Dont Treat Your Manifestation As An Option!!!

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✧ the elle woods study method: mindset makeover & foundation building ✧

hey lovelies! 💗

omg, i'm literally bursting with excitement to start this transformative series with you all! we're going to dive deep into actually studying like elle woods, and all her study methods. it's going to change your academic life. (while keeping you fabulous, obviously!)

let's start with the most crucial element - the elle woods mindset. you know how elle went from being underestimated at harvard to graduating with honors? that transformation began in her mind, and that's exactly where we're starting too!

the core principles of the elle woods mindset (get ready to take notes!):

unwavering self-belief: elle's iconic "what, like it's hard?" attitude wasn't just cute - it was crucial

authenticity as your superpower: your unique perspective is your strength

resilience through positivity: turning every "you can't" into "watch me"

strategic determination: working smarter, not just harder

maintaining your essence: success shouldn't mean losing yourself

let me break down how to actually build this mindset (because theory without practice is like a perfect outfit without accessories - incomplete!):

mindset foundation building: • start a daily confidence journal (pink, obviously!) • write three daily affirmations • document your wins, no matter how small • reflect on challenges and how you overcame them

goal setting the elle way: • dream big (harvard law big!) • break down major goals into mini-milestones • create realistic timelines • identify potential obstacles and plan solutions • celebrate every achievement (even the tiny ones!)

your personal success toolkit: • a dedicated study planner (color-coded, elle would approve) • positive affirmation cards • vision board (mix academic and personal goals) • progress tracking system • reward system for reaching milestones

practical assignments for this week:

yes, i'm giving you all homework, because what's a lesson without doing homework? <3

mindset makeover tasks: • create your confidence corner (a designated study space that makes you feel powerful) • write your personal academic manifesto • identify and challenge three limiting beliefs • create a morning power routine

organization prep: • get your study essentials (cute but functional!) • set up your planning system • create a semester overview • design your ideal weekly schedule

community building: • find your study buddies (your personal warner hunting club, but for academics!) • join study groups • set up accountability partnerships • create a support system

elle's journey wasn't about memorizing legal terms - it was about believing she belonged in those hallowed halls while wearing her signature pink. you deserve to feel that same confidence in your academic journey. <3

advanced tips for the overachievers (because why not be extra?):

record yourself giving pep talks for tough days

create a study aesthetic that energizes you

develop personal success rituals

build a playlist that makes you feel powerful

photograph your progress for motivation

coming up in this series:

time management secrets

memory techniques that actually work

note-taking methods that slay

exam preparation strategies

self-care routines for academic success

group study dynamics

presentation skills

stress management

celebration strategies

and more of course <3

remember: elle woods didn't just survive harvard - she thrived while being unapologetically herself. that's our goal too! you're not just going to study better; you're going to build an academic approach that celebrates who you are.

homework time (but make it fun):

create your academic vision board

write your semester goals

design your ideal study schedule

set up your success tracking system

prepare your study space

xoxo, mindy

p.s. don't forget to reblog and follow for the complete series! we're building our own little academic sorority here! <3

Reading BWWM love stories on wattpad be like… I’m about to talk shit under the pic. 🗣️

I’m not gonna out the writer…I’m not gonna drop the title of the story either. As a black female reader who has “If he fine, he fine” energy and wants to enjoy stories of my favorite characters or celebrities who happen to be of different races and ethnicities and have them paired with a black reader or black oc as a romantic interest…

Black women are people and they should be seen as such. We are more than our outside appearance. We are more than breasts, ass, hips, and lips. No, we do not taste like chocolate because we’re not food because why does being attracted to black women have to mean you’re a “chocolate lover”? Also, just because the character or celebrity is a different race does not mean you have to put in the fact that they “never really been into black women” before dating them and then after seeing one that’s conventionally attractive, they believe they’re gonna start to like all of them like we’re an experiment or something. This goes for any writer of any race that wants to write for an interracial pairing, just be careful how you word describing people from your own culture or another’s. It was a bit romantic in the first half but, damn! Please write black people like we have personalities, feelings, and substance.

Ya’ll can agree or disagree, I’m gonna say what I’m gonna say.

Credit: @bunnydoll.closet (Insta)

What are some small things a girl can do to improve her life and appearance

pretty little tips by me 🎀

keep a full bottle of water next to your bed and chug as much as you can when you wake up

wear pantiliners daily and change 1-2 times a day

make up your bed as soon as you get out of it

use cleansing balms/natural oils to break down makeup instead of wipes

deep dive info on your desired career field for fun instead of aimlessly scrolling social media

as sexy as an RBF can be, try to maintain a friendly smile when in public and people will treat you differently

you should always have a writing utensil and a notebook on your person at all times

speak up for yourself

every few weeks, dust your ends before your wash routine

wear body glitter and shimmer powder

invest in an epilator, or wax system for your face and body, as these are a better solution to facial hair than plucking and shaving

stop telling so much of your business, if any at all

use therabreath mouth rinse twice daily

use whitening toothpaste and whitening strips

oil your lashes nightly and seal with a very light layer on vaseline

keep your brows and facial hair maintained and your skin clean and healthy looking and you can never look bad

carry facial spray or moisturizer with you to stay glowy

or, keep a powder puff in your purse to absorb excess oil and stay clean looking

powder your underarms in the summer

turn your bedroom into a sanctuary for you and yourself only. this means make it feel safe, clean, and give it details that scream ‘you’

keep a pack of press on french tip nails on you in case of emergency

practice your walk, especially in heels

get a waist trainer and wear it consistently, slowly going up in intensity

Owning a girly account and being a minor on here is so hard. Like all of these porn addicted dudes in here are SO ANNOYING. Whenever I said I wanted an older man I meant a nice, respectful, and gentle type of man, not a clapped guy who harasses little girls on social media😭😭

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