by me, a fool who doesnt wanna die anymore
never make a suicide joke again. yes this includes “i wanna die” as a figure of speech. swear off of it. actually make an effort to change how you think about things.
find something to compliment someone for at least 4 times a day. notice the little things about the world that make you happy, and use that to make other people happy.
talk to people. initiate conversation as often as you possibly can. keep your mind busy and you wont have to worry anymore
picture the bad intrusive thoughts in youe head as an edgy 13 year old and tell them to go be emo somewhere else
if someone makes you feel bad most of the time, stop talking to them. making yourself hang out with people who drain you is self harm. stop it.
The earlier you start the better, back to school sales are not the end all be all of deals. Shopping for your dorm and college can be overwhelming, but there are ways to make it more approachable. Before you buy anything you should make a list to avoid overspending and overpacking.
As you make your list, consult your family and older friends that went off to college. They’ll help you figure out what you really need to bring.
Another source to consult is your university, they’ll often provide floor plans, dimensions, a list of what the room comes with, and a list of banned products on their website or any housing information they sent you.
Actually write your list, it doesn’t matter if it’s on paper or the notes app on your phone, you’ll need to refer back to your list when you’re shopping
It helps if you write your list in categories like decor, bedding, lighting, toiletries, shower supplies, appliances, etc.
Look at what you use around your house to add to your list to make sure you don’t miss anything important like laundry detergent or sponges for washing dishes.
It helps to know if you will be in a community style dorm or a suite style for things like bathroom supplies and cleaning supplies
Talk to your roommate(s) so you don’t end up with double the stuff
Remember you can always buy more later
Note that dorm rooms are relatively small, so shop compact. We will cover how to make the most of what little space you have in future posts.
Dorm life isn’t all about making your dorm look presentable: you have to survive too if your meal plan is limited. Be prepared to shop for food and snacks that can last you through the first half of the semester until you have time to go shopping again.
Personally, I like to write my lists out by hand, it helps me remember it and keep me on task. My bullet journal is great for these things because then I know where my list is rather than trying to keep track of a random slip of paper. - Clove
When I write a list on hardcopy paper, I have a professional black leather planner which can be used for a wide variety of things like academics and important career-related information. It may be useful to invest in one from Franklin Covey or your local office supply store. Otherwise, when you make a digital list, preferably use Google Docs where you can access it from any device. - Jasiel
“Lack of direction, not lack of time, is the problem. We all have twenty-four hour days.”
— Zig Ziglar
* go on a quick walk or run!
* there are good yoga videos on Youtube that are 5-30 minutes long, just enough time to give your mind a break! some of my favorites are
Quick Stress Fix - 5 Minute Sequence (5 minutes)
Yoga For Focus & Productivity - 10 min practice (10 minutes)
12 Min Yoga For Brain Power | Yoga With Adriene (12 minutes)
Stress Melt - 26 Min Yoga Break | Yoga With Adriene (26 minutes)
* draw something!
* watch youtube or a quick episode of the office (ONLY ONE EPISODE I KNOW IT’S HARD)
* tidy up the space you’re working in! This can help you clear your mind and come back with more focus.
* go get a snack and water—always make sure to stay hydrated!
* call a relative or friend who you haven’t seen in a while (especially college people, talking to someone you love can be such a stress reliever, and you always have the excuse that you need to study in case the conversation goes on too long. you can also complain to them)
* dance party—my personal favorite. great stress reliever.
* watch a cool TedTalk or numberphile video!
How to build your confidence – and spark it in others | Brittany Packnett
Mindset is Everything | Cole Bennett | TEDxUIUC
The Magic of Not Giving a F*** | Sarah Knight | TEDxCoconutGrove
How to Get Your Brain to Focus | Chris Bailey | TEDxManchester
and the master playlist: The 20 Most-Watched TEDTalks
* when all else fails, BuzzFeed quizzes.
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when you find an academic source that’s perfect for your paper but it’s behind a pay wall
yemen and how to help
help save yemen linktree
two links with more links and resources to help yemen, including what to read to know more, where to donate, petitions to sign, etc.
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yuzu: *does a different pose*
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안녕하세요! This post was requested by lunax02, who suggested that I talk about Korean Mythological Creatures as a way to incorporate more Korean culture into my blog! This ask is brilliant and I appreciate all requests made to me (especially if you guys are super interested in it)! In order to tell you about Mythological Creatures in Korea, you first need to know where they come from! This is crucial for understanding their history and why they are an important part of Korean culture!
This is also very exciting to me as this post (and future Korean Mythology posts) will be a collab with my friend / mutual, @patrooocle! Dare I say, the queen of giving us Korean culture blogs. She has been so kind as to share her notes and help me through this process, so if you don’t follow her already please please do!
patrooocle’s blog // patrooocle’s twitter // patrooocle’s IG
WARNING: This post will be very long!
*for this post, I will be using some Hanja ( 한자 // 漢字 ), anything written by me is open to criticism as I am still learning how to make it more natural and the correct stroke order and would love all the help I can get
I am using Hanja as a way to incorporate a deeper understanding of the Korean characters and their origins! It is a way to break down the literal meaning of the Korean words so we can have a better understanding of their history!
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