What We Mean By Affirming From The State Of Having

Hey guys I’m back with another post on LOA. I just had the most random urge to type up a blog so here we are!! Today I’m going to be talking about why you should love the 3D

You heard me.

LOVE THE 3D.

When manifesting, it is so easy to get caught up in buzzwords and terminology like “ignore the 3D”, “focus on self”, or even “fuck the 3D” and while these phrases hold some form of validity, it can be super misleading and lead to confusion.

I know that when I was just starting and I heard all of these common sayings, I took it quite literally. I put my phone on do not disturb and really focused/lived inside my mind. This in itself isn’t a bad thing, but I went about it in a way where I completely shunned out my physical reality and operated under so much anxiety over how my 3D looked that I was really just in denial.

The moment I accepted my 3D for how it is instead of having so much resistance over it, I felt so free—enough to be able to properly focus on my desires and knowing that I have it now.

When I woke up and felt my heart pounding and my anxiety ramping up, I closed my eyes and told myself “I recognize that I feel this way and that’s okay. What can I do right now that will help me possibly feel better?”

The key here is the word possibly. You don’t need to know from the get go what works for you or not, the important part is that you tried to get yourself into a better, more stable position with your body.

For me, I tried journaling. I thought it was for me at first but I found that I just couldn’t commit to it, so I found another medium to explore. And once I really found activities that helped me engulf myself in joy, positivity and just an overall sense of being okay with myself, I was able to see my 3D in a better light. I didn’t need to fight it anymore.

This isn’t to say that you can’t ever be sad or feel your emotions. Those feelings are important too, but in the end, they are just that. Feelings. Finding yourself in a low state is okay, acknowledge it but don’t dwell on it. Always get back up again.

The 3D isn’t your enemy. It is a projection of your dominant beliefs, what you repeatedly tell yourself on a day to day basis. It didn’t take me realizing this in the first place to be able to be all sunshine and rainbows with my physical world again. No, I dealt with the heartbreak, the pain, all the “why me??” complaining I had to let out to get back to baseline. I just told myself to do my best anyway, to go out there and focus on what I really need to do to attempt to feel better about myself, even when I felt like an imposter, even when I felt like I was lying to myself.

I did it anyway.

I affirmed, I went to the gym, I blocked out sad/negative music, I focused on my studies, I complimented strangers, I did it anyway.

And now I’m at a point where I am completely in love with my 3D. It is so beautiful and wonderful and there’s so much detail to appreciate within it. The sun, the birds, even just knowing you have full control over how it all turns out is beautiful.

Love the 3D because it is ultimately you. You and the 3D are one. And when you love the 3D, you love yourself. Put down your resistance to it, embrace it for what it is right now because you can always change how it looks. Always.

no one can shift or manifest for you but you.

looking over on my forms, i noticed a very....morally grey request. and honestly, it’s been sitting in my brain like a half-finished cup of tea, just steeping and slightly bitter. the gist of it was this: someone asked me to script "proof" of shifting. a detail about them that i couldn’t possibly know in this reality, but after shifting and coming back, would be able to tell, and they'd confirm it and then that would make shifting '100000% real'. the idea was that my success would somehow validate their belief, their journey, their doubts. and listen, i get it. shifting can feel isolating, especially when you’ve been trying for years, clawing at the veil of possibility, only to feel like it’s mocking you.

but here’s the truth and i really need you all to listen because it's nothing but the truth, even if it sounds tough. you cannot rely on other people to build your belief, your proof, or your motivation to shift or manifest. you just can’t. no creator on shiftblur, loablur, no post on tiktok, no "proof" from someone else is going to make you shift. because shifting is a you thing. it’s an inside job.

now, don’t get me wrong. big creators and community voices can absolutely help. they can offer guidance, inspiration, and even that lovely, fluffy feeling of camaraderie. but they can’t actually do the work for you. they can’t reach into your brain, flick a switch, and make it all click. at the end of the day, it’s you and your mind in the arena.

asking someone else to script "proof" puts unnecessary pressure on them, sure, but it also subtly reinforces this idea that you’re not enough on your own. that belief has to come from within. think of it like this, if you will: if shifting is a fire, external validation might spark it, but only you can keep it burning. if you’re constantly waiting for someone else to throw on the logs, you’ll end up cold every time they’re not around.

