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getting ready for…
a winter post on getting through the winter flawlessly, warm, and cozily as a dream girl ♡ if you’re interested, look at my dream girl guides for summer and autumn!
my winter looks like traveling, cabin stays, new york, adventures and activities all the while staying cozy and warm inside surrounded by christmas lights, hot chocolate, candles, shopping music, and keeping to myself looking out my floor to ceiling windows with my books and loved one.
what does your ideal winter for this year look like? ideas, moodboards
physical: winter essentials, what to wear, beauty products, winter reads and bucket lists
mental: wellness, book recommendations
like i always say: you create the definition of dream girl and it can always change. so what does your ideal winter look like?
have a balance of attending holiday parties, walks in the city to see the lights, indoor shopping and staying inside, in your cozy space while keeping warm with a hot beverage and a good movie/book!
create a winter routine! make sure to get your daily fresh air, staying physically & social active and uplifted to stay away from the winter blues. wake up earlier.
pick up a new hobby
spend more time away from your phone
make it a priority to avoid isolation
go skiing, snowboarding, ice skating
attend a ballet/musical
go on late night drives
take a drive to see the christmas lights
attend or host holiday parties or small gatherings with loved ones. have a game night!
try new recipes, bake goodies
most important of all: follow your gut. keep your safety your #1 priority.
christmas movie marathon
playing classical music
sitting by the fireplace
making your christmas wishlist
take up crochet and knitting. make a hat, scarf, headbands, book sleeve, etc!
donate old clothes and toys
playing in the snow
wearing fluffy socks
make a new year vision board
movie nights
try new ways to make coffee, hot chocolate…
buying christmas themed pajamas. match with your pets.
reading winter books and classics
go on a youtube throwback binge and watch bethany mota and meredith foster’s old christmas videos
keep writing in your diary
shopping or browsing through the city and malls to take in the holiday atmosphere
candlelit bubble baths
turning on the radio to listen to christmas music
moisturizer. with the colder seasons come with drier skin. make sure to invest in a good heavy moisturizer that soaks into your skin well. recommendations below.
sunscreen. it doesn’t matter what the season is, spf will always be important! don’t forget your neck and hands.
a pretty blush of your choice
get a new signature scent for winter
candles
cute onesies
classic pink silk robe
a cute winter mug for when you add in mini marshmallows + whip cream/sweet foam for your beverages
chanel earmuffs
santinni “an affair to remember” + “roman holiday” + “an american in paris” coats
chloe betty boots
a cute fur + puffy jacket
black vivienne westwood leather gloves
ralph lauren cable knit sweaters
baker boy/fiddler hats
mini skirts. yes. i said it.
demonia boots (vigilance/camel line)
fur mini bags
oversized scarfs!
knitted mini skirts
sam heidi bib puffer jacket
santinni “harlow” fur headband with bow
fur trim everything and anything. coats, boots, gloves, hats…
fur empty top hats
microfiber and leather ankle boots
leg warmers
tweed + knitted blazer and cardigan sets
moon boots
prada monolith combat boots
the arrivals moto jacket
bow tights
ugg earmuffs
fleece tights that keep you warm and cute
hair bows and headbands
scarfs
sweater dresses will never not be my favorite
sunglasses
baggy denim
half zip up pullovers
uggs (with bows)
long trench coats + wool coatigans
tote bags, small crossbodies
trousers
the basics to layer. turtlenecks, mocknecks, wool crewnecks, leggings, long sleeves, thicker socks
and… the bear hat and scarf. i love it. don’t look at me.
blushed and flushed or nothing comes out in this post as well! the cold look is the absolute cutest.
glittery eyeshadow and highlighters
gradient lip combos
plum colored makeup looks for the holiday season
gear towards creams instead of gel moisturizers. creams are heavier, gel will hydrate your skin but it won’t last you through the whole day. you’ll eventually start your skin tightening and dry mid-day.
i always go through my sheet masks fast during the winter! run the extra serum on your neck, chest and hands.
