BECOMING THE EMBODIMENT OF EVERYTHING YOU DESIRE

Why I’m literally an icon: how to make everyone fall in love with you

Similarly to my thread about how to make the world your oyster, you can make anyone you want fall in love with you. This stems from the most important part of the law of attraction/assumption: self concept.

Neville Goddard-pioneer of manifesting-says There is no one to change but self; that self is simply your awareness, your consciousness and the world in which it lives is determined by the concept you hold of self. It is to consciousness that we must turn as to the only reality.

This is the key to manifesting! Changing your self concept aka the way you see yourself is the key to getting everything you want. Your self concept is you in relations to the outer world. Change it and your entire world changes!

What can self concept do you for you? It can get you to manifestations quicker, make you beautiful, have people pay attention to you and pretty much automatically manifest anything for you. Once you switch your self concept to wealth, you’ll automatically manifest money. Once you see yourself as beautiful, you’ll be seen and become beautiful. It can also make people call in love with you(hence the thread name)

Ever met anyone who was just effortlessly cool, sweet and loveable? That can be you! But how can I achieve this? Self concept affirmations!

Repeat these every time you think of yourself, every free second you have or any time you might have negative thoughts about yourself. Be sure to engage in positive self talk and have a clean mental diet as well!

Here’s my favorite self concept affirmations! If you don’t see anything you’d like just affirm in present tense that you have and are what you want to be! You can even become like your favorite celebrities by affirming I’m like xyz!

Thank you for reading! Stay iconic.

maybe YOU need to change...

[an loa rant, ⚠️blunt, honest not sugarcoating !!]

i usually try to be nicer BUT i just needed to put this out there.

i love answering asks and helping everyone. i love hearing when people get success. but sometimes i get the same asks over and over again and I'm repeating myself over and over again. and then i see a lot of bloggers getting the same ask. honestly, this is the law of assumption. it's nothing more than assumptions creates reality.

baby, if u feel tired, take a break. practice self care and pamper urself. if ur gonna constantly scroll on tumblr or whatever, then that's on u. if ur donna decide to overconsume instead of apply, instead of deciding that your desires are already yours, well i can't do anything about that. only you can change yourself. only u can change ur reality. nobody else can manifest for u. only if you change yourself first, you 3d will change. it's the law. aint nothing can be done about that. either apply and get ur desires or do nothing and get nothing.

and literally manifesting should take no effort. it's just thinking and accepting and knowing that it's already happened. if ur too lazy to even do that, then what are you gonna do? u didn't even need to move a finger to do this and yet you decide it's too much "work" for you? you keep copy and pasting the same ask to 9999 bloggers and that aint enough for you? you keep asking for "motivation" when you wouldn't even put in the work? and this "work" you refuse to put in doesn't even require lifting a damn finger? what?? i don't understand then. you gotta put in that "work" before you even feel motivated. trust me, you won't feel motivated until you get started and start applying and get towards ur goal. get off ur damn phone already. please. at least go outside and touch grass.

sweetie, you don't need to put ur life on hold either. literally give urself a break. let go of those non-existent "doubts." go take a walk, do some self care, spend time with friends and family. enjoy life while manifesting. if 3d circumstances are tough, be tougher. don't let it break you down. use ur imagination. take care of responsibilities in the 3d but persist in ur assumptions still. oh my god, what else is there that u need to know? please apply it alright.

i wrote this in this ask but i feel like i should put it in a separate post.

get off tumblr stop reading this info u already know what to do u don't need bloggers to give u advice or motivate u. u need to change and control urself. i keep getting the same asks again and again and i keep repeating the same thing over and over again. apply. accept and know it's done bc creation is finished. persist. be consistent. I'm so sorry if this sounds cold or blunt but i feel like I'm sugarcoating way too much when i answer asks so they never actually apply what i say. doesn't matter if there's motivation or not. u need to actually apply before u feel motivated.

DO NOT OVERCOMPLICATE MANIFESTATION.

As you know manifestation is easy and even more when you manifest consciously. So stop overcomplicating everything and let me be clear. Manifestation = thinking. When you have a thought and you start believing it, thats manifesting. At this point, is not even manifesting , its deciding. Some people interpret "manifesting" as wanting something and doing a lot of things to have it (affirming, methods, visualization, meditation, learning about loa, reading neville, following blog, ect) BUT NO . manifesting is just deciding you have what you want. And to decide that, you use the law ( mostly unconsciously). And to decide, what do you do? You unconsciously do it 24/7 with just 3 steps ;

1. Choose an assumption/thought.

2. get in that state / mindset of thinking (= align your thoughts to that assumption)

3. Persist no matter what.

Easy, right? SO STOP CONSUMING SO MUCH UNNECESSARY INFORMATION AN APLY THE LAW. DECIDE YOU HAVE YOUR DREAM LIFE. you can consume info, like me, BUT APLY IT!!!!!! If you learned something new, WHY AREN'T YOU APPLYING IT? ITS SO EASY.