now, i have to thank @chaaistained for the idea when i talked to her about this !!! let’s call a spade a spade: shifting is selfish. manifesting is selfish. it’s about you, your desires, your growth, your experience. and that’s exactly how it should be. you’re not shifting to prove something to your neighbour or to win the approval of the shifting community. you’re not shifting to fulfil someone else’s fantasy or to be the poster child of “it’s real, i promise!!!!” shifting is an act of self-definition, a reclamation of your agency. it’s you saying, “this is my mind, my life, my reality. and i’m going to create something beautiful for myself.”

when you try to involve others, whether for validation, proof, or motivation, you’re outsourcing a process that’s meant to be deeply personal. no one can carry you across the threshold but you. shifting demands a level of selfishness that says, “i’m doing this for me, because i want to, because i can.” and there’s nothing wrong with that. it’s not a weakness; it’s your strength. the more you embrace that, the more shifting becomes an extension of your own power, not something dependent on someone else’s approval.

no one owes you their energy. not a single person. not your favourite big creator, not the person with 5,000 notes on their manifestation guide, not the random stranger in the notes of your post. and the outrage that certain creators won’t manifest for others, honestly, is entitlement. plain and simple.

manifestation is deeply personal. it’s an energy exchange, a focus of intention, and frankly, asking someone else to pour their energy into your life instead of their own is... a lot. it’s like walking into a bakery, demanding a free cake, and then getting mad when the baker says no because they’re already working on their own wedding cake. and sure, maybe they could bake your cake too, but why should they? manifestation isn’t a customer service desk.

you can do it alone. you have to do it alone. because these two things are selfish acts. it’s about taking ownership of your desires and making them real.

and i say this with love, but you’re giving away your power when you rely on someone else to "prove" these things to you. your doubts are valid. your frustration is valid. but you don’t need a creator to wave a magic wand and banish them. what you need is to sit with them, understand them, and let them dissolve naturally as you grow in your own belief.

shifting &&& manifestation isn’t about "proof." it’s about you. it’s about trusting your own ability to create and explore. so, let the big creators inspire you, but don’t let them become your crutch. you’ve got everything you need already. the only person who can make you do this is staring back at you in the mirror.

so stop looking for someone else to light the match. you’ve got your own spark. use it.

false gods ruling ur life

& the power of focus

hi everyone! today I wanna talk about how we create false gods in our lives, how that harms us, and the importance of directing our focus! this is a topic that has been on my mind recently as I think it is foundational to everyone who wants to work on their mindset, mental diet, and manifest better life outcomes.

table of contents

1. ways we create false gods in our lives

2. the harm of false idolisation and victimisation

3. the power of focus and attention

p.s: I do believe in god but I believe this post is still helpful from an loa/spiritual persective. so, with that being said, let's discuss!

✿ part 1: ways we create false gods in our lives

I'd say there two main ways we do that: making ourselves smaller and making others bigger.

when we make ourselves small, we victimise ourselves becoming paranoid about the world and thinking that others have this special advantage over you. I see this a lot in the loa community where some believe that others have some kinda special knowledge and power that they don't posses, when in reality it is just them being more disciplined, more consistent, and more trusting of loa.

it could also be about feeling insignificant in the face of your circumstances. like thinking that the 3d (physical reality) is what is ruling your life and not ur mind. also believing in conspiracies and secret society theories or ideas that are designed to instill fear within you, making u think that someone is out there to get you.

as for making others bigger in your mind, this happens a lot in celebrity and fan culture when you start seeing them as more than human. also when you idolise other people's attention (for example: analysing others behavours around you and ruminating over negative meanings of it). and also you pay wayyyy too much attention to other people’s lives like your peers and worrying too much about competition, not realising that there's no competition when you are your own life's creator.

essentially, when you start worrying/thinking too much about something or someone outside yourself, you have formed a false god in your mind.

✿ part 2: the harm of false idolisation and victimisation

so what's the harm in that? well first, it is such a waste of time and energy on something that won't serve you. also it will only create unnecessary worry and anxiety within your mind. you start to see yourself as powerless and your life as out of ur control. you might also engage in behaviours that cause you to lose yourself in the process, such as people pleasing.

your life will become vapid and shallow since your focus is shit that really doesn't matter. you will also start to associate this great amount of omnipotence and power with something other than god (if u believe in one), bankrupting you spiritually. like you are some insignificant string being pulled along by someone more powerful than you or god, or by circumstances that you believe you cannot change.

small tip: whenever you start to worry too much remind yourself that you are starting to create a false god in your mind. this works wonders for me to quickly disengage from unhelpful thoughts and remind myself of my power.

