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Sara becomes a hotwife

The center bar in the restaurant was about half capacity. There were a few tables available but we prefer to sit at the bar for more interesting people watching and faster service. I sipped my margarita while holding onto Bert’s freshly sprouted hardon. His cock, stiff in my hand, was an unexpected event. As we sat at the bar a couple facing us on the other side got up to leave, and the man waved bye at me so I flipped him a quick wave and gracious smile. Bert asked if I knew them and I replied I knew him but not her. He asked if that was a co worker. I had to smile and be honest in saying, no, I but I did suck his cock once.  

Bert’s eyes about bugged out and simultaneously spewed his beer, then his head snapped to the left to look at me. He wiped the beer from his smiling but shocked face, as this may have been slightly out of character on my behalf. “Oh, wow, Sara, so you blew him” he said. I replied yes I had gone down on him at a party back when I was single. We continued eating our meal until Bert, my husband, eventually asked if I had swallowed the mans cum. I told him yes, of course. He then asked if the guy had came a lot. I told Bert yes, he shot sizable load if recalled correctly. He then asked if the guy had a big cock. I found his curiosity a tad out of character as well, but I did not mind answering his questions as it seemed fun curiosity. I told Bert yes, the guy, David, was blessed with about seven inches and I remembered it being very hard. I watched my husband re arrange his cock through his pants. “Bert, are you getting a boner” I laughed and placed my hand in his lap to find he indeed had a full boner right there at the bar.  

“Oh, so you are one of those, guys huh, I did not know that about you” I laughed a small chuckle. He asked me what kind of guy was that. I told him, obviously, one of the guys that get turned on thinking about their wives doing dirty girl things with other men. Bert said he didn’t know if he was one of those guys or not,  but he certainly just grew a steel hard erection. He said he knew I’d had sex with other men before we got married, but he’d never really thought of it until I just told him about sucking off the man that sat across from us for twenty minutes. He said “Hell Sara, I even nodded at the lucky bastard, lol. Well, at least I know I can be proud you did a good job, because your awesome at it”.  I thanked Bert for his compliment. He followed up by asking if David’s cock or balls were shaved, did he fuck my mouth or just let me do all the work, I answered all his questions honestly and factually, all the while his cock throbbing in my hand.  

Armed with this new revelation about my husbands curiosity I decided to try something new at bedtime that night. Bert and I sleep naked, so when I crawled into bed with him and snuggled close to make skin on skin contact, I made sure my lips were near his ear. “Did I shock you tonight” I asked softly into Bert’s ear. He laughed and said I sure did. “You asked a lot of questions during dinner” I added, nibbling his ear lobe. Bert said yes, it was sort of weird yet erotic at the same time.   “I met David at a party and we talked a while. We seemed to have some sexual attraction as well, so when he stepped out into the garden area. I followed him. I was sitting on a bench in a darkened section of the lawn when he noticed me and approached. He started to make more small talk but I simply reached out and took his cock in my hand. He looked around and made sure no one was looking then moved closer to me, cupping my left breast in his hand. I could feel his dick quickly stiffen in his tailored slacks. I could tell he wore boxers because his cock was free to move with my hand as I stroked his growing manhood.  He was fully hard in just seconds and I simply wanted to suck his thick cock. As I unzipped his pants he again checked for privacy. I remember reaching into his slacks and grasping his warm handful of cock, the air was cool and is dick was so warm, so hard. I fished his dick out and looked up at him as I took it’s thick head into my lips”. As I described the interlude to my husband, I reached out to find his cock, and it was hard as I’d ever felt it, swollen and throbbing in my grasp. “My oh my, I think someone is getting turned on” I teased. “Damn Sara, it is quite hard isn’t it baby” he said. “I think someone likes my naughty story, well according to this” I squeezed his dick with a firm grasp. “Who are you” he asked pushing my hair back so he could see me. “Just a woman who likes her man turned on, and clearly you are”.  

I then rolled over and got between Bert’s legs and held his stiff cock up. He looked down at me and I licked his cock from balls to head as we looked into each others eyes. “David’s cock was hard, like yours is now” I said then ran my tongue along the sensitive area just below the head of his dick. He throbbed a nice pulse in my grasp. “He liked it when I slowly sucked his dick fully into my mouth like this” then showed Bert how I ever so slowly worked my lips and tongue over David’s cock until I’d inched him fully into my throat. “He had to of loved that” Bert moaned. “He did” I replied. I pumped Bert’s fine erection with my fist and licked his cocks head in a circular motion. “David’s cock was so hard in my mouth. I stroked his thick meat with my hand, like this,, while sucking his dick’s head and letting him slip his hand into my blouse”, I continued my story, doing everything to Bert’s cock that I told him I did to David’s. My little test was passed as positive, my husband got hard from my being bad. Bert was getting close to cumming, I know his cock well and knew his orgasm was very close. His cock was fully in my mouth and his breathing was rapid when Bert asked “Did David’s cum taste good”.  

