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The blessing in evil: harsh aspects

I decided to make this post, since I get a lot of messages of people being frustrated in some way or another with their challenging aspects. Astrology is neutral at its core and will forever consist of the positive and the genative, both live together in unison and always will. I think it goes without saying, that difficult aspects have (of course) their positive sides to them, and can be just as much of a blessing as naturally positive aspects: but how to deal with them and how to look at the challenge harsh aspects provide?

I decided to list the aspects I get asked about the most, as well as a few of my own selection that I’ve have seen people in real life struggle with a lot. Keep in mind, that the specific interpretation of the aspects can differ depending on the planets, signs and houses involved. This is a general post about them, but I’ll try to go as much as in depth as possible. Some of those aspects listed are still debatable in their interpretation, it seems to me.

The Opposition

This aspect has an orb allowance from approximately 10°, it is formed by two planets that are seperated by ca. 180°. The Opposition is self explaining, somehow. It’s the other side of the coin, two siblings starring at each other, so similar, yet unbelievably different and none tries to give in to the other. The cold sholder they think another rightfully deserves. Imagine it as two quirling siblings, that stand in front of their parent (you), explaining and justifying why they are in the right. You on the other hand have to find a middle ground and make your children understand that both of them are right and both of them are wrong. While every aspect is somehow in a way about balance and power dynamics as well as structures, this one is especially about balance and a dynamic balance only. Oppositions force you into extremes easily. One time you handle exactly like one energy, neglecting the other, then you go after the other energy, leaving the first energy out in order to satisfy both needs. This can ultimately lead to stagnation, being irritated to the point that you can go after any energy, identifying with both and yet with none. Key message behind the Opposition: Balance is dynamic, an never ending ungoing process, a status we have to create and that won’t last forever, once we realized our problem or thought about a solution. Both energies are right and need each other in order to find harmony, they ultimately have been born somehow on common ground, it’s a beautiful symbiosis, that lets you unravel and discover lifes lesson of regenerating the self, self healing and how to connect two dots to create the full picture (imagine it like coloring by numbers!). The Opposition is often about getting to know what one wants and needs, it’s undeniably equally important for one to figure it out in order to fully focus on ones destiny or at least to fully visualize all the opportunities and chances in ones life path. More than often, the Opposition takes time to figure out even when the answer seems to be clear and obvious - don’t pressure yourself, take your time and be kind.

The Square

The Square is an aspect that is created by a difference of 90° with an orb allowance of 7.5 degrees. The Square is different compared to the Opposition, here the energies seem to not even bloom from the same family or at least have little similarities. Now, the square is usually two different ideologies clashing, they create a melting pot of frustration and even agression, where the Square sits the native will find themself unconsciously falling back into difficult behavior, thoughts and situations. The square is about questioning what energy is rightfully here, demanding to be pleased and lived out and which is wrong. Of course, none of them is wrong, but really, the native might ask themself: how can they ever work together? Extreme neglect and totalities might be a consequence, wanting the problem to ‘vanish’ already, pleading for growth. It’s really about appreciating the total differences and using them for the best. The individual might feel like they can’t fully chose one ‘option’, but this constant ‘figuring out’ how to channel their energies and when to rely to them, as well as to accept them as strong and reliable forces, keeps the individual active and on the go. They are forced to be quick and clever in a way, to explore people and the self, to assert the self and to overcome an inner blockage. This blockage makes you either disarm yourself - unable to move on and to let yourself be washed away by the rough and wild sea - or you become the boat that wisely reads the sky and water and moves forward without sinking and so is able to see the wild unknown places that the world has to offer. Key message behind the Square: Master of the forces that seem to hold you in a tight grip, seeing the benefit in even the worst and constantly developing the self and setting an example as the master of self understanding and development.

The Inconjunction or Quincunx

The Inconjunction is an aspect of 150° and has an orb allowance of 2 degrees. This aspect feels unable to ‘balance out’ or to find common grounds, since modality and element are both not compatible. More often the Inconjunction can lead to acceptance. We don’t need to force desires and wishes together only for the sake of apparent constant harmony. Both these energies have their own area, both need to live their energies out and have the right to do so. In a negative way, an individual might develop an unhealthy behaviorism in order to satisfy both needs. When being true and honest with the self, the native will think about neutral/benefitting/healthy ways of secluding both areas of the planets energies and needs in their life. Key message behind the Inconjunction: Acceptance first, be honest with yourself and let go of the constant need to create a harmony that can not be reached. Be greatful for the differences and allow yourself find ways to enjoy both with a good will, heart and gratitude. Adjustment will come naturally then.

