You,"he said," are a terribly real thing in a terribly false world, and that, I believe, is why you are in so much pain.
— Emilie Autumn
Abuse doesn’t make you ‘tough’, it makes it so when someone hurts you, you get a massive flashback to every time anyone has ever hurt you, you have to remove yourself from the situation to get a massive breakdown, you don’t get to react properly because you’re overwhelmed and unsure what’s real, and at the end of the day you’re filled with doubt over whether you feelings are all wrong and what amount of upset you’re allowed to be and you just sit there devastated asking yourself what is wrong with you and why can’t you be normal
Dude! blocked you right! Now stop coming in my dreams!! Urghh
Huh! busy weekend ahead.
Love this quote from our video this week. 👍
One of the causes of where dysfunctional toxic families come into existence - when a victim of abuse marries to a irresponsible playboy without healing from the past abuse. Tbe toxicity bleeds not only onto the spouse who doesn't want to take any familial responsibility but also to the innocent children. This turns into generational dysfunction and trauma within families. Just sad!
I can do nothing for you but work on myself. You can do nothing for me but work on yourself.
Ram Dass (via thoughtkick)
“Don’t forget that you’re human. It’s ok to have a meltdown. Just don’t unpack and live there. Cry it out and then refocus on where you are headed.”
— Unknown (via quotefeeling)
Sometimes you are OK. But other times, you have to be OK. You don't have a choice. You don't have time to crib about your problems. You just have to act according to the situation.