I spit Bert’s cock out just long enough to tease him with more details about David, it was obvious fuel to his desires. “Yes, he got so hard in my mouth and gripped my breast a little firmer, he liked my tits. I knew he was about to cum even before he told me how good my mouth felt, then all too soon David said “oh fuck, I’m about to cum”. I stroked his fat cock with my hand,, like this, and sucked him with a slow soft action. Then I took all of him into my mouth and he grunted out loud and I felt his dick swell a bit, then strongly pulse as he shot his tasty hot load of cum to the back of my throat” I described how it went, then did the exact same thing to my husband’s cock. Bert moaned and jerked as he erupted hard, blasting a huge load out with force to the back of my mouth. He spasm and quivered as he came and I knew it was a powerful one by the way his body was violently taken over.  I kept him in my mouth as he softened and his entire body relaxed into post orgasmic contentment. I felt proud of my skills. I just got my man up hard and fast and satisfied him physically and mentally. “Damn” Bert exclaimed, “That was one intense blow job, Sara”.  

Over the next few weeks I described several encounters I had sucking off the occasional man. There were not that many really but I gave Bert an honest account for each one, all the dirty details and each time more elaborate and detailed. The more information he got the harder he got. If I felt horny, all I had to do is say, you know that reminds of the time I sucked off this one guy, and Bert would soon be sporting a good hardon for me.  

Bert sat in his easy chair while I knelt between his knees, his very active cock of the last couple of weeks stuffed inside my mouth, he looked down watching intently as my lips slowly worked his stiffness from head to base. “God you got skills” he complimented. “I hope we run into someone you blew so they know I’m getting the most awesome bj’s on earth. I love watching you suck cock”. I smiled up a him and flicked his cocks head with the tip of my tongue and said baby I hate to correct your English, but more accurately you mean watch me suck Your cock. I tongued the sensitive spot just under the head of his dick adding “you haven’t watched me suck A cock, but it would look similar to this”, taking his dick fully into my mouth then backing off enough to grip his meat in my fist and pump the hard shaft as I sucked the head.  

“Damn that is hot. Well then Sara, I stand corrected, I’d love to watch you suck a cock” he said, still staring at me working his shaft with slow precision. I crawled into his recliner with him and settled my pussy over his dick. I was wet and his cock slid in easily. My hips slowly rocked back and forth fucking him with slow smooth strokes.  

“Want to watch me suck a cock, eh baby. Suck another man’s dick until he cums in my mouth, right in front you” I teased. He took my ass in his grip and lengthened the strokes inside my snug pussy. “I’d love that. Love watching you suck another man’s cock” he answered. “Do it, I said, find a man you’d like to see me blow, and I will look you right in the eye as I swallow his cum, just because I know you’d like it” I told my husband.  

My sentence was no more in the air when he moaned “oh shit” and thrust his hips up into me a few hard pumps then flooded my pussy with his welcome load. I stayed on him, feeling his cock shrink inside me, his cum draining from my hole and coating his spent junk. “I can’t wait to see you in action” he said. Bert held onto me and lowered me to the floor. His mouth found my clit and he began to tongue beat me with a hard fast flicking action. It took me less than a minute to be pulling him harder into my sperm filled slit and cum with a violent shutter. Bert rolled onto his back on the carpet and sighed, “I’m a pervert, aren’t I”. I said no, your just a man following his cock, like most men. And as always, I have your back.  

At forty two I’m not bad, if I may say so myself. I am five foot five, thin with a descent handful of breast that still stand on their own, tipped with petite pink nipples which l love sucked and lightly pinched. My ass is, according to Bert to die for. My short light brown hair is crisp and bouncy and when I dress down and dirty the men still stare that look that says you are indeed a piece of meat. Occasionally I enjoy being looked at with nothing but sexual desire. So when Bert and I went out on our weekly dinner night out at the bar and he asked if I would wear my little red dress, I was confident he’d be proud of me on his arm. The red dress is Bert’s favorite. It clings to me in all the right places, compliments my ass with minimal coverage, showing off maximum leg, and braless it shows off my natural form and you do not need imagination to find my nipples.  

