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one of the biggest things I can advocate for (in academia, but also just in life) is to build credibility with yourself. It’s easy to fall into the habit of thinking of yourself as someone who does things last minute or who struggles to start tasks. people will tell you that you just need to build different habits, but I know for me at least the idea of ‘habit’ is sort of abstract and dehumanizing. Credibility is more like ‘I’ve done this before, so I know I can do it, and more importantly I trust myself to do it’. you set an assignment goal for the day and you meet it, and then you feel stronger setting one the next day. You establish a relationship with yourself that’s built on confidence and trust. That in turn starts to erode the barrier of insecurity and perfectionism and makes it easier to start and finish tasks. reframing the narrative as a process of building credibility makes it easier to celebrate each step and recognize how strong your relationship with yourself can become

Done is Better than Perfect ✅

I never considered myself a perfectionist until I started coding. I'd obsess over pixels and be frustrated when my vision didn't align with what was within my ability to create. And I started to hear this phrase a lot:

"Done is better than perfect."

Of course, some things will always require precision, but one thing I'm slowly learning as I transition from university student to working professional (and back and forth between those two) is that for most things we do in life, there is a wide range for success.

The coolest people I know aren't the ones with the most money, fame, beauty, intelligence, or any other positive quality. Even if it's a mess and inelegant and nobody seems to care, they're the ones who show up everyday and keep doing.

Today was a success because it was done, not because it was perfect. 💚

I love getting better at programming

Old code

And new code that does the same thing

habits i should try to avoid burnout 🍵

to varying degrees, every semester i burn out. this one may become the worst i've had in recent years if i'm not careful bc of the way i'm trying to pack my schedule. anxiety has been unexpectedly high this week and it's only week 1! 😖

🐢 self-care:

get 8-10 hours of sleep daily

daily exercise - enough to get me physically tired enough to sleep

meditate AND journal daily

give myself at least one day a week to chill (probably will be a "reset" day bc i can't just vegetable and expect my brain to not self-destruct. for now, let's try saturdays.)

more quality time with the people i love throughout the week

fresh air + sunlight when the weather isn't too inhospitable

no phone mornings (i quickly fell out of the habit but it did wonders for my mental health 😭)

🐰 time management:

set reasonable goals. don't kid yourself into thinking you can complete everything on a to-do list you doubt you can finish even half of - if you doubt, you're probably right.

take plenty of breaks throughout the day

don't procrastinate bc procrastination's consequences will definitely lead to burnout. on the days you just don't feel it, give yourself a reason to study that speaks to you. what is demotivating you? give yourself the encouragement you need to not give up.

vary the order in which you do things so your days feel like they have more variety (e.g. vary the order in which you work on different subjects every day)

study based on energy level (i.e. try to study high-energy subjects when you have high energy and low-energy subjects when you have low energy. stop for the day when you're just not there anymore, don't try to push it.) this doesn't have to be contradictory to the point above cuz i still have lots of choices for what to do and my energy sometimes fluctuates like crazy throughout a single day.

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astrology observations🍒

Capricorn 5th house are very dedicated and passionate and care how they dress , act and how they show their talents/hobbies m

sagittarius are very wise and optimistic it’s beyond compare any other of the fire signs I know it’s the typical sagittarius but it’s literally true

aries can be really direct without sounding typical “harsh” and “loud” they can assert and confess how they feel in the most calmest and chill manner

aquarius people are the biggest empaths I think they’re the water signs of the zodiac because they just have so much sensitivity, understanding for any and everyone

Pisces moons can easily persuaded and naive

Pluto 3rd house usually has a different or harsh school life maybe even alot of stress/depression and doubtful things

Scorpio risings have the most noticeable features like you don’t wanna be perceived but that nose is looking pointy hun🫶🏽♏️

Scorpio suns/Venus have a hard time letting toxic people/relationships go 

Aquarius don’t fw to many people despite their very friendly nature lmaoo

People with the same sign in personal planets can have very similar faces

Leo 6H people can be people who like to spice or add some type of arts and crafts/hobby into their daily routine like painting/listening to soundtracks/going out

Taurus 10H can be someone who seems very caring , grounded and a little stubborn with their opinions/beliefs etc.

