Haven’t Posted In A Hot Second But Here Goes :P

I've seen a few new, very aggressive anti-nondisordered plurality blogs pop up over the last week. Going out of their way to post anti crap in inclusive plural spaces. So I just want to remind everyone that:

No one knows you better than you.

No one knows what you're going through/experiencing better than you do.

There is no 'definitive 1000% way' to 'prove' someone is a system or not. It is a largely internal and subject experience. And that's absolutely ok.

You do not need other people's permission to exist.

You do not need to prove yourself/selves to others.

Your system's origins no matter what they are do not make you more or less of a systems.

You DO NOT have to relive or reveal any trauma/s you have suffered to prove your validity. And anyone who asks you to do so does not have your well-being in mind.

You aren't harming anyone by talking about your lived experience and seeking community with others that understand.

You are a human being who is deserving of respect and kindness.

Respect and kindness of someone else's lived experience SHOULD NOT be contingent on if they can scrounge up articles or peer reviewed studies on if an extremely personal experience is valid or not.

Over medicalization and pathologation of plurality as a whole is rooted in racism and colonialization.

Do not let others act as if they get to dictate who you are and what you experience. The only reliable witness/s to the inner workings of your own mind are those who reside in it. No one else can tell you how you think or what your internal experiences are.

(And its bonkers that some people try)

To any and everything system and plural out there regardless of origin:

You are amazing.

You are valid.

The world is a better place for having you in it.

Balrog everything (everything being gender, presentation, and otherkin) because I can and because coining event !!

under the cut because long and possibly eyestrain? It's hard for me know so lmk if something's eyestrain ig

[1st ID: A seven stripe flag with slightly dark colors. The colors from top to bottom are yellow, orange, dark red, white, very dark brown, very dark reddish brown, and black.]

Balroggender [Balrog - Gender]

A gender related to the Balrog from Lord of the Rings, the aesthetics of the Balrog from Lord of the Rings, and anything else related to the Balrog from Lord of the Rings.

[2nd ID: A six stripe flag with slightly dark colors. The colors from top to bottom are red, orange, yellow, very dark yellow, very dark brown, and black.]

Balrog Presentation/Xenintation/Charatation

A xenintation/charatation term related to the Balrog from Lord of the Rings.

[3rd ID: A six stripe flag with slightly dark colors. The five from top to bottom are yellow, orange, dark red, dark brown, and black. In the center is a dark red circle outlined in black, with a kin star (a seven pointed hollow star) inside.] [4th ID: An identical flag, but the circle has no fill.] [5th ID: An identical flag, but with no symbol.]

Balrog Otherkin

I'm not therian or any of the other creature terms so feel free to put your own symbol on the blank flag or wtvr

all colours based off the colours of the Balrog from Lord of the Rings.

coined for @svd-mogai's job quitting coining event for April 23rd with the prompt of something that brings you joy.

@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea

I'm lobe Balrog

Thank you accessibilitea for the image IDs

[Image ID: A five stripe flag with a gradient from light greyish brown to dark brown.]

Trapdergender [Trap(ped) - (Un)der - Gender]

A gender related to being deep underground; specifically being trapped deep underground but whether or not that is a part of somebody's gender and meaning of this term is up to them.

Colours are based off of dirt and darkness.

Coined for 12/4 of Felidaety's coining event with the theme of altitude.

@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea @felidaety

fuck would it be bad of me an undiagnosed highly suspected npd haver to coin an npd related term/gender,,,? Started suspecting a few months ago and have done a bunch of research but unlike ADHD (diagnosed) and ASD (highly suspected and peer reviewed by some diagnosed autists [hi tiny]) I don’t know anyone with NPD that I can ask if they think my experiences ‘fit’ under NPD and even though I’ve done research and looked at others’ experiences and related heavily I don’t feel like I’m /allowed/ to even just say I suspect it- I don’t know- I’m sorry- I might just delete this- I just don’t know… and because I’m not diagnosed and I’m not even sure at all I’m scared of doing something that I’m not supposed to…

[No image ID, sorry]

ButterflyWeedSymbous [Butterfly - Weed - Symbous]

A term under the -Symbous system related to butterfly weed, the aesthetics of the butterfly weed flower, and the floriography meaning of butterfly weed, that being solitude and rejection.

Colours picked from an image of the flower.

@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea

[No image ID, sorry]

Kandistargender [Kandi - Star - Gender]

A gender that is Kandi stars and feels like making and playing with Kandi stars.

Colours are based off of the colours of pony beads that I personally have. I can make a less eyestrainy version or a version with different colours if anyone would like, or you can make your own if you tag me.

Coined for @daybreakthing’s 530 follower coining event prompt 5, (cutecore/)kidcore.

@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea

[No image ID, sorry]

BlackRoseSymbous [Black - Rose - Symbous]

A term under the -Symbous system related to black roses, the aesthetics of the black rose flower, and the floriography meaning of the black rose, that being mystery and farewell.

Colours picked from an image of the flower.

@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea

[ID: a rectangular flag of 6 even horizontal stripes, the colors go form top to bottom as turquoise, dark turquoise, black, dark matte red, and matte pale red./end ID]

2012endholic  [2012 - End - Hol(e) -ic]

A gender related to the conspiracy theory that the world ended in 2012 because the earth was sucked into a black hole and we just haven't realized it yet.

Colours based off of my associations with 2012 and black in the middle for black hole.

Coined for @beatlesgore's coining event for day two with the theme of favourite conspiracy theory.

@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea

Thank you accessibilitea for the image ID

ough thinking about making a gender system but idk if I have motivation…

Good news !!!

[PT: Good news (three exclamation points) /END PT]

I'm probably gonna be posting more gender today !!!

Bad news !!!

[PT: Bad news (three exclamation points) /END PT]

It's because I'm incredibly unstable and got informed of something very distressing and I'm either experiencing a distinct depressive episode or having a narc crash !!!