Dinner at the bar was nice. We had a few drinks and feeling no pain by the time we left for home. Bert complimented me several times at the bar and on the way home saying how sexy I was in the red dress. When we pulled into the drive a black sedan was parked in our drive. “We seem to have company” I said as we came to a halt. We got out of the car and as we approached the sedan the drivers door opened up and out stepped David.  

I looked at my husband and smiled asking “Bert, are you being evil”.  He said he was hoping I’d be evil. I greeted David with a short hug saying what a surprise it was to see him. We did some small talk as we entered the house but I was a tad nervous in knowing exactly what I’d soon be doing. There could only be one reason, of all people, David was walking into my home.  

It turns out that Bert went to the the bar with a co worker for a beer and noticed David sitting alone at the bar as well. Bert approached him after a while and during their conversation, Bert told him he know what Id done to him and he found it arousing knowing I’d sucked his cock, at which point David said how good it was and would love to do it again. So Bert asked him over tonight, and I had no doubt why.  

I served us a glass of red wine and we small talked a few minutes, I could feel my juices flowing. I was getting aroused in knowing I’d soon have another man’s cock in my mouth as my husband watched. My oral skills had already become a topic between two men agreeing on my technique and ability. “So how do we start” I asked. David suggested since he was positive he’d be enjoying my skills, and since Bert wanted to watch, perhaps he could direct how it would go down. We laughed at his choice of words. Bert was good with that and suggested “how about him laying back in our bed, everyone just relaxed and comfortable”.  

David and I said sure, sounds okay and within minutes I was at the foot of my queen sized bed unfastening David’s slacks while my husband sat on the foot of the bed watching. I looked at Bert as David’s pants fell around his ankles, his nice sized already hard cock springing forth as he stepped free. He seemed bigger than I remembered, but I did not forget how hard his dick was. “Wow, he’s big. I thought you said seven inches baby” Bert said. “Eight and a half” David said peeling off his shirt, now standing naked in front of me. I again looked at my husband as I took David’s thick cock into my hand and guided it onto my mouth. David moaned out loud as I sought the base of his shaft, working my tongue firm but gently against the sensitive underside. After taking him fully into my mouth for a moment. Giving him a taste of what was in store for him. I stood up to allow him to take his position in the bed. “Did you like that” I asked Bert. “That was awesome” he replied. “No wonder you are proud of her skills Bert, damn she is good” David commented. As I turned my back to David, bending to kiss my husbands lips. David stepped in behind me, his hands on the hem of my red dress and began lifting it up and over my ass. His efforts were welcomed by my husbands hands finding my dresses hem at my waist, then tugging it over my head. I stood up, a tad shocked at how quickly I’d been undressed, and did not realize my nakedness was a part of my husband watching me blow our new friend.  My red bra and matching thong left little to imagination, and they looked at me with obvious want.  

I stood facing my husband as David pressed his cock against my ass cheeks, reaching around my body and taking both breast into his hands, inches in front of Bert’s eyes. “May as well be comfortable” Bert said, as he took my thong in hooked thumbs to drag them slowly to the floor. David’s hands fished under my bra and took my naked breast into his grasp for a few seconds before finally undoing the strap, allowing it to fall into the cloths pile at the foot of the bed. David had not seen me naked, but commented as he crawled into the bed, laying back onto my pillow. “Damn, you are beautiful”. Bert said how proud of my body he was and loved showing me off.  

I bent over and kissed Bert on the lips and without breaking away said “I think he’s ready”.  Bert’s hand ran across my ass cheek, trailing it down to find my shaved wetness. His finger sank into me from behind and was drowned in pool of readiness. “Ho, baby, fuck you are so wet and hot down there” he softly spoke with a sense of strong passion. “Your right, his cock looks very hard, he want’s you, again” Bert said. With that I crept in between David’s legs and held his stone hard cock straight up. Bert moved up to head of he bed for optimum viewing. I took a second to look into my husbands eyes as I took all of another man’s cock fully into my mouth, feeling it pulse strongly as my lips touched base. It was effective in making both men moan.  

David reached out and took a breast into his hand as I delivered my best skills to his cock, making sure my husband would never forget the sight. “Damn, Bert, holy shit you get this all time, you lucky bastard” he spoke with envy. “I know, she’s awesome,  but I get a lot more that that” Bert replied. Instantly I felt David’s cock throb in my mouth, pulse with desire and I loved how hard his sizable cock tasted. I was getting turned on performing this lewd act in front of my husband and could not wait to get his dick inside me. I knew he’d be insatiable for his “dirty girl” tonight.  

