blushydior
this is nothing but an enhancement of the person already within you. this is not to say you aren’t perfect in your own beautiful way and you need to change your whole self because you’re “not up to par”. i make this post to tell you to never put a limit on your growth because change is constant and the smallest things make the absolute biggest difference. this is an endless self improvement journey where you will make clear of your beautiful qualities buried underneath, embody the person you’ve always wanted to become, and find new lovely sides of yourself in the process. the idea of change, even in the slightest, shouldn’t be feared but instead welcomed. there is nothing better than evolving and being a better person than you were yesterday. remember that you can change at any time. you don’t have to wait until a new year, month, or week and note that it’s never too late to do so. there is no other time than now. this post will always be here for you to look back on. and of course, despite the mentions of dream girl, this post is for EVERYONE.
to start and this is very crucial, ask yourself a series of questions:
what are my deepest values in life? envisioning the dream person i desire to be, do the habits i hold support me on this journey? what are some things i need to let go of that i’ve been putting off? how have i been feeling these past few months? do the people i socialize with inspire & encourage me in my endeavors?
really take your time to think about what you value, ways you can support them and analyze things in your current life.
now that you’ve got the foundation, let’s begin and become the dream girl you want to be.
do right by you. you can’t do right by others if you abandon yourself for the sake of them.
bring out the journal because we are going on a self discovery journey!
what are your goals that you’ve been wanting to achieve? start a business, do better in school and be at the top of your class, getting to places on time, be more open to meeting new people, reading more books a month, being more elegant, gentle, and kind…
what does the dream person in your mind look like? what habits and kind of friends do they have? how do they spend their time? how do they carry themselves?
what are some things you need to let go of in order to successfully embody this person? socializing with toxic people, not having structure in the day, excess social media usage, substance consumption, sleeping in, procrastinating, victimizing, the negative self-talk, gossip, letting people step all over you…
what are some habits you’ll need to cultivate? lessen social media usage, waking up and going to sleep early, eating healthy, exercising, picking up old and new hobbies again, more walks, starting work right away, being kind to yourself…
digital declutter: delete any and all useless apps. most of them are to be real with you. you don’t have to check your influencer’s new posts and vlogs and you will be okay if you miss out on the newest internet trends. for a little more push on letting go of social media, read my post on digital minimalism here.
remember, that this is a self development journey. you can’t and won’t accomplish the goals and habits of the it girl you want to be if you’re on your phone for more than half the day. be raw with yourself. let go of social media.
social group: really take some time to think about the people you hang around with. are they supportive? negative? do they talk bad about others? criminals? are they goal setters and high-achievers? do they support you and your goals? do they hang around with bad people?
the people you socialize with tells a lot about your character. seriously! if you hang out with people who treat others like garbage (for no reason), if THEY knowingly socialize with people who do tons of horrible things, where do YOUR morals lie? yes, they have been nice to you and you’ve known them for years but that excuse begins to fade when you are striving to be a better person and morals come into play. the environment you tolerate will hold you back.
don’t feel bad about doing this. i did at first but it’ll go away, trust me when i say you’ll do so much better.
most importantly, self care: how you carry and treat yourself shows others how to treat you. once you acknowledge what you are worthy of, you will not allow yourself to settle for anything that doesn’t meet your standards and much less allow yourself to tumble back into old, unhealthy ways.
enforce boundaries on yourself and others. get rid of the habits of bashing yourself when you make an honest mistake or your work performance/grades are low, stop saying horrible things when you look in the mirror, stop complaining and staying up at night for unnecessary reasons, damaging your health, stop letting people insult you, quit over explaining yourself.
detox ending note: again, take it easy with yourself. the more you exercise and strengthen your self-discipline, the easier this detox will be for you. you can start by applying a few habits at a time until it’s basically a part of a routine and go on from there but you have to remember to take it seriously in implementing it into your daily routine/life.
tell yourself that you are doing amazing because you are! you are striving to be better you every single day! how is that not admirable? you are always doing your best even if it may not feel like it.
now that you have a clear vision of things even if it’s little! you need to do in order to fully embody your dream self, it’s time to put things into motion.
how can you do this? enforcing self-discipline and setting boundaries.
think of motivation as a power boost at the starting line and your foot pressing on the pedal of your car is discipline, it’s what keeps you going forward on your journey. motivation, as fleeting as it is won’t bring you far but self-discipline will.