Astro Observations II

💙 Scandals are always surrounding air placements for some reason.

💜 Moon making aspect to Venus can prefer to be around women. However if it’s harsh, prominent women in their life made have made them feel like they’re not pretty enough.

💙 Capricorn placements/dominant 🤝 prominent bone structure

💜 Sagittarius individuals, especially sun, love their freedom, it’s true. They cannot be tied down.

💙 Neptune in any house can blur boundaries and cause people to feel misunderstood around the elements of that house.

💜 Neptune rules projections too so depending on the aspect and sign people can often project onto these natives.

💙 Air dominance in one’s chart can really indicate someone who is a sapiosexual. This also includes air venus and air mars.

💜 Cardinal energy (Aries, Cancer, Libra, Capricorn) is very forward moving, regardless of the sign. These people once set on something, will achieve it. Though they may have different methods of achieving their goals.

💙 Gemini and Pisces, especially Mercury. These people are chameleons. They can switch up and become the people they are communicating with.

💜 Saturn aspecting Mercury, in Gemini or in the 3rd house. Many times these people have been made to feel like their way of communicating or expressing themselves is invalid. However the older they get and the more Saturn matures, the easier it gets.

💙 Aries ascendents can have lighter hair than the rest of their family members.

💜 Aries ascendents also can appear to have full bodies even when they may not be athletic.

💙 Virgo sun individuals can really be perfectionists.

💜 Taurus moon people may have been told they have comfy shoulders or they give great hugs.

💙 Cancer women have this home wrecker title because it’s really easy for them to act like a damsel in distress. People will quickly take their side. Men will want to care for them and potentially give up their lifestyle.

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Aries in the houses: What motivates you?

Aries in the 1st house: You like to be leaders. You are motivated by the opportunity to express yourself, to declare yourself to the world, as well as self-realization. Playing sports is also an important aspect of motivation! You are a hardy person.

Aries in the 2nd house: Your passion is related to material goods, especially finances. The opportunity to earn a lot of money, delicious food, and a comfortable life motivates you to take action to achieve this comfort.

Aries in the 3rd house: You are a bright communicator, you like to communicate, you like to argue, you argue hotly. You are energized by communication, debate, and daring arguments. Humor can also be your passion, it gives you liveliness. Also, the opportunity to gain new knowledge, information, experience or skills motivates you.

Aries in the 4th house: Here motivation can be related to home, comfort, care. Perhaps you pay great attention to the comfort of your home, strive for it, and therefore it motivates you. You like to protect people close to you.

Aries in the 5th house: Your passion is creativity, children, holidays. You are the soul of the company, you like to have fun, you can find your expression in art. All this motivates you. Also, your or other people's children can give you energy.

Aries in the 6th house: Motivation regarding this house can be tied to work, perfectionism, cleanliness, ideal. Perhaps you are striving to achieve the ideal in something, it lights a fire in you and motivates you. Maintaining a healthy body and spirit also plays an important role for you, so exercising and regulating nutrition also motivates you. You love cleaning and keeping your workplace clean. It gives you confidence.

Aries in the 7th house: the 7th house is the house of relationships, partnerships, your enemies. Perhaps your enemies motivate you, make you stronger, and you want to rub their noses in. Also, relationships, whether they are friendly, romantic or business, give you a temper. Perhaps you are popular because of your fiery, brash character, or popularity motivates you.

Aries in the 8th house: Here the theme of the occult, intimacy, deep emotions makes your blood boil in your veins. You are motivated and hooked by the forbidden, you want to solve the riddle. Having a sexual relationship or deepening your connection with your loved ones also gives you energy. Perhaps you are addicted to activities, sports, having such a position. Movement motivates you.

Aries in the 9th house: Traveling, learning can be your passion. You want to delve into philosophical issues and understand the meaning of life. Trips, long or short, light a fire in you.

Aries in the 10th house: You are an ambitious person. Your ambitions are connected with recognition, hard work. You love to achieve your goals and goals serve as motivation for you. You may seem like an ardent, bright, active person to others. Achieving a certain status or niche in social roles is your motivation.

