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Relations signified by 11th House

Elder Sibling

Close friends

Influential friends

Social Media contacts

Father's siblings (3rd to 9th house)

Adopted children (5th to 7th house)

Child's spouse (7th to 5th house)

In laws of mother (8th to 4th house)

⏳️🪐 12th House and How Your Mental Anguish Affects You 🪐⏳️

Exchange readings: Open: You (Tarot) x Me (Astrology)

12H ruler in 1H

Imma give you a hug first, okay. What you have gone through, like the experiences that you have had with the world at large, all that you have seen in your life, you internalized it all. You have sort of taken it upon you to be the witness of the suffering around you. Because you feel it all so personally. The person you have become, the thoughts and beliefs you carry are the way they are because of the absurdity of life that you have felt so deeply. It has shaped you, a lot. Next time, try to detach. It is not about you, it was never about you, it about them. You are observing, not absorbing.

12H ruler in 2H

When you are at that lowest point, second guessing everything, it really does affect your ability to manage your resources. And more often than not it can make you feel like you are not worth-it, or that you simply do not deserve to be happy. Especially if you have Chiron in the 2H too, it can feel suffocating because you keep on doing thing, trying to make it work, but you never feel like you did enough. Affirm to yourself about your successes, keep a gratitude journal and remind yourself that your need/wants are all valid.

12H ruler in 3H

You can completely obsess over finding out the reasoning behind why certain things happen the way it did. It's like you want to understand, you want to make actual sense out of it, why your problems are causing you the things that are happening. This can lead to a detachment from actually allowing yourself to feel things out and like emotionally get in a better shape first. You can get stressed out about the facts, a lot of the times. Perhpas communication is something you truly struggle with. Talk it out with someone, understand your feelings first and then a lot of the facts will start to make sense too.

12H ruler in 4H

A lot of your turbulent thoughts and experiences affect you very deeply, like the depth which can make you question your entire existence. Now, I gotta be honest with this one, you are clearing up a lot of karma from your family lineage. You are going to the very root of the issues. Because these mental anguishes aren't surface level for you, they are seated very deeply within your psyche. You have to face these deep seated demons, otherwise you can keep them shoving them down, till it becomes completely unbearable to face yourself. On the positive note, learn to be vulnerable with yourself, learn to be more accepting of what you are going through.

12H ruler in 5H

When you are at the low point in your life, you start to put a great distance between enjoying yourself and becoming completely oblivious to your childlike nature. You need to embrace your inner child. Do what you want, but do not do it because you feel like you can't do anything else with your life. There needs to be like a balance here, between enjoying yourself and knowing when it can get destructive. Too much of anything never did good. You can struggle with finding that simplistic joy in life. So try and spend time alone for a while, maybe get a coloring book or just try and bake cookies. You don't have to be good at something to enjoy it. Even if it's loving yourself.

12H ruler in 6H

You can neglect your health like nobody's business. These thoughts, stress and anguish can manifest directly in your body. That's what it is. When you are not in a good energy, you know you need to reconnect with your body. This may come initially as a bit challenging to truly get yourself to do, but, once you build that habit over time, you will realise how much you have mastered yourself. Focus on your physical well-being. This placement is very simple. You don't need to spend time spaced out and in another world. Get down and strengthen your body, you will notice that you will start to feel much more better in your mind.

12H ruler in 7H

When you get to a low point in life, the point where you are confronted with your old habits, fears and challenging emotions, it highly reflects in your relationships (more so the romantic kind). You can easily slip into unhealthy patterns with your partners, like seeing them with rose colored glasses or not having a proper sense of boundary with them. And you may even fear that true vulnerability with them. So when that happens, seek to be honest by being polite. You are not for everyone, and the ones that are for you will always understand this. Relationship can either make you or break you, choose the people wisely.

12H ruler in 8H

At the lowest points in your life, the people who aren't by your side intentionally, remember them because they are not supposed to be a part of your life. A healthy bond is where both people are there for each other, and that's exactly what life keeps teaching you over and over again. Your biggest anguishes are be caused because of the way certain people treat you and use you for their own benefit. When that happens, remember your biggest enemy is what you do not choose to see within those who take advantage of your kind nature. Yes, we can witness everybody's suffering, but at the end of the day everybody is responsible for themselves.

12H ruler in 9H

When you are at that low point in your life, you can question your faith a lot. There is a feeling where trusting your morals can become really hard. It's like when you know you truly love something, but the mere beliefs that everybody has instilled within you from birth hold you back. And you may even be the type who rebels often because of this thing. Create your own beliefs. That will require you to question what you have always been taught, don't be afraid to question it. You need let yourself see thing. At your lowest you can really see in black and white. Take a step back and observe. Read and learn.

