Green Flags in Communication ๐๐ฌ
"I want to know when I hurt your feelings."
This shows they are willing to understand and acknowledge the impact of their actions.
"I don't want you to feel alone in this."
This shows empathy and indicates that the person is supportive and does not want the person to deal with issues alone.
"I've been struggling with ___โ
This demonstrates vulnerability and trust, as the person is open about their struggles.
"How have you been feeling about ___? I know it's been on your mind a lot."
This shows concern for the other person's issues or worries, showing that they are listening and care about what's important to the other person.
"I feel __ when you __; are you open to trying __ next time?"
This is an example of constructive communication.
"What do you need from me when this happens with your family?"
This shows awareness and sensitivity to the persons family dynamics and a willingness to provide support.
"I appreciate when you ___.โ
Expressing appreciation is vital for positive reinforcement and acknowledging the efforts and qualities of the other person.
"I didn't handle that well."
This is a sign of self-awareness and accountability, recognizing one's own mistakes and being open to learning and growth.
"I'm sorry, I was wrong to say that. I'll try to be more mindful in the future."
Shows you are able to apologize genuinely and a commitment to improving behavior.
"Tell me more about that; I'm really interested in hearing your perspective."
Indicates a genuine interest in the other person's thoughts and feelings.
"I noticed you seemed a bit off today. Is everything okay?"
It shows you are attentive to the other person's emotional state and a readiness to provide support.
"I'm here for you, no matter what you need."
Offers unconditional support, creating a sense of security in the relationship.
"I love how passionate you are about your hobbies. It's inspiring to see."
Expresses admiration for the other person's interests.
"Let's work on a solution together. What do you think would be fair?"
Focusing on collaboration rather than conflict.
"I trust your judgment on this."
Trust and respect for the other person's decision-making abilities.
"Your happiness is important to me. Let's make sure you're taking time for yourself."
Prioritizes the other person's happiness and emphasizes the importance of self care.
"It's okay to feel that way. Do you want to talk about it more?"
Validates the other person's feelings.
"I appreciate how you handled that situation. You're really good at ___."
Praises specific strengths or skills, boosting the other person's self-esteem.
"I know we disagree, but I respect your point of view."
Acknowledges differences in opinion while still maintaining respect and understanding.
โฅ๏นโก๏นโ๏น ๐ต๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ณ๐ฟ๐ผ๐บ ๐ฎ ๐ฏ๐๐ฟ๐ป๐ผ๐๐; this is my personal way of coping with burnout, it may not work for you, but feel free to share in the comments the things that make you feel better when you feel this way ( blogger's note at the end of the post ).
๐ญ. recognize the signs ( ๐ณ๏ธ )
the moment of denial is over. i know, burnouts always come at the worst times when you have upcoming exams and a thousand things to do, but ignoring it won't get you anywhere, on the contrary, it will only prolong the worst, so recognizing and accepting the signs of burnout is the first step to getting out of it. if you don't end it, it'll end you, right? some common symptoms of burnout are exhaustion, excessive irritability, hormonal imbalances, change in appetite (too much or too little), sleep irregularities, increase in nervous tics.
๐ฎ. take time off ( ๐ซง )
allow yourself to rest and recharge by taking a break from work or other stressors. depending on the severity of the burnout you may need an afternoon, or perhaps a couple of days to recover, it's not important, the important thing is that you reserve some deep rest that can really recharge you to start studying/working again. put off all non-essential tasks, put your phone on do not disturb mode and allow your brain to rest. if you have slept little in the previous days, taking a nap will not be bad.
๐ฏ. set boundaries + practice self care ( ๐ฑ )
establish clear boundaries between work and personal life to prevent burnout from reoccurring. prioritize activities that promote physical and mental well-being, such as exercise, meditation, and hobbies. i personally love taking care of my body doing beauty treatments that make me feel better about myself. i also deep clean my room and change my bedsheets, if it's true that the mess in our room is a reflection of the mess in our mind i can't see why it can't go both ways: removing the mess from my room is like cleaning my head from the stress in it.