Thats all, pls don't underestimate your power, thx! XOXO

Turning your life around? Coming out of a funk? Getting over a breakup? Need to reignite your spark for life? Need to feel in control? Want a boost of confidence? Dealing with low self esteem?

Where to start:

Exercise every day

Skincare + makeup of personal preference (yes this includes not wearing makeup at all if that is your personal preference)

Hair done

Showered and moisturized

At least one hobby you engage with on a daily/frequent basis

At least one skill you are developing on a daily/frequent basis

If you haven’t gotten a 7 day workout streak and completed the other bullet points on this list yet, stop moaning, get to work, and kill your distractions.

This is level 0.

💟💕 MY SIGNATURE LOOK 101

⋆ ˚｡⋆୨୧˚ how to get the prissy grl look

hair:

i’m a natural bouncy curl girl. depending on the weather and my time, there’s a good chance I’m wearing my hair in it’s curly state

୨୧ with just a bit of leave in conditioner and and oil on my scalp.

although I love the ease and the natural beauty of my curls, I prefer my hair straightened.

୨୧ I feel I look more mature and sleek that way. it’s also very hot opposed to the sweet soft and innocent look i think my natural hair gives. and oddly, it’s less maintenance but gives the illusion of being higher maintenance.

I used to love my hair bone straight, with my curtain bangs and a part down the middle. but lately my style has been shifting towards bombshell curls on straightened hair with a flipped bang and side part. my hair is pretty long (about an inch past my bra hook) so that gives me room for versatility which I love so I’ll switch it up every now and then

୨୧ my fav styles include: half up half down style (fave omg) or flexi rod set creating loose beach waves on my hair, loose messy bun

fashion:

bougie girl 101!!! is my closet!!

color palette: black, white, gray, pinks (typically soft), lavender and browns/nudes. it enforces my ethereal, hyper girly brand. the color I wear most often has to be BLACK. i swear it is the sexiest color to exist and it makes me look amazing and feel even better.

୨୧ i love one piece bodysuits, again, so sexy on me.

loungewear is very special to me. it takes up more than half of my wardrobe overall. and if styled correctly, it can be worn out

୨୧ one of my fav things to do is finish my head to toe routine and throw on a pair of my victoria’s secret slippers, comfy matching lingerie and a matching lounge set.

i also have MANY fuzzy/faux fur pieces in my collection. these including bags, shoes, tops, etc.

rhinestones are a staple in my closet. i have so many tops that have sassy sayings in rhinestones. one of my favs being my “high maintenance” rhinestones tank top.

animal prints are my SIGNATURE more specifically leopard print; i am a true cheetah girl. i have everything from purses, head accessories, tops, notebooks, etc in cheetah print

୨୧ my fav features to show off: my legs, feet, and collarbone

i go out of my way to avoid: neon colors, biker shorts, tacky one pieces, clothes that do nothing for my silhouette, big bulky accessories

୨୧ some more elements i enjoy: thin dainty chain detailing, velour, small heart details, satin, tartan, saffiano, charms

୨୧ some current favs include: hunter boots, vs pink loungewear sets, pink uggs, clear pumps

makeup:

perfect. i love to look perfect. never too done looking because i hate the cakey, obvious look. i love the soft glam, fresh face routine i use.

i shape my brows by adding short little hairs to my tail going upward on the arch part. i like my brows nice and thin with that meagan good arch. i like them lighter in the front and darker and sharp on the end. i ofc finish my brows off with foundation and a concealer brush.

then i buff a radiant concealer on my eyelids and blend that with the concealer or foundation i used around my brows.

i prime my face with maybelline poreless primer for that soft and blurry skin look.

