Affirmations For Heartbreakers, Vixens, And Merciless Temptresses

💟💕 MY SIGNATURE LOOK 101

⋆ ˚｡⋆୨୧˚ how to get the prissy grl look

hair:

i’m a natural bouncy curl girl. depending on the weather and my time, there’s a good chance I’m wearing my hair in it’s curly state

୨୧ with just a bit of leave in conditioner and and oil on my scalp.

although I love the ease and the natural beauty of my curls, I prefer my hair straightened.

୨୧ I feel I look more mature and sleek that way. it’s also very hot opposed to the sweet soft and innocent look i think my natural hair gives. and oddly, it’s less maintenance but gives the illusion of being higher maintenance.

I used to love my hair bone straight, with my curtain bangs and a part down the middle. but lately my style has been shifting towards bombshell curls on straightened hair with a flipped bang and side part. my hair is pretty long (about an inch past my bra hook) so that gives me room for versatility which I love so I’ll switch it up every now and then

୨୧ my fav styles include: half up half down style (fave omg) or flexi rod set creating loose beach waves on my hair, loose messy bun

fashion:

bougie girl 101!!! is my closet!!

color palette: black, white, gray, pinks (typically soft), lavender and browns/nudes. it enforces my ethereal, hyper girly brand. the color I wear most often has to be BLACK. i swear it is the sexiest color to exist and it makes me look amazing and feel even better.

୨୧ i love one piece bodysuits, again, so sexy on me.

loungewear is very special to me. it takes up more than half of my wardrobe overall. and if styled correctly, it can be worn out

୨୧ one of my fav things to do is finish my head to toe routine and throw on a pair of my victoria’s secret slippers, comfy matching lingerie and a matching lounge set.

i also have MANY fuzzy/faux fur pieces in my collection. these including bags, shoes, tops, etc.

rhinestones are a staple in my closet. i have so many tops that have sassy sayings in rhinestones. one of my favs being my “high maintenance” rhinestones tank top.

animal prints are my SIGNATURE more specifically leopard print; i am a true cheetah girl. i have everything from purses, head accessories, tops, notebooks, etc in cheetah print

୨୧ my fav features to show off: my legs, feet, and collarbone

i go out of my way to avoid: neon colors, biker shorts, tacky one pieces, clothes that do nothing for my silhouette, big bulky accessories

୨୧ some more elements i enjoy: thin dainty chain detailing, velour, small heart details, satin, tartan, saffiano, charms

୨୧ some current favs include: hunter boots, vs pink loungewear sets, pink uggs, clear pumps

makeup:

perfect. i love to look perfect. never too done looking because i hate the cakey, obvious look. i love the soft glam, fresh face routine i use.

i shape my brows by adding short little hairs to my tail going upward on the arch part. i like my brows nice and thin with that meagan good arch. i like them lighter in the front and darker and sharp on the end. i ofc finish my brows off with foundation and a concealer brush.

then i buff a radiant concealer on my eyelids and blend that with the concealer or foundation i used around my brows.

i prime my face with maybelline poreless primer for that soft and blurry skin look.

୨୧ final touches: inner corner highlight, arch highlight, and nose bridge highlight + smooth and bright undereye

୨୧ big soft pretty pink kissable lips!! *or nude*

bronzed and blushed cheeks *come to think of it i only really contour my nose now, i use bronzer everywhere else*

୨୧ current favs: nars powder blushes, kiss false lashes, buxom glosses, mac lipstick, legit lashes mascara, makeup forever pressed powder

nails:

୨୧ i literally never wear anything but pink, white or a creamy pinky nude, and yes this includes french tips

i do my own feet, i just don’t trust salons to really get my feet as perfect as possible. they always cut my nails too short or give a WEAK exfoliation. no. i’d rather do it myself.

i don’t believe in white toe supremacy when my hands are another color. i like my nails to match. if my fingers are frenched out so are my toes. but my go to color that i’m wearing most of the time is ‘it’s a girl’ by opi and a matching gel for my hands.

accessories:

hoops r my signature acc. i’m literally recognizable to ppl who don’t even know my name. their the simplest feminine addition to my looks.

either that or diamond studs. i have a pair of heart shaped studs i love.

speaking of hearts i love heart shaped charms on necklaces purses and bracelets

honestly anything dainty and pink i’m rocking!!