12H ruler in 10H

Many of your mental anguishes come from you struggling with what kind of image you want to uphold between other people. You may struggle a lot with showing up between people or excessively thinking of what other people may think of you when you are at the low points in your life. You can often feel like other people look so deep within you, within the things you want to hide from everybody. When that happens, remember that what others think of you is absolutely none of your business. As long as you know that you are on the right track, you don't need anyone to tell you otherwise.

12H ruler in 11H

You are learning to trust in your dream and not hold yourself back from achievement. You know when you are at those low points in your life, there could be a deep seated fear of missing out on opportunities. You can start to second guess your own hopes, uncertain if you even deserve to have what you want or not. There could also be this sense of feeling like there is no hope left for you, like there is nothing anymore you want to have. When that happens, try to remain grateful, look at all the cool things you have achieved till now, appriciate yourself, open yourself up to something new.

12H ruler in 12H

When you hit rock bottom, it's like plunging into the deepest recesses of your mind, where you confront your fears and doubts about existence. It's a heavy burden, carrying the weight of your own struggles and the suffering of the world within you. At times, it feels suffocating, like you're lost in a maze of your own thoughts, trying to make sense of it all. But amidst the darkness, there is also potential for a lot of spiritual growth. Your journey through the depths of your psyche can lead to a greater understanding of yourself and the universe. Meditate often, and write your thoughts, talk to someone like-minded. Do not isolate yourself either.

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That's all! Thanks for reading!

ERKENCI KUŞ └ season 1 episode 1

Astrology observations 27 🏖️

A Lil Summer post before entering into summers 🩴🏄🏼‍♀️

Take what resonates.

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🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Personal placements in pisces do not have much trouble lying especially if it is to protect their own peace. They don't even mind lying or feel remorse which is not to imply there should be. But definitely, white lies are there. I don't however see the developed pisces placements to outright lie about serious stuff. Definitely lies to make someone not feel bad.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Mercury square IC, is one placement I think really makes the native to overthink constantly when there surroundings are shaken up. They may go into their shell to think things through and then come back.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴I really believe mercury in 6th house can be a very useful placement, as you have the skills to make friend's or make small talk with anyone. It may not seem obvious to you due to other aspects in your chart maybe like you have Chiron aspects to mercury of Chiron in 3rd but this mercury in 6th is really here to help you do just that.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️Moon square Mars transits are tricky and will really hit your self esteem. You may find yourself struggling with lower confidence, self-doubt, trouble being energetic.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴 Pluto in 11th indicates meeting influential people with power. Having good connections. 2°,28°, 14°,17° shows having rich influential network.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Mars/Sun/Mercury in 6th house in pisces or piscean degrees can show someone that takes medicine or drugs on s regular basis. This can also happen in charts of people with 6th lord getting an aspect from Neptune. Neptune rules Medicines and drugs.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴 Ascendant lord degree can also show what suits you or how you should dress up. Like with people with Ascendant lord in cancer degrees look really good in white. Ascendant lord in Leo degrees may look really good in bright colors.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️Jupiter in Aries or Aries degrees (1°,13°,25°) or Capricorn or Capricorn degrees (10°,22°) may marry someone with an official uniform. Someone from army, Navy, airforce, Police, etc.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴I have read this in few places and I was curious. So indeed there is a theory that that 4th house is the parent of opposite sex. So think about it if it makes sense for you.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️Scorpio, Capricorn, Or Saturn in 3rd house or 3rd house at 8°,10°,20°,22° natives can be scared of being happy, they may not be willing to take that leap out of fear. They may also get anxious at moments where they should be happy.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Its likely you will most probably live away from home when you have 8th lord in 12th. Since 12th house rules far away places. This is also an indication of living a very different life than you did before marriage.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️I have seen many cancer and Libra stellium people to have a lot of people around them. Multiple groups that they are really close with.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Sun in 2nd/8th house overlays scream staring at each other. Multiple planets in Leo/Scorpio in each other houses in synastry also does that. With 8th house it's as if they are looking into your soul. Very intense.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Venus/Jupiter in 2nd/5th/6th people might like eating lot of potatoes or rice or startchy food. Venus and Jupiter rules starch.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴If somebody has their Venus in your 12th house, you may be unaware of their romantic feelings for you. You may also remember only the good times with them.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Sun -North node synastry are relationships that will bring profound change in you, not just when you are in relationship but even after that. Like you are recollecting any memories and you may be reminded of something the other person did before to cause a change in the present.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴12th lord in 6th house uses work to escape their thoughts.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Mercury or Neptune influence over the 7th house natives might enjoy watching shows related to law, lawyers, justice, legal system. Legal shows are also possible if you have Mercury/Neptune/Uranus in Capricorn degrees (10°,22°).

