-i-love-that-ur-african-because?source=share

nah the way i actually did bc i just love hearing older people's experience with the law/manifestation and of they are african??? oh i'm tuned in, tapped in turned onnnn. i love this so much honestly. my dad is religious but he believes that the only limit we have it the one we put on ourselves. the law is EXACTLY like working with nature omg i love this. i don't like that situation per se but that is such a prime example of circumstances don't matter. know yourself. trust yourself and all will be revealed to you. it has to. thank you for sharing this story my congolese sisterrr

"I assumed and nothing happened"..

⊹ ࣪ ˖ baby...sit, let me try to help.

WHAT THIS POST COVERS:

why you "assumed" and it "didn't work"

how you actually assume

what if your brain is overactive and "forcing you to check the 3d"? how to "fix" it

1. The Frustration of “I Assumed, But It’s Still Not Happening”

There it is. The frustration. The doubt creeping in, the whispered thought: But I did everything right. I assumed. I believed. And yet… nothing has changed.

You check the mirror—same face. You check your messages—no new texts from them. You check your reality—still the same, still ordinary, still not what you asked for.

And now, you’re wondering: Did I do something wrong? Did I mess it up? Is this all just fake, some elaborate trick I convinced myself of?

No, darling. You didn’t mess it up. But you are making one critical mistake:

You Never Actually Assumed. You Just Wished.

Let’s be honest with ourselves for a second. Did you assume… or did you hope? Did you decide it was yours… or did you wait to see proof before believing? Did you step into the mindset of someone who already has it… or did you just try to convince yourself for a few days and then panic when nothing changed?

Because here’s the thing—real assumption doesn’t waver.

It doesn’t wake up every morning checking for evidence like a nervous stock investor. It doesn’t crumble the second the 3D doesn’t instantly reflect back its desires. It doesn’t treat the unseen like it isn’t real.

If you planted a seed today, would you dig it up tomorrow to check if it’s growing? No. If you booked a flight for next week, would you panic every day, thinking, "What if the plane doesn’t exist?" No.

So why, when it comes to manifesting, do you refuse to trust?

2. What Real Assumption Actually Is

You don’t assume to “make” something happen. You assume because it’s already a fact.

Assumption is not:

A technique.

A method.

A way to “convince” reality to change.

Assumption is reality.

You aren’t trying to “believe” in something far away. You are stepping into what is already yours.

3. Step-by-Step Breakdown of How to Assume Properly

Step 1: Stop Trying to Control the 3D. The biggest mistake? You are still a slave to your senses.

You look for movement. You check your phone. You stare at your bank account. You analyze every little thing for signs that your manifestation is “working.”

And the second you don’t see proof? Doubt. Panic. Desperation.

Let me tell you something: The 3D is old news. What you see right now? It’s a reflection of your old thoughts, not your current assumptions.

Think of it like this: When you order something online, do you sit there anxiously refreshing the tracking page every five seconds? Do you assume it got lost in the mail just because it hasn’t arrived in an hour? No. You trust it’s coming.

Your manifestation works the same way.

You assume, and then you let go of the need to check.

Step 2: Become the Version of You That Already Has It. This is where most people mess up.

They say “I am rich,” but still panic when they check their bank balance. They say “I have shifted,” but still search for reality checks to confirm it. They say “I am loved,” but still stalk their SP’s social media, waiting for a sign.

So let me ask you: If you really had your desire right now, how would you act?

Would you be stressed about shifting if you had already shifted 100 times? Would you doubt your SP’s love if you were already together? Would you panic over money if you were already wealthy?

No. You would be calm. Certain. Done.

So do that now. Be that person now.

Stop acting like the version of you that doesn’t have it. Stop reacting to the 3D as if it holds any power over you. Stop feeding the version of you that still doubts.

Step 3: Make Your Assumption So Normal That You Forget You Even Wanted It. This is the part nobody talks about: Detachment is not forcing yourself to “let go.” Detachment is when you assume so deeply that you forget it was even something you desired in the first place.

Think about it:

Do you wake up every morning manifesting air to breathe? No, because you assume it’s always there. Do you worry about whether the sun will rise? No, because it’s just a fact of reality.

When you truly assume something, it becomes boring. You stop thinking about it constantly. You stop obsessing over when it will happen. You stop treating it like some miraculous event.

It just is. And when you reach that point? It manifests instantly.

4. Addressing the Persistent Doubters

Now, let’s talk about the people who are still unsure. Who feel stuck, who are thinking: "But what if it’s not working?"

Here’s the truth: If you’re still checking the 3D, you’re not fully assuming.

But Leonora I’m anxious! I can’t stop checking, it’s driving me mad! You’re not alone, and it’s okay. Let’s break it down, because we’re going to handle that right now.

Redirect Your Anxious Thoughts

Some of you can’t just stop overthinking. You try to suppress the thoughts, and they come back louder. So what do you do? You redirect them. Accept that anxiety is just an old habit.

Your brain has spent years, maybe even your whole life, doubting things. Expecting disappointment. Looking for evidence that things won’t work. Of course, it’s going to feel unnatural to just “assume.” You are rewiring years of conditioning. Your mind isn’t trying to sabotage you—it’s just clinging to what it knows. So when the thoughts come? Don’t panic. Don’t fight them. Just recognize them for what they are: old programming.

