I just know that the dudes who make those "girls get 500 compliments a day vs. guy gets one compliment once and cherishes it for the rest of his life" memes put zero effort into their appearance. Like what exactly do you expect people to say? Wow nice plain ill-fitting hoodie, goes great with your basic-ass blue jeans and nondescript haircut. Got some real cool Grey Man vibes going on, you could seamlessly blend into any crowd ever without being seen at all.
Like nobody has any obligation to look any certain way, but you can't expect to be praised for doing something you're not even trying to do. I dress like I got tarred and feathered in a Tim Burton film costume department discard scrap pile, and someone saying they like my style is a biweekly occurrence.
shifting shouldn’t feel like a chore. a requirement. it’s just a thing, it’s not going anywhere and will never go anywhere. stop stressing yourself and take a break.
"Can I shift to-"
Yes. There are infinite possibilities. There's no such thing as impossible. 🩷
c.s, المزهريات ──── pág. 2.
͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏͏𝖻𝗋𝗂𝗌𝖺 ⠀“ 𖠁 ” ⠀𝖺𝗇𝗀𝖾𝗅𝗂𝖼𝖺𝗅 ⠀ ·⠀ 𝗆𝖺𝗋𝖾𝖺𝗌.
͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ {...}⠀⠀𝖿𝗈𝗋𝖾𝗌𝗍⠀⠀✿,⠀⠀፧⠀⠀ט.⠀⠀𝟣𝟪𝟧𝟨
͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏𝖺𝗎𝗋𝗈𝗋𝖺𝗌 𝖺𝗇𝖽 詩人、 𝗌𝖺𝖽 𖤓 𝗉𝗋𝗈𝗌𝖾.
c.s, المزهريات ──── pág. 3.
The most powerful affirmation you can use while shifting is I allow myself to shift, no matter how many doubts you have, you let go in that moment and just allow yourself.
i just remembered that i can script that all fruits are always in season and im so happy
i go to bars and coffee shops and breweries and libraries and thrift stores all the time by myself and i have a chill banger time i love my own company. so why is the grocery store a warzone. im fighting for my life. barely make it out alive. if someone even looks at me i want to blow them up with my mind
Growing, glowing up 💛