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I think I just found the only reasonable exchange involving two people with opposing views on porn to ever exist on this website

Unfortunately I do get the urge to control and manipulate others because it's a literal symptom of my disorder. Having such urges does not make me or anyone a bad person. What would make me a bad person is following these urge and hurting others. But I can't control what urges I have. I can control my reaction to these urges.

Also I've seen people say stuff like "This is not normal, hope this helps" or "You need help" (in a insulting way) when pwNPD talk about their experiences. A majority of us are completely aware. It's not normal and we do need help because it's part of a mental disorder. People who say stuff like that make it difficult for us narcissists to get help. We are constantly demonized, even by professionals, the people who are supposed to help us.

i think about them a lot.

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Why is no one talking about how having diagnosed ASPD or psychopathy (also a ‘lack of remorse’ also is a frequent determining factor on parole or sentencing, as if that’s fucking controllable) gets you worse sentencing, like longer prison time or lose parole or even death penalty over life according to some. Literally the most blatant ableism nobody talks about. All considered normal and valid and talked about casually. Occasionally, ive heard of non ableist psychiatrists refuse to diagnose people with aspd when they might get in trouble with the law in future because of a fear theyd get worse sentences or death because of this. Having a disorder about a lack of empathy and impulse control is somehow considered voluntary and making you more “evil” and deserving of suffering. Prison system is shit in general but this is a great example.

jinx has literally the coolest and most beautiful character design ever in my opinion and i’m so not ready to say goodbye to it

no because its that they're the fear responses. the todoroki children are all just the fear responses. touya is fight, natsuo is flight, shoto is freeze, and fuyumi is fawn. when you stare down abuse every day you have to react somehow, and they all just developed different methods of coping with it

Otter enjoying the morning sun by Mikko Malminen

Isana (whale)

By Saito Soma

She was just a baby and she lost so much