I took David’s heavy balls into my hand and stroked his cock with the other, looking at my husband as I slow jacked David’s hardon with full length slow fist pumps. “Damn, that’s hot baby” Bert said. Bert got off the bed and began to undress. He was stone hard and excited as he got back into the bed. He took his shaft into his grasp and masturbated while I ate David’s cock like candy. “Holy shit, wow, damn girl you are a natural born cock sucker” David moaned out. “Skills mostly” I said, adding a tease line for my husband, “I’ve sucked a lot cock”. “Well thank god for that” David said while laying a hand on the back of my head, “because you learned some awesome skills”.  

“Oh she’s been fucked too” Bert added. “Oh really” David moaned, the began to face fuck me slowly and I let him pump his meaty cock in and out of my mouth. I looked up and Bert was tugging on his very hard cock, staring at another man’s cock slipping back and forth between my lips. “You like me fucked, don’t you baby” I asked my husband.  “Yea,, I like you fucked, baby” Bert replied. I raised up slightly, fisting David’s cock with a steady pump and checked Bert’s eyes for more information, the answer was in there. “You want this cock in me don’t you baby, you want to see David’s long fat cock in my pussy don’t you” I asked, knowing his answer already. “Hell yes I do Sara,  fuck it, fuck that cock, baby” he panted. David was quick to say “I want to fuck your wife, Bert, I want to see how she feels inside”.  

They wanted it, and so did I, so I straddled David and felt his thick hot meat, wet with my slobber, lay the length of my slit, balls meeting my ass, shaft pressing against my clit. I felt the pulse of his urges run the length of my slit, it’s desire to penetrate me. I pumped my hips back and forth a few times, leaving his rod wet with my juices. I leaned back and Bert stared at the head of David’s cock peeking out between the spread lips of my pussy as I scooted back and forth along this mans dick. I was gladly about to become a hotwife. Raising up on one knee I hovered over David’s eight and a half inch man beast, then found my husbands eyes fixated on my outer lips spreading wide over the thick head of another man’s cock,  and it felt good. I was so wet and ready for sex. Once the head of David’s cock had inched past my wet outer muscles, I looked at David and lowered my body fully onto his cock. His eyes closed and his expression said a book of information, every word bliss.  

David immediately began to thrust into me, pistoning his cock in and out like sewing machine, he fucked me. I knew I’d leave my own cum on this man’s cock. Bert could not take it anymore and I gladly accepted his dick into my mouth while David fucked me. David sucked my left nipple into his lips and I was in system overload, with a cock in my mouth, a cock in my wet cunt, and hands all over me, on my ass, my breast, back. Bert slow fucking my mouth while I rode David for all I was worth. I could hear my pussy juices making noise as I was being slam fucked from beneath and knew my orgasm was approaching  

I was close. David knew how to fuck a woman and I was glad I’d sucked his cock a few years ago now. “Son of a bitch you have a snug wet pussy” David gasped. “Oh she can fuck” Bert stammered. “No shit she can” David agreed. His cock filled me slightly more than my husbands, just enough to know I had a strange dick in me, and I was going to cum on it. I spit Bert’s cock out and pulled his face to me and began kissing him hard while David slammed his meat into me like I was a paid whore. I was close, I remember biting onto my husband’s ear while saying “I’m going to cum on him. David’s cock feels so good inside me, filling me up, so hard,,, he’s fucking me so good baby,,I’m going to leave my cum on his fat cock”.    

My husband said “Do it baby, make me proud, cum on that cock” urging me on. David was likewise getting close to his own orgasm as he’d announced, “Damn, I can’t hold out much longer,, she’s too damn tight and wet, fucking hell she feels so damn good on my cock”.  

My orgasm started,, the tingling, the pulse of  juices now flowing onto this strangers wonderful cock. My fuckers spoken words pushing my own orgasm closer, “Shit, I’m going to cum,,,, where do you want it” David called out. Bert looked at me, his answer was in his excited eyes and in his dick as he jerked off at a rabid pace. I answered for my husband, “Cum inside me, fill my pussy with your cum” I snapped out just as my orgasm started to take over, melting me from the inside out. “Awww Fuck, I’m cumming, I’m fucking  cumming inside you’ David moaned out and suddenly I felt his hot sperm blast deep inside me, meeting my own juices head on as I climaxed on another man’s cock. My shutter and spasm had removed me from the universe all but the faint sound of Bert’s grunt, followed by his cum splattering against my face and breast. I had the sense of mind to lean back, still quivering in orgasmic shutters and grinding my flooding cunt against David, to allow my husband shoot his load all over my flesh. I instinctively rubbed my husbands cum across my breast and body as David’s cock relaxed inside me.  