Say to yourself: “Ha, there it is. My brain trying to protect me with doubt again. That’s cute. But we’re doing things differently now.” Then move on. Don’t engage. Don’t spiral.

Use the “Lullaby” Technique

A super powerful trick for anxious minds:

Right before you fall asleep, affirm gently in your mind, like a lullaby. No intensity. No desperation. Just soft, sleepy, matter-of-fact affirmations. Example: “I already have it. It’s already mine. It’s happening so easily.”

Why does this work? Because your brain is most suggestible in that drowsy state. It absorbs things without resistance. If you do this consistently? Your subconscious will start to believe it on autopilot.

Give Your Mind a “Toy” to Play With

Your anxious brain is like a restless toddler. If you don’t give it something productive to focus on, it will cause chaos. So distract it. Give it a job. Instead of letting it spiral into doubt, tell it to focus on something that supports your assumption.

Daydream in extreme detail about having your desire. Write down your perfect reality like it’s already happened. Imagine a scene over and over until it feels realer than reality.

Your brain wants something to chew on. Feed it the right things.

Yes, your mind is loud. Yes, your doubts feel overwhelming. Yes, it’s hard to stop checking the 3D.

Change the Meaning of Checking the 3D

Some of you will check anyway. And that’s fine. But make it work for you.

If you look in the mirror and don’t see a change, say: “Well, that’s nice. That means the shift is happening behind the scenes.”

If you check your phone and don’t see a text, say: “Perfect. That means the next message will be exactly what I want.”

If you check your bank account and it’s not at 7 figures yet, say: “Obviously. The money is still finding its way to me in the best possible way.”

You get to assign meaning. So make it work in your favor.

Flood Your Brain with Certainty

Every time doubt comes up, respond with: “Oh, that’s funny. I literally already have it, though.” Say it with amusement. Laugh at how ridiculous the doubt is. Make assuming feel more normal than doubting.

5. The Final Truth: You Already Have It. Now Act Like It.

You’re still waiting for proof. That’s the problem. You wake up each morning and search for signs, watching the world like a detective looking for clues. You second-guess. You overthink. You try to “catch” reality shifting in your favor like it’s some slippery thing that might escape you.

But what if I told you that you already have it? No, not “on its way.” Not “manifesting in divine timing.” Now. Already. Yours.

Because the second you assume something is yours, it is. Your reality is shaped by your assumptions. You’re already living the life you assumed. The second you realize that, it will click.

And Here’s Your Final Reminder:

Stop waiting for proof. Stop doubting. Stop acting like your desires are fragile or out of reach.

You already have it. Now act like it.

Your mind, your doubts, your anxiety—none of it can stop you unless you let it. The second you stop chasing? That’s when everything shifts.

MY FAV QUOTES. — 𝐹rom loablr

❝ the moment you accept something as true in your reality it’s true. the moment you change your mind and accept the unfavourable version, that’s your reality. no matter what the 3d is showing it’s true, if you say so — you are the operant in power, the creator. ❞ — @doemanifests

❝ if you want proof before belief, you’ll wait forever. if you believe first, proof will chase you. ❞

❝ the only thing standing between you and everything you want is the way you react to its absence. the hand-wringing, the despair, the creeping doubt, it’s a full-time job, and it pays in absolutely nothing. ❞

❝ do you check every morning to make sure you still exist? do you investigate gravity before stepping out the door? no. you assume. and in assuming, you make it real. ❞ — @hrrtshape

❝ y’all need to start being nonchalant and calm when manifesting. just decide something and move on. it’s done. not "on its way" it's done. you have it. you came, decided, and it's done. your mind and the world is not separate from you. "but the 3D-" no, "but why isn-" no. it’s done, relax. ❞

❝ you’ve spent enough time wishing, hoping, and consuming. it’s time to take responsibility for your life. stop sabotaging your own greatness with distractions. you have everything you need to succeed: your imagination, your awareness, and your decisions. that’s it. that’s the law. ❞ — @whiteobsidian

❝ can't believe you guys still listen to people who say you are lazy when it comes to manifesting. how tf can you put in work towards something that's already done? ughh in 2025 really???? ❞ — @itsrlymine

❝ your logical mind? it’s a product of conditioning, fear, and societal programming that taught you to “be realistic” and “follow the rules”. but guess what? the rules don’t apply to you anymore. you’re in a whole different league now. ❞ — @nymphaura777

❝ „what’s your shifting motivation?” nothing, i don’t have any motivation because i don’t see it as something i need motivation for. i don’t have motivation to wake up in the morning, i just do. i don’t have motivation to breathe, i just do. i don’t have motivation to shift - i just do. ❞ — @nikashifts

One thing about being a journalist is seeing how differently men behave off and on camera.

They will admit believing in the most sexist, cruel, disgusting, inhumane things, laugh about them, even be proud of them when it’s just me listening (I enable them to feel safe), yet go absolutely mute if I want to record it.