The Semi-Square

It is an aspect of 45° with an orb allowance of ca. 2 degrees. The Semi-Square is a harsh aspect that manifests as an emotional/inner blockage and inner pain that will manifest subconsciously as outer problems that reoccur, similar in its outcomes and how they happen. The Semi-Square can easily lead to losing the self, losing faith in the self or self-pity but whilst the native struggles with inner blockage and adjusting, the external events will put them in the position to actively take action: one can not not ignore the problem inside the self when it’s presented right in front of them, however if you choose to keep on hanging on to your frustration and desires, if you keep on pushing it aside, wanting to deal with it later or purely neglecting lifes offers for growth one might find themself left behind at times. Another problem might be a lack of discipline, holding on to old, bad behavior or attitude. Key message behind the Semi-Square: Don’t ignore your inner pain, even if it seems small at first. Be open and observant and willing to deal with problems. It’s normal that adjustment will take time, don’t decide where’s the limit when it comes to growth. Be open and content about changes to expand your mind, challenges by life that test you. Be persitant.

The Sesquiquadrate

The aspect in a degree of 135 with an orb allowance of 2-3. This is about holding the self accountable for our actions and problems,  to not ignore them. It’s about inner control and to accept aid. The energies of the Sesquiquadrate are subtle, sometimes not noticed by the native. Usually it’s when we want to break free of negativity/a problem but know for a better that we are bound to something holding us back, hence losing our courage. It offers creativity, since this aspect is usually easier mastered by strong positive aspects in the natal chart, that strengthen your decisions and actions. If this challenging aspect is noticed, the feelings of being unable to do anything leads easily to ignoring the problem. Now, this is the point, that’ll potentially make it bigger emotional baggage than it has been before. There is a desire to act and it involves the self, to combine to sides inside of you, to stimulate two sides that have strong expectations. To break boundaries by combining them. Key message behind the Sesquiquadrate: Reflect on the self and acknowledge your flaws and problems. Be active about them, don’t pile emotional baggage up. Be open for guidance and be open to think constructively. Seek out outer guidance/help/opinions, it’s not a shame, at best they will only heighten your intuiton. Embrace oppositions.

*Take what resonates these are some keywords and quotes This aspect could manifest”

Uranus in 7th house

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* Creative style

* Falling in love at first sight

* Intuitive in choosing partners

* Desiring freeing relationships

* Unconventional partners

* “Let’s be weird together”

* Online dating

* Long distance relationships

* Exciting relationships

* Unconventional weddings

* self-uniting marriages

* Marrying your best friend

* Speaking your mind

* Misunderstood in the surface

* Scientist partners

* Blind dates

* Unexpected marriages

* Dating younger/older

* Learning to commit without losing sense of freedom

* Feeling comfortable being single

* Genius mediators

* Fighting injustice

* Friendly lawyers

* Open marriages

* None rigidity

* Progressive in relationships

* Finding enlightenment with others

* Liberating oneself from unwanted partners

* Partnerships that change the world

* Dating foreigners

* Multiple marriages

* Talent in fashion

* High school sweethearts

* problematic relationships

* Unconventional preferences in partners

* Sudden trapped feeling after committing

* Different perspective on people

* Mastering being decisive

“She doesn’t care to look pretty, so people can’t help but feel attracted to her.”