୨୧ my fav jewelry atm: my signature studded hoops, my juicy charm bracelet, my hello kitty necklaces, my hello kitty faceplate ring, my tiffany heart choker

୨୧ satchels and small totes!!!

୨୧ glitter phone cases

୨୧ vs wristlet straps

another signature of mine are my fluffy pens i made myself. i keep one on me and only write with my own pens in public.

i try my hardest to match my metals to my looks, cool tones, white gold. warm tones, yellow gold. neutral, sterling silver. i never mix metals. if my bag has yellow gold detailing so do my jewelry for that look.

୨୧ my fav bags atm: my rose ballerine damier azur neverfull, my pink and black ted baker arycon bags, my louis vuitton alma, my striped vs tote bag, my medium bubblegum telfar

law of assumption: a basic guide

so you’ve probably heard of the terms “manifestation” or “law of attraction,” and maybe you became curious and decided to learn about what this means. or maybe this is your first time hearing these terms and want to learn more about it!

if you’re the first one, i want you to FORGET everything that you know about the “law of attraction” and any manifestation techniques you learned. if you’re the latter, i will explain what these terms mean...

( in this context), manifestation is the act of “attracting” specific circumstances, events, people, material objects and even physical/mental aspects about yourself.

the law of attraction (LOA) is the principle/ideology that “like attracts like.” what you put out into the universe (i.e vibrations, energy etc.), is what you will attract back to yourself.

so now that i’ve explained these terms, i’ll now explain why the law of attraction is incredibly faulty. while the inherent principle of the LOA is mostly true, how to actually manifest using the LOA isn’t as straightforward. most LOA teachers will teach their students a BUNCH of techniques on how to “raise their vibrations” or “align themselves with the universe.” they will say that scripting, visualizing, drinking water etc. is what will give them their manifestations. but that is NOT true at all !! you do not need any of those things to manifest. all you need is…

your thoughts

...ok so what does that mean?

what is the law of assumption?

the law of assumption (in the most basic terms) states that “your thoughts and assumptions create your reality.” what you assume to be true, is what will be reflected onto your outer reality (aka the 3D).

to understand this concept, you MUST understand that you are constantly manifesting, whether you are intentionally doing so or not. before you learned about manifestation, you were STILL manifesting!! think about it: you didn’t have to script or visualize to manifest failing a test or your SP not liking you. it just manifested unintentionally because you weren’t conscious of your thoughts!! with the law of assumption, you are consciously making the effort to manifest what YOU want, instead of leaving everything on “auto-pilot.”

you also must understand that you can manifest ANYTHING YOU WANT. anything. you want a million dollars? done. you want to marry your celebrity crush? done. nothing is impossible, at ALL!! you are the creator of your reality. you call the shots, no one else!

the reason why LOA teachers claim that their techniques absolutely work is because...they do work! but why do they work? because they ASSUME that they work. they are literally using the law of assumption while practicing those law of attraction techniques. they assume that scripting, visualizing, 369 method etc. is what gives them results and therefore it gives them results. however, you do not need to do ANYTHING whatsoever to manifest. you only need two things: your assumptions and persistence.

how to create an assumption

so what even is an assumption? the definition of the word assumption is: “a thing that is accepted as true or as certain to happen, without proof.”

we all have assumptions about something. whether it be about people or circumstances, we all have an idea about these things that we have accepted to be true, and often without proof. according to the law of assumption, what you assume to be true is what you will manifest. if you assume that you’re always broke then you’ll always be broke. if you assume that your crush never wants to be around you, then they will never want to be around you.

so the best way to manifest your desires is to CHANGE your assumption about your desires. that’s it.