Invest in face masks, a good face cream and lip product.
keep hand cream and lip balm on you!
philosophy - snow angel, white cherry, and candy cane shower gel (or all of them tbh)
victoria secret - warm & cozy line
o’keeffe’s - working hands cream
fenty skin + dior addict lip oil
nature republic - fresh herb peach cleansing foam
laneige - cream skin toner & moisturizer
tatcha - the dewy skin cream, water cream, and overnight repair
amlactin - rapid relief restoring body cream
créme de la mer - ultra rich cream
etude house - soonjung 2x barrier intensive cream
kopari - ultra restore body butter
pale, muted colors with decos! pinks, winter blues, nude, ombre, etc.
lots of deco and designs are my favorite
i usually go for coffin but with designs i love to recreate, long almond.
examples for both makeup and nails are in the photo above! ♡
voltaire zadig - this is her
ysl - mon paris
carolina herrera - good girl
killian - angel share & love don’t be shy
fresh cream - warm cashmere
gucci - bamboo
chanel eau tendre
juliette has a gun - not a perfume
replica by the fireplace & jazz club
eilish - billie eilish
burberry - her
victoria secret - warm & cozy
keep up a routine and structure. switch it up when you feel called to. it can be hard when it’s cold and the days become darker but remember the feeling that comes with being active and getting things done.
take a list and write things down that you can enjoy in the winter and focusing on bringing more of it into your life for the season.
make yourself cozy and romanticize life! stock up on sweaters, get cute blankets, bake goods to enjoy and have your house smelling heavenly, play music in the background, and whatever your heart desires.
sit by the fire or window, cuddled up in a blanket and dive into another world with bamb’s recommendations!
before the coffee gets cold - toshikazu kawaguchi
little women - louisa may alcott
murder on the orient express - agatha christie
one dark window - rach gillig
a christmas carol - charles dickens
the bear and the nightingale (winter trilogy) - katherine aden
sorrow and bliss - meg mason
sleepless nights - elizabeth hardwick
frankenstein - mary shelley
from lukov with love - mariana zapata
wuthering heights - emily bronte
six of crows and crooked kingdom - leigh bardugo
echo north - joanna ruth meyer
for the wolf - hannah whitten
disorientation - elaine hseigh cho
the winter duke - claire eliza bartlett
tinder - sally gardner
an unwanted guest - shari lapena
shiver - allie reynolds
the picture of dorian gray - oscar wilde
the overnight guest - heather gudenkauf
lapvona - ottessa moshfegh
murder for christmas - francis duncan
i want to die but i want to eat tteokbokki - baek sehee
behind closed doors - b.a paris
snow - orhan pamuk
the invisible life of addie larue - v.e schwab
lakesedge & forestfall (gothic fantasy duology)
- stay safe and cozy. kisses from bambi ♡
Fail Proof Manifesting
Truth is: You can manifest successfully every single time. You can manifest instantly and effortlessly. You can have doubts and still be a master manifester.
The key to “fail proof” manifesting is believing in the fact that failure doesn’t exist, and persisting in this belief. You are the creator of reality, so if you constantly fear and worry about not getting your desires, you are creating a reality where failure exists. I know sometimes it’s hard when the 3D literally shows you the opposite, but remember: you are not your 3D, the human eye does not create reality, your mind does. You do not let the 3D hold any power because it is only a dream, a blank canvas and you are its artist. Your persisted thoughts and assumptions are what you see. You hold the power and you are limitless.
There is no difference between you and the master manifester. Everyone is born a master manifester. Everyone is made of the same substance. So if I can change my life completely, then you can too.
So, embody the feeling of a master manifester. Think thoughts a master manifester would think and you will doubtlessly change your reality. You live in a world with no limits, no conditions, no logic, no hardships, no punishments, and no opposing forces - but they can exist if you believe in them and impose them on yourself like shackles to a prisoner. Free yourself, life is your creation. You are a divinity that has created your reality since the very beginning.
- venus
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When noticing things I dont like in the physical world, I don't like to say things like "It doesn't matter because I'm going to shift soon anyway" as means of recognising the 3d is temporary because it reinforces the old beliefs that I haven't already shifted and im not in my dr. This is NOT living in imagination!!
So instead, I say
"it doesn't matter because I have already shifted and the 3D is temporary"
"I always manifest in 3 days or less anyway"
and "Nothing can ruin my manifestations. It is already done".