“Marriage is a gamble, let's be honest.” - yoko

*Take what resonates these are some observations keywords and quotes This aspect could manifest*

Uranus in 8th house

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* Unexpected transformative experiences

* Sexual openness

* Fetishes/kinks

* Unconventional sexual experiences

* Unlinked ancestry

* Desire for constant rebirths

* Secret societies

* Friends with benefits

* Orgies

* Unexpected deaths

* Using powers of the universe

* Manifestation power

* Dark web

* Deep Researchers

* Innate curiosity

* Addressing unspoken issues

* Desire for anything disregarded

* accepting the ones who are unaccepted

* Using cunning skill for the greater good

* Emotional experiences through groups/friends

* Conspiracy theorists

* Interest in taboos

* Desire for social change

* Transformative friendships

* Seeing meaning in everything

* Alluring aura

* sex symbols

* Learning to open up

* Interest in occult

* Gifted psychologists

* Psychic powers

* gifted astrologers

* knowing where everyone is coming from

* Revolutionary psychology

* Science behind reincarnation

* Universal mysteries

* Pushing boundaries of what’s accepted

* Risks on impulse

* Unexpected inheritances

* Stock markets

* Astronomers

* Astrobiology

* obstetricians (birth doctors)

* genital reassignment surgery

* Ufologists

* Sex with E.Ts

* Alien abductions

* Artificial wombs

“Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.” - Marilyn Monroe

“I have to re-create the universe every morning when I wake up and kill it in the evening, which is a bit outrageous, but there you go.” - bjork

*Take what resonates this is just how I see these transits*

Neptune in 2nd house

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* Generous and giving

* Empathic towards the unfortunate

* “Dream to prosper”

* “I am truly abundant no matter what”

* None material attachment philosophy

* Gaining self worth and believing in oneself will make you abundant

* Law of attraction

* “I don’t need money”

* “The universe will take care of me

* Grounding meditation

* Money comes from mysterious sources.

*Please take what resonates these are some keywords and a quote This aspect could manifest as*

Uranus in 12th house

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* Creating a safe space to retreat

* Freedom in isolation

* Expression most comes when alone

* Seeing things most can’t

* Spiritual awakenings

* Creative inspiration bursts

* Finding courage to express the self freely

* Learning to not live for anyone’s expectations

* Secret government technologies

* Genius breakthroughs happening behind curtains

* Erratic dreams

* Sensitivity to energy

* Paying attention to who your around

* Interest in mysteries of life

* Helping the collective

* Sensitive to other’s pain

* Empathy towards living beings and the earth

* Preforming arts

* Extreme psychic visions

* Future predictions

* Alien past lives

* Peace advocates

* Psychic development

* Retreat meditations

* Awareness of the divine and energy

* Group meditations

* A weird imagination

* Extreme imagination

* Inspiration in dreams

* Gifts in lucid dreaming or out of body experiences

* Premonition dreams

* A messenger of change

* Inner knowing of the meaning of universal mysteries

* Holistic healing

* Unconventional ways to connect with the divine

* Unpopular beliefs

* Alternative ways in seeing the world

* Optimistic outlook

* Free flowing thoughts

* Helping others with psychic powers

* True selflessness

* Allowing a limitless free mind is essential

* Finding an outlet

* Free spirited

* natural unique charm

* Spiritually focused groups

* liberation in the arts or music

* Gifted astrologers and artists

* Fascination with the occult

* redefining imagination

* Space sciences

* Ocean sciences

* Astrologers

* Doctors and nurses

* Medical sciences

* forward thinking artists

* escaping inner jail or literal

* Dancing your way to freedom

“The purpose of the heart is to know yourself, to be yourself, and yet one with God.” - edger cayce

*Take what resonates these are some keywords and quotes that this aspect could mean for you*

Jupiter in 4th house

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* Peace in finding meaning in life

* Life morals implemented in childhood

* Family Hollidays

* Religious or spiritually hearted

* Multiracial/mixed culture heritage

* Valuing family and loved ones

* Dreaming of a perfect home

* Abundant sense of home

* Rich ancestry

* Fun and pleasant childhood memories

* Openness to foreign Influence

* Enthusiastic and supportive family figures

* Sense of belonging in academics and education

* Big hearted and proud families

* Desire to welcome and nurture everyone

* Feeling Closeness to faith and divinity

* The Sharing of family morals

* Intuitive career risks

* Finding home somewhere else

* Personal Philosophies intended for inner peace

* Innate optimism

* A message of inner peace

* Seeing purpose in relationships

* Freeing oneself from past outdated relationships

* Mother figure influencing moral or belief systems

* Motherly teachers

* Diverse lifestyles

* Comfort in freedom of will and thought

* Over the top mother figures

* Royal families

* Loyal to loved ones

* Need of freedom at home

* Peace and wisdom with age

* Masters with emotions

* Trusted to advise

* Emotional growth

* Heart focused

* Safety and coziness first

* Learning from past memories

* Faith in intuition

* Creating a space to process

* Feeling comfort around diversity

* godmothers and godfathers

* Feminist advocacy

* Religious leaders

* experiencing childhood in one’s own mind world

* idealizing domestic life

* Reputation of wisdom

“Blessed are the hearts that can bend; they shall never be broken” Albert Camus

*Take what resonates these are some keywords and quotes that this aspect could mean for you*