๐ฐ. rearrange priorities ( ๐ )
delegate everything you can delegate, you can't do everything alone and it's normal to seek support from colleagues and family. reorganize yourself so you have a plan to follow as soon as you recharge your batteries. ask yourself what led to burnout, was it the workload? in that case breaking it into smaller tasks could make it less onerous. maybe it was it's difficulty? maybe asking for help or using some time for additional research might work. in short, prepare a realistic scheme to follow to tackle the task.
๐ฑ. seek support ( โฃ๏ธ )
talk to friends, family, or a therapist about your feelings and experiences to gain perspective and emotional support.
๐ฏ๐น๐ผ๐ด๐ด๐ฒ๐ฟ'๐ ๐ป๐ผ๐๐ฒ hi everyone, it's no secret that i've posted very little in the last week, but unfortunately i experienced a bad burnout that incapacitated me for a few days. family circumstances, academic stress and the arrival of spring have added up to take away the strength to do everything from me, but i'm here to recover and here is a simple guide that i always follow when i find myself in these situations. on the one hand i'm happy tho, it's my first burnout since i started university, eight months ago now, i remember that when i was in high school they were much more frequent and long, i feel i've become much more stable.
Children, first born and Students.
Intelligence, Discrimination, Luck,Talents, Past life abilities
Sports, Drama, Acting, Performing Arts, Theatre.
Love, Affection, Romance, Dating, Physical attraction.
Friends, elder siblings and Income (of Spouse) being 11th from 7th
Spouse and marriage life of elder siblings, friends. (7th from 11th)
Stomach, Liver, Heart
Speculation, shares, gambling, games of chance, investment.
Father's father, father's luck and father's abroad journeys.
Fall from high position, change of careers, loss of job -8 from 10th
Mother's birth family, her income (2nd from 4th).
Higher education, college, masters (9th from 9th)
Career in occult (8th from 10th)
Siblings, cousins, peers, school life, youth, teenage (3rd from 3rd)
Karma of past life (10th from 8th)
Abortions, miscarriage (if afflicted)
Profits in business(11th from 7th)
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the energy of others: surround yourself with positive people and avoid those who drain you.
the videos you watch: select content that inspires, educates or entertains you in a healthy way.
what you read: look for reliable sources and material that enriches you intellectually.
who you follow: follow people who inspire and challenge you to grow.
what you scroll through on social media: avoid negative content and look for something that motivates you or makes you feel good.
the news: look for objective sources of information and avoid information overload.
highlights of others: compare less and celebrate more the achievements of others.
the advice you listen to: evaluate advice according to your criteria and needs.
source: @zamirasaba
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Those with a very prominent/powerful Mercury in their chart need to use a lot of self - expression, it can bring you more close to the person you wanna become โฅ๏ธโฅ๏ธโฅ๏ธ
How to activate your VENUS sign!
* Activating your Venus sign plays a major role in how you love yourself and how you see your own self, is also giving you a big glow up when it comes to confidence and self worth*
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1. Start to read about things that are associated with your Venus placement, you can start by wearing colors (clothes) related with your Venus sign;
Aries Venus - Red
Taurus Venus - Pink
Gemini Venus - Yellow
Cancer Venus - White
Leo Venus - Blue
Virgo Venus - Brown/Beige
Libra Venus - Baby Pink
Scorpio Venus - Black
Sagittarius Venus - Purple
Capricorn Venus - Burgundy
Aquarius Venus - Turquoise
Pisces Venus - Dark Green
2. Your Sign of Venus shows how does it manifest
Aries Venus - Through Confidence/Leadership
Taurus Venus - Through Generosity
Gemini Venus - Through Expressions
Cancer Venus - Through Feelings
Leo Venus - Through Passion
Virgo Venus - Through Service/Through Devotion
Libra Venus - Through Emotions
Scorpio Venus - Through Rebirth
Sagittarius Venus - Through Discovery
Capricorn Venus - Through Respect
Aquarius Venus - Through Community
Pisces Venus - Through Empathy
3. How your Venus manifests and activates in houses:
Venus 1H > Focus on yourself/loving yourself/things that make you happy
Venus in the 2H > Focus on your worth/value/finances
Venus in the 3rd > Focus on your inner mind/intelligence and creativity
Venus in the 4H > Focus on those dear to you, on your home, on your comfort zone
Venus in the 5H > Focus on your passions/desires/talents and your own happiness
Venus in the 6H > Focus on your mental health, your daily work/service, focus on creating a balance between work and yourself
Venus in the 7H > Focus on your partner/lover (if you don't have focus on loving yourself first before sharing your love to others),
Venus in the 8H > Focus on your healing time, focus on things that make you learn more, focus on things that give you life
Venus in the 9H > Focus on your faith/religion/culture, focus on traveling and trying new things, focus in learning
Venus in the 10H > Focus on your career, on your job/community, focus on material succes and on your self image
Venus in the 11H > Focus on your friends/friendships, social communities, focus on humanitarian activities/focus on creating new boundings with people
Venus in the 12H > Focus on your sleep (schedule), subconscious, intuition, spirituality, focus on your karmic path
4. FOCUS on your VENUS DECAN! Your Venus Decan is very important and it shows how your Venus is combined and mixed with the others
For this post search the degrees and sign of your Venus and identify their ruler, in the end that planet is combined with your Venus!!
