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This one is a wordplay with the French title of Tennessee Williams’ play, “Cat on a hot tin roof”. In French, the novel is titled “La chatte sur un toit brûlant” (which could be literally translated by something more like “the female cat on a burning hot roof”). “Chatte” (female cat) is also the slang for pussy. I simply removed the last “t” of “toit” (roof) to turn it into “toi”, meaning “you”. So, to make it short, the caption of this drawing sounds exactly like Tennessee Williams’ play title, but means “the pussy on burning hot you”. (And yes, I tried new things with walnut ink and a brush on a different paper) https://ift.tt/2rQj7UZ

HWRP #5 Start carrying a condom in your purse. Of course you don’t use them with your husband, so why else would you need condoms? After you put a condom in your purse, ask him to get something from your purse for you. He will see it. Maybe he says something maybe he doesn’t. Periodically take the condom out or replace it with a different brand. Again have him get something from your purse. He will will go looking for it this time. After a few times you will not have to ask him to go into your purse, he’ll sneak a peak when your not looking.

So your husband has confessed his desire for you to explore sex outside of your marriage. You’re not sure how you feel about that. You can still have some fun with it even if you have not made the decision to open your marriage. There are some fun ways to explore the fantasy without inviting another person in. This can also be a good way to test the waters and make sure your husband is really on board with this. Have fun with it and drive him crazy with role play!

He defines it brilliantly here, beautiful.

Happy husband here, I’ll try to make sense of it. First off, we’re very sexual and sorta kinky people in the first place. So we’re already open minded. Don’t misunderstand our relationship dynamic as a one size fits all, that is far from the truth. Every couple has their own wants, needs, rules, etc with their relationship. This may sound selfish and it can be at time. Here is the pleasure I get from it. I love the feeling of allowing our relationship to be open. It’s like giving her the gift of exploring her sexual freedom with others. I have a grand imagination and I get extremely turned on by the thought of her with another man (or woman) I’ve always loved watching her fuck. With that being said I don’t need to always be there to watch her. In many cases I prefer not to. I enjoy the anticipation of her coming home. And that is when the most intense intimacy begins. Her coming home with that sly smile. The way she looks at me. I know she got what she wanted and liked it. The way she lays next to me or on top of me kissing me and massaging me. She begins telling me the story of her night. The more details she gives me and how much she enjoyed it the better. She tells me how big his cock was and how much she loved being fucked by it. The more she enjoyed her tryst, the more I love it, the more intense the electricity is between us. It becomes a moment in a vacuum where nothing exists except the two of us. It’s so personal and direct just between us. The fact she fucked another person is only a catalyst to our passion for each other. Although she enjoyed her time with another man, it’s really about that time when she comes home to me. She’s told me that when she’s fucking someone else, the thought of me being frustrated waiting for her to come home or imagining me jerking off to the thought of her fucking on her date, makes her cum the hardest. This isn’t for everyone and not everyone can understand what a husband gets from it. It’s a feeling of power and helplessness, it’s frustration and anticipation, it’s yearning and release of the most intense kind. It’s sex and it’s love. Hope that helps a little and thanks for the ask! -Be curious not judgmental.

Asymmetric Sex...

One of the most surprising aspects of wife led marriage is the asymmetric nature of sex. Few wives can imagine how different their sex life becomes when they assume a position of dominance in the marriage.   In most marriages sex is essentially symmetric, or at least idealized as such. When one partner is in the mood, usually the husband, he works to arouse the other or, more commonly, simply initiates sex with, if he is in any way a gentleman, the expectation of mutual satisfaction. But wife led marriage is different… In a wife led marriage, the wife controls sex. Either she allows her husband to indicate an interest, to which she responds positively or negatively, or she reserves the initiation of sex entirely to herself. In either case, the wife is the gate keeper of sex. When she does choose to engage in sex, it is primarily focused on her satisfaction. She expects her husband to bring her to orgasm at least once, perhaps more, before there is any possibility of his own. So every sexual encounter in a wife led marriage arrives at a point where the wife has been satisfied but the husband has not. This makes sense because there is virtually no risk of a healthy husband failing to orgasm during sexual intercourse whereas there is considerable risk that he might before the wife, thus depriving her and ending the intimacy. The wife’s first orgasms, therefore, are achieved by means other than sexual intercourse. The possibilities are endless but usually involve manual or oral stimulation or the use of sex toys. But just as the wife decides when sex occurs, so does she decide how far it proceeds. In particular, she decides whether sex proceeds beyond her first orgasms. As a routine matter, the husband not only has no expectations about when or whether sex will happen but, as well, how far it will proceed when it does. As part of the transformation of the marriage, the wife may be scaling back her husband’s orgasms and, at the same time, increasing her own. How far can this go? Well, let us suppose that you decide to allow your husband an average of one orgasm a week. At the same time, you might indulge yourself each night. That would result in a ratio of 7:1. But you might allow him as few as a couple orgasms a month while you enjoy a quickie in the morning, another after work, and a more intimate and prolonged encounter in the evening. That is a ratio approaching 50:1. These ratios, while interesting, are irrelevant. Once you pass beyond 5:1 there is really no longer any meaningful connection between your orgasms and his, they become entirely different matters: his are a strict matter of discipline, the exact frequency that brings about optimal adoration and obedience while you can enjoy as many as you wish. In fact, the more sexual intimacy, the better for the marriage. That might seem incredible but for the fact that as you become ever more proficient in exercising erotic power in your marriage, your husband begins to derive ever greater happiness from your satisfaction. He will crave that morning quickie as much as you! Needless to say, this extreme asymmetry does not come about overnight. It develops naturally over time so that, gradually, eventually, both of you come to regard wife-centered sex as a normal aspect of wife led marriage…

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In french, “soins bucco-dentaires” means “oral and dental care” (“bucco” is for mouth, and “dentaire” for teeth). “Dentaire” sounds quite close to “dentelle”, which means lace. So the caption sounds quite close to the usual “soins bucco-dentaires” but means “care for the mouth and the lace” https://ift.tt/2mOCH15