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Mercury in water signs and degrees are very sensitive to communication, very observant and able to perceive things just by how one communicates. Change in tone, language they observe everything. Also quick to assess one's intentions just by how they are talking.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Mercury/Jupiter/Virgo in 5th house or even 5th house Cusp at 6°,18°,12°,24°,9°,21°,3°,27°,15° can indicate being a parent to to you pet. Mercury/Jupiter and Virgo rules over pets. 🐶

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Having good Neptune - Martian/Sun aspects is such a blessing, you really make it happen for yourself, you don't wait for anything or don't wait for it to be served to you. This is bomb placement 🔥

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ With Lillith opposite MC..your dirty laundry can sometimes be subject to the public.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴 Aries in 8th house people can start or go into business with their partners/spouses.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Capricorn in 8th house people might have jobs related to research/medicine/Pharmaceuticals.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Capricorn in 8th can also give you hots for authority figures, there can be relationships with bosses, older men or older masculine energy people. This can also work for Capricorn in 5th house.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Saturn rules "recession".

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴With Saturn in 10th house you may be someone who is constantly chasing your next milestone, one task is done and onto next.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Jupiter/Venus in 7th house or Jupiter-Venus aspects may bring you mature partners/spouse.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Degree on your North node can tell you what energy you need to channel to achieve your goals.

🪖 Virgo degrees- You might need to humble down, be willing to be at service to others

🪖 Capricorn degrees- Be more in control and get more authoritative and take on leadership attitude

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Saturn in Pisces degrees (12°,24°) can be very laidback people, they might be very chill people in times of setbacks, on the flipside they may not even care much about many things, so even in times of happiness they may not as happy as they "should" be or as others.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Mercury dominants/Rising/Stelliums/ or in big 3 natives are not taken seriously often, not that they are a joke but they are almost always cracking and being witty, so when they get serious it may make some people suprised.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Chiron aspects Saturn (square) natives are slow to grow into their power and may struggle with themselves when young, but this struggle is what becomes power for them later.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Chiron aspects on Mercury people may have been bullied by their siblings or peers when young.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️Mercury in Libra/Taurus/pisces are the kind to imagine scenarios in their head with their lovers or about their love lives.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Sagittarius natives, even though are spontaneous and adventurous and can easily adapt, one thing often overlooked is in all these how much they may be trying to escape, when they reach their destiny, they don't want to be their and chase a new high. It's quite similar to their Jupiter sister Pisces, who also uses escapeism but there's more in their head, sag being a fire sign looks for a more tangible outlet to escape.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️I have noticed people with 21°/9° in ascendant/Sun and Mars to be very spiritual. Also reminds me how wonderful it is when vedic and western charts relate, this one chart I was seeing had an Sag rising in navamsa (D-9) and they are very spritual and religious, but nothing significant in western but their Ascendant degree is sag degree and so is the mars degree.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴When you have IC in Virgo degrees (6°,18°) you are likely to work in your hometown and are very involved in community work in their home town.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Many times Moon in 10th house shows that a women was the leading authority in their household.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Mercury in 5th house is an very underrated popular people placement, they are very cheerful and easily mixup with others and have many admirers and friends.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Taurus rising are very dependable people, everywhere they go they seem like people can rely on them, they are also resourceful so they are great at when there an event and you need helping hand, they will get the shit done.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴 Pluto/Saturn aspects to Moon makes you unaccepting of love and care. You might feel "oh why me I don't deserve this" attitude even if you have a healthy self esteem