DEVELOPING SELF DISCIPLINE
self-discipline: the ability to control one’s feelings and overcome one’s weaknesses; the ability to pursue what one thinks is right despite temptations to abandon it.
boundaries
a line that marks the limits of an area; a dividing line.
a limit of a subject or sphere of activity.
remind yourself of the life you want to live and the person you desire to be, remember that all of your desires have always been within reach. you just have to break out of the barrier you’ve put up for yourself, fight through the fear and the “what if’s” and just do it! the person you wish to be is already within you.
thinking of and wanting to start is one thing but actually starting, no matter how small has already moved mountains you can’t yet see.
WHERE TO START
self-discipline and boundaries go hand in hand. setting healthy boundaries will shine light on the path you want to take by making sure you’re staying protected by actions made by you and other people and discipline keeps you in check so that you can go about your self improvement journey the best that you can!
this can look like…
overcoming the urge to wallow in past failures and instead looking forward to a chance at a new beginning.
putting yourself first. taking care of your mind, body, and soul.
getting out of bed to finish your tasks even if you wanted to sleep in.
correcting yourself when you were slipping up on an old habit without self criticism.
making sure your boundaries allow you to grow and fix them as you seek fit
learning the best ways to say no and yes
being more considerate and kind to yourself and others.
not letting futile thoughts, ideas, and actions hinder your progress.
finally putting forth projects you’ve pushed aside.
picking yourself back up after a difficult time even if it took a while.
more on boundaries here: BOUNDARIES 101
habits to acquire:
thinking of which times you felt down and uplifted and figuring out what contributed to those feelings. avoid habits and situations that don’t serve you and bring in more of what made you feel good about yourself and how you can further enhance that experience.
not rushing your personal journey
having a set routine. morning + night ideas.
standing firm on your boundaries
stop comparing.
becoming a digital minimalist
identifying with old habits and perceptions of yourself
investing in your appearance (because pampering is relaxing!)
not caring about what others think of you
taking care of your mind, body, and soul. tuning into what you need and what is best for you, fully influenced and putting things into motion because it’s what you truly want, not for pleasing others or trying to “fit in”
enjoying stillness
indulging in old and new hobbies every day. make it a priority!
more ideas here!
CONTINUING TO STRENGTHEN DISCIPLINE
how do habits form? how do people get better at what they set their minds to? by figuring out what works for them and what doesn’t, what their roadblocks are and from then on, repetition and consistency.
keep in mind that healing and improvement is subjective. make it work for you so that you are setting yourself up for success. take what you see from posts like these, videos, and books and refine it to make it fit perfectly with how you would like things to go.
take the habits you intend to leave behind and the ones you’d like to acquire and map out how you would go about leaving the past in the past to welcome in the new.
figure out what your roadblocks are. when there comes a time where it’s hard to continue forward on your path, tune into your body and mind. what is it telling you? there is something that is bothering you that needs to be addressed. are you well rested? have you had enough water today? are you overstimulated? are there any illnesses that can easily flare up and be the reason why you’re feeling this way?
don’t beat yourself up for feeling demotivated and unreasonably drained. most of the time, it’s really not the case. you just need to figure out what is going on and address it gently and sometimes you won’t really know what’s going on until later on and that’s okay!
i would always feel drained or overstimulated with my depression, adhd, and chronic fatigue. it would cause me to flare up and enter episodes (depressive and manic). the things i would realize was that it was either caused by: an triggering/traumatic event, intense emotions that didn’t have an outlet, continuous outings. and sometimes flares up will just happen and i began to understand that.