୨୧ final touches: inner corner highlight, arch highlight, and nose bridge highlight + smooth and bright undereye

୨୧ big soft pretty pink kissable lips!! *or nude*

bronzed and blushed cheeks *come to think of it i only really contour my nose now, i use bronzer everywhere else*

୨୧ current favs: nars powder blushes, kiss false lashes, buxom glosses, mac lipstick, legit lashes mascara, makeup forever pressed powder

nails:

୨୧ i literally never wear anything but pink, white or a creamy pinky nude, and yes this includes french tips

i do my own feet, i just don’t trust salons to really get my feet as perfect as possible. they always cut my nails too short or give a WEAK exfoliation. no. i’d rather do it myself.

i don’t believe in white toe supremacy when my hands are another color. i like my nails to match. if my fingers are frenched out so are my toes. but my go to color that i’m wearing most of the time is ‘it’s a girl’ by opi and a matching gel for my hands.

accessories:

hoops r my signature acc. i’m literally recognizable to ppl who don’t even know my name. their the simplest feminine addition to my looks.

either that or diamond studs. i have a pair of heart shaped studs i love.

speaking of hearts i love heart shaped charms on necklaces purses and bracelets

honestly anything dainty and pink i’m rocking!!

୨୧ my fav jewelry atm: my signature studded hoops, my juicy charm bracelet, my hello kitty necklaces, my hello kitty faceplate ring, my tiffany heart choker

୨୧ satchels and small totes!!!

୨୧ glitter phone cases

୨୧ vs wristlet straps

another signature of mine are my fluffy pens i made myself. i keep one on me and only write with my own pens in public.

i try my hardest to match my metals to my looks, cool tones, white gold. warm tones, yellow gold. neutral, sterling silver. i never mix metals. if my bag has yellow gold detailing so do my jewelry for that look.

୨୧ my fav bags atm: my rose ballerine damier azur neverfull, my pink and black ted baker arycon bags, my louis vuitton alma, my striped vs tote bag, my medium bubblegum telfar

guide to states

NO ONE TO CHANGE BUT SELF

-what is a state? it is a collection of thoughts, feelings, emotions, & beliefs that you identify with. it is who you are being. your I AM

you are ALWAYS in a state. we go in & out of states ALL day. there are INFINITE realities & YOU choose what state to occupy. when we say that creation is finished that is exactly what it means. you do not have to create anything. there's a version of you that is rich & one that is poor. one in a loving relationship & one where you are single. being a good student or a bad student. having your dream job or a job you hate. etc. YOU get to CHOOSE which state you experience. if you can see something in your mind & think what it would be like to experience those things, then it is possible. imagination is the only reality. nothing can happen unless it is experienced in imagination FIRST.

how do i get into a state?

decide what you want to manifest

fulfill yourself in imagination to get into the wish fulfilled

how do i get into the wish fulfilled?

you could just say "i am in the state" or "i am in the wish fulfilled" & you're in it! it is as easy as intending to be in it

use methods to help maintain the state

affirming- pick a few affirmations that help you to capture the feeling (knowing) that your desire is a fact in imagination. (how do i feel now that i have my desire? what would i be thinking if i had my desire?) whatever answer you had to those questions, would be great affirmations! make them yourself. don't ask someone to make some for you. affirmations should be NATURAL to YOU. affirming is not something that should be forced. there is a BIG difference between having natural thoughts & forcing yourself to think structured sentences. you do NOT need to affirm 24/7. why? bc that is not NATURAL & you were not doing that before you found out about the law. also, affirmations DO NOT get you into the state, they are a technique that is used to MAINTAIN the state of wish fulfilled. personally, when i enter the wish fulfilled, i feel calm, peaceful, and content. i feel the inner KNOWING that my desire is fulfilled (bc it is) and thoughts come to me NATURALLY. thoughts come from your state, so they are a great indicator to help you know which state you're in.

visualizing- spend time in imagination. (what would a a day look like with my desire?) visualize where you want to be/what you want to experience. visualize a scene that implies that you have your desire. keep doing this until you have the feeling that it is a fact in your imagination.

scripting- write a diary entry. describe what a day would look like with your desire. get as detailed as you want. you are the author.

inner conversations- this can kind of go together with visualizing. talk to someone in imagination about your desire, talk to the person you desire, or imagine someone congratulating you for obtaining your desire.

SATS (state akin to sleep)- do this as you're about to fall asleep. visualize one scene that implies that you have your desire on a loop until you fall asleep. feel the scene to be real (bc it is). neville talked about this A LOT in his work & was his favorite method. he always said to fall asleep in the wish fulfilled.

lullaby method- create a short phrase that indicates you have your desire. neville suggested phrases such as "thank you" "it is finished" "it is done" i personally like to use the phrase "it is mine" bc it is more natural to me. say the short phrase of your choice over & over until you fall asleep knowing it is a fact. now when i say "say it over & over" i do NOT mean to say it like a robot. FEEL THEM. personally when i do this, i say the phrase slowly & calmly to myself to REMIND myself that it is done & is A FACT.

key takeaway from methods: do whatever is natural to you. do not have the mindset of doing them to get something. you are just reminding yourself of what you already have. you must have it in imagination first to get it in the 3d, so if you have the mindset of "i am gonna do xyz method to get my desire" i'm sorry but it will not work

persist- keep going back to the wish fulfilled. stay faithful to your imagination.

do i have to stay in the state all day?