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ 4th house ruler in pisces, Aquarius, Sagittarius shows being away from home, staying some areas of life away from birth country.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Mercury in 8th house of composite couples may need variety in sex life. Sometimes this can lead to introducing a third person into the relationship be it when both of the people knows or just one.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Same of mercury in 8th house natives, these people can get bored easily with partners or activities so they need variety in activities they do together including sexual activities.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴I have seen Leo moons or moon in Leo degrees (5°,17°,29°) may have many childhood photos or videos or albums, they may have gotten clicked or recorded a lot as a child.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ One theory I have seen is when ruler of your angles .i.e ASC, DSC, MC, IC are in your 7th house, native tend to marry or be attracted to people who look a lot like someone they already know, mostly like their sibling or parent..so basically a family member.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Mars in 2nd house can go either way, these can be as health conscious of their diet or just eat the most junk.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Aquarius moon or moon in 11th house of moon in Aquarius degrees (11°,23°) in my humble opinion are much more critical than a virgo stereotype. There are the friend you need when you want to be humbled down, unlike there sister sign Leo, which serves more as the hype person you will need.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴I think most mutable placements struggle with perfectionism not just virgo, especially when a decision needs to be made they have ability to look at various povs that they will dissect all information to come at the best decision, which is what I think they may cause them to delay decision making because they are so aware of their thought process and how time consuming and exhausting it will be that they put off on descisions.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Neptune and Pluto dominants may never fill enjoy their present except they keep looking to make their future better or wanting to know how it will be

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Sixth house synastry isn't everyone's cup of tea especially when you have a moon in 12th house. Here the planet person can be critical of the house person but this criticism is not just criticism it's personal and degrading to the house person with the direct aspect on moon in 12th house.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Capricorn in 1st, 10th, 7th, 11th, 5th and 3rd house natives really cares about how they are perceived in their social circle, they like to be dignified and seem like that with their peers and not feign any weakness or vulnerable moments.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Pluto in 3rd/2nd house natives are very sceptical of their immediate family and people they have met when young, they may have also felt powerless when dependent on others.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️Scorpio in 2nd/3rd/8th house natives tend to have a secret source of income once in their life, besides their normal job they may do some things to earn money not known by others. 💰

Vedic astrology 🏝️

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴If everything supports in your chart, 5th house lord in 6th can increase your chances of converting love into marriage, as 6th house rules contracts and it's 2nd from 5th house which indicates if the love will sustain. There is also a chance of elopement but you need to see other aspects for that.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Saturn/Sun/10th lord or Amatyakarka in 8th can mean you can work in a financial organisation.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Check for planets in your 1st house of dasamsa chart ( D10 ) and where that planet lies in your lagna/birth (D1) chart, the house placement can also tell about potential careers.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Piscean Jupiter and mercury are very likely to travel to far places for education. Like schools in different districts, colleges in other cities or takes some hours to reach.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴It's very likely for older siblings to have planets in their 11th house, so there will be someone younger than you most of the time.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Saturn in the 11th house can make some one take on important responsibility or financial responsibility at a very young age.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Dhanishtha moon or natives sometimes have this energy of being always right or what they like to believe, there is also ego attached to being right when actually are.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ 7th lord in Mrigasira nakshatra may marry quickly and unexpectedly or their future spouse may be someone unexpectedly new or enter unexpectedly. You may be dumbfounded when you realise feelings for them.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Darakaraka of the Natal chart when in first house of Navamsa chart', natives tend to behave and mold themselves into the personality of the spouse, they may adapt mannerisms and behaviour of the spouse.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Atmakaraka in 2nd/8th/11th house of D9 chart may be earning more money and gaining after marriage.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Navamsa ascendant lord if falls in vishakha nakshatra in your lagna/natal chart, you will see success after marriage.

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[ 4 ] astrology observations 💚🧩🍀

- virgo risings benefit more from not being in charge as they like to follow things

- jupiter 1st house natives feel suppressed by rules/regulations/common following of philosophies

- uranus rebels to the following of ideals, jupiter rebels to the said ideals

- new best friends come in during the zodiac representing the 7th house (ex: aquarius rising: in leo season)

- venus conjunct lilith causes the native to be unable to differentiate between love & lust.

- people in your life fall in your house where their rising sign is (ex: an aquarius rising would fall into the 5th house of a libra rising & inspire/deplete their creativity or affect their children).

- libra risings & late virgo risings (15° onwards) live by organising & decluttering their psyche (because virgo 12h)

- natives with uranus retrograde in their chart long for the acceptance of change but get horrified & run away from it the moment it manifests.

- natives with sun opposite moon feel afflicted when faced their own character; am i too emotional or too logical? which side of me is the real one?

- the 12th house rules over our memories, not short term everyday ones that is mercury/3H; but in depth memories or visual/photographic ones.

