And before you get mad, I do have a chronic illness, some mental diagnoses I’m being treated for, and I’m also LGBT+.
I need you to imagine I’m sitting down with you and not attacking our own community when I say this. For our own mental health, we gotta stop getting mad at every little slip up, or mistake that someone who doesn’t understand our struggles make.
We can’t assume everyone is going to understand us, or know what we need for accommodations right off the bat.
Now I’m not saying you can’t get frustrated or vent to friends about how annoying it is. But we can’t be making a community based off immidiate hatred for people asking questions and genuinely trying to understand our struggles.
If they genuinely are making fun of us for no reason, or don’t want to change their ways to understand,
We have a right to be pissed off and lash out.
But if someone is genuinely and respectfully taking the time to listen to us, and then they ask a silly or offensive question on accident,
We need to let them know in a just as respectful way. We don’t want them to be scared of us right off the bat. If we make that our brand, then they’ll never want to hear us out. They’re people just like us, and they do have a chance to understand and change. We just need to give them that chance.
Give them time to apologize and change into a less threatening person to minorities. Because if we want a community that understands us, we need to help them understand us. We can’t expect every person in the world to do research into every disability, mental illness, or identity. Sometimes we need to be their source.
Only if they’re being respectful about it though - jot that down. If they’re taking away our accommodations for their own needs, or mocking us, then that’s when we need to draw the line.
People, please be careful. There are also people tracking children and people and putting bids on them based on their profile pictures on whatsapp, tracking and kidnapping them. Especially young children, so please be cautious, especially parents who have their children as their profile pictures.
Please pass this on to everyone so that they are aware of the danger. I don’t how it is all around the world but I know it can’t just be here so please please spread the word. Thank you.
I think many of y’all need to be educated about the concept of lateral aggression because too many of y’all think that being marginalized yourself gives you a free pass to act completely fucked up towards other marginalized people, even ones in your own community that you share marginalization with, because you’re under the false impression that your behavior isn’t harmful on any meaningful level and that’s not true. Not in the slightest.
Too many of y’all wield your marginalized identity like a shield to try to minimize and justify your behavior and that is causing active harm to the rest of us while simultaneously making it easier for our oppressors to continue oppressing us. Knock it off and get over your bully complexes. The world is not your playground and your behavior is causing tangible harm to those you come in contact with.
with all the trafficking going on y’all better stay safe!!
Hey guys, please dont scroll, foodstamps fucked me and my fiance iver this month and my mom got our internet disconnected. Id like to help at least one of these things. I dont know how much i need for food tbh, but the net bill is $96 so if anyone could help even a little bit please do or share or anything please please. Im just a disabled autistic person living with my abusive parents but i deserve basics please.
Ppal is vjsevildoer@gmail.com
P.E.A.R,aka “pro-expression, anti-repression" was a term coined by well known pedophile 4-lung stay safe y’all,and block these sick freaks
13.9.20
let’s see how many transphobics we can weed out
look at this photo of my stepdad