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Green Flags in Communication 💚💬

"I want to know when I hurt your feelings."

This shows they are willing to understand and acknowledge the impact of their actions.

"I don't want you to feel alone in this."

This shows empathy and indicates that the person is supportive and does not want the person to deal with issues alone.

"I've been struggling with ___”

This demonstrates vulnerability and trust, as the person is open about their struggles.

"How have you been feeling about ___? I know it's been on your mind a lot."

This shows concern for the other person's issues or worries, showing that they are listening and care about what's important to the other person.

"I feel __ when you __; are you open to trying __ next time?"

This is an example of constructive communication.

"What do you need from me when this happens with your family?"

This shows awareness and sensitivity to the persons family dynamics and a willingness to provide support.

"I appreciate when you ___.”

Expressing appreciation is vital for positive reinforcement and acknowledging the efforts and qualities of the other person.

"I didn't handle that well."

This is a sign of self-awareness and accountability, recognizing one's own mistakes and being open to learning and growth.

"I'm sorry, I was wrong to say that. I'll try to be more mindful in the future."

Shows you are able to apologize genuinely and a commitment to improving behavior.

"Tell me more about that; I'm really interested in hearing your perspective."

Indicates a genuine interest in the other person's thoughts and feelings.

"I noticed you seemed a bit off today. Is everything okay?"

It shows you are attentive to the other person's emotional state and a readiness to provide support.

"I'm here for you, no matter what you need."

Offers unconditional support, creating a sense of security in the relationship.

"I love how passionate you are about your hobbies. It's inspiring to see."

Expresses admiration for the other person's interests.

"Let's work on a solution together. What do you think would be fair?"

Focusing on collaboration rather than conflict.

"I trust your judgment on this."

Trust and respect for the other person's decision-making abilities.

"Your happiness is important to me. Let's make sure you're taking time for yourself."

Prioritizes the other person's happiness and emphasizes the importance of self care.

"It's okay to feel that way. Do you want to talk about it more?"

Validates the other person's feelings.

"I appreciate how you handled that situation. You're really good at ___."

Praises specific strengths or skills, boosting the other person's self-esteem.

"I know we disagree, but I respect your point of view."

Acknowledges differences in opinion while still maintaining respect and understanding.

Mercury ☿️ in Houses- What you are always thinking about?

Mercury in 1st- The mind is always questioning, finding answers to something and creating new thoughts.

Mercury in 2nd - The mind is always thinking money and finances and how to increase them or save them.

Mercury in 3rd- The mind is always thinking about the next short trip or just curious in general.

Mercury in 4th- The mind is always thinking past events and childhood memories.

Mercury in 5th- The mind is always thinking about dating, romance and kids or about the stock market.

Mercury in 6th-The mind is always thinking about diet and nutrition.

Mercury in 7th- The mind is always thinking relationships and the partner.

Mercury in 8th- The mind is always thinking about astrology and occult.

Mercury in 9th- The mind is always thinking about the next long trip or flight or the next country to move and settle.

Mercury in 10th- The mind is always thinking about the next best job and how one could get more efficient.

Mercury in 11th- The mind is always thinking about extra profits, promotions and new business ideas to make money.

Mercury in 12th- The mind is always thinking about an imaginary world like the Hogwarts school. Can't fall asleep and thinks about how one could fall asleep and the cycle continues.

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Astro Observations pt.21

Back with some very random Astro observations 😁

⚫ Saturn aspecting the 7th house actually can dislike 9 to 5 jobs or corporate office jobs. They are better with freelancing. Its coz they can't take orders. Sorry not sorry. 💀(Ig that's a Saturn 7H thing 😆)

⚫ An interesting thing I observed: Among two siblings, the elder one has Leo rising which means Scorpio 4H and the younger one has Scorpio moon. And their Mom is a Scorpio moon too. She's a nice lady though but is such a control freak. (I know I am one too, but like when I met her the second time that "controlling" vibe just hit me like a big yellow school bus 🚌😭😭). That was so funny lol😂. -All the more her birthdate is a single digit 1.(these people are the alpha type, always lead and never follow and hence are dominating, one to have the last say) which is cherry on top. -She is fiercely protective of her kids. Can't emphasize enough on "fierce" part. Very strict. Rules are to be followed very religiously. {She can't stand any one of them doing anything without her knowledge. She even monitors whom they interact with what they do on their mobiles etc.(from what I suspect)} (obv Scorpio moon mom traits) (sometimes Leo moon moms too){nothing unhealthy here, just Mom's way of showing they care 😂}

⚫Saturn and Workout: -Workout 🏋️‍♀️requires CONSISTENCY. Saturn LOVES consistency. -In fact the best remedy for Saturn is sweating. JUST SWEAT by hard work. No matter what it maybe: workout, walking, jobs, cardio, sports etc. 🤸‍♀️🚴‍♀️🏋️‍♀️

⚫ Whilst on the topic of Saturn, people who follow a time table for literally everything the planet doesn't harm them much during its Dasha (even if its your worst one). I mean obviously you played by the rules 🤷‍♀️

⚫ Magha is the only nakshatra for which you don't need in depth compatibility match. They get along with everyone.