Not only does this reaffirm I am in control of my manifestations but it also develops my dominant beliefs
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she’s such a loser, i have got to fuck her
HE PUSHED HAZEL SOMEBODY HELP HER!!!!!!! SOMEBODY HELP HER!!!!!!!!!
Anyways I thought this was funny because some people think being masc = being super smooth and smexy and strong but Hazel is kind of a loser. I mean she’s still sexy. But she’s also a loser. I stand for loser bottom Hazel!!!!!!!
happy national boyfriend day! 👩🏽❤️💋👩🏻
LMAO okay so i was trying the MABS (mind awake body asleep) method and my body was like dead but like i accidentally fell asleep and still woke up to a dead body. my shoulder hurts like a bitch too. n e ways imma do it again and not fall asleep this time
If anyone has any more screenshots or reblogs from Catherine especially, let me know! She was such a big help with simplifying the void!
catherineaboutlife:
On fears and doubts:
On logic and the past:
pinkerino on how he shifted for the first time:
thedoona (? might be spelled wrong) on living in the end:
[Agree with this ⬆️ feeling the wish fulfilled for me means knowing it’s done and it’s coming, not needing to delude myself that I have it rn]
loajaydawayda on finding a method that works for you:
Misc:
fuzzy duck?
ducky fuzz
DOES HE FUCK?
FUCK, HE DOES
none of the gifs r mine
dm me if you know the owner(:
What is your fave features of yourself?
Everything. I’m really really hot and I love that for me.
inducing the void is one of the easiest things you can, do, easier than breathing
at anytime of the day you relax
heavy breathing
focus on the darkness in your eyes
affirm “I AM” or let your mind wonder, anything to keep your consciousness away from the 3D
and you’ve done it
theres no “i’ve tried but-” “but when i do it” there’s is no trial and error for a god, you aren’t special, you’re not exempt from the law of assumption. You’re not the exception, you can do it. There’s no trying, just be, it’s so easy that this neediness a lot of you are showing just doesn’t make any sense.
And when I say that you might think I’m crazy. Because some of you need to get out of the life you’re living, you need to escape, you need the void. Kill that mindset immediately, because that need just shows that you don’t believe you are the operant power, the void doesn’t gift you anything. It’s just a state of consciousness, you manifest, not the void, so the neediness is completely irrational.
its just a state of consciousness that you are inducing through relaxation and or meditation. Which is why the begging and the neediness makes no sense.
If you are “I AM” as you say you are, than you are everything. You can do everything. And the law of assumption is that if think it to be true, it has already been. Why are you begging for something that is already happened, if you are a “void master” why are you still asking the same questions you KNOW the answers to. Stop stalling.
If you order a package, and it arrives, you aren’t going to be emailing amazon asking how to get your package and complaining that it hasn’t come, because you’ll look pretty stupid, won’t you? This neediness doesn’t make sense because you’ve already induced the void state and you are already a master at the inducing pure consciousness.
Another reason why it doesn’t make sense is because it’s so easy. Why are you still here begging for something that is as easy as breathing, it’s illogical. The void state is just a state of consciousness where any intention can be set without resistance, that’s it. That’s all it is. It’s not magic, and you’ll roll your eyes and say “I know it’s not magic” but why are you still asking for help?
If you knew 100% the simplicity of it, you wouldn’t need that subliminal, you wouldn’t need someone to give you guidance EVERY step of the way, you wouldn’t need to do this 20-step yoga routine, you wouldn’t need to shamelessly ask others to “enter” for you, you wouldn’t need external bullshit to do something that’s internal. You wouldn’t need an “instant method”, you wouldn’t need to read paragraph on paragraph, post after post trying to make it “click”.
If you had a boyfriend you wouldn’t need to read post after post telling you how to get one would you. You wouldn’t be begging people to help you get a boyfriend if he was right next to you in bed. You wouldn’t be reading relationship success stories trying to feel something. Why? because you don’t need to. You already have one.
The void is already yours, it has been the second you thought about it because manifestation is instant so this desperation and this feeling of despair makes absolutely no sense
stop the desperation and start standing firm, do i really need to remind you who you are? is the void your bitch or is it the other way around?