“And I say to myself: A moon will rise from my darkness. وأَقول لنفسِي: سَيطلعُ مِن عَتْمَتِي قَمَر.”
— Mahmoud Darwish
I’ve decided I’m going to become a bitch, the baddest bitch actually. I’m talking waking up early, exercising because it gets my heart pumping, eating and enjoying whatever I want, working on my hobbies, channeling my mind to think about the dream girl inside me and making her become a reality. I’m putting in the work and putting all my energy and love into myself like never before. Why? Because I deserve it!
The moon never stopped believing in you, She is always sending Her energies to you, She gives you the chance to reset at the end of the day, because She knows your potential is unlimited. She never gives up on you— She just hopes you never give up on yourself. ✨✨✨
this post was inspired by this tiktok: here
okay first realise..realise you have the power to change ANYTHING. its never too late to change your reality. dont think that you’re too “old” and that its late for you. people are in their 40s, 50s, 60s trying to find themselves and their true identity and trying out new hobbies! this idea that life ends when you’re 30 or whatever is such bullshit. you have so much time to change anything you want and nothing is impossible. NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE. NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE.
once you realise that, you can conquer anything. your problems are so small compared to you, because you’re magnificent. in this time of age we do not stop to congratulate ourselves because we are always comparing ourselves to other peoples lives on social media, or our parents are comparing us to other peoples kids. take time to CONGRATULATE YOURSELF for atleast wanting to try doing better for yourself. thats already an achievement and a step closer to achieving your dream life. some of you guys have been through hell and back, yet you’re still here. just congratulate yourself on that, because thats amazing. really.
now..lets start a funeral.
write down or take mental note of all your “bad habits” than can include something simple as procrastinating or idk nail biting. GET RID OF THEM. DECLARE THIS NOW that you will stop doing those habits, these bad habits do not benefit you. now, its pretty easy to cling back onto these “bad habits” so dont even worry about it. if you do it again do not belittle yourself, do not beat yourself up about it omg. literally dont you’re still amazing and hey..maybe you won’t completely get rid of them so start minimising how much you do those so-called bad habits
secondly, the mental glow up
mental glowups are also important aswell as physical glowups. mental glowups really do wonders and can impact your physical appearance!
• don’t beat yourself up when you make a mistake.
i feel like its so normal for us to do this and i think if you were in a household that was not particularly great at emotional wellbeing you would struggle whenever you make mistake cus you would beat yourself up about it, its a tactic we’ve learned to do and its not a very good one.
• treat yourself with kindness.
how you treat a little child under your care, treat your mind and yourself as so. when you feel under pressure, when you feel caught up with everything. take it slow. and realise, you’re amazing and you can get through any obstacle.
• treat yourself like a QUEEN!
honestly, we should all start treating ourselves like the beautiful people we are?? like yeah i woke up messy hair and all but i am still beautiful. i am still shockingly pretty and i rock any hairdo.
• prioritise yourself. stop prioritising others.
now dont get me wrong, when the moment is right you can put others before yourself..BUT NOT ALL THE DAMN TIME! treat yourself, love yourself and prioritise yourself.
thirdly, the PHYSICAL GLOWUP!
now whatever you want to look like, visualise, script, command your subconscious or affirm that what you look like is IN YOUR REALITY! and nothing can stop that, literally nothing can. and in the meantime literally just love yourself, congratulate yourself..i mean your physical glowup is here and you look absolutely stunning.
take plenty of selfies cus you’re beautiful.
go outside and hang out with friends PLEASE DO NOT PUT A HAULT ON YOUR LIFE FOR YOUR MANIFESTATIONS.
pretend you’re a celebrity on vogue doing your routine in the bathroom. literally have fun, do hairstyles you wanna try, spend a lil bit of money on skin care + makeup.
NOW..COMBINE EVERYTHING IVE JUST SAID.
okay, now combine everything and just do it, dont be scared. why are you scared? you still have plenty of time to make mistakes and try again, and get your dream life, you still have time to love yourself and gain knowledge of YOU and stuff you like. now..you dont need the “perfect life” i feel like that is being so targeted towards young people nowadays searching for that “perfect life” that builds up so much more pressure, tbh. all you need is stability. become stable and consistent in habits, relationships, your body and your mind. (if u want, u can obvi have ur perfect life hun)
“Should you find yourself in a situation where you think the evil eye has been placed on a loved one, try the following folk remedy. Take a small amount of olive oil to your ancestor altar. Pray that they will conjure any evil eye that may have been placed on your loved one intentionally or unintentionally into the oil.
Place a dish of water over the victim’s head and add some of the oil drop by drop. Look at the patterns it forms. Do any of them look like eyes? (They will jump right out at you if they’re there.) Prick any eyes that you see in the oil with a pin or cut them with scissors. When you’re done, dump the water and oil down the toilet.”
- Excerpt from: "Honoring Your Ancestors: A Guide to Ancestral Veneration" by Mallorie Vaudoise.
living near the lake in the cottage surrounded by forest, spending time swimming in the little boat, resting in the garden with the book, growing flowers, wearing big cotton shirts and long skirts, and enjoying warm weather
today's mood: big old house on the outskirts of old town, having your own art gallery at home and enjoying beautiful pictures, spending time by candlelight, listening to the harp and reading classical novels
There’s so much power in knowing your power. Knowing that you can control what you give your energy to. Knowing that you have the power to create a new reality for yourself. To shape yourself into the person you want to be. To reinvent yourself into the badass that you visualize in your mind. To reach new goals, attain higher levels of success and almost anything you ever dreamed of. Visualize, plan, manifest and take action. Go be amazing. KNOW YOUR POWER.
You're so inspiring and your blog is so cute and aesthetic, I just wish I had the motivation or willpower to do anything, or let alone the discipline for any of it. I've tried but it never turns out good and I almost feel like giving up
hey honey 🤍
start by stop worrying about it, change the way you look at it, tell yourself that you are capable of doing anything and you always feel very motivated what do you want to do? do you want to create healthier habits in your life? commit yourself to do it, make it your goal, but always remember to start small for me what has helped me the most to stay motivated are two things: small daily goals and a good routine
for example, when i started on this "journey" i was motivated to start incorporating little by little healthier habits into my days, like starting to do 10 minutes of exercise every day, here you say what you want for your days, what is it that you want to feel motivated to do for this, you can support yourself with a journal, start writing either in a notebook or on your phone 3 things you want to achieve during the day and commit yourself to fulfill, believe you will feel very satisfied and that will give you motivation
and the routine can really help you feel motivated because liking your routine is what gets you up and energized to start your day every morning. i always say, you're not going to create the perfect routine in a week, but you can try it out until you find what works best for you, and don't be afraid to change anything! on my blog, you can find many examples of routines that you can try out
and the best way to stay motivated is to start being aware that this is a promise you make to yourself and do it for you, to get everything you want
have a beautiful day and i hope I have inspired you 🤍🧿✨