⚫Scorpio Venuses/8H Venuses are paranoid. They notice and suspect everything (sometimes things which are not there/imaginary). (For eg, me, who thinks that someone is peeping thru my curtains even when nobody is there and all my curtains cover my windows properly. 🤣).

⚫Also as a basic Scorpio Venus behavior: while writing chats/texting, I always think- "what if someone else reads it?"..so I just don't give much details in texts. (Gosh, sometimes I think somethings wrong with me 😭😭)

⚫The proven way to hurt a Leo moon: compare them with any other person and tell them that the person is wayy better in a certain thing esp if it's a triat that the Leo is proud of. 🤣 (P.S don't do that, its mean and the Leo will hunt you, which you don't want 😀.)

⚫Why do Aries moon men have a bunch of good friends for life and Aries moon women struggle with having at least one good genuine female friend for life? (I'm jealous)

⚫ Maybe its becoz they get along more with guys than gals so the girls are jealous of them...so hence no good female friends. 😢🤡 Aries moons are the best-est people for friendships you'll ever get.

⚫ People born on a Saturday look melancholic.

⚫ You can NEVER mislead a Leo rising. They study litreally everything: what you say what you do, and why you do so. Similar to Scorpios

⚫If you see a person having graceful and "royal" way of walking or behaving, they're are sure shot to have a Magha Ascendant.

⚫Connecting the dots here: as I said in one of my previous posts that Maghas get framed even when they have done nothing, what I interpreted is that Maghas are actually the definition of royalty. They literally have that ✨grace✨, that kinda magnanimous personality and similar struggles to a monarch. Totally King/Queen typa energy here. So with that, the usual consequences in a Kingdom is conspiracy against the king, which the Maghas face. (Enough with Maghas ig, started observing them recently so..✌🏻💀)

That's it for today, until next time! (like,comment and reblog loveliesss❤❤😘)

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I genuinely hope that this resource proves beneficial to someone out there. And remember, if you find yourself still facing challenges or need assistance with anything else, please don't hesitate to reach out. I'm here to help! ✨

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Work on yourself and you'll attract everything you've been praying for.

Eleventh Lord and your burning desire.

Eleventh house or eleventh Lord shows our desires that we have carried from our past lives, and also shows how we will get gains in our this life time.

Eleventh house is not only of desires but also shows our social circle.

Eleventh house is also our realisation because when we realise that our desires causes pain and tension in your life.

If we don't get our desires then it creates feeling of loss, loss of something that we never had and never possessed.

So, once you realise, that it is not outer situation but your inner intense desires are keeping you stuck all the time, because you have give so much excess potential to your desires that now you are grieving for something that was never yours.

It doesn't mean you don't deserve good life, abundance or whatever you desires, it just mean, instead of focusing on your desires, focus on the greater power of the universe that gives you everything that you desire, it simply means having faith, that you will get your desires once you change your energy and frequency.

Whatever energy you rediate same energy you attract

So focus on your energy not on your desires directly.

Eleventh lord in first house

You will get your desires when you work on your body and personality

Eleventh lord in second house

You will get your desires through your family or communication

Eleventh Lord in third house

You will get your desires through your skills or through commission jobs.

Eleventh Lord in fourth house

You will get your desires through your home or property.

Eleventh Lord in fifth house

You will get your desires through your own intelligence and through your education

Eleventh Lord in sixth house

You will get your desires when you solve someone's problems and by maintaining daily routine.

Eleventh Lord in seventh house.

You will get your desires through your business or partner.

Eleventh Lord in eighth house

You will get your desires through your inheritance or through astrology and occult.

Eleventh Lord in Ninth house

You will get your desires through your father or guru

Eleventh Lord in tenth house

You will get your desires through your work or professional life.

Eleventh Lord in eleventh house

You will get your desires through your friends, social circle or through community.

Eleventh Lord in twelfth house

You will get your desires when you learn to let go your desires and have faith.