Panting, gasping for air, and cum soaked, I rolled off top David. Bert eased his softening dick into my mouth and I sucked the last few drips from his shrinking hardon.  “Holy shit, that was awesome” David gasped. “Man you must be proud of her, lord she can work a cock” he added.  

We did not waste much time in getting our wits about us and saying goodbye to our guest. Bert and I now needed some “us” time. We managed to crawl into bed and snuggle up together and pause the day. After a short while I finally spoke, “Guess I’m a hotwife now” I said to Bert. “You were hot tonight that’s for damn sure” he laughed. “It was really supposed of been just a BJ, but things just seemed to go in another direction” he said. “Did you like the direction it took” I asked him. Bert eased his newly awakening hardon into my hand. “What do you think” he laughed. I squeezed his awakening meat with a firm grip and told my husband, “I afraid I’m going to be in another three way real soon”.  

Men like to Watch - Women like to be Center of Attention

For people reading here, it’s probably clear. Men like to watch. Women like to be watched. That’s why a hotwifing dynamic works. When it comes to including others, men fantasize about watching their wife with another man. Women fantasize about being with another man and being watched by their husband.

The research proves it out. Men want to watch. Women want to be watched. Why? The researchers don’t know. They speculate that perhaps women are taught to be the center of sexual attention and for men to pursue women, perhaps it’s male competition. competitive elements. Perhaps it’s just a natural dynamic. Women would naturally have multiple partners. Sometimes a man would watch, other times he would join in.

The interesting bit is that men who fantasize about this have a higher self-esteem than those who don’t. It takes a strong man to encourage his wife to enjoy herself with another man.

Here's the thing nobody wants to talk about in all of this hotwife talk: nobody, not my husband, not anyone gives me "permission" to do anything! I fuck who I want, when I want, how I want, where I want and as many times as I want. I DO NOT HUMILIATE MY STAG HUBBY. He has chosen of his own free will to allow me to command him and he obeys me faithfully. He knows full well what his rewards are and he loves it. I don't view his desires as anything but that. We do not disrespect each other, and we certainly NEVER lie either, simply stated there is no need. We do not confuse sex with love. Open communication is the key to our happiness. It's amazing to me how many people try to put a label on our relationship. It is ours and our business. If anybody wants true marital blis, try opening up to your partner about your desires. You may be very surprised how receptive they are. If not, at least you'll know, and you can either adapt or move on.

The Little Things

How To Prepare For Your First Cuckolding Adventure

I was sent a message yesterday—a beautiful message—with an announcement that I’m sure all y'all reading this will love as much as me. I’ll keep her name/account anonymous, as always. Here’s what she wrote:

Good evening! I told my husband that I’m ready to try this for real. Not sure what the next step should be. We are in our 40s and aren’t exactly the bar-hopping social types. Plus we met and dated before Internet dating apps were a thing. So any advice you have for us from how to find someone to how to prepare ourselves mentally and emotionally for the experience would be welcomed. Thank you!

I told you it was a beautiful message!

I know this much, after writing back and forth a few times over the past year or two… She and her husband have been walking along the edge of the cuckolding pool for a few years, sharing fantasies and commenting back and forth via Tumblr, waiting until the water was just right to dip their toes in.

Well… It’s cannonball time!!

Imagine the excitement her husband felt hearing that she was finally ready… I bet he’s jerked off a thousand times since hearing the news!! And that’s what I love the most about cuckolding, especially a first-time event… Everyone is fulfilling a fantasy. It’s the ultimate Win-Win. And even better than the fulfillment of fantasies, they’re creating an event that will last forever.

Even if their first time is a one-off event, they can relive it forever—every smile and kiss, the fresh taste of a new man, the desperate sounds of her need bursting through her married lips, and the orgasms… Oh, so many orgasms.

I get countless men asking me how to turn their wives into… well, into someone like me. So I get an extra charge when it’s the wife asking about this. That means it’s really going to happen for both of them. I know it’s just a matter of time before they have their first adventure. So, if I can give them a little advice and added confidence while preparing them for the impending mental tornado that’s about to rip through them (in the best of ways), then taking the time to write all of this will have been well worth it.

A first-time cuckolding event hits hard. The closer or more in love with your partner you are, the harder it hits. If the guy isn’t prepared, then it can knock him out. Almost all of them come back from it, though, begging for more once they realize that NOTHING will ever come close to how that pleasure-soaked dagger made them feel.