WELL SAY IT, say what you said to me—say how women are lazy thus choose prostitution, say that allowing them to vote ruined our society, say that women should be forced to make babies to save the economy—make that joke again how one drunk man is smarter than three women with PhD’s—that was so awfully funny. Let me inform the citizens; let me show what men around them think.

But they know all too well in what circumstances they can spit their hate without consequences. They know when not to attach their names.

They are always aware.

⸝⸝ ⋮ "why haven't I shifted yet?"

⸝⸝ ⋮ "I did everything right ,, didn't I ?"

・・・・・

Maybe you haven’t shifted yet because you’re standing at the threshold, pounding on the door like it owes you something, so loud and desperate you can’t hear the soft click of the lock unlatching on its own. Sometimes we want something so badly that we strangle it — clutching it like a lifeline, knuckles pale, breath tight, thinking that if we just try harder, it’ll finally give. But shifting isn’t a stubborn jar lid. It’s a dream, and dreams don’t bloom under pressure — they open like petals in stillness.

It’s like trying to catch a snowflake with fire in your hands. The more you reach, the quicker it melts. You wouldn’t scream at the ocean to make a wave crash faster. You just wait, feet buried in the sand, while the tide inches in, closer and closer, until it kisses your toes without asking.

I know you feel like you’ve done everything. You’ve whispered affirmations like secrets into the night, folded your limbs like origami, held visions in your mind until your imagination became see-through. You’ve felt it: that one fragile moment of almost, where your soul swore this is it, just before it slipped back into the dark.

But that wasn’t failure. That was foreshadowing. That was the universe warming up, clearing its throat before the crescendo. You’re not lost. You’re tuning yourself, like a radio just shy of the right station — static humming, music just behind the veil. You’re so close the air is humming with it.

And maybe — just maybe — you’re too awake to shift. Not your body, but your awareness. Like you’re peeking through your fingers at the miracle, too alert, too ready, as if you’re trying to trap magic in a jar. But magic hates being watched. It sneaks in through the cracks when you’re laughing too hard to care. It’s the song that plays when you stop trying to remember the lyrics. It’s the dream that comes back only after you stop chasing it down the hallway of your mind.

Let go.

Melt a little.

Forget the steps and let your heartbeat be the ritual.

And then there’s doubt — the quiet saboteur. Not a villain with fangs, but a whisper wearing your voice, curling up beside you and murmuring things like “maybe it’s not real,” or “maybe it’s not for me.” It doesn't shout. It sighs. But that doubt? It’s proof you care. You ache for this so much, your mind spins storms just trying to protect you from disappointment. But you're not being punished. You're not unworthy. You're just standing on the edge of the pool, toes curled over the ledge, learning how to trust the fall — learning that sometimes the water catches you even when you close your eyes.

You’re not behind.

You’re not broken.

This isn’t a failure. It’s a slow becoming. It’s scaffolding for a bridge you haven’t crossed yet, but one day, you’ll look back and realize you’ve been building it the whole time.

And the wildest part? So many people shift the moment they give up — not in despair, but in surrender. They drop the script, unclench their hands, exhale all the wanting — and then, like a secret handshake, the wind changes. The universe, cheeky thing that it is, was just waiting to see if you’d soften. If you’d open your palms.

Because sometimes the door doesn’t open when you demand. It opens when you become quiet enough to hear the hinge move.

Maybe the answer isn’t more doing. Maybe it’s undoing. Maybe you don’t need to become the version of yourself who shifts — maybe you already are. Maybe the only thing left is to remember. You’ve been turning the key, every night, in your sleep. Whisper by whisper. Breath by breath.

And one night — without fanfare — it’ll click.

And when it does, you’ll realize: You weren’t waiting for the shift. The shift was waiting for you.

・・・・・

Your FYP

Think of your reality as customizing your fyp.

You're scrolling through videos (your thoughts) and picking out which ones to give your attention to.

If you watch a video till the end, like it, comment on it (keep the thought running through your mind) or repost it (vent about it to your friends/family) you're telling the algorithm (your subconscious mind) that this is what you want. And so, more videos (thoughts) pop up on your feed that echo that very first one.

That's how thoughts turn into assumptions. You give them your full attention and Keep them running in your head, making their watch time go 📈

On the other hand however, if a video isn't what you want to see, and you scroll within the first 3 seconds, you're telling the algorithm that this doesn't interest you. With time, less and less videos of the same nature pop up, until you no longer see anything on that subject ever again.

It's up to you to customize your feed. Stop giving attention to what you don't want, and instead focus on what you want. You will start seeing more of it all around you whether on your feed or in your 3d.