Aries in the 11th house: Friends, like-minded people! It's your passion and what motivates you. You love spending time with friends, they energize you. Like to communicate with people who understand you, share your ideas and (for someone) your rebellious, defiant spirit. They are like a breath of fresh air for you. Perhaps you are motivated by technology or innovation, for example, buying a new phone of the latest model.

Aries in the 12th house: Meditation, self-care is what gives you energy and motivates. Also, the opportunity to make charitable gestures, help those in need, lifts your spirits.

🍏 ASTRO OBSERVATIONS 🍏

I am not a professional astrologer, just based on my personal experience.

🍏 TAURUS MOONS have difficulty accepting changes, they can become defensive and even criticize before changing.

🍏 SCORPIO MARS natives, when they are angry, they do not explode at the moment, they manage to keep their anger and it accumulates like a snowball.

🍏 THE 11TH HOUSE is what I like to call the house of ego. Your favorite artists and songs live in this house.

If you have LEO in this house, you probably enjoy expressive and extravagant artists. Beyoncé, Kylie Minogue, Gwen Stefani, Grace Jones and Lady Gaga.

This is also the house of social media, you most likely to follow influencers, models, musicians and makeup artists.

You also love to post mirror selfies 🪞

🍏 MARS IN THE 2ND HOUSE tends not to share their things. If they are eating and someone asks for a piece, they will probably say no, or maybe yes, depending on what sign they are in. But deep down they didn't want to share.

(It's not only strictly to food though, it could be clothes, money or objects. This does not mean that they are selfish, they are just more attached and careful with their things.)

🍏 3RD HOUSE VENUS natives loves writing, their minds can go to imaginable places. Words and inspirations sometimes arrive at less unexpected moments, they love to be inspired by relationships and personal traumas. I'm not surprised that Taylor Swift and Stevie Nicks have this position.

that's all for today.

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YOUR 🔑 TO SUCCESS BASED ON JUPITER

Jupiter in the 1st house: Using your persona or appearance to win others over can get you far in life. Having confidence as well

Jupiter in the 2nd house: Saving your money and not spending it on materialistic things that don’t matter will help you gain success quicker

Jupiter in the 3rd house: Using social media to improve your business or using your communication skills can help you gain success

Jupiter in the 4th house: Finding a career that helps you get out your emotions and express them can help you gain success. Also careers involving homes/houses

Jupiter in the 5th house: Pushing yourself outside of your comfort zone and forcing yourself to do things that seem hard will help you gain success

Jupiter in the 6th house: Constantly improving yourself daily, having a healthy lifestyle, and being consistent can help you gain success

Jupiter in the 7th house: Making close business partners and associating yourself with the right people that are successful will help you gain success

Jupiter in the 8th house: Keeping your life private and starting your own businesses can help you become very successful

Jupiter in the 9th house: Exploring careers involving traveling, teaching, television, media, or interviewing can help you gain success. Also becoming more optimistic

Jupiter in the 10th house: Setting long term goals for yourself and working really hard/having a lot of self discipline can help you gain success

Jupiter in the 11th house: Using more manifestation techniques like making manifestation board and having goals/wishes will help you gain success. Also making connections

Jupiter in the 12th house: Healing your karma and finding a career where you can express yourself creatively will help you gain success

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Placements in the natal chart that indicate a good connection with your sibling(s) 💞

Jupiter in the 3rd house

Ruler of the 3rd house positively aspected ; ruler of the third house trine/sextile/conjunct Jupiter

Venus in the 3rd house

Mercury trine/sextile/conjunct Moon

Ceres in the 3rd house

Mercury trine/sextile/conjunct Ceres

Vesta in the 3rd house

Vesta trine/sextile/conjunct Mercury

Sun in the 3rd house

Sun trine/sextile/conjunct Mercury

Moon in the 3rd house

Placements in the natal chart that can indicate a bad relationship with your sibling(s)

Pluto opposite/square/conjunct Mercury

Pluto in the 3rd house

Saturn in the 3rd house

Mars opposite/square/conjunct Mercury

Saturn opposite/square/conjunct Mercury

Chiron in the 3rd house

Ruler of the 3rd house badly aspected; especially if the 3rd house is empty

Lilith in the 3rd house

Uranus in the 3rd house

Mercury opposite/square Uranus

Neptune square Uranus

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