i didn’t blame myself for having illnesses. i just grew aware that what really matters is: i get through it every. single. time. and i will be okay even if i literally felt my world was crashing down on me yet again.
something that can help when dealing with episodes is that when you feel it coming on, prepare yourself so you can get through it even if it makes the experiences just a little bit better by 1%. taking a shower and brushing your teeth, cleaning up your space, gathering snacks and easy to make meals, telling a trusted loved one you won’t be available but might need their support, trying your best to go on walks even if it’s hard, putting on comfortable clothes, etc.
which one works for you? working your way up, going all in or both? it really all depends on what this method applies to. if you think changing your routine by the slightest will be a good step, do it or if you feel confident that deleting all the apps on your phone all at once is something you want to do, go all in.
keep track of your accomplishments. tracking your accomplishments will show how much you’ve done and keep you on your feet! nothing beats the feeling than looking back at all the things you’ve done before heading towards the rest of your goals with your head high. anything is possible. remind yourself that you can do it. sort it to yearly, monthly, and daily to do lists! it’s always the best thing to look at when there are times where you don’t feel like you did “enough”. your effort is more than enough!
and so you take a few days to rest. relaxing, taking a vacation… does this mean you’re being inconsistent? absolutely… not. duh? resting is being productive. putting yourself first IS self care! reward yourself with relaxing days spent by traveling, resting, going out etc. do what makes you happy and be safe. keeping a balance is SUPER important!
“take things slow with yourself. if your body wants to rest, let it rest. let your mind rest as well by letting go all the worries of “why you’re not active”. who cares if you take a slow day? do you know how much you’ve been through? the least you can do for yourself is be comfortable in your own bed without a care in the world. you’ve experienced enough guilt. let yourself be free knowing that you deserve to rest. you deserve moments of stillness. enjoy the now. it’s all we have. we’re not always meant to be up and running. we simply weren’t made that way. there is beauty in stillness, peace, and quiet. don’t put it to shame. instead, let your mind, body, and soul experience more of it.
do things at your own pace. if you think you can get up, brush your teeth and that’s all that you can do for the day, so be it. don’t force yourself to do things you can’t handle. you’ll be doing more harm than good. take it day by day. add an extra task as days go on. do something you believe will be fulfilling like going on a quick walk around the block, going to the store to get a drink, baking a treat, sitting outside for a few minutes at a time.”
— blushydior in be kind to yourself. healing is a journey.
read this with conviction:
“as of this very moment, i am leaving my old and undesired self behind; the past mistakes, the unhealthy habits, how i used to treat myself and the way i allowed others to treat me, and all the pain i have held on to for so long. it’s all gone now. even if i may or may not have a clear vision of the dream person i am now embodying, i will remain open minded and brave into learning and growing each and everyday. i am not my past mistakes nor my trauma. i’m safe and secure now. and because i’m aware of my infinite power of having full control of my reality, i am rewriting my story.”
you are not your past mistakes. you are not the negative words you have been told. you are who you want to be. everything in your world holds absolutely no meaning unless you assign it meaning thus, giving it power. turn a blind eye to things that don’t serve you, put yourself first and watch how you will bloom vibrantly.
NOTHING IS OUT OF REACH. everything you want is already within you, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
GIVE PERFECT A MEANING OF YOUR OWN! you are still an it girl if you make mistakes, you are still a healthy, recovering person with a few very tough days this week.
you are perfect for:
taking it easy
always trying your best even if it doesn’t feel like it
making a mistake and learning from it
telling yourself: “i had a tough day today but it’s okay! i’m going to rest and take it easy. i’m okay. i am always doing my best. there’s nothing to worry about. tomorrow will be an amazing day.”
allowing yourself to cry, feel, and express your thoughts and emotions
putting your need first
using fear as an opportunity to grow
YOU ARE PERFECT LIKE YOU.