Jupiter in 2nd house

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* optimistic outlook on material world

* Practicing gratitude

* Valuing spirituality

* Spending money on travel

* Tuition fees

* Soft spoken

* Masters of business

* Teaching about finances

* Prioritizing peace and wisdom

* Expanding self worth

* Generosity with partners

* Learning to balance indulgence

* Overspending

* Philanthropic values

* Attachments to personal beliefs or ideas

* Materializing ideals

* Strong moral principles

* Importance in improving

* Valuing making the world a better place

* Learning that sharing should always be from a place of generosity

* Philosophies on self esteem

* Self esteem connected to beliefs and philosophies

* Flowing Spirited attitude on finances

* Praying for stability

* Entrepreneurship

* Seeing all the ways money can be made

* Adapting to instability

* Income in speaking/writing

* Preaching about the material and self worth

* Finding peace in traveling or learning

* Innate patience

* Idealism in matters of income or stability

* Faith that the universe/divine will always provide

* Nature immersion bringing peace

* passion for leisure

* Spiritual focus

* Sharing self esteem journey

* Finding beauty in Extravagance

* Financially wealthy partners

* Appreciating life’s pleasures

* Comfort first in traveling

* Beauty bloggers

* Venture planners

* Wedding planners

* Priests

* Farming

*Take what resonates these are some keywords and quotes This aspect could manifest as*

Uranus in 11th house

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* Finding freedom in friends or being apart of something

* Organizations with a goal for revolution

* Online friendships or community

* Space camps

* Befriending the disregarded

* Making people feel welcomed no matter the differences

* Non-judgemental friends

* Not compromising ideals for others

* Detached approach to one’s friendships

* Craving to help and free others

* Hopes to disrupt and change

* Effortless befriending and charm

* Inner knowing of goals and ideals

* Attraction to the unconventional side of people

* associates that introduce something different or awaken

* Joining groups that rebel

* Witch covens

* Rebellion in political or world ideologies

* Theories about politics

* Feeling unlinked with society

* Controversial groups

* Humanitarian ideals

* Telepathic gifts

* Extreme independence

* Sharing inventive ideas with society

* Leading groups

* Natural leaders

* Embracing change

* Social Activists

* Volunteers

* Seeing what humanity needs

* Misunderstood by society at first

* Faith in humanity

* Wrapping the mind with solving complex social issues

* Coming off aloof

* prioritizing individuality

* Learning that not everyone has to think your way

* Creating the utopian world

* None conformity to ideology

* Constant evolvement

* Interest in future technologies

* Visions of extraterrestrial civilizations

* Starseeds

* Sci fi ideals

* Astronauts

* Engineering

* Architecture

* Inventors

* Scientists

* Politicians

“Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your inner voice” - Steve Jobs

Uranus in the houses

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my personal philosophy on astrology

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My perspective on astrology has changed constantly and I felt called for a new way to seeing this beautiful ancient science. And since I do astrology posts I wanted to share it here. My personal Philosophy on astrology would be that these points/planets etc and signs are only messengers of our fate and path, astrology is a great tool to have an idea of what could happen in our future and in our lifetime, a sense of comfort for most of us humans. We were gifted enough to notice these messages and to give them names and a deep understanding for it. for example...Uranus didn’t trigger these sudden changes in your life, it happened because it’s apart of your divine path and Uranus is just a messenger of that. In conclusion astrology is only a way and a tool to see these complex aspects of life and humans, to make sense of them and to see purpose in their existence, it does not control us or make us do things it only helps us understand these mysterious phenomenas of our divine path. always take it or leave it 🤍🤍