example: let’s say that i want to date a certain guy. however, my current assumption about this guy is “he is not my boyfriend, he's not interested in me .” therefore, this guy is carrying out my assumption and is not interested in me at all. however, if i wanted to manifest him being my boyfriend, i would change my assumption from “he is not my boyfriend” to “we’re in a relationship together” or “he’s completely in love with me.” etc.

these short statements are known as affirmations. by repeating these affirmations consistently, you will change your assumption about your desire. and once you change your inner assumption about your desire, the 3D (outer reality) will reflect your assumption back to you. you also don’t have to believe these affirmations. as long as you keep affirming them they will still work. you may also be wondering: “how often should i affirm for my desire?” personally i would recommend every time you think about your desire, but some people like to affirm 24/7. the amount of times you affirm doesn't really matter, if you assume that a certain amount works for you then it will work for you!

however there’s another very important component in the law of assumption...

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persistence: why is this important and how do we do this?

the whole point of repeating affirmations is to change your inner assumptions and beliefs about your desire. you want to get into the state of KNOWING that you already have your desires even if you don’t see your desire in the 3D. this is the key!!

example: let’s say i want my bf to text me more. so i decide to affirm “he texts me constantly.” however, in the 3D, i see that he didn’t text me. well instead of going back to the old story of, “he never texts me” i just ignore it and keep affirming “he texts me constantly” REGARDLESS of what i’m seeing in the 3D. cause guess what: it’s not real at ALL. your outer reality is just a collection of your old thoughts, beliefs, and assumptions. therefore by not reacting to it, you will manifest the change that you want. also, whenever i’m reminded of my desire for him texting me, i will affirm “he texts me constantly, he gives me all of his attention etc.”

now whenever you affirm, the most important thing to remember is to NOT let your thoughts slip back into its old pattern of thinking, even if you see that you don’t have your desire in the 3D. this is because the 3D reality is just a collection of your previous thoughts, beliefs, and assumptions. when you react to the 3D, you’re just reaffirming your undesirable assumptions. therefore, instead of getting discouraged and upset that you “don’t have your desire yet,” JUST KEEP AFFIRMING AND PERSISTING!! the 3D will conform to your new assumptions but only if you keep persisting in them. you must remember that you already have your desires the second you want them. the 3D literally has NO choice but to conform and reflect those desires. it’s literally the law!!

to summarize...

your thoughts and assumptions manifest

you can manifest anything

affirm as if you already have your desires, (because you do)!

your 3D is only a collection of old assumptions, an illusion. so don’t react to it as if it's the truth.

ℍ𝕠𝕨 𝕔𝕒𝕟 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕓𝕖 𝕞𝕠𝕣𝕖 𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕠𝕥𝕚𝕔?

All the pictures are from Pinterest. If you like this post, do reblog.

Thank you.

𝕻𝖎𝖑𝖊 1

By loving yourself more. Show the love you feel for people around you. You might keep everyone at a distance. Close but not close enough. Start showing your soft side more. Let more people into your life. Don't judge or assess every tiny little thing to see if someone might hurt you.

Take care of your mind. You might have too many negative thoughts that you end up agreeing with. You can tackle them one by one. If you won't let anyone else talk shit about you, then why are you doing it yourself? Create something. Declutter your mind, sit in a quiet space, put on some music and do whatever you want.

Accept every part of yourself; even if you think that it's ugly. Your body need more gentle love AND nutrients. You have a strong energy. Acknowledge how strong you are and how far you have come.

𝕻𝖎𝖑𝖊 2

By being unapologetically yourself. By being confident and loving yourself. Be more assertive, don't let anyone walk over you. Be the living version of "Fire in my veins". Dress the way you want. For this group, there's something you want to do. You are not letting yourself do it. For some the reason can be the judgemental people around them.

You have a lot of potential, you are holding yourself back from achieving it. It can be due to fear. Although I am seeing confidence in this pile. It's a mixture of confidence "I am awesome, obviously everyone will talk about me" and "Shit what are they saying? Is it bad? Are they laughing? "

A quote I saw years ago might help. Something like "People who matter to me, don't judge me. And people who judge me, don't matter to me."