You will come to crave it just as she craves him. You’ll both need more.

But that first adventure must be a positive one. So rather than go back and forth with a few lines of advice and encouragement, I wanted to write a full guide and share it with everyone, hoping to help even more couples prepare for their first adventure—and to ensure it will be the first of many.

The advice I’m about to give will be targeted toward married or long-term couples who’ve already agreed to have their first adventure—no more trying to talk one or the other into it. It’s happening, so let’s get to it…

Part I: Develop A Plan For Your First Adventure

I’ve found that the longer a couple has been together (especially those who’ve been monogamous), the more apt they are to develop a plan. As someone who waited a couple years before acting on my own desire to do this, I know what it’s like—and I was a teenager!

Spontaneity will come with time. I’m not here to talk about the evolution of a cuckolding couple, but that will definitely be a part of it.

I talked to some of you, reading this now on Patreon, long before deciding to cuckold my boyfriend for the first time. Well, at least long before admitting to myself that it was inevitable. Once we let ourselves go down this path, it’s almost impossible to jump off. The need is there, growing and feeding on every image or video of great sex that you see and hot guy that you meet. It strikes you HARD when you’re masturbating and even harder when having sex with your boyfriend or husband, calling to you… There’s something greater out there, just waiting for you… You deserve this… It’s time.

Once I knew it was my time, I developed a plan to talk my boyfriend into it. Since this guide is for couples who are already there, I’ll move on to the first bit of planning.

Part II: Emotional Understanding

I’ll start by advising you this: Your first adventure should be with a stranger.

Sharing someone you both know adds a wrinkle you don’t need for your first adventure. There should be no feelings or history between you and the man you choose. Remember, these are my opinions and some of you might feel the other way on this, but I’m mostly looking out for my women out there. You see, the men (for the most part) are all-in. They want to live out a hot sexual fantasy and let everything fall where it may. I can hear their thoughts right now:

What woman wouldn’t want to have sex with someone new? I’m telling her I’m cool with it, and that he can have a bigger dick than me… Doesn’t she love orgasms? I know she does!! What’s there to think about? We’ll deal with the emotional fallout after it’s over. I’ll be fine either way. At least I’ll have something hot to jerk off about for the rest of my life!! I’m ready. You ready? —- Then, when she finally agrees, he’s like: Woo Hoo!! Now, let’s find you the biggest cock this side of the Mississippi… or two.. or three… how many do you think you could handle? You must want at least five, right?!??

I’m only just slightly joking here. lol - But you get my point. A woman can get overwhelmed with the “push”. She’s going to wonder what she could possibly do to satisfy YOU and be enough. Yes, she’s thinking about you. She wants to make sure you’re really going to be okay with what she’s about to do. Guess what… You’re right to think she wants someone with a bigger dick. Of course she loves orgasms. Yes, she knows this will be one of the hottest things she’ll ever get to do. BUT she’s also more of a pragmatist. She knows that tomorrow will eventually come and your cute little cock won’t be stealing all the blood from that male brain of yours. She knows you may be all about it until it happens.

She wants to protect you… As confident and determined as you are about what you want, she’ll never believe you. Sorry guys, but you’ll have to earn that trust from her. That won’t be earned in bed with fantasy talk. The truth is, you won’t be able to earn it until AFTER the first adventure ends. She is going into this thing blind, and she’s counting on you to support her.

Let me add one quick thing about creating “rules” for your adventure like “no kissing”: DO NOT SET RULES. They will only be broken. If a guy can put his cock inside you, then he should be allowed to do the same with his tongue.

As for condoms and safe sex… that’s worth a discussion. Personally, I love nothing more than feeling the real thing inside me… the heat of him… and don’t get me started on the gush of hot cum. Mmmmmm

Part III: Choosing The Right Man

Rule #1: WHAT YOUR GODDESS WANTS, YOUR GODDESS GETS! You want her to experience the best things in life and be happy on this day and every day going forward, yes? Then you need to go with her flow. You can suggest anything you want, but let her be the final decision maker. Then, once she’s made that decision, you need to support it. This is crucial for turning this into a long-term thing.

Since she gets to choose the man, she also gets to choose how and where it happens. Most married or long-term couples prefer doing this on a vacation where the other guy couldn’t possibly pop back into their lives. However, this (practically) eliminates the ability to see him again if he was amazing. So I’d ask the woman what she wants. Would she rather have it be a guaranteed one-off adventure for the first time? If so, plan a vacation. If you’re thinking of having a somewhat local experience, then it can even be an hour or two drive away—someone you won’t run into at the grocery store or at church. Then, even though he’s “far” away, he’s close enough to do it again.