Note: If you have your Venus in Libra or Taurus between 0ยฐ - 10ยฐ your Venus is most dominant here the other planets don't interact much with these ones!
- Hope this helped you as a start of how to activate your Venus guys๐๐๐ Harmoonix
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A Lil Summer post before entering into summers ๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ
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๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดPersonal placements in pisces do not have much trouble lying especially if it is to protect their own peace. They don't even mind lying or feel remorse which is not to imply there should be. But definitely, white lies are there. I don't however see the developed pisces placements to outright lie about serious stuff. Definitely lies to make someone not feel bad.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Mercury square IC, is one placement I think really makes the native to overthink constantly when there surroundings are shaken up. They may go into their shell to think things through and then come back.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดI really believe mercury in 6th house can be a very useful placement, as you have the skills to make friend's or make small talk with anyone. It may not seem obvious to you due to other aspects in your chart maybe like you have Chiron aspects to mercury of Chiron in 3rd but this mercury in 6th is really here to help you do just that.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธMoon square Mars transits are tricky and will really hit your self esteem. You may find yourself struggling with lower confidence, self-doubt, trouble being energetic.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉด Pluto in 11th indicates meeting influential people with power. Having good connections. 2ยฐ,28ยฐ, 14ยฐ,17ยฐ shows having rich influential network.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Mars/Sun/Mercury in 6th house in pisces or piscean degrees can show someone that takes medicine or drugs on s regular basis. This can also happen in charts of people with 6th lord getting an aspect from Neptune. Neptune rules Medicines and drugs.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉด Ascendant lord degree can also show what suits you or how you should dress up. Like with people with Ascendant lord in cancer degrees look really good in white. Ascendant lord in Leo degrees may look really good in bright colors.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธJupiter in Aries or Aries degrees (1ยฐ,13ยฐ,25ยฐ) or Capricorn or Capricorn degrees (10ยฐ,22ยฐ) may marry someone with an official uniform. Someone from army, Navy, airforce, Police, etc.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดI have read this in few places and I was curious. So indeed there is a theory that that 4th house is the parent of opposite sex. So think about it if it makes sense for you.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธScorpio, Capricorn, Or Saturn in 3rd house or 3rd house at 8ยฐ,10ยฐ,20ยฐ,22ยฐ natives can be scared of being happy, they may not be willing to take that leap out of fear. They may also get anxious at moments where they should be happy.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดIts likely you will most probably live away from home when you have 8th lord in 12th. Since 12th house rules far away places. This is also an indication of living a very different life than you did before marriage.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธI have seen many cancer and Libra stellium people to have a lot of people around them. Multiple groups that they are really close with.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดSun in 2nd/8th house overlays scream staring at each other. Multiple planets in Leo/Scorpio in each other houses in synastry also does that. With 8th house it's as if they are looking into your soul. Very intense.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Venus/Jupiter in 2nd/5th/6th people might like eating lot of potatoes or rice or startchy food. Venus and Jupiter rules starch.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดIf somebody has their Venus in your 12th house, you may be unaware of their romantic feelings for you. You may also remember only the good times with them.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Sun -North node synastry are relationships that will bring profound change in you, not just when you are in relationship but even after that. Like you are recollecting any memories and you may be reminded of something the other person did before to cause a change in the present.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉด12th lord in 6th house uses work to escape their thoughts.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Mercury or Neptune influence over the 7th house natives might enjoy watching shows related to law, lawyers, justice, legal system. Legal shows are also possible if you have Mercury/Neptune/Uranus in Capricorn degrees (10ยฐ,22ยฐ).
