🇬🇧 The French Expression “un Rien L'habille”, Literally Translated By “nothing Dresses Her”,

In french, “soins bucco-dentaires” means “oral and dental care” (“bucco” is for mouth, and “dentaire” for teeth). “Dentaire” sounds quite close to “dentelle”, which means lace. So the caption sounds quite close to the usual “soins bucco-dentaires” but means “care for the mouth and the lace” https://ift.tt/2mOCH15

“Bas les pattes !” is the french version of “hands off!” (well in fact it is closer to “paws off”). But the word “bas” has several meanings, from “down” to “stockings”. There you go! https://ift.tt/2xLXVQ2

Why Become a Mistress...

Written by Mistress Ivey,

Because it can be so much fun! That’s why…

I have written several books and heaven knows how many blog posts about how and why you should tease your man. But it seems like everything is about him, when in fact, the reason for becoming a Mistress is to have someone cater to your own needs, wants and desires. After all, isn’t that what this is all supposed to be about?

If taking control and setting up an FLR is supposed to be all about the woman’s needs and desires, why do I spend so much time talking about what she should be doing for him? Isn’t it obvious? I can think of only one reason… To keep him sexually aroused so that he will want to do everything he can for her.

But if she has to work this hard at it, isn’t that sort of self defeating? If by that you mean that she should have to do nothing and he should do everything, then it won’t work. Both partners must get something out of the relationship, and in order to do that, both must put something into the relationship. Tit for tat (pun intended). The great part about it is, the woman, you, should be getting a great deal more than you are putting into it. How is that fair? I didn’t say it was…

Here is how it really works… You are in charge! In charge of him. In charge of everything. You get a servant (sub, slave, whatever) to do all those things you don’t want to do. To get that, you have to keep him sexually aroused and focused on you. That’s it. The big bonus for you is the feelings that only come from having that much power and control at your fingertips.

Let’s face it, Ladies, don’t you get a little charge every time you give him an order and he complies? Especially if you have just ordered him to do something humiliating that he would never do without you “making” him do it? Then there is the powerful feelings when you ruin or completely deny him the orgasm he has been begging for for the last two months! The look on his face when his ejaculate dribbles out of his cock after a long tease session is priceless. The fact that he hasn’t had an orgasm in two or even three months just adds to the joy.

Yes, you spend some time keeping him horny by teasing his cock, telling him what to do, making sure he is doing everything you want, and then, of course, having to punish him when he doesn’t. But, there again, there is that feeling of power and control. Isn’t it wonderful?

I feel sorry for those women who look at all the sexual attention they give their partner as a chore. It’s not a chore, it’s an opportunity to have fun… At his expense… Thanks to MistressIvey

He defines it brilliantly here, beautiful.

Happy husband here, I’ll try to make sense of it. First off, we’re very sexual and sorta kinky people in the first place. So we’re already open minded. Don’t misunderstand our relationship dynamic as a one size fits all, that is far from the truth. Every couple has their own wants, needs, rules, etc with their relationship. This may sound selfish and it can be at time. Here is the pleasure I get from it. I love the feeling of allowing our relationship to be open. It’s like giving her the gift of exploring her sexual freedom with others. I have a grand imagination and I get extremely turned on by the thought of her with another man (or woman) I’ve always loved watching her fuck. With that being said I don’t need to always be there to watch her. In many cases I prefer not to. I enjoy the anticipation of her coming home. And that is when the most intense intimacy begins. Her coming home with that sly smile. The way she looks at me. I know she got what she wanted and liked it. The way she lays next to me or on top of me kissing me and massaging me. She begins telling me the story of her night. The more details she gives me and how much she enjoyed it the better. She tells me how big his cock was and how much she loved being fucked by it. The more she enjoyed her tryst, the more I love it, the more intense the electricity is between us. It becomes a moment in a vacuum where nothing exists except the two of us. It’s so personal and direct just between us. The fact she fucked another person is only a catalyst to our passion for each other. Although she enjoyed her time with another man, it’s really about that time when she comes home to me. She’s told me that when she’s fucking someone else, the thought of me being frustrated waiting for her to come home or imagining me jerking off to the thought of her fucking on her date, makes her cum the hardest. This isn’t for everyone and not everyone can understand what a husband gets from it. It’s a feeling of power and helplessness, it’s frustration and anticipation, it’s yearning and release of the most intense kind. It’s sex and it’s love. Hope that helps a little and thanks for the ask! -Be curious not judgmental.

I wonder what Gal does to fill the down time when she's on set, far away from her hubby and kids?