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October 24, 2001 - Cleveland, OH, USA - Pledge Of Allegiance Tour

Daron Malakian of System Of A Down stands in for Paul Landers during Rammstein’s set

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Florence Welch during the High as Hope Tour, 2018-2019.

Best version of the NY kiss that I can find so far for anyone interested - we've seen from a distance that they played with their heads together again, but it turns out doing that gave Richard the perfect opportunity to extend his guitar improv until Paul started laughing! We've seen Paul have some fun teasing Richard on the European leg of the tour (making Richard follow him in circles around the stage, a fake-out kiss, etc.) so it's fun to see Richard be the one doing the teasing this time 😄

concept: spotify wrapped but for fanfics

"HOW DO YOU KNOW THEY DIDN'T?"

Stop taking people with dementia to the cemetery

“Oh yeah, every time that dad forgets mom is dead, we head to the cemetery so he can see her gravestone.”

WHAT. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard some version of this awful story. Stop taking people with dementia to the cemetery. Seriously. I cringe every single time someone tells me about their “plan” to remind a loved one that their loved one is dead.

I also hear this a lot: “I keep reminding mom that her sister is dead, and sometimes she recalls it once I’ve said it.” That’s still not a good thing. Why are we trying to force people to remember that their loved ones have passed away?

If your loved one with dementia has lost track of their timeline, and forgotten that a loved one is dead, don’t remind them. What’s the point of reintroducing that kind of pain? Here’s the thing: they will forget again, and they will ask again. You’re never, ever, ever, going to “convince” them of something permanently. 

Instead, do this:

“Dad, where do you think mom is?”

When he tells you the answer, repeat that answer to him and assert that it sounds correct. For example, if he says, “I think mom is at work,” say, “Yes, that sounds right, I think she must be at work.” If he says, “I think she passed away,” say, “Yes, she passed away.” 

People like the answer that they gave you. Also, it takes you off the hook to “come up with something” that satisfies them. Then, twenty minutes later, when they ask where mom is, repeat what they originally told you.

my favs from Xing

hold the fuck up I just noticed there’s an apple juice emoji

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Gillian Anderson and David Duchovny photographed by David LaChapelle