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดMercury in water signs and degrees are very sensitive to communication, very observant and able to perceive things just by how one communicates. Change in tone, language they observe everything. Also quick to assess one's intentions just by how they are talking.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Mercury/Jupiter/Virgo in 5th house or even 5th house Cusp at 6ยฐ,18ยฐ,12ยฐ,24ยฐ,9ยฐ,21ยฐ,3ยฐ,27ยฐ,15ยฐ can indicate being a parent to to you pet. Mercury/Jupiter and Virgo rules over pets. ๐ถ
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดHaving good Neptune - Martian/Sun aspects is such a blessing, you really make it happen for yourself, you don't wait for anything or don't wait for it to be served to you. This is bomb placement ๐ฅ
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ With Lillith opposite MC..your dirty laundry can sometimes be subject to the public.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉด Aries in 8th house people can start or go into business with their partners/spouses.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Capricorn in 8th house people might have jobs related to research/medicine/Pharmaceuticals.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดCapricorn in 8th can also give you hots for authority figures, there can be relationships with bosses, older men or older masculine energy people. This can also work for Capricorn in 5th house.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Saturn rules "recession".
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดWith Saturn in 10th house you may be someone who is constantly chasing your next milestone, one task is done and onto next.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Jupiter/Venus in 7th house or Jupiter-Venus aspects may bring you mature partners/spouse.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดDegree on your North node can tell you what energy you need to channel to achieve your goals.
๐ช Virgo degrees- You might need to humble down, be willing to be at service to others
๐ช Capricorn degrees- Be more in control and get more authoritative and take on leadership attitude
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Saturn in Pisces degrees (12ยฐ,24ยฐ) can be very laidback people, they might be very chill people in times of setbacks, on the flipside they may not even care much about many things, so even in times of happiness they may not as happy as they "should" be or as others.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดMercury dominants/Rising/Stelliums/ or in big 3 natives are not taken seriously often, not that they are a joke but they are almost always cracking and being witty, so when they get serious it may make some people suprised.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Chiron aspects Saturn (square) natives are slow to grow into their power and may struggle with themselves when young, but this struggle is what becomes power for them later.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดChiron aspects on Mercury people may have been bullied by their siblings or peers when young.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธMercury in Libra/Taurus/pisces are the kind to imagine scenarios in their head with their lovers or about their love lives.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดSagittarius natives, even though are spontaneous and adventurous and can easily adapt, one thing often overlooked is in all these how much they may be trying to escape, when they reach their destiny, they don't want to be their and chase a new high. It's quite similar to their Jupiter sister Pisces, who also uses escapeism but there's more in their head, sag being a fire sign looks for a more tangible outlet to escape.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธI have noticed people with 21ยฐ/9ยฐ in ascendant/Sun and Mars to be very spiritual. Also reminds me how wonderful it is when vedic and western charts relate, this one chart I was seeing had an Sag rising in navamsa (D-9) and they are very spritual and religious, but nothing significant in western but their Ascendant degree is sag degree and so is the mars degree.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดWhen you have IC in Virgo degrees (6ยฐ,18ยฐ) you are likely to work in your hometown and are very involved in community work in their home town.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Many times Moon in 10th house shows that a women was the leading authority in their household.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดMercury in 5th house is an very underrated popular people placement, they are very cheerful and easily mixup with others and have many admirers and friends.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Taurus rising are very dependable people, everywhere they go they seem like people can rely on them, they are also resourceful so they are great at when there an event and you need helping hand, they will get the shit done.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉด Pluto/Saturn aspects to Moon makes you unaccepting of love and care. You might feel "oh why me I don't deserve this" attitude even if you have a healthy self esteem
