Hande Erçel In Bambaşka Biri (2023) — 1. Bolum

having boundaries with yourself

➼ having a bedtime

➼ deciding the minimum and maximum amount of time you can dedicate to work each week

➼ setting limits on the amount of screen time you have

➼ having an amount of time per week you move your body

➼ limiting your alcohol/highly processed food consumption

➼ keeping a budget

➼ deciding how often you will travel or go on vacation and sticking to it

➼ going to doctors and dentist appointments regularly

➼ paying bills on time

➼ doing work (school or not) on time

➼ wearing sunscreen when you go outside

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friendly reminder

Stay on top of everything! Make sure to check emails and any online portals for deadlines you might have missed! It’s easy to let things slip, but staying organized can save a lot of stress.

Aries in the houses: What motivates you?

Aries in the 1st house: You like to be leaders. You are motivated by the opportunity to express yourself, to declare yourself to the world, as well as self-realization. Playing sports is also an important aspect of motivation! You are a hardy person.

Aries in the 2nd house: Your passion is related to material goods, especially finances. The opportunity to earn a lot of money, delicious food, and a comfortable life motivates you to take action to achieve this comfort.

Aries in the 3rd house: You are a bright communicator, you like to communicate, you like to argue, you argue hotly. You are energized by communication, debate, and daring arguments. Humor can also be your passion, it gives you liveliness. Also, the opportunity to gain new knowledge, information, experience or skills motivates you.

Aries in the 4th house: Here motivation can be related to home, comfort, care. Perhaps you pay great attention to the comfort of your home, strive for it, and therefore it motivates you. You like to protect people close to you.

Aries in the 5th house: Your passion is creativity, children, holidays. You are the soul of the company, you like to have fun, you can find your expression in art. All this motivates you. Also, your or other people's children can give you energy.

Aries in the 6th house: Motivation regarding this house can be tied to work, perfectionism, cleanliness, ideal. Perhaps you are striving to achieve the ideal in something, it lights a fire in you and motivates you. Maintaining a healthy body and spirit also plays an important role for you, so exercising and regulating nutrition also motivates you. You love cleaning and keeping your workplace clean. It gives you confidence.

Aries in the 7th house: the 7th house is the house of relationships, partnerships, your enemies. Perhaps your enemies motivate you, make you stronger, and you want to rub their noses in. Also, relationships, whether they are friendly, romantic or business, give you a temper. Perhaps you are popular because of your fiery, brash character, or popularity motivates you.

Aries in the 8th house: Here the theme of the occult, intimacy, deep emotions makes your blood boil in your veins. You are motivated and hooked by the forbidden, you want to solve the riddle. Having a sexual relationship or deepening your connection with your loved ones also gives you energy. Perhaps you are addicted to activities, sports, having such a position. Movement motivates you.

Aries in the 9th house: Traveling, learning can be your passion. You want to delve into philosophical issues and understand the meaning of life. Trips, long or short, light a fire in you.

Aries in the 10th house: You are an ambitious person. Your ambitions are connected with recognition, hard work. You love to achieve your goals and goals serve as motivation for you. You may seem like an ardent, bright, active person to others. Achieving a certain status or niche in social roles is your motivation.

Aries in the 11th house: Friends, like-minded people! It's your passion and what motivates you. You love spending time with friends, they energize you. Like to communicate with people who understand you, share your ideas and (for someone) your rebellious, defiant spirit. They are like a breath of fresh air for you. Perhaps you are motivated by technology or innovation, for example, buying a new phone of the latest model.

Aries in the 12th house: Meditation, self-care is what gives you energy and motivates. Also, the opportunity to make charitable gestures, help those in need, lifts your spirits.

Do it now so you dont have to do it tomorrow

Progress is still progress!

It doesn't matter if you hadn't done the things you were supposed to do. It doesn't matter that if you finished 1 thing out of 4 things. You don't have 3 more things to do, you have 1 less thing to complete.

It doesn't matter if you had relapsed after a day or 3 of productivity and healing into a spiral again. What matters is that you get back up and start again. Because now you're a bit stronger and more resilient than before.

It doesn't matter if all you did today was getting out of bed, eat and change your clothes while you did nothing else. Appreciate yourself and give yourself the credit you deserve for doing those small things.

It doesn't matter if the only thing you did today was to focus on existing and on yourself alone. Be proud of surviving till the end of the day because you made it through knowing that there was a possibility of you not making it.

Progress is still progress. It doesn't matter if you take small or big steps. You're taking a step and that's all that matters.

🥀Skystrology observations (; 🥀

•you can always tell when someone has mars square pluto. They give off silent but deadly vibes.

•moon opposite/square pluto are torn between feeling emotions surface level vs feeling emotions deeply. They can be very intense. This can cause emotional outbursts.

•your 12th house year (23) will bring a period of wanting to let go of the physical world. Tap into your inner self to guide you through the year. Unexpected and unpredictable things may happen but that’s a part of the fun! (:

•venus opposite lilith- part of you wants real, authentic and tender love while the other part wants to rebel and have fun. Lovers may not take you seriously and you could have a lot of power plays in relationships. You may have trouble being vulnerable.

•9th house placements are meant to explore their beliefs and have new experiences. The true travelers. These are the people you see in a new country every month. They’re living the life we can only dream of living. 😭

•The sign in your 9th house is the energy you look up to and pull off really well. It also shows what people can be jealous of about you. For example, Leo 9th house are confident, stylish, and outspoken. Scorpio 9th house are secretive, wise, and desire to be hidden.

•moon conjunct pluto natives have a darkness to their facial features, eyes especially. you can feel the storm cloud above their heads. applies to Scorpio moons too.

•12th house placements have a psychic ability that’s so hard to pin down. They have one foot in this world, and the other in the unseen world. Experts at reading vibes.

•having asteroid Nessus in the 11th house could mean attracting toxic or abusive friends. Or YOU could be that friend.

•north node in 5th housers are meant to have fun in this lifetime. Embrace your creativity and let your inner child shine!

•transit Pluto in 4th house can indicate losing things you held onto in the past for emotional security. You may be put in a situation to start completely fresh, for example, losing your home, car, family member, moving out… you’re forced to adapt to whatever new comes your way.

•sun square moon… I feel so bad for you. Your parents don’t get along at all and you’re stuck with both of their personalities influencing you. Get away from home (if you can) and figure out who you truly are outside of their influence.

•turning 21 feels like a whole ass thing cause it’s your 10th house profection year. Enjoy being in the spotlight and go crazy wild! 😭