Happy manifesting ❤️

can we forget about the terms “3d” and “4d” and everything else. it was helpful at first when it came to understanding the loa but now it just overcomplicates it for some of y’all. before any of you guys learned about loa, you were already manifesting unconsciously. when manifesting, you were never like “okay so I have to have it in my 4d for it to show up in my 3d” you just had an assumption which turned into reality. when you overcomplicate manifestation, it gets complicated and it’s as simple as that. you said loa was hard, so it was hard. you said loa was easy and effortless, so it’s easy and effortless. manifesting is literally just deciding a desire. you don’t have to believe it, you don’t have to feel it, you just have to state that it’s true so it’s true. you said you’re rich so you’re rich. it’s instant. time delay doesn’t exist unless you make it exist and the only way you can do that is if you decided that it exists. so forget about the terms 4d or 3d and just decide your desire and tell yourself that it’s true. if you said it’s true, it’s true. thats simply just the law. think/affirm in your favor (since affirming is just thinking) and that’s exactly what will show up in your life. matter of fact, stop separating the 3d and the 4d. although they are different things, think of them as a whole since your 3d is literally a reflection of your 4d. manifestation is life. your entire life you have been manifesting. ALWAYS. so why make it complicated now? you’ve been doing it your entire life, the only difference is that you’re consciously doing it or being aware that you’re doing it but being aware of the fact that you are constantly manifesting shouldn’t change how easy it is. manifesting is literally so simple. affirm that you have a desire/think in favor of your desire and BOOM! just like that, your desire INSTANTLY manifests.

I disappear sometimes bitch who cares

People of Ashlesha Nakshatra often display a profound sense of attachment to things they love, forming strong emotional bonds that influence their interactions and relationships. This intrinsic need for connection can lead to behaviors that may seem overprotective or controlling. Ashlesha natives seek to safeguard their emotional ties, which may be rooted in past experiences of loss or abandonment.

Consequently, Ashlesha natives may respond defensively in situations that threaten these connections, resulting in feelings of insecurity and anxiety. While stemming from genuine concern, their protective instincts can sometimes lead to misunderstandings or conflicts with those around them.

The emotional intensity typical of Ashlesha Nakshatra individuals can occasionally drive them to exhibit aggressive or unkind behavior when they feel their attachments are at risk. This tendency often arises not from a desire to harm others, but from a fear of loss that urges them to defend their relationships or material attachments at all costs. Such reactions can alienate others, making it difficult for the Ashlesha individual and their loved ones to navigate the complexities of their emotional dynamics.

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Just a speculation: if, one of the things that sun represents is energy and vitality in astrology, can that mean that what ever house the sun is placed in, the themes related to that house energises you or brings you vitality? For example: Sun in the 2nd house might feel energised when they have a stable and secure flow of money, quality time with family, trying out new food and being clear on your values or priorities.

⌇ᝰ How i manifested my sp in one day.

I just visualized and affirmed. Literally, just it.

It was easier than I originally thought. One night I did a script of him! I didn't necessarily manifest from 0, I just changed attitudes and how I wanted our relationship to be. Then i put some music that remind me of him, and then i lay down and start imagine, when i first met him, but i was changing it, i imagined that when he first meet me he was like "omg i need her" yk? And then i just imagined one moment that him comes to me and asked me to be his girlfriend bla bla bla, okay, then next day EVERYTHING happened, that easily.

Imagination is SUPER Underrated sometimes. Like, you can and ALWAYS manifest just imagining, because there's no actually difference between the physical (3d) and mental/imagination (4d), the 3d is a reflex of 4d, and imagination is the 4d too, so when you imagine your manifestation, you're living it, so girl, just do it.

The thing is the girls and women who identify as non-binary while gender non conforming have the potential to be so fucking cool. I know them, they’re like me, at core they’re like all of us who refuse to give in that bullshit idea that there’s a feminine essence to womanhood. Said like that they would agree, but since gender activism disguises its rancid sexist views in postmodernist language they don’t see it for what it is. So many only allowed themselves to look more masculine and have an alternative style once they decided they were not women, as if women couldn’t look androgynous, couldn’t wear black all day, couldn’t have the finest punk jacket or simply couldn’t cut their hair short, couldn’t be make-up free, couldn’t be hairy and wear baggy shirts and jeans.

They can look just like us who are gnc and radical feminists, except they believe they’re giving a big fat middle finger to the system when the reality is they have the same idea as the system : women must be feminine, men must be masculine. Again, said like that they would disagree, but their beliefs show otherwise. I want to shake them by the shoulders and ask them “why the fuck are you calling yourself basically non-woman the minute you look different from the heteronormative patriarchal norm (gender) ?” They have the potential to be so cool, yet the minute they say that they’re not women this goes down the drain and there’s no spirit of rebellion, anti-system, anti status-quo left. It’s counter intuitive, counter productive, and most importantly it lets down all girls and women who never fitted gender norms and never will. I can look like a post-punk dude while being a masc woman, fuck your sexist expectations, fuck your little boxes, that’s gender abolition.

there are high profile rapists and paedophiles getting less attention because y'all like bullying women for the most minor of things whenever the white boys of the internet tell you to. do one expose on neil gaiman i dare you

they're mad at her for this. oh my god

what the fuck

girl BREAK FREE FROM YOUR HUSBAND ENTIRELY

DIVORCE

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Rahu in our chart creates an intense feeling of desire relevant to its position, but how it manifests depends also largely on the dispositor planet and its qualities.

Rahu can generate that desire twofold - through self development or through others. Of course, dispositor aspects will also matter.

To understand that in your own chart, realize that houses closest to the 1st house relate to your own sense of self, and houses close to the 7th house relate to the external projection of the other. That spreads around both ways, if you look at the chart wheel. So for self-involvement, we have houses 11 - 12 - 1 - 2 - 3, and for external projection houses 5 - 6 - 7 - 8 - 9.