REMEMBER: THIS IS A JOURNEY
you will grow at your own pace naturally.
don’t compare yourself to others, they too had a past and obstacles to overcome (and still do!) to get where they are at right now.
don’t rush into things, handling more than you could at once.
don’t beat yourself up for not knowing certain things earlier. everyone learns and realizes things differently.
this is not a race, there’s no routine that is supposed to be one size fits all. this is a self paced journey. you will realize and see things at a different perspective as events unfold, you will outgrow the people around you and the bad habits as you find yourself at a more stable chapter in your life. don’t rush, don’t compare, just keep looking forward.
i have fully embodied my definition of a dream girl/boy/person.
i carry myself with full confidence and elegance.
there is not a day that goes by where i don’t do my best.
i’m beautiful, intelligent, hardworking, kind, and gentle.
i am the best version of myself.
success is inevitable for me. i am successful at everything i do.
i have all of my desired qualities.
i become better and better each and every day!
my self awareness increases every second. i have the most perfect mental diet.
it’s so easy for me to persist in new and beneficial thoughts. flipping thoughts is just way too easy.
i am in full control of my reality. i am fully aware of my potential and i will never let anything or anyone affect me.
“A flower does not think of competing with the flower next to it. It just blooms.”
— Zen Shin
☆ here is the google doc (and better) version! ☆
How to actually manifest/reality shift, and how it works
Disclaimer: this is NOT a method, technique or a new trend. It is a way of life! And is the reason behind why manifestation and reality shifting even works in the first place
Awareness, consciousness, the observer, imagination. That is the TRUE you. Not who you “think” you are, not your body, not your identity. All those are imaginary made up concepts, and are not who YOU truly are. If you were your mind or your body or your “identity” you would not be able to be aware of these concepts.
You can hear your thoughts, you can feel your emotions, you can feel touching a table, you observe these things, and you therefore cannot be them. If you can be aware of something, observe something, how can you BE it?
Are you a table? Or are you aware that there is a table?
Are you your thoughts? Or do you hear your thoughts?
That shows us that we are something more than this human body. But that “more” can never be explained or understood, for as long as we are in a human body, because there is nothing to understand, it just IS. YOU are everything and anything. And nothing. Nothing would exist without your awareness of it.
What was before this person?
there just was
What was before this physical world (imaginary human world)?
there just was
What was before doubts and negative thinking?
there just was
it all just IS
This is the reason a thing like “manifesting” and “reality shifting” even exists. They are imaginary concepts made up to try and understand and explain being awareness, imagination, the limitless creator. They “work” because they are METHODS to become aware of something.
Awareness of something = it’s real
No awareness of something = it’s not real
Things cease to exist when we focus our awareness somewhere else, which is why things can change and feel like they have been “undone”. The imaginary concept for this is revision.
But as we covered, anything and everything is JUST imagination, it is imaginary, it is not something outside of you, it IS you.
As a limited human, we believe that the world we live in is something outside of us, we then discover reality shifting and manifesting, and find out we can change this outside world.
But the whole point is to realise that there IS NO outside world, it is ALL within awareness/consciousness/imagination. It is IMAGINARY it exists because we are aware it exists.
We are human because we are aware that we are human.
Not in the sense that we used to believe about the word “real”
How we used to view something as real, was something outside of us. “Imagination is just that. It's not real '' I know a lot of us have been told this growing up, and we believed it.
But the thing is there is NOTHING OUTSIDE OF US.
So yes things are real, when you become aware of them. If not, they just exist as a thing we cannot understand.
But the second we become aware of something, it becomes real, because it was given awareness, it was given attention.
So no nothing is real in the sense we used to think. But that was a made up limited idea. There is nothing but awareness/consciousness/imagination. Anything you can think of, is imaginary and made up.
We have always been aware and observing, if you were your thoughts, then wouldn’t you cease to exist when you didn’t think? What is that pause between your thoughts? Awareness. Observation. It has always been there. Sit in silence and reflect on everything i say in this post, and i promise you, you realise how limited you have always been.
First, There is no such thing as manifesting or reality shifting. They are made up concepts as I said. Manifesting and reality shifting implies a process to go through, when in reality you are just observing, becoming aware of something, and then it exists, and you as a human body can experience it.
