Tell Me Why I Said "why Do I Get Anxious About Showers?" And Then Said "oH WAter" Right As I Stepped

“That’s what people do who love you. They put their arms around you and love you when you’re not so lovable.”

— Deb Caletti

“unbinding” spell jar

sort of like an “unbinding” jar, i made a spell jar to release the hold my favorite person has on me.

a favorite person in the context of borderline personality disorder is a person who you have an unhealthily strong bond with. you base your self worth on how this person treats you.

INGREDIENTS:

a jar

a picture of the person you are unbinding

two scrolls of paper with your names on each one

string

red chili flakes (used for banishing negativity)

table salt (to cleanse and purify)

black candle (to banish bad energy)

white candle (to purify)

optional: an artifact that symbolizes your friendship

STEPS:

gather your ingrediants. write your name on one slip of paper, and the other person’s name on the other. connect the two pieces of paper with a piece of string.

light a black candle. with your intent in mind (severing the connection between the two of you), burn the string connecting the papers.

tear up the picture of the person. doing so carefully, burn the picture and the slips of paper.

add the ashes to your jar.

add red chili flakes and salt to your jar.

optional: in my jar, i added a ring that she handmade for me.

light the white candle. keeping your intent in mind (sealing off the jar and thereby banishing and severing your bond), seal the jar with the white candlewax.

intent is very important. your purpose for this jar is to channel that bond into it, cleansing your life and banishing that negative energy and unhealthy bond.

nothing's better than private life

genuinely concerned about how little queer history thats getting through to the younger members of the community. literally saw teenagers talking about how talking about pronouns wasn't a thing until 2020??? horrifying to think that they seem to insist queer culture didn't exist until they found it.

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I am moving from my past and embracing new beginnings.

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You learned your lessons, be it from a situation or a lover. You’ve endured the good and the bad, you’ve released all negative vibes, and now it’s time to move on and embrace the new beginnings.

Your guides are protecting you every step of the way. You are in good hands, now flourish.

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Blessed be, bbs 💕✨

all of us have been unlearning problematic things - it’s really malicious and in bad faith to purposefully dig up old posts by someone that do not reflect their current opinions and attack them over it out of context

I think we should destroy the mindset of not asking people things related to their degrees...that's like the whole reason they have them

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You’re so strong. I promise, this is all worth it. I love you. Everything is going to be okay.