Houses 4 and 10 are the most emotionally and publicly objective, and so a dispositor in these houses is the most likely to join some sort of cause or capitalize on a creative endeavor. So the Rahu dispositor here can seem almost selfless, or more impersonal, but at the same time it’s a very practical energy.

Self involved Rahu is simply someone, who will seek that fulfillment through self development. It doesn’t mean they won’t give to others or their other planets can’t make them experience external appreciation, but they will ultimately desire self growth in some way. Learning from others will of course occur on that path as means to self development.

The “externally” focused Rahu is extremely susceptible to projection. They look at others and the traits they admire and desire in them, so they focus on those people or even idolize them, but other people are ultimately a reflection of qualities they want to develop within themselves one way or another, but may be afraid to. So at the end of the day, they simply need a reflection to mirror their growth path, and depending on their maturity, may or may not find the courage to become the qualities they admire in others.

౨ৎ MY OWN SHIFTING METHOD

note: i haven't shifted yet, only hundreds of minishifted (yes its still a shift but this is for the sake of explaining) but this is what makes me feel the closest to my realities.

before all this, i like to indulge in something that makes me feel connected to my dr, mainly listening to my playlists or scrolling on pinterest.

the first thing i do is this weird detaching process from my body. i've mentioned this in a different post but ever since i was a kid, looking at the mirror for too long felt uncanny. i'd always think "is this really me? this body, is it me? is it what fully defines me? that can't be right..." turns out that has been a MASSIVE help lol.

anyways, you can do this however you like, the point is to detach from your body, to understand that you're not chained to it. i like to affirm it throughout the day, remind myself that it doesn't define me, and i like to look into the mirror for 5-10 minutes straight, causing that uncanny feeling again of "this is not me".

then, i lay down and relax. i breathe, clear my mind, don't interact with any thoughts whatsoever and keep in mind that i'm literally just consciousness, not by body.

now, instead of visualizing waking up in my desired reality, i like to think of past memories! after all, when shifting, you're just becoming aware of another reality, you're perceiving that reality as a person who has been living in it! so i like to bask in past memories, such as ex-relationships, high school days, etc! these memories aren't even scripted or anything, half of them are just stuff i know it happened OR memories i genuinely just gained during this whole process. i tell myself those are memories i simply forgot and i'm just simply remembering them ( @hrrtshape inspired )

one important thing is: i don't focus on the "shifting" part. i stopped trying to trigger a shift, i let my subconscious handle that, and just focus on those memories. i don't think "am i shifting? am i doing it right?" and instead just let my mind wander in my memories. when you're going to sleep in this reality, you don't think "ok, i'm gonna close my eyes now, will i wake up in my room? will this work?" no! because you know you will! same thing here.

another important thing is: shifting is natural, so i don't look for any symptoms. all success stories emphasize how shifting feels like nothing, like snapping your fingers. one moment you're "here" and the other you're "there". there's not even a "oh my god i shifted!!!!" moment because it just naturally flows. so i know the moment i open my eyes, i'll already be in my desired reality, even if there's no symptoms or anything (i don't even notice if i have any lol).

and that's it! i'll just naturally open my eyes like waking up on a normal day in this reality (because, once again, shifting is natural) and done!

this is a super short post, i know, but shifting isn't complicated, only if YOU complicate it, so there isn't really anything else to add here. anyways, i hope i could help and happy shifting <3

Pushya Nakshatra can give people with these placements a stringent and intense personal nature, making them both compelling and difficult to relate to. Although they project an air of charm and magnetism, their inner nature remains firm and resolute, revealing a character that is hard to sway or soften. Outwardly, they display a strong, charismatic front, exuding an impenetrable presence. Beneath this cool, composed exterior lies a delicate, coy sheepishness that is often guarded and suppressed. This blend of jadedness and discomfort, coupled with their projected charisma, is a defining feature of those born under Pushya

In relationships, Pushya natives exhibit a frustratingly strained dynamic. Ruled by both Saturn and the Moon, they are known for their emotionally guarded nature, often requiring others to push past their tough boundaries to gain their care. This combination of Saturn's discipline and the Moon's emotional depth creates a strong sense of FOMO regarding human connection, contributing to their regrettable withholding of Cancerian lunar emotional expression. Their relationships can become one-sided, with emotions often delayed, suppressed, or carefully controlled.