- the sign ruling your 12th house shows how you can interpret your rem dreams: virgo 12H by organising the details of the dreams, aquarius 12H by finding what to innovate in your life through the dreams, sagittarius 12H by gathering a philosophical perspective like what is the lesson i am teaching myself through my unconscious?

having boundaries with yourself

➼ having a bedtime

➼ deciding the minimum and maximum amount of time you can dedicate to work each week

➼ setting limits on the amount of screen time you have

➼ having an amount of time per week you move your body

➼ limiting your alcohol/highly processed food consumption

➼ keeping a budget

➼ deciding how often you will travel or go on vacation and sticking to it

➼ going to doctors and dentist appointments regularly

➼ paying bills on time

➼ doing work (school or not) on time

➼ wearing sunscreen when you go outside

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Could you tell us what indicates no marriage or yes marriage in a birth chart?

I rarely see charts that are very troubled in regards to long-term relationships/marriage. You have to have multiple aspects that show difficulty and even then people are still able to find love, marry, etc.

The "Challenging" marriage aspects in the Natal Chart:

I would say that Uranus in the 7th House (natal) could be a bit difficult - it could show commitment issues, attracting on and off relationships, right person/wrong time - timing could be a bit problem for people with this aspect. This includes having Transit Uranus in your 7th house as well. The positive is that when the timing is right you can find love very unexpectedly and the relationships could be very freeing. I have observed that people with Uranus in 7th also like unusual relationship dynamics/non-standard dating.

Saturn in 7th house could be interpreted in different ways - marrying later in life, feeling dissatisfied about the thought of marriage, high standards/expectations, prioritizing other areas of life over marriage/relationships.

Pluto in 7th shows that any traumas/insecurities could manifest in relationships and marriage so the person has to heal, really wait for the right person in order to avoid jumping into unhealthy relationships.

Aspects between Juno and Uranus (square, conjunct, opposite), Juno-Saturn and Juno-Pluto could have a similar effect as the descriptions above.

Neptune in 7th, Juno in 12th could show someone that idolizes marriage/has an unrealistic idea about marriage. So that could lead to disappointment in committed relationships or once the honeymoon phase is over in marriage.

I will also add the ruler of the 7th house conjunct Uranus/Pluto/Saturn. For example: Cancer on your 7th house cusp, Cancer is ruled by the Moon and the Moon is conjunct Saturn/Pluto/Uranus.

2. The "Good" marriage aspects in the Natal Chart:

Venus in 7th, Venus trine Juno/Venus conjunct Juno is the one that is usually associated with good, lasting marriage, supportive spouse, equality in marriage. Committed relationships could be easy for these people.

The 7th House ruler conjunct Venus has a similar effect.

Juno conjunct/trine Jupiter or Jupiter in the 7th House is great for a happy marriage. Your partner usually inspired you, teaches you a lot of things, helps you go out of your comfort zone.

Juno in the 7th House is also really favorable for commitment, attracting a spouse who has the characteristics you want in a partner, commitment could happen easily.

Libra or Taurus on the 7th House cusp also tend to have good marriages.

My advice is to wait for the right timing and the right person/not rush into it. There is always someone you are FULLY compatible with so don't waste your energy on bad relationships!

ZENDAYA

photographed in New York — April 25, 2024

Learning to love yourself 𝜗𝜚˚⋆

Celebrate yourself. Every accomplishment deserves to be acknowledged, no matter how big or small. Stop putting yourself down by thinking that you don't deserve to celebrate your achievements just because others have accomplished "greater things." Also, there is so much fun in hyping small wins; call your girlfriend, bake a cake, and enjoy yourself!!

Invest time in things that you love. Doing what makes you happy is essential for your mental health. It's so important to pursue one's small and simple pleasures without the intention of turning them into profit!!

Boundaries and relationships. Learn to say no, define and set boundaries, question your current relationships and friendships, and distance yourself from people who make you feel unloved or worthless.

Allow yourself to grow. Let go of the notion that you are undeserving of growth. Acknowledge the past for what it is, learn from it, and grow from it.

Refelct. Getting to know yourself deeply is key to self-love; journaling is a great way to reflect. Ask yourself questions, question your habits, observe how you respond in certain situations, etc...

Trust yourself and your intuition. Listen to yourself, and don't dismiss the small cues that your inner voice gives you!!

Care for yourself. It is not selfish to look after yourself. Start exercising, eat balanced and healthy, stay hydrated, educate yourself, read complex literature, consume media mindfully, prioritise your sleep and routines, care for your skin and hair...

Be patient. Self-love takes time; you must slowly unpack and unlearn past habits, confront uncomfortable thoughts and memories, and gain a deep understanding of yourself. Give yourself time and approach this as a journey to enjoy. <3

You guys ALWAYS ask about self-love and confidence, sooo I hope this can be a little helpful to some of you and as always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and tips in the comments!! ♡

love ya ･:*₊‧౨ৎ