Why would I recommend that as a possibility to consider? Because of Aaron, my first. I’ve gone back to him so many times I’ve lost count. I can’t imagine a world where I only got to have him that once. That being said, I can totally understand the vacation one-off plan too.

Whether you’re at home or on vacation, that means you’ll have to choose between a real-life meeting or an internet setup. Which do I recommend? It totally depends on what makes the woman more comfortable. Personally, I’ve done both—lots and lots of both. I prefer a live meet for a lot of reasons, mostly because of the vibe factor. How a man moves, talks, breathes and smells (pheromones?) all have an effect on me. Nothing hits me harder than his eyes, though—the way he makes me feel when he looks at me. You don’t get that over the internet.

On vacation, however, there’s a lot of bonuses to an internet meeting via a hookup app like Tinder. You’re nearly guaranteed to find someone local and you can do a hit or miss strategy over however many nights you’re away. Even the idea of going on the meet will be a massive turn on for you both. Whether things work out with the guy or not, you’ll be dressed up and the very idea you were ready to bring someone home that night will lead to crazy hot sex! So line one up for a festive-style bar meeting each night. You could even do two per night at different locations if the first one doesn’t work out. Meeting and chatting are easy, but here are some points of interest:

Don’t be shy about asking him questions. If how “big” they are doesn’t matter to you then don’t ask. If it matters, then you NEED to ask and go ahead and get a picture or ten as well. We each have certain things we want in a man and it’s up to you to check those boxes ahead of time so you’re not disappointed later. Pictures are a must, obviously, and don’t be shy about asking for specifics. Make sure you tell him you’re married (or with a long-term boyfriend) and what his role in all this will be.

If you plan on doing a real-life meeting then you have to decide how involved you want your husband/man to be. Should he wait at the other end of the bar? Should he wait in the hotel room and text with you throughout the night? When do you tell hot stranger guy that you have a guy back at your place who wants to watch? That last one, I can help you with. You have to tell the guy at some point, right? I find it best to lead with it. Yup… Guys love it—especially Alpha types, which is who we want to find. We want a guy who’ll have no problem fucking us in front of the love of our lives, and who makes a show out of it. Go ahead, teach that boy how I like it. Show him what an orgasm is supposed to look like.

Leave the wedding ring on and lay it all out there. It’s a turn ON not off. Same thing online - don’t hide your situation. Lead with it.

As with most things in life: be fearless and you’ll be rewarded. If you see someone who interests you, throw them those eyes… Spark a conversation. Life is waiting for you out there, but sometimes you have to take it. Let him know what you’re looking for early on. Sometimes the more a guy talks, the less I want him. That’s not even his fault, I’m just a fickle bitch. The quicker you can ask him to take you back to your room, the better it will be for both of you. Don’t be shy. You’re a Hot Wife in the making, so act like it!

Part IV: Supporting Her - Before Your First Adventure

This is where my boyfriend SHINES. His actions and words put me into Goddess mode before my “dates” where I quickly sink into submissive whore mode for that other man. But, when all is said and done, his loving eyes and knowing tongue have me feeling like a beautiful Princess—even as I lay there shaking and sweating—a hyper-orgasmic, cum-filled mess.

It’s in these moments where we’ve bonded closer than ever. I know it sounds crazy, but it’s true. Walking on a beach holding hands is nice, but having the man who loves you dress you up for a date with someone else is next level. Hearing how beautiful you look before he sends you off into their arms is something I can hardly put to words.

If you plan on searching for a man via an online app then may I suggest you order him between your legs while you scroll and swipe… Every now and again flash him the screen and show him the men you like best. Grind those images into his head while he grinds his tongue into your pussy. Talk to him while you do it… “You like preparing me for other men, don’t you?” - “I bet this guy has a really big cock.” - and show him your matches. Read the things men say to you and what you return to them. It will become a regular thing between you both, trust me! Whether you plan on meeting more men or not… It’s a fun cuckolding exercise.

Men, keep your focus on her. I want to hear how beautiful I look, how lucky those men will be to have me, how yummy I taste, how wet I am for them, how I deserve whatever I want… During sex in the lead up to your first adventure—tell her all the things you want for her. If you want him to be bigger and fuck her harder… You want him to make her cum harder than you ever have… You want him to make her moan and scream and call out his name and forget that you’re even there… You want to see the pleasure in her eyes… the lust and need growing with every deep thrust until she begs for his cum.

Don’t be shy. Tell her what you want. Odds are, she wants all those things too!