Famous breakup songs by Pushya natives illustrate this dynamic. Selena Gomez, a Pushya Sun and Rising, captures the need to sever ties to connect with her emotional self in "Lose You to Love Me." Selena Gomez's turbulent, on-and-off relationship with Justin Bieber, often seen as detrimental to her emotional well-being, aligns with the Pushya tendency to engage with challenging dynamics rather than seeking warmer, more nurturing exchanges. Her regrettable actions toward a friend who donated a kidney to her, coupled with her continued use of the "Jelena" narrative for relevance despite both parties moving on, further illustrate the paradoxical and often detached nature of her emotional interactions. Similarly, Nico, with her Moon in Pushya, was frequently described as "unable to love anyone." Her deliberate attempt to obscure her beauty and be perceived as "ugly," despite her model appearance and surprising maternal connection to Alain Delon, reflects the emotional detachment characteristic of Pushya. Nico’s music, particularly in songs like “All Tomorrow's Parties” and “The Marble Index,” exudes a chilling, distant aura that aligns with the Nakshatra's influence of suppressed emotions and interpersonal discomfort. In “All Tomorrow's Parties,” her haunting and detached vocal delivery underscores a sense of emotional distance and isolation. “The Marble Index,” with its bleak and eerie atmosphere, further exemplifies the Pushya influence through its stark, emotionally repressed sound and lyrical themes. Cher Lloyd, another Pushya Sun, reflects strong attachment and desire only after separation in "Want U Back." Tommy Genesis, a Pushya Moon, exemplifies this influence in her song “Hair Like Water Wavy Like the Sea,” which is coldly tantric and dissonant, reflecting the Pushya Nakshatra's tendency toward emotional detachment and a unique, almost alienated allure. This sentiment aligns with the frequently expressed notion in Pushya natives' works of not finding another person like them. Alanis Morissette, a Pushya Rising, expresses attachment emerging post-heartbreak in "You Oughta Know," with songs like "Hands Clean" and "You Owe Me Nothing in Return" showcasing a transactional view of relationships, influenced by Saturn. Kate Bush, a Pushya Moon, explores this offbeat emotional landscape in "Wuthering Heights" and "Love and Anger," revealing the struggle between emotional expression and sheepishness. Celine Dion, the “My Heart Will Go On” singer and a Pushya Rising, reveals this nature in “Water from the Moon,” where her emotional investment in relationships appears to emerge only when there's something to strive for, contrasting with her otherwise robotic coldness. Additionally, despite rumors and public speculation, Celine has never come out as a lesbian or claimed that label, even though she’s rumored to have had a longtime girlfriend. Since the death of her husband and manager, she has become anorexic and has not publicly dated anyone, fueling rumors about her offbeat true personality or social awkwardness, humorously attributed to her being French-Canadian. Her literal approach to communication, devoid of sarcasm, is highlighted in her sharp comment about her slimness: “If I like it, I don’t want to talk about it. Don’t bother. Don’t take a picture,” she said. “If you like it, I’ll be there. If you don’t, leave me alone.” Lisa 'Left Eye' Lopes, a Pushya Rising, embodies similar traits. After leaving TLC to pursue a solo career and album, which resulted in a flop, and accidentally committing arson at her fiancé's home, rumors of mental illness contributed to her dissonant public image. Additionally, this detached delayed emotional nature is expressed by Iggy Pop, a Pushya Rising, evident in his song “Candy,” where emotional attachment is presented with a blend of nonchalance and sincerity, reflecting Pushya's paradoxical lunar-Saturnian nature.

Despite their lack of direct or warmer emotional expression, Pushya natives tend to attract significant attention due to their magnetic presence. This allure is often coupled with a delicate, robotic quality-an emotional detachment that can make them seem inaccessible or unfeeling. Their approach to romance is passive, relying on attraction rather than pursuit. This passive allure, combined with their tendency to "beat around the bush," gives them an air of casual detachment that can be both intriguing and frustrating to those seeking deeper connections. Men with this placement may seem smooth and confident but often reveal a more sheepish and coy side when confronted seriously, recoiling from direct emotional engagement. This can make them appear brusque or dull, with an icicle-like coolness contributing to their reputation for being undateable despite their occasional appeal. Milo Yiannopoulos, with a Moon in Pushya, expressed in a Vice video a preference for the 1950s lifestyle of having a wife and kids while secretly seeking out men for excitement, despite being gay. This sentiment reflects Pushya's sociopathic and often paradoxical relationship dynamics. Similarly, Iggy Pop, another Pushya native, has demonstrated this paradoxical nature. In a 2003 interview, when asked about his gay experiences, he said, “I'm to the left of tolerant, but l've never had a gay experience. Two or three times, excited gay friends wanted to, like, nibble my nuts - generally when I was passed out or distracted. And then l'd go, 'Hey! Bruce! Cut it out!' And that would be the end of that. The gayest it got is some guy approaching my scrotum with oral intent." His performances, including appearing naked, further illustrate his provocative and daft demeanor. This reflects the Pushya tendency toward surface-level relationships, where genuine emotional intimacy is often sidelined for more controlled, socially acceptable facades. Yet, even when not conventionally attractive or warm, they possess a unique charm that makes them compelling, offering a blend of jaded wisdom and captivating charisma. In social settings, they command a significant presence, often becoming the center of attention. Their strong, magnetic aura can overshadow others, but their delicate, antisocial quality can make them seem wooden or unfeeling. They can be fair and disciplined, but when slighted, they may exhibit a nasty streak, especially if their reputation is at stake. Their tendency to maintain social status can lead to a tendency to escape controversy, complicating their relationships. Pushya natives are seen as sexy yet asexual, possessing a magnetic allure that is both enticing and disconnected, making them difficult yet intriguing to interact with. Loretta Lynn, a Pushya Moon, subtly captures the possessive yet heavily understated nature of Pushya natives in her repressed sentimental songwriting, particularly in tracks like 'One's on the Way,' which, beneath its light objectivity, reflects a profoundly understated perspective on women's desperation, and 'You Ain’t Woman Enough,' where emotional care is expressed in a reserved, only manifesting in possessive “don’t even try” manner. After her husband passed, Loretta Lynn's long-time companion was her gay dressmaker, who lived platonically with her at the ranch as her full-time caregiver, reflecting preference for controlled, uncomplicated interactions similar to what is observed in Celine Dion and Milo Yiannopoulos, where deep emotional engagement is often avoided in favor of easier, more manageable relationships suiting their inhibited emotional nature.