But because you are truly imagination/awareness/consciousness, you are everything, because nothing would even exist without you. There is nothing to “get” or be. Because you already are / have that thing.
awareness/consciousness/imagination is everything, and there is therefore no such thing as “time” ONLY in the imaginary human world. Time is a made up thing. The past and future only exists in thoughts, and thoughts are something imaginary, that means that time is imaginary too. So anything and everything you could ever imagine or think of, exists right at this moment, and is ready to be observed / given awareness/attention to.
This makes this imaginary human life, your playground. Your video game. your dream. You can do absolutely anything and everything
And since this is the case, and what actually changes the imaginary human life, is not affirming, or states or any other method, it is awareness that changes it. That means that whatever you DECIDE is true. Is true.
Want to affirm? Do that. Want to get into a state? Do that. Want to fulfill yourself in imagination and let the “3d” reflect it? Then do that. Want to simply observe something? Do that.
It ALL WORKS, because AWARENESS is what changes your surroundings.
Something important to really understand, is that no matter what any state person says or any affirm person says. Pretty much any law of assumption person says. There is absolutely NO difference between what you see/hear/say/imagine with your eyes closed and with your eyes open.
There is no 4d or 3d. It is just IMAGINATION. The imaginary human world does not “reflect your imagination” how could it when it is only here BECAUSE IT IS imagination. THERE IS NO TIME LAG!! Whenever you become aware of something, it is INSTANTLY real.
Affirm / affirmation = becoming aware
Getting into a state = becoming aware
Deciding / observing = becoming aware
Wanting = becoming aware
You see how it all boils down to the same thing? AWARENESS.
The second you become aware of something it exists immediately like i said, the reason you may not see it show up in the human experience, is because you are aware that there is a time lag, or even aware that you cannot change anything.
Doubts = only real if you are aware of them, you can decide they do not exist.
How it really should be is:
Manifesting -> observing, becoming aware, and things will change because it is just imagination, there is no such thing as manifesting, this is how it normally works!
Reality shifting -> becoming aware of ex. Hogwarts exists, and it does, become aware you are there, then you are. You are NOT shifting to a different “place” because all is imagination.
And lastly, don’t EVER be fooled by what someone else says. YOU DECIDE what is true for you, others don’t. If you want to experience a bunch of things, it's okay to do so! If you just want to be and let things unfold, that is okay! If you want to think, that's okay to do. Never let anyone else tell you what you can and can’t do. It's your imagination after all
BY blushydior
note: post inspired by @cinefairy (´͈ ᵕ `͈) ♡°◌̊ + brief mentions of sensitive topics
♡┊ my life before:
i dealt with immense abuse and toxicity. the whole works. i was in foster care, constantly traveling to different countries. i’ve been depressed and suicidal, failed attempt after attempt since i was 7. traveled city to city during hs to sleep, had to look for shelter at 19 because the abuse got too much, having to take care of children all my life & never having time to live for myself — it was for as long as i could remember to the point where feeling numb, empty, sad & hopeless was the normal to me. i was confident in myself, ill give myself that; only because ever since i was little i dreamt big. but that kept being pushed away the more i dealt with my circumstances. but i just knew— something inside me was telling me that i was special. after finding out loa, slump after slump, i did it. i never gave up. and im proud that i never did.
even after i renewed this blog, i had still been dealing with depression and was hospitalized for it but i. did. it. im here living my dream life and you can be too.
♡┊ my life now:
i have: financial freedom, my desired appearance from head to toe, buying the most luxurious houses in my desired states/cities, revised my name, semi socialite, model, elevated my interests into talents such as painting, drawing, singing, dancing, film, edit, writing, photography, i now own multiple businesses, a soon to be author, amazing intelligence, fluent in multiple languages, martial arts, desired friends, always being safe, friends with a few of my fave celebs, spoiling my nieces & nephews, and a dream bf literally as all of my favorite book boyfriends combined. he’s perfect. + so much more.
i still can’t process this sometimes but i seriously made myself the dream girl my younger self always knew was in me.