On the day of your first adventure or first night out on the hunt, the preparation begins long before you walk out the door. Men, you’ll want to pamper her all day. Make your first date tactics look like a train-wreck. You should ALWAYS treat her this way, but on this day in particular, she has risen to a new level… Make her feel it.

Buy her something new to wear. Help pick out her bra and panties or lingerie to go under whatever dressing that other man will be removing later. Think classy/sexy on the outside while diving into your kink-zone for what’s under. Whatever makes her feel sexiest…

Help her get dressed and watch longingly as she applies her makeup. You’re her servant for the day. Her pet.

Women… Tell him what you want when you want it. The more you take control on this day, the more he’ll love it. Be the Goddess he sees in you. Make him pull up your stockings and affix your heels. Put him on his knees whenever possible. Make a comment about your lip gloss/stick when applying it… If you’re excited, tell him. If you’re wet, tell him. If you want him to give you a quick lick before pulling those panties up, order him to do it.

It’s up to you what he does during your meeting. Do you want him to go with you or wait? If he’s to wait, you should tell him not to jerk off and if you have a cage then lock him up. You want him to be PEAK turned on when you arrive home with another man. Point is, whatever you want him to do, then tell him.

Part V: Supporting Her - During Your First Adventure

She may want to experience her first time (cuckolding you) on her own, without you watching. If so, there are a few things you’ll want to do to enhance that for the both of you. Text him throughout. Have a couple pictures taken (especially one before and another after). 

If you’re up for it, give him a call and put the phone down so he can listen. When you return, order him between your legs and tell him everything that happened while he cleans you up and makes you cum.

If the plan is for the husband/boyfriend to be there then have some idea to what his role will be. If not, it could get uncomfortable. Will it start as a threesome and turn into a watching session? Will he be relegated to a chair in the corner? Will you hold hands and keep him close? Do you want him dressed or naked or with just his cock hanging out so you can play with it or suck him from time to time? There are no right or wrong answers, but you should have an idea of what you want before it happens.

If you want my suggestion, I’d say to start with him watching. That’s easiest for you to get into things with your “guest”. Pretend he’s not there as you start your foreplay, then start by flashing him your eyes… smile at him and let him see the lust on your face… Wait until your guest is fully hard before involving your husband/boyfriend. If you want to talk to him, tell him how good something feels and ask if he likes watching your mouth wrapped around a big cock. Emphasize how big the other man is (if he’s bigger) and how amazing his tongue feels… He wants you to love every second of it. Every word you say will be etched in his mind forever, so go for it. I turn myself on even more when I’m talking to Mark. I love watching him squirm. lol

Men, as the night goes on, be ready to do as ordered. If she wants you to hold her hand or kiss her lips (even if she’s just sucked his cock), then you do it… and do it passionately. It’s okay to let your sub side shine. The more a submissive helpful pet you are to her, the more she’ll enjoy the contrast of the powerful man pumping orgasms through her soul. You should both embrace those roles—feed off that dynamic.

Part VI: Supporting Her - After Your First Adventure

Men… The most important thing you can do for her after a watch session is to make her feel like a beloved Princess. While she’s laying in the post-sex mess of sweat, drool and cum… Laying there a well-used, listless, leaking vessel on the verge of passing out… You need to kiss and love on her like never before. Show her how much you love her and enjoyed the incredible show she just put on for you. Connect through your eyes and every kiss across her body, the one she just gave to another man. Breathe in their shared essence while lapping up every drop. If he did his job correctly, then it will be everywhere, so take your time.

Don’t ask a million questions. There’s all the time in the world for that. In those moments right after, even when that other man is getting dressed or walking out the door… You will treat her like a fallen angel right after that stranger just used her like a filthy whore—and she, like you, will have loved every last second of it.

Prove that her pleasure IS your pleasure. Her ascension to Goddess is complete. However supportive or submissive or helpful you’ve been up to this point in time to this love of your life… You’re going to go further from this day forward.

No matter how good that other man just made her feel… No matter how many times he made her orgasm or came inside her body—there is nothing he could ever do to make her feel as loved or as powerful as this. You’ll both feel it in those dripping wet moments after you’ve cleaned her up then kissed your way to her mouth for the ultimate kiss.

Because no kiss has ever tasted quite as sweet as a cuckolding kiss when I can taste so clearly another man’s hot cum on my boyfriend’s loving lips and he looks me in the eye to tell me how much he loves me. When you hear those words for yourself, you’ll be thinking, You better… Because we’re doing this again!!

XoXo Jenny

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