In terms of their acting, Pushya natives often bring a distinctive and unsettling presence to the screen. This presence is marked by a restrained intensity that can lead to performances both acclaimed and criticized. Geraldine Chaplin's Sun in Pushya is evident in her eerie performance in “Remember My Name.” Her portrayal of a cold, antisocial character driven by repressed emotions captures the essence of Pushya's guarded and uncompromising nature. Selena Gomez, with her monotonous, dry voice, infuses her roles with a certain inaccessibility, resulting in performances that are notably lackluster yet compelling. Jack Nicholson and Peter O'Toole, both with Rising in Pushya, deliver masterful yet occasionally “hammy” dramatic performances. The clash between their natural reserve and the demand for emotional depth creates roles that are larger-than-life but somewhat disconnected. Kevin Spacey and Clint Eastwood, both with Moon in Pushya, are known for their portrayals of cold, stoic characters. Their performances are characterized by a lack of warmth and a focus on a smooth, robotic demeanor. Tom Cruise, another Moon in Pushya native, is more famous for his daring stunts than his emotional depth, reflecting the cold detachment often seen in Pushya actors. Willem Dafoe and Chace Crawford, with their icicle flair and sometimes wooden performances, further illustrate the Pushya influence. Lauren Bacall, a Pushya Rising from Old Hollywood, was known for her cool, composed roles, with her husky voice and limited emotional range reinforcing the characteristic detachment. Shia LaBeouf, also a Moon in Pushya, resorts to extreme method acting, such as sending a sex tape of himself for his audition for “Nymphomaniac,” which underscores his often vacant, disconnected demeanor. Pushya natives, influenced by Saturn and the Moon, often manifest a repressed, cold intensity that can be downright terrifying. James Woods, a Pushya Rising, exemplifies this with his chilling performance in “Videodrome” and his disturbing off-screen behavior. James Woods’ high IQ, CIA and 9/11 connections add to his detached, unsettling persona. His spot in Hollywood arguably being taken by Kevin Spacey, another Moon in Pushya, highlights the needed eerie role with unsettling energy in the industry. Wesley Snipes, a Pushya Moon, also embodies this intense nature. Known for his role in “Blade,” Snipes’ cold behavior is evident in a troubling incident where he reportedly punched Halle Berry, causing her permanent hearing loss. Similarly, Clint Eastwood, a Pushya Moon, is often associated with Hollywood conservatism and exhibits a surly, detached demeanor in his roles, reflecting the aggressive nature linked with Pushya placements. Angelina Jolie, a Pushya Rising, channels an icy intensity. A video of her in an acting class, where she chillingly says, “I’m going to hurt you,” demonstrates her ability to tap into darker aspects of her personality. Pushya Moon Monica Bellucci's role in “Irreversible” resonates deeply with the themes of Pushya Nakshatra, particularly through its portrayal of intense emotional detachment, the cold, relentless passage of time, and the dark, unsettling atmosphere that pervades the narrative. The film's reverse chronology mirrors Pushya's struggle with processing emotions, often delaying emotional responses in a way that gains clarity only through the need for closure. “Irreversible”’s brutal and unflinching depiction of violence and vengeance reflects Pushya's tendency towards emotional repression, capable of erupting into intense, sometimes destructive outbursts when provoked. The inherent detachment of the movie, coupled with a haunting sense of inevitability, highlights the Nakshatra's darker traits.

Pushya natives' musicality also reflects their characteristic qualities. Kate Bush’s “Experiment IV” showcases a blend of eccentricity and emotional distance, aligning with the Pushya Nakshatra’s influence. Similarly, Iggy Pop’s band The Stooges, particularly with their song “We Will Fall,” demonstrates the Pushya tendency toward offbeat and unsettling artistic expression. These musical examples underscore the Pushya natives' challenge of merging emotional depth with their often detached and robotic tendencies. Whether it’s Kevin Spacey’s smooth, emotionless portrayals, Jack Nicholson and Peter O'Toole’s dramatic yet disconnected performances, or Wesley Snipes’ and James Woods’ aggressive behaviors, these actors show a pattern. Their acting, marked by a chilling detachment and intense jadedness, makes their roles both memorable and unsettling. This aggressive, ice-cold presence is a defining characteristic of Pushya, giving their performances a haunting and impactful quality.