♡┊ how i did it:
simplified the law. made my own rules. decided what my new story was. left the old one to die out and most importantly: took it easy on myself. i was doing my best to live my dream life because i knew it was possible. so why be so hard on myself?
it took some time at first considering my circumstances but thats why we persist, my love. affirming and persisting. never giving up. kept the faith. that’s it. it didn’t take longer than a month!
💌 ┊ my note to everyone:
you can do it. it’s possible. and you deserve to live your dream life. it’s okay to have doubts, it’s okay to question yourself, the law, etc. what’s important is that you GET UP, be gentle and kind to yourself. i stg you better be nice to urself… 😤👹 and persist.
i love you, i love you, i love you. blushydior loves you!!!! so much. and is giving the warmest and tightest hugs to everyone who is reading thus far. it was a heavy topic considering how much of a private person i am but i had to make it. thank you for reading. it means so much to me. - 🧸
special thank you, hugs & kisses to @cinefairy @heraisgod — ♡ the most inspiring people ever. you were the ones who kept reminding me to keep pushing and to be strong. i owe you everything.
- blushydior ♡
I think we can all agree that the subject of reality and manifestation is far from new. That being said, have we noticed how it still is a current point of discussion? Whether it's coming from known figures in real life or characters in a story, the topics of imagination and desire fulfillment are still ever present. And isn't that wonderful, how the world reflects our belief that there is more to life than the hand we were dealt? Personally, I find it comforting to know that we are not the first people to ruminate over the law of assumption, and we sure as hell won't be the last. The quotes listed under the cut are ones I have come across over the course of many years, and they go to show how the law pervades our way of life, past, present, and future. They are proof that several people in the world (if not everyone) have an innate understanding of the law of assumption, whether they're aware of it or not.
"When you base your expectations only on what you see - you blind yourself to the possibilities of a new reality." — Zaheer, S3 antagonist in The Legend of Korra (x)
"Freedom is secured not by the fulfilling of men's desires, but by the removal of desire." — Epictetus, The Discourses (x)
"It’s sort of like a mantra. You repeat it to yourself every day. [...] And it’s not yet, it’s a lie. You’re saying a lie over and over and over again but then one day, the lie is true." —Lady Gaga, in a 60 Minutes interview (x)
"Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions." — Albert Einstein (x)
"There’s a redemptive power that making a choice has rather than feeling like you’re an effect to all the things that are happening. Make a choice. Just decide what it’s gonna be, who you’re gonna be, how you are going to do it. Just decide. And from that point, the universe will get out of your way." — Will Smith (x)
"Imagine where you will be, and it will be so." — Maximus, protagonist in Gladiator (x)
"It’s just about letting the universe know what you want and then working towards it while letting go of how it comes to pass." — Jim Carrey (x)
"When I was very young, I visualized myself being and having what it was I wanted. Mentally I never had any doubts about it. The mind is really so incredible. Before I won my first Mr. Universe title, I walked around the tournament like I owned it. The title was already mine. I had won it so many times in my mind that there was no doubt I would win it. Then when I moved on to the movies, the same thing. I visualized myself being a famous actor and earning big money. I could feel and taste success. I just knew it would all happen." — Arnold Schwarzenegger, quoted in the book Mind Power by John Kehoe (x)
“The universe is not outside of you. Look inside yourself; everything that you want, you already are.” — Jalal ad-Din Muhammad ar-Rumi, in one of his poems (x)
"Ask for what you want and be prepared to get it." — Maya Angelou (x)
"And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it." — Paulo Coelho in his book The Alchemist (x)
"Create a brighter future from your own hearts and imagination." — King Harrow, reoccurring side character in The Dragon Prince (x)
"Used to say I had 'fore I got it, now I got it all." — Drake, in his song "Lemon Pepper Freestyle" (x)
"I see it, I like it, I want it, I got it." — Ariana Grande, in her song "7 rings" (x)
"Do you believe that you are worthy of happiness? Do you believe that happiness, success, abundance, comfort, fulfillment, peace, joy, love is a part of your birthright? Is that what you believe or do you believe something else? Because you will manifest the life that you believe. — Oprah Winfrey on the Oprah Winfrey Network (x)
"If you write it down and envision it, anything you see in your mind you can hold in your hand." — Steve Harvey (x)
is it right to manifest someone who passed back into life ? is death just an assumption as well ? …. like after death do we just become pure consciousness . someone i know took their own life ( please keep them in ur prayers ) so is it right to manifest them back into a life where they were happy & fulfilled ?… this is just a theory but what if people just died because we assume that they have to and accepted that they can randomly disappear from here forever or whatever the lines of death is …. what’s your view on it ?
