Good thing about shifting is that you don't need to know everything about it for it to work. So just stop searching and go shift
most real thing I seen on this app ever
you guys have no idea how much I wanna shift so i can sit on my man
i shift for health reasons. the health reason is that this reality makes me sick
In what state my friends are gonna find me in after I talk to my s/o for the first time:
My favourite hobby is watching edits of my men in 3 am and knowing he's madly in love with me in my dr
AFFIRMING: thinking in your favor
PERSISTING: continue to think in your favor no matter what you feel, think, or see in physically world
I kinda hate that most people think shifting is a trend that just popped up couple years ago when it is a practice used in some religious thousands of years before and a thing that has been resource on
When shifters talk about methods that involve emotions or the environment, it often sounds like you have to feel something intense for it to work.
I used to believe that too — that I had to live and breathe my symptoms for it to "work" that they had to be exaggerated and overwhelming for shifting to happen.
But here’s the truth: shifting doesn’t need to be felt to happen.
Shifting isn’t about chasing signs. It’s not about how strongly you imagine your bedsheets changing, or how much emotion fills your chest. In fact, clinging to those feelings often just grounds you "deeper" into this reality. It can make you over-focus, doubt, and overthink.
Shifting often feels like nothing at all.
There are no overwhelming emotions you must experience to prove to yourself it’s happening.
I have such a soft spot for people who are shifting for a loving family.
I seen posts from people frustrated or even ready to give up on shifting. They’ve tried every method, affirmation, or technique, yet nothing seems to work. At the same time, they see others sharing stories about shifting on accident, and it makes them wonder “What’s wrong with me? Why can’t I shift when I’m putting in so much effort?”
First of all, there’s nothing wrong with you. Shifting is a deeply personal experience, and everyone’s journey is different.
SO WHY DO PEOPLE SHIFT ON ACCIDENT?
(my opinion)
Most people who shift accidentally are able to let go naturally, without even realizing it. Letting go, in simple terms, means completely forgetting about the act of shifting itself.
Think about it this way: when you’re doing a method or affirming, you’re reminding yourself that you’re still in your CR. Even if you’re saying, “I’m shifting,” you’re acknowledging that there’s a process happening and that you’re waiting for the shift to occur. This creates a sense of separation between you and your DR. It’s like saying, “I’m almost there,” rather than, “I’m already there.”
What often happens with people who shift on accident, they immerse themselves in their DR, they stop perceiving a “process” of shifting—they just exist in that reality.
First thing we need to learn even tho this is really common evidence:
Trust Yourself: The more you believe you can shift, the less you’ll feel the need to control every part of the process.
What immersing yourself in your DR is?
Anything you want, no limits. Scenarios, going through a day in your DR, thinking about your s/o, thinking about your studies, your job, making outfits, thinking about dates with your s/o, hang outs with your friend group, texting, praising people in your DR, doing your make up in your DR.
Of course you can just think about your DR if you are not good with imagination.
The biggest takeaway here is that shifting isn’t about trying—it’s about being. When you let go of the idea of shifting as something you have to “achieve” and simply allow yourself to exist in your DR.
So don’t be discouraged if you’re struggling. Take a step back, relax, and allow yourself to enjoy the journey without putting so much pressure on yourself. You’re closer than you think.