You have fire in your veins. Let me be free and see the things you achieve. You just have to realise your power.

𝕻𝖎𝖑𝖊 3

You have to accept yourself. There are parts of you that you are ignoring. You will have to go through a journey and look into your soul. A lot of the people in this pile might think that they are weak. That there's something that you are missing and without it can't be strong. Or just your idea of an ideal you.

It feels like you have an immense power, but you are scared to touch it. Some are not acknowledging it and some are ignoring it all together. You will have to face your truth/shadows, and that might be what's scaring you. You can become your ideal version, you will just have to realise that you are powerful. Some people here are victimizing themself and that can be what's causing it. A very small portion, is people pleasing. Or it can just be pleasing your ego, telling yourself lies.

I haven't done one pile, but this one feels like the most powerful out of the three.

pdfs of all of neville's books

Neville references Christianity and the Bible a lot in some of his works, but even if you aren't Christian or religious at all there's still a lot you could learn from his more Bible-themed works!

I recommend starting with The Law and the Promise, it's the first Neville book I read and it's still my favorite.

At Your Command (1939)

Your Faith is Your Fortune (1941)

Freedom For All (1942)

Feeling Is the Secret (1944)

Prayer, the Art of Believing (1946)

Out of This World (1949)

The Creative Use of Imagination (1952)

The Power of Awareness (1952)

Awakened Imagination (1954)

Seedtime and Harvest (1956) (also here)

The Law and the Promise (1961) (also here and here)

we’ve all been in this situation for different reasons, anxiety, procrastination, work, way too many assignments in a week. but fear not my friends, hopefully, this masterpost will help you get A’s and organize your study schedule.

also please don’t do this every time you need to study for a test, cramming is not good for learning and pulling all-nighters frequently isn’t healthy.

study tips

cramming

how to cram for a big test by @studyign how to cram efficiently by @study-studymore-studyhard test and cramming tips how to cram the night before a test and pass 10 ways to cram successfully 

all-nighters (the last resort) 

how to pull an all-nighter and pass your exam  all-nighter survival tips by @rookiemag how to pull and effective all-nighter stay all night without feeling sleepy: pt1 / pt2  expert-approved guide to pulling an all-nighter pull the most efficient all-nighter how to pull an all-nighter how to pull and all-nighter : from the special forces do’s and don’ts of pulling an all-nighter

really do them if it’s absolutely necessary:

is it bad for you to pull and all-nighter why you should never pull and all-nighter

the night before the exam

study the night before  by @renaissence study the day before by @getstudyblr night owl study tips by @lawjournalsandwine  the night before the exam by @studyspoinspo how to study the night before a test the night before the exam tips top tips for the night before and the morning of the exam how to pass an exam if you forgot to study the night before study the day before the exam 10 things you should do the night before a test 7 mistakes you make on the night before an exam you’ll never make again

i have less than a week to study

five day study plan by @brandi-studies  how to study for an upcoming exam by @noteblr how to remember everything for a test in 3 days by @getstudyblr when you have a test really soon study well in short time study for exams in limited time ace an exam that’s around the corner

tips

25 study tips by @studyign  how to study more efficiently fastest way to memorize by @studyign common study mistakes by @studyign tips on study last minute by @milkystudies how to get things done by @lattenotlate   study smart not hard 10 tips to study smart and save time useful tips to study in short time how to study for an exam effectively prepare for a exam in a really short time study for an approaching exam the secrets to study effectively in short time nice time management advice how to study in groups how to stay focused by @elkstudies finals week masterpost 22 science based tips to study for an exam 20 study hacks to imporve your memory

exam tips

tips for during the exam

15 tips to boost your exam performance

how to answer exam questions

7 last-minute exam tips

28 top tips for exams and tests

top 10 tips for taking exams

last minute revision tips

exam prep

how to mentally prepare for a test by @eruditicn

anti procrastination masterpost by @elkstudies

beat anxiety and stress in 1 hour and start studying!