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ 4th house ruler in pisces, Aquarius, Sagittarius shows being away from home, staying some areas of life away from birth country.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดMercury in 8th house of composite couples may need variety in sex life. Sometimes this can lead to introducing a third person into the relationship be it when both of the people knows or just one.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Same of mercury in 8th house natives, these people can get bored easily with partners or activities so they need variety in activities they do together including sexual activities.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดI have seen Leo moons or moon in Leo degrees (5ยฐ,17ยฐ,29ยฐ) may have many childhood photos or videos or albums, they may have gotten clicked or recorded a lot as a child.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ One theory I have seen is when ruler of your angles .i.e ASC, DSC, MC, IC are in your 7th house, native tend to marry or be attracted to people who look a lot like someone they already know, mostly like their sibling or parent..so basically a family member.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดMars in 2nd house can go either way, these can be as health conscious of their diet or just eat the most junk.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Aquarius moon or moon in 11th house of moon in Aquarius degrees (11ยฐ,23ยฐ) in my humble opinion are much more critical than a virgo stereotype. There are the friend you need when you want to be humbled down, unlike there sister sign Leo, which serves more as the hype person you will need.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดI think most mutable placements struggle with perfectionism not just virgo, especially when a decision needs to be made they have ability to look at various povs that they will dissect all information to come at the best decision, which is what I think they may cause them to delay decision making because they are so aware of their thought process and how time consuming and exhausting it will be that they put off on descisions.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Neptune and Pluto dominants may never fill enjoy their present except they keep looking to make their future better or wanting to know how it will be
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดSixth house synastry isn't everyone's cup of tea especially when you have a moon in 12th house. Here the planet person can be critical of the house person but this criticism is not just criticism it's personal and degrading to the house person with the direct aspect on moon in 12th house.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Capricorn in 1st, 10th, 7th, 11th, 5th and 3rd house natives really cares about how they are perceived in their social circle, they like to be dignified and seem like that with their peers and not feign any weakness or vulnerable moments.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดPluto in 3rd/2nd house natives are very sceptical of their immediate family and people they have met when young, they may have also felt powerless when dependent on others.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธScorpio in 2nd/3rd/8th house natives tend to have a secret source of income once in their life, besides their normal job they may do some things to earn money not known by others. ๐ฐ
Vedic astrology ๐๏ธ
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดIf everything supports in your chart, 5th house lord in 6th can increase your chances of converting love into marriage, as 6th house rules contracts and it's 2nd from 5th house which indicates if the love will sustain. There is also a chance of elopement but you need to see other aspects for that.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Saturn/Sun/10th lord or Amatyakarka in 8th can mean you can work in a financial organisation.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดCheck for planets in your 1st house of dasamsa chart ( D10 ) and where that planet lies in your lagna/birth (D1) chart, the house placement can also tell about potential careers.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Piscean Jupiter and mercury are very likely to travel to far places for education. Like schools in different districts, colleges in other cities or takes some hours to reach.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดIt's very likely for older siblings to have planets in their 11th house, so there will be someone younger than you most of the time.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Saturn in the 11th house can make some one take on important responsibility or financial responsibility at a very young age.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดDhanishtha moon or natives sometimes have this energy of being always right or what they like to believe, there is also ego attached to being right when actually are.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ 7th lord in Mrigasira nakshatra may marry quickly and unexpectedly or their future spouse may be someone unexpectedly new or enter unexpectedly. You may be dumbfounded when you realise feelings for them.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดDarakaraka of the Natal chart when in first house of Navamsa chart', natives tend to behave and mold themselves into the personality of the spouse, they may adapt mannerisms and behaviour of the spouse.
๐ฉด๐๐ผโโ๏ธ Atmakaraka in 2nd/8th/11th house of D9 chart may be earning more money and gaining after marriage.
๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉดNavamsa ascendant lord if falls in vishakha nakshatra in your lagna/natal chart, you will see success after marriage.
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