To Be A High Femme Lesbian 🎀

To be a high femme lesbian 🎀

To be a high femme lesbian is to be a protector. Of butches, of history , of selfhood.

To be a high femme lesbian is to be a paradox of all that is heteronormative, of all that femininity is expected to be.

To be a high femme lesbian is to be gentle , to be kind , to be a safe haven for the ostracised stone butch lesbians in my circle and let them know there is a home for them, beating within my ribs.

To be a high femme lesbian is to be authentic , to not perform femininity but to reclaim and redefine it for myself. For the other high femmes I meet , for the butches I cherish.

To be a high femme lesbian is to have your own stone. To not let it be chipped , be melted , be disregarded as heterosexual indecency. To allow your sexuality to flourish in the cradling of a stone butch’s hands. To allow theirs to find refuge in your stone sanctuary.

To be a high femme lesbian is an honour , not to be taken for granted. It is love personified , it is unity and it is freedom.

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10 months ago

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My name is Aya, I'm 29 years old. I'm married to Jihad, who is 32, and we have three beautiful children: Abdelrahman (7 years old), Jori (5 years old), and Adam (2 years old). We live in the northern part of Gaza.

Donate to Save Gaza: A Brighter Future for Aya and Her Family, organized by Aya Alanqar
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A Cry for Help from Gaza My name is Aya, I'm 29 years old. I'm marrie… Aya Alanqar needs your support for Save Gaza: A Brighter Future for

Abdelrahman, Adam, and Jori are the heartbeat of my heart and the light of my life.

My Name Is Aya, I'm 29 Years Old. I'm Married To Jihad, Who Is 32, And We Have Three Beautiful Children: Abdelrahman (7

Abdelrahman: the lion of the house, the helpful and loving boy to his siblings and family.

My Name Is Aya, I'm 29 Years Old. I'm Married To Jihad, Who Is 32, And We Have Three Beautiful Children: Abdelrahman (7

Jori: my beloved girl, the one closest to my heart, and my little mini-me.

My Name Is Aya, I'm 29 Years Old. I'm Married To Jihad, Who Is 32, And We Have Three Beautiful Children: Abdelrahman (7

Adam: my little hero and my spoiled child.

My Name Is Aya, I'm 29 Years Old. I'm Married To Jihad, Who Is 32, And We Have Three Beautiful Children: Abdelrahman (7

Since the onset of the latest war in Gaza, our home has been completely destroyed, forcing us into displacement. We’ve had to move more than thirteen times in search of safety. During this harrowing journey, we faced severe hunger and malnutrition that nearly took my life and the lives of my children. Additionally, we were exposed to numerous contagious diseases and dangerous epidemics.

Before: This is our home, our dream, and our promising future.

My Name Is Aya, I'm 29 Years Old. I'm Married To Jihad, Who Is 32, And We Have Three Beautiful Children: Abdelrahman (7

My children have to travel long distances just to get water and stand in line for hours to get food. Their mental health has been shattered by the war, their education has come to a halt, and they have suffered from catastrophic hunger that almost claimed their lives.

After: This is our home, built with our sweat and effort, and it has been completely destroyed.

My Name Is Aya, I'm 29 Years Old. I'm Married To Jihad, Who Is 32, And We Have Three Beautiful Children: Abdelrahman (7

The Right to a Peaceful Life

My children deserve to live a peaceful life free from fear and anxiety. I dream of your help to support my family and escape this genocide. Your assistance means the world to me and my children.

Your donations can be a beacon of hope for us. Every dollar can help save my children's lives and give them a chance to live in peace. Your prayers for us to overcome this ordeal and lift the siege are greatly needed.

Donate to Save Gaza: A Brighter Future for Aya and Her Family, organized by Aya Alanqar
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A Cry for Help from Gaza My name is Aya, I'm 29 years old. I'm marrie… Aya Alanqar needs your support for Save Gaza: A Brighter Future for
4 months ago
What’d She Mean By That 🤔 Missed The Vtmb Vampire Lesbians So
What’d She Mean By That 🤔 Missed The Vtmb Vampire Lesbians So

what’d she mean by that 🤔 missed the vtmb vampire lesbians so

pandora (girl with beanie) belongs to @napelf

1 year ago

I can't stand Child free people, as a child free person.