how to stop procrastination

deal with exam anxiety by @attackonstudying

scientifically the best ways to prepare for an exam

motivation

how to get motivated

my motivation tag

more masterposts

app masterpost

DIY masterpost

food masterpost

how to: group work

printable masterpost

language masterpost

music masterpost

my study methods masterpost

Kaeda Challenge

Hello, so I'm back with another challenge *jazz hands*

깨우다 (Kaeda/Kkaeuda) in korean means wake up, and I thought it would suit this challenge, as it's a wake up call for all of you, and you'll be waking up with all your desires

This is a void free challenge❗

Also, thank you so much for everyone who made these amazing posts, I had to add them here because they helped me, and so many others understand

Steps

So basically, here's what you are going to do, or basically what this challenge consists of

Make a list of what you'll manifest, preferably on tumblr posted so you're held accountable (tag me so I can see it)

Don't change the list

Live in the end

Persist

Vaunt for your desires as soon as you wake up, and before you sleep

SATS — before you sleep, imagine yourself waking up with all your desires (Optional: you can listen to this or this while doing this step, and loop it overnight if you'd like)

You can also keep a mini journal, or script online on notepad of how your day went, in the perspective of someone who has their desires (For example, if I wanted to move to Los Angeles, I'd write about my day in the city, and write about places I went, in Los Angeles. It doesn't have to be big, it can even be going to the supermarket or school)

Let go, knowing all your desires are yours and that the 3D will conform no matter what

What did I manifest with this?

I manifested my dream life this way, and this is basically my day to day manifestation routine! I did this for maybe 3 to 4 days, and then woke up with a lot of my problems being solved, and living in a different apartment away from my parents and changing schools to a nicer one

And that's basically it! Do tag me, and share your success stories <33

How to have a breakthrough & commit to identity shifting

There are three parts of a breakthrough. Usually, people go through these steps backwards, so it doesn't last.

Step 3: Strategy

the 'how'

simple is sexy

but willpower alone isn't enough, so we must look at step 2

Step 2: Story

the 'why'

what you believe to be true about life

what you tell yourself over and over again

let go of limiting beliefs

change your story to an empowering story

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Shifting your story exercise

Step 1: Our State

emotional, energetic, psychological state

energy is everything

good energy is a habit. you can choose your thoughts like you choose your lipstick

bad, stagnant energy leads to bad, stagnant decisions

what are you focusing on?

focus = feeling

pick good feeling thoughts. focus on your compelling future.

it happens over days, weeks, months

Become aware of your thoughts

becoming aware of your thoughts is half the battle

train your mindset like a muscle

"hey that was a thought that didn't make me feel good. Now I know what I don't want and I have more clarity on what I do want. So now I'm going to think more of what I do want and less of what I don't"

this thought makes me feel better so I'm going to think this way

creating new neurological pathways

your mind doesn't know the difference between reality and imagination

It's about identity shifting

don't try to just quit candy. believe you are someone who doesn't eat candy.

choose what is on brand for you / part of your new identity

____________

what was your old story?

what was your old identity?

what were your old beliefs and limiting beliefs?

what is your NEW identity?

what are your NEW beliefs?

those limiting beliefs were subjective, not true, based on experience not fact

_____________

Meditate, take out a notebook, and

𝒜𝓈𝓀 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝒾𝓇𝑒𝒹 𝓋𝑒𝓇𝓈𝒾𝑜𝓃 𝑜𝒻 𝓎𝑜𝓊𝓇𝓈𝑒𝓁𝒻

♡ what did you do to get there?

♡ What are you currently doing?

♡ What are you feeling?

♡ What are you thinking?

♡ What state are you in every day?

♡ What are your beliefs?

♡ What are your habits?

♡ Why does that work?