well everything’s an assumption. and yes, i believe after death we become pure consciousness (I AMness).
i don’t think it would be wrong to manifest someone back after death, no matter how they died. especially if you’re revising for them to be happy and fulfilled.
and i think your theory is right. we come into this world and grow up to know what death is and how it can happen, loa aside. as children, they tell us “everyone dies” (i disagree) or it’s unexpected when you die (also disagree). and you believe those things just like many other limiting beliefs of the world.
however, once you find out about the law, you get to consciously change that narrative.
#success stories
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i can't believe how far we have come! thank you guys for supporting this series so much! it is an honour. in part 1, 2 & 3, we talk all about actually HOW to manifest your desired appearance. and in the last part, we will talk about the aftermath: the success stories. i hope reading this, it will motivate you, and YOU will become the next success story ! here are my fav success stories from my page. i hope you enjoy.
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“Health, wealth, beauty, and genius are not created; they are only manifested by the arrangement of your mind-that is, by your concept of yourself, and your concept of yourself is all that you accept and consent to as true.” – Neville Goddard.
1. APPEARANCE CHANGE - WOKE UP WITH DESIRED FACE
2. APPEARANCE CHANGE - LOST 2 INCHES OFF WAIST
3. KARMA FOR EX-BOYFRIEND AND NEW RELATIONSHIP
4. LONGER HAIR, IDEAL BODY AND GIVEAWAY
5. MANIFESTED POSITION AS CLINICAL INTERN
6. INCREASED HEIGHT, CLEAR SKIN, AND SMALLER BOOB SIZE
7. WOKE UP BEING 63KG
8. REVISED GRANDMOTHER'S DEATH
9. GREW AN INCH OVERNIGHT
10. HEALED SCALP AND FULLER HAIRLINE
11. BIGGER BOOTY
12. FULLER HAIRLINE
13. IPHONE 13 & LONGER HAIR
14. 5'4 & 140LBS TO 5'1 & 95LBS + DESIRED FACE
15. GREW 5 INCHES IN 3 HOURS
16. HETEROCHROMIA
17. 6'2 1/2 & 7.5 INCH DICK
18. WAIST AND HIP RATIO AND BIGGER LIPS
19. MIDBACK HAIR
20. $700 FOR BEING GORGEOUS
21. $50,000
22. GOT HEARING BACK IN 2 DAYS
23. HYPNOTIC, ALLURING BEAUTY
24. MOTHER LOOKING YOUNG
25. CLEAR SKIN & WEIGHT LOSS
26. SHARP JAWLINE & SLIM FACE
27. 38 TO 22 INCH WAIST INSTANTLY
28. WEIGHTLOSS
29. GOT DESIRED FACE IN 2 DAYS BY IMAGINING
30. 5'7 to 5'4
31. WEIGHTLOSS
32. FULLER EDGES, SMALLER FOREHEAD & CLEAR SKIN
33. BIGGER ASS
34. WOKE UP WITH DESIRED FACE AND $600
35. FLAT STOMACH
36. SLIMMER FACE
37. CLEAR SKIN
38. HEALTHY TASTY VAGINA IN 2 DAYS
39. DESIRED FACE & RED HAIR
40. 6'