NO! go back to the state whenever you think about your desire. it is NOT about how long you are in a state but the frequency (amount of times you go back to it) ex: if you think about your desire 5 times a day, but 3 of those times you are thinking from a state of lack (not having it), while the other 2 are the state of wish fulfilled. the state of lack is your dwelling state (which is what you will see in the 3d)

is manifestation really instant?

YES! what you are experiencing right now in the 3d is your CURRENT dwelling state. how do you change it? by going within & leaving the 3d alone. once you have made your desire state your dwelling place, it will instantly be reflected in the 3d. the 3d is simply showing you who you are being/identifying as. this is why we tell you that you have to change yourself first. the outer world is a mirror to our inner world. why would you expect to see rainbows & sunshine in your 3d, when your 4d is lightning & thunder? how could you see a change of clothes, unless you changed them yourself first? once you change, the rest will follow. it is LAW.

how do i know if i fell out of the state?

you may be checking the 3d, worrying, or having opposing thoughts. again, THOUGHTS ARE THOUGHTS. they are NOT what manifests. they have no power over you unless you give them power. don't identify (accept them as true) & let them pass. since your state manifests, a few silly thoughts that you don't accept as true mean NOTHING

how do i get back into the state if i fell out of it?

intend to go back & use the methods i described above to maintain the state

what do we mean by feeling?

feeling ≠ emotion. it is the KNOWING. you may feel calm, happy, peaceful, relief, etc. it is NOT some groundbreaking euphoric moment. it is NATURAL. you are in a dwelling state for EVERY aspect of your life (love, school, work, career, finances, etc.) so feeling your desire to be real, is not going to be some rainbow explosion. you know a lot of other things to be real that you are not placing as much focus on, so your desire is no different.

i stopped desiring it?

ex: you got a new pair of shoes. when you first got them you were excited to wear them. as the days went on, the "spark" kind of went away. it's not that you weren't excited to wear them, but you got used to having them & KNOW that they are yours

ex: once you start dating someone, you are excited to text them good morning and to hang out with them. over this, this becomes normal & expected. ofc you're going to be texting & hanging out with the person you're dating.

you may stop desiring your desire bc you KNOW that you have it. it's normal for you to have your desire. how could you continue desiring something you already have? that's like saying you want the pair of shoes you are wearing right now.

summary

STOP being a slave to your senses. shut the 3d out bc it is a reflection of your past dwelling state. since you're going to the wish fulfilled & thinking of your desire in your favor, the 3d doesn't matter. it is NOT who you are anymore. once your dwelling state is the wish fulfilled, it will reflected in the 3d INSTANTLY. stop bringing up the past bc it only exists in your mind. go within & fulfill your inner man. you desire something? see it in your imagination. want to talk to someone? have an inner convo or visualize talking to them. want to hang out with someone? do it in imagination. everything stems from imagination. it will not fail you. the world is a mirror that is reflecting who you are being. as within, so without. you MUST change FIRST to see the change in the outer world. there is nothing & no one to change but self.

reread this post as many times as you need until you understand. this all you need to know. apply what i mentioned & you WILL SUCCEED!

How I view states now that I've practiced using them, and why you should use them too!

I'm not going to be following anyone's teachings on this, instead I'll be drawing on my own experiences, so sorry if this doesn't exactly match up with what everyone else is saying about this topic.

Also please note that this is my opinion based on my experiences, and so the process may be different for you!

As a community, I genuinely believe that we have manifestation very backwards. We start off by learning that thoughts create your reality, and we go towards self concept to help the thoughts, and affirmations to force your brain to accept it, and then eventually you'll have it and you'll be happy or whatever. This is actually backwards (at least for me, and I hope this helps other Neurodivergent ppl too).

It started with the States talk for me. My eyes kinda opened to a new way of doing things, and let me tell you it's been SO MUCH EASIER to start with having the feeling/ state of mind that you would have if you had what you wanted, because the thoughts progress naturally from there. I'm not saying affirmations don't work, I'm just saying that starting with affirmations is like trying to force your way through a room filled with molasses, and starting with changing you state of mind is like walking through a room full of air in comparison.