✿ part 3: the power of focus and attention

obviously, if you practice lao, you know that what you focus on is what you create. if you dwell in other people's lives or opinions, you're then not dwelling enough in the life you wanna create. focus is like a currency to what you wanna see play out in your life: what you pay attention to is what you prioritise and is what you will get more of.

in my case, when I started focusing on the life I wanna live, that's when opportunities, successes, etc. started flooding my life.

and that also applies to what you consume cos your mental diet is hugely shaped by your media diet. basically, what you consume (see, hear) and create (say, think) creates patterns of belief in your mind, materialising in reality.

ofc, you can always engage something outside of you that entertains you but don’t lose sight of your own live’s vision. really consider whether what your're watching is adding to your life somehow. make sure you’re using it, not it using you.

a big example of that is social media: you can either curate the perfect fyp to see posts that make you happy, remind you that your dream life is possible, serve as loa tips/reminders or you could consume content that is designed to suck you in and make you angry, anxious, or hopeless.

you decide.

another related term to focus that I wanna talk about is presence and how it is essentially the key to living a happy life.

when you focus on what truly matters, you find excitement and passion again, creating a life you're proud of. being present and focusing on yourself also allows you to practice intentional and mindful living. so you take your time to do the things you care about, you connect back to your spirituality, you realise that you’re more than a physical vessel, and you find yourself again beneath all of society's chatter.

this ultimately builds confidence and trust within you: you become an inspired creator instead of a powerless victim around the people who you look up to and also with 3d circumstances, which you now understand are just past relfections of old beliefs and are easily changeable.

and I think holding such mindset is beautiful :)

anddd, that's all! hope this was a helpful mindset shifting technique for y'all.

talk to you again soon <3

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"Why would we stop at the stars we can only see when there's billions?"

"Shifting isn't real" when we live on a floating rock, in a solar system of 8 planets and 5 dwarf planets, in 1 of THOUSANDS of galaxies... and we're supposedly the only sentient/intelligent life for either millions of light years or in the entire universe? think of the odds of that.

Human history has gone on for 300,000 years, 5,000 of those being recorded. Do you want to know what we've achieved?

Writing systems. Whole societies, cultures, languages, and more. Cavemen didn't write on walls only for us to stop there. The Sumerians created cuneiform and the Egyptians created hieroglyphs. The Babylonians created algebra. The Greeks left behind thousands of pieces of art.

Do you really think this is all we're capable of? That this is all you're capable of?

A floating rock. In a solar system of 8 planets. In one galaxy. Out of millions in the universe. We invented more things than you can think of. Do you think we could really stop there? Because I definitely don't.

Why would we stop at the stars we can only see when there's billions?

heyy boo it’s 🫶🏾🖤 anon and i’m currently manifesting straight A’s in my grade book cus my momma been on my ass, like lady calm down 🫤. and she talm bout sum she gonna schedule a conference with my teachers cus she talm bout sum she sees 1 d and 2 f’s but all im seeing is straight A’s so while she was talking to me, i said in my head, “what is this lady on about? i literally got straight A’s in my grade book rn she trippin” but i just said ok cus ion wanna argue with this lady. but i said what i said and i stand by it and ion care what the 3d shows me cus if i say i got straight A’s then i got straight A’s dafaq 💅🏾💅🏾. and chile anyways how ur day going boo 🥰🥰

-🫶🏾🖤 anon

no bc you got an a tf. people revise their grades all the time and this is no different pls.

hi guys! i've been getting some dms and asks, and since there seems to be some confusion about what the law of assumption is, i wanted to make a post clarifying some things. so here are some things you need to know:

1. the law is not a mystical thing.

it is not magic. its not foreign. it is not a superpower. it is simply making assumptions. not praying, not wishing, not hoping, not affirming. making assumptions. manifestation is about accepting things as true without any proof, the proof comes later. once you've successfully completed this step.

2. you didn't create life, you created your reality.

there is a difference. i remember this one tumblr interaction where someone sent an ask, believing that since they're the creator of their reality, then they also created every tv show they watched. and no, you obviously did not. anything that you obviously didn't physically create in your life, you didn't create. the only thing you are responsible for in your life is how things operate in relation to you.