Like I have a legit trigger based in children screaming. That is a PTSD thing from years of abuse when I was a child. So I can't hardly deal with children in public but guess what!!! That's a personal problem! I deal with that by not going at times when kids are there! Or by putting in headphones!

But demanding the world become more hostile to children than it already is is just the peak of fucking entitlement.

"Oh but my wonderful anniversary dinner shouldn't be ruined by the sound of a baby screaming"

Go to a restaurant that doesn't allow children. They do exist! They tend to be more expensive but they exist! Or! Or! Better yet! Don't eat out! Rent out somewhere for the night and cook your own damn food!

"I shouldn't have to listen to a baby screaming on a plane"

That baby is far more uncomfortable than you are. It's literally in pain because of pressure changes in the cabin. Parents hate it too! There is no good answer for this so suck it up! Get noise canceling headphones and listen to a podcast or a book or music.

Children are human beings. They're not annoying pets that people happen to create. They have a right to be in public, to exist just like anyone else.

If you want eternal calm and quiet move out to the country and become a fucking hermit.

9 months ago

happy butch appreciation day to every butch out there! sending you all little kisses and hugs. I'm blessed to be in community with you all, and jolly to see so many of you thriving on here.

I wish you the best every damn day for the rest of my life, every day should be a day to be appreciative of butchness.


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2 years ago

For someone who is tired 100% of the time, I sure am bad at sleeping.

6 months ago

Hi, I hope you are doing well🌹

Can you help by sharing my story, reblog, and donating if you can, to keep hope alive for me, I'm type 1 diabetes. I am calling on your humanity and kindness to help me raise $340.

This amount will enable the approval of an insulin pump that will help me better control my diabetes. Although I am happy that I have been approved the hardest part is the money to pay for the pump and equipment, please your contribution is important. Be blessed ♥️

❤️❤️❤️❤️


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1 year ago

#thisssss

the idea that every single mentally ill person is at any given moment in time 100% control of all their actions shows a profound lack of understanding on what the fuck a mental illness is.

1 year ago

Noor, an Egyptian lesbian, is seeking asylum abroad.

Noor, An Egyptian Lesbian, Is Seeking Asylum Abroad.

hi all. a dear friend of mine, also an Egyptian lesbian, sent this story to me. she is an acquaintance of Noor. they have to be really lowkey about this, so i’m here to amplify Noor’s story.

the person raising funds is Noor’s friend, Azra. they say: “Noor is an Egyptian lesbian who lives in an abusive household. She has no stable access to technology or internet as of right now, and we fear that one day we might lose all contact.. Noor has no chance to life freely as a lesbian in Egypt and her family found out about her identity recently, and they have started threatening her. We fear that her family might force her into marriage very soon. Noor wants to seek Asylum abroad and we as her friends are raising money to cover her expenses for the journey and survival needs. Please help her.”

Noor is so close to the goal. Here is the link: please share around and donate if you can 🤍

10 months ago

Hello 🖐

I am aya living in North Gaza with my three children, and we are facing starvation in the northern region. We have moved more than 13 times trying to find a safe place, but there is no safety anywhere.

I am asking for your help to protect my children and get us out of this imminent danger😥.

Your donations and sharing of my story will greatly contribute to our survival.🙏🙏

https://gofund.me/7dc97966

please, share Aya's gofund.me link so her family (including her husband and 3 very young children) can find a safe location to be after their home was destroyed ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️


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1 year ago
⚢ Every Day Is Butch Appreciation Day! ⚢

⚢ every day is butch appreciation day! ⚢

happy butch appreciation day to all of the lovely butches out there! ♡ i pulled all the visuals from an old survey i put out back in winter.... 100ish people sent in what they think of when they see the word "butch" and it makes me feel so warm every time i scroll though it :) i chose the most frequently listed/visually fitting, but i also wanted to include things that reminded me of my butch (his work boots, bandana)… i'd also love to someday do a piece including some of the more subtle submissions from the survey! one big collage of butch!!! :)

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she/they 21 mentally ill, high femme lesbian into Nana, queer horror and theory. rambles about lesbian literature. monogamous & single femme4butch TERFS + MINORS + MEN DNI/DNF

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