Similarly, Paris Hilton, with her Moon in Pushya, exhibits these traits through her frequent damage control efforts following allegations of bigotry, coupled with her self-description as asexual. This highlights the Pushya tendency to maintain emotional distance and control public image, engaging with controversies only when necessary and avoiding deeper emotional truths. Actors like Jack Nicholson and Kevin Spacey, both with Moon in Pushya, further illustrate these traits. Jack Nicholson, known for his detached and problematic sexual behavior, has avoided significant repercussions, reflecting the Pushya ability to manage public scrutiny while maintaining a distant, yet charming, demeanor. Similarly, Kevin Spacey has evaded full cancellation despite serious allegations, showcasing the Pushya trait of detachment and smooth nature, specifically toward his public image management amidst controversy. Jennifer Lopez, also with a Pushya Moon, exemplifies this dynamic in her off-and-on relationship with Ben Affleck, where the public narrative suggests a push-pull dynamic that aligns with the Pushya tendency to engage in emotionally challenging rather than straightforward, nurturing relationships. Halle Berry, with her Pushya Moon, has experienced a tumultuous abusive love life, an emotional disconnect influencing her choice in both partners and non-leading movie roles, further highlighting the influence of this Nakshatra's emotionally detached nature.

In more expressive situations, Pushya Nakshatra natives, typically nonchalant and dry, display a unique blend of charisma and detachment. This is evident in the performances and public personas of various celebrities. Kate Bush and Iggy Pop exemplify this with their offbeat randomness and quirky performances. Kate Bush’s theatrical and enigmatic style, as seen in her music videos and live shows, often carries a whimsical and cryptic quality that can be both alluring and unsettling. In contrast, Iggy Pop’s eccentricity is characterized by his punk-like energy and daft demeanor. His Countdown performance of “I’m Bored” vividly demonstrates this with its random and forced energy, while his pre-performance interview highlights his brash and unapologetically unconventional personality. Celine Dion’s public persona also reflects Pushya traits, notably in her “Carpool Karaoke” appearance. Despite her immense talent, Celine Dion has received feedback about appearing socially unaware or brash in casual settings, and her deeply sincere demeanor can sometimes come across as disingenuous. Jennifer Lopez, another Pushya native, has faced public mockery for being daft, such as with the “Jenny from the Block” persona, illustrating how Pushya’s blend of charm and detachment can lead to both allure and scrutiny. Additionally, Alanis Morissette’s haunting and overly somber parody of “My Humps” adds a layer of offputting and robotic non-dancing quality, further reflecting the Pushya Nakshatra’s influence. Together, these examples underscore how Pushya Nakshatra natives channel their magnetic presence and emotional depth into their public personas and performances, blending charm with a profound sense of daftness and outlandish forced quality.

In summary, the personalities and artistic expressions of those born under Pushya Nakshatra embody a detached post-ironic blend of charm and emotional reserve. Their magnetic yet distant nature makes them both captivating and elusive, often leaving others grappling with the tension between their charismatic allure and the cold, restrained undercurrents that define them. Pushya natives consistently reveal a guarded, sheepish sensitivity that is rarely overtly expressed. This unyielding reserve, coupled with their impenetrable public facades, reinforces their enigmatic presence—simultaneously drawing people in and leaving them exasperated with a sense of Saturnian delay of lunar expression.

When Javed Akhtar wrote and Rahat Fateh Ali Khan sang, "Chehra uska hai ya koi mahtaab hai."

When Richard Siken wrote, "You were pointing at the moon and I was looking at your hand."

When Iftikhar Naseem said, "Us ke chehre ki chamak ke samne saada laga, asmaan pe chand pura tha magar aadha laga."

Mars nakshatras are very sensitive to having energy projected onto them. They do NOT like a beg and are very quick to view someone as desperate/weird.

Not necessarily avoidants because they can chase others or act desperate themselves but as soon as it comes towards them from a source outside their personal bubble, they can be repulsed very quickly. Even if it’s not from a place of judgement, they definitely get overwhelmed.

I’ve known many instances where they’ve ended relationships over the other person being too clingy or affectionate, but that as a specific example is kind of dependent on what kind of person they attract and other planet influences.

I’ve mainly observed this personally but the main celeb instance of this is Chappell Roan (Chitra asc). Just to be clear- I think the way people feel entitled to violate celebrities’ privacy is fucking weird and she has every right to be upset (ppl literally stalked her family!!). But from an observational perspective, the negative reaction she had after people suddenly started perceiving and projecting energy onto her en masse, especially in comparison to other celebrities, was definitely more prominent.

You could tell she was very overwhelmed and even wanted to do less in order to avoid the spotlight. Meanwhile someone with stronger (just a random example) rahu influence would chase the high of attention and maybe suffer to a lesser extent in this kind of situation

Going back to speaking generally, they usually thrive in relationships with people who are laidback and independent on some level. Maybe a little aloof but still being emotionally present

I saw someone bring up recently in a post (if that was you, I’m sorry I can’t remember 😭I’ll link if I see it again) the whole mars men x older women dynamic and how they like someone with a stronger sense of self that won’t rely on them as much. They don’t like the idea of being a provider for someone needy who relies on them to emotionally regulate.

Mars nak natives when you need them a little too much:

“X celebrity is the most beautiful woman in the world etc etc.” Uh no it’s my mom and also a random girl i saw while i was at work once