Let me be clear: I'm NOT talking about self concept. I'm talking about FEELING and STATES OF MIND. It's not about the affirmations or the self concept, it's about how you approach them and yourself. From what I've noticed within myself, better self concept comes naturally during this process, just like affirmations do. It all starts with your state.

Let me start off by saying that a state is the seed of a manifestation. It's the very beginning point that everything else branches off of. If you start off with a state of lack, for example, you'll constantly be battling thoughts that come from that lack ("where is it? Why is it taking so long? Etc."). However, if you start off with a state of fulfillment, you'll notice that those negative thoughts don't come as often, if at all, and it's much easier to progress when you're not constantly fighting with your own thoughts.

But let's say you don't know what state to start with. That's perfectly fine! All you have to do is choose a state that will affect everything else in the long run. The state is the seed, remember, and the rest of the thoughts you have will branch from that seed, so you have to plant the right one. Write out or think of this sentence, "I desire ___ because it will make me feel ___" now, don't start with the "I desire ___" instead, start with "it will make me feel ___" that's the state you have to start from, that's your seed.

I started with the state of "I want ___ because it will make me feel Happy" so I chose happiness to be the state I tried to be in. It can start out with you consciously entering that state, and as you learn to do that, and keep doing it, you will find that you naturally do it more often because it becomes familiar.

Then the thoughts come! You go from feeling happy, to thinking happy. You know how when you feel sad, you naturally think thoughts that make you feel sad? The same thing happens with positive states! It comes very naturally. The best part about this is, you know exactly where you want to end up ("I desire ___"), and so you start to guide your naturally positive thoughts towards your desires (affirming). You start off with the "I'm happy. I like being happy." And go towards "I'm happy because I have ___, I'm so happy to have ___." Your mind will start to make that connection automatically, and before you know it, you're affirming (thinking about your desires) all the time without having to force it to happen!

The longer you get into the state, the more natural it feels, and the more easily your affirmations will come. As you progress naturally through this process, you will find that you start to believe your affirmations more and more, and you may even start affirming for things you didn't even know you wanted! This is the seed growing and branching out. Your mind naturally creates connections between your thoughts, and so as you continue to affirm and persist in that state, you will start to form very natural connections between how you feel and how you think. This also improves your self concept along the way, because as you think better, you'll believe better about yourself, and your views on the world will change to match your desires!

During this process, the only thing you have to do is return to your desired state and guide your thoughts towards your goals. Instead of battling yourself constantly and struggling to get to where you want to be and doubting all the time, you naturally go towards your desires in your 4D, thus changing your 3D along the way!

In my opinion, this is the way we are meant to go about manifesting. We realize we're feeling bad, and as we start to change that into feeling happy, our thoughts follow us along the way!

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐍𝐈𝐅𝐄𝐒𝐓

how to manifest 

you can manifest however you desire. you like to do x instead of y when you want to assume your desires? then do that. make yourself comfortable, don’t stress. and even if you feel those emotions, it’s fine and completely valid! you’ll always find a way to get your desires. the law always works. it's the LAW! you will get your desires regardless!

simplify the law of assumption as much as you can. don’t overcomplicate it. don’t feel like you need to know everything about it. don’t feel like you need to follow three hundred thousands steps to manifest or that you need to affirm 24/7, script daily, and do a million methods. you don't go to every blogger, youtuber, and coach asking how to manifest, etc. it’s actually super easy to just assume and watch the process unfold instantly. stick to the basics. the basics are all that you need.

here are the basics :

1. think of what you want

2. affirm/visualise you having it already (or do any method that you desire)

3. ignore the 3d (do not give it power: you decide, not the 3d)

4. let the process unfold

lia’s thoughts

manifesting is extremely easy. all it needs is a little discipline, mental diet, and putting your mind to work. persistence is key. living in your imagination is key. make your own rules and have fun with manifesting.

Not the same anon but I have a couple questions. Can I put self concept affs into one aff or is it better to do multiple. And what amino community has the how to shift effortlessly post because on google when I go it takes me to the website where it says 502 bad gateway.

Hi dear, I recommend you to put self concept affs into one aff because it will be easier for you to loop in your mind. Also, smh...the entire app Amino has been down all day today. I will give you a summary of the article. You don't need to do anything to shift, shifting can be effortless as long as you think it is. Simply affirm: "Shifting is so effortless for me," "I can shift on command at any time," "I can shift whenever I desire," "I can shift at any time of the day." Loop these affs in your mind and persist no matter what. Eventually the person said that they were able to shift with their eyes open but do keep in mind it will take time to get to this point depending on how much you affirm and how disciplined you are with your mental diet. Shifting is all about your mindset and setting that intention. I hope that this helps