3. you don't get what you want, you get what you are.

there's a reason why you're told by neville to stop desiring, why you're told to state your desires as a present tense fact. its because no amount of wanting, no amount of desiring, is going to change anything. if our assumptions (what we believe is true without proof) have so much power over our lives, what do you think desiring implies? what does wanting say about you? if you had your dream job, would you be wanting your dream job, or would you already have it and no longer desire it?

it should be obvious that we as human beings are conscious enough to realize certain things. we have the freedom to change our own minds because we are autonomous human beings. therefore, you are completely capable of making the conscious decision to believe something without proof.

4. you are a human being. other people around you are human beings too.

i've noticed that a lot of people within this community seem to be out of touch with reality. i find this very concerning and it's why i no longer say things like "the 3d isn't real" or "you are god", because they can be blown out of proportion. while yes, you are the cause for everything in your life, this is still your life. the 3d can be as unreal or "fake" as it wants to be, but it's all you've ever known. it's all you will ever know. why? because regardless of any material you've ever consumed, we are human beings living a human experience. nothing can change that.

you still need to take care of yourself, you still need to live your life, you should still enjoy your life, you should still be kind to others and treat them with respect. don't neglect yourself and others around you. the 3d is real, it's just not as absolute as we're made to believe. that's all. the 3d is real, but its authority over you is not.

5. again, the law is not magic. it's a natural process.

once you assume something, it's not going to just magically fall into your lap. the law is meant to be a natural thing. while manifestation is instantaneous, there is still the bridge of events that unfold to lead you to what you decided has already happened. and while things can still happen in an infinite amount of ways, the "how", regardless of what i've just said, is still none of your concern. your job will always be to decide it's already done and stick to that.

also, please don't take my words out of context. i'm not saying that manifestation is a process or anything like that, this is simply the way our world works. for instance, if you wanted to manifest a free vacation, the tickets wouldn't magically appear in your hand right that second. you'd decide you were already going on/already on that vacation first. then in the next couple minutes/hours or the next day or that same week, a relative of yours calls or visits and mentions that they won a trip to your desired location, but they changed their mind, so they ask you if you want to go.

this is what i mean by a bridge of events unfolding. there is no process, just events that lead you to where you already assumed you are. your physical reality is a mirror that reflects whatever you tell yourself instantaneously. things will always unfold in a natural way.

that's all for now. i hope this helps. 🩶

law of assumption: what i wish i knew sooner (part 1?)

It’s so easy that it’ll be difficult.

if you’re on loa tumblr you’ve most likely been told the same information over and over again, yet you have a hard time putting it into practice and it causes you to feel stuck or frustrated. why? because rewiring your brain to follow a completely different way of living takes time. And rereading loa posts actually doesn’t make you a procrastinator, reading it over and over again helps your brain digest all the new food. when you’re learning a new language, you don’t hear the words once and then remember them immediately. repetition is how you learn and succeed.

so don’t feel bad about ‘overconsuming’ loa content. its actually good because reading in repetition helps you learn and grasp new concepts. you aren’t doing anything wrong by overconsumping, or paying attention to the 3d. trial and error makes you smarter, and no regular person can master the law immediately, the point being, don’t let frustration consume you for reacting to new information in a human way.

you’re doing everything correctly, and things will click in your brain as you continue learning and applying the law. in no way am i saying you should sit back and spend hours consuming rather than applying, but this is just more of a reminder that you’re on track and being realistic with yourself can actually help you get there faster.

this post might strike a lot of the loa community as negative but these are things i wish i knew to make the process more digestible. if this post does well i may make a part 2!

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IT'S DONE, CREATION IS DONE, there's nothing left to do, you don't have to do ANYTHING, it's already done, you already have it, you're already it.

Once you decide you have it, you do, it's INSTANT!!!!!!! (｡-｀へ´-｡)

It's done, it's instant -> once you decide it, you already have it instantly in the 4d, and the 4d is way higher in the pyramid than the 3d!

So YES, you have it, it exists, it's done, once you that nothing can stop you！Σ(×_×;)!

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“i shifted with this subliminal. . .”

so close ! you shifted because you believed (manifested) that you’re gonna shift with it !

seriously. stop throwing away your success on subliminals

CLOCK IT RQQQ