✧･ﾟ:* ~♡

Happiness

happiness does not come from the destination

progress is what makes us happy

becoming the person we have always wanted to be

changing for the better

At home spa day

Beforehand:

Declutter your space

Light scented candles

Put on a playlist/podcast/audiobook

Pour yourself a drink

Make sure you have all materials within reach

Feet:

Remove old nail polish

Soak feet in a foot bath prepared with salts

Exfoliate & remove death skin

Cut nails

File nails

Take out gunk between nail & skin

Cut cuticles if needed + push them back

Apply a new coat of nail polish

Apply cuticle oil and foot cream

Hands:

Remove old nail polish

File nails in desired shape and length

Apply cutticle remover and push back/cut any cuticles

Buff nails

Apply a new coat of nail polish

Apply cuticle oil and hand cream

Hair:

Latter your hair in a hair oil/mask

Double rinse with first a cleansing and then nourishing shampoo

Apply conditioner to only the ends and rinse

Dry as needed for your hair type

Body:

If you wax, dry exfoliate

Apply baby powder to desired areas

Wax desired areas

If you shave, exfoliate in shower

Shave desired areas

Use body scrub over entire body

Lather yourself in nice smelling soap

Apply anti hair growth serum

Moisturise

Face:

Remove makeup

Cleanse thoroughly

Steam your face

Exfoliate

Pluck/wax eyebrows and any other facial hair

Apply face mask

Rinse

Massage face

Tone

Add serum and any other product needed for your specific skin type/condition

Moisturise

how to live your life like the BRATZ ♡

self love & confidence!!

living life everyday with self-respect and self love will take you such a far way in all aspects of life, and will make your life more enjoyable and easy. make sure you take the time out of your day to remind yourself just how amazing and capable you are. be your own best friend. understand that what you focus on grows.

self care !!

you deserve to be treated with the upmost care. schedule times to pamper yourself and also check in with yourself.

taking care of your mind and body goes hand and hand.

for caring for your mind:

meditate, journal your thoughts down, do some yoga, connect to your religion/spirituality if you follow one, make affirmations for yourself that cater to your needs, practice gratitude.

for caring for your body:

create your own spa! indulge in a bubble bath or relaxing shower where you can use yummy scented body washes/soaps/exfoliators and body conditioners, do a hair mask, give yourself a manicure and pedicure, do your eyebrows, have a set skincare routine that is catered personally to your skin problems/goals, give yourself a head massage, wear matching or yummy scented lotions and perfumes, work out, try new delicious recipes and make sure you are eating good for your body.

hobbies !!

all of the girls had their own hobbies they were into! explore new hobbies or start the ones you’ve always been wanting to do but have been putting off! not only are they fun but they enhance your life! you get to learn more about yourself and find out possible hidden talents or grow new ones, you meet new people and make new friends too whether it’s you doing the actual hobby or running across someone who enjoys the same things that you do! some hobbies to consider:

any dance class: ballet, hip-hop, k-pop etc.

photography

any sport: tennis, ice skating, golfing, etc.

gardening

reading & writing

camping

crafting

blogging

cooking & baking

school and personal goals !!

one thing i love about the bratz is that they took their education seriously and helped each other whenever one of them needed the help. nothing is more fabulous than being educated and ambitious. you can do anything you put your mind to. 

create a study schedule for yourself and limit your distractions, when it’s time to study put your phone away and remove anything that you know will serve as a distraction to you, give yourself breaks from here and there too!

create a vision board! cut and paste pictures of things you want for your future onto a poster board or be creative and draw and color everything out! this is a great reminder everyday for yourself if you put it somewhere you’ll be able to see whenever you wake up or a spot in your room that you’re always looking at for example. (what you focus on grows!)

jot down all the things you want to do or improve on, whether thats creating good habits for yourself, learning a new language, etc.

have a passion for fashion !!

would this be a how to live your life like the BRATZ without it? explore and find your own fashion sense! find out what colors and patterns make you happy, express yourself through your clothing, shop until you drop and have fun!!

lovilyy’s archive.

living in the end completely.

the core of the law.

unpopular loa opinions. facts

shifting and manifesting explained.

what is inspired action ?

self concept is important period.

confidence is the key to life.

you desire yourself.

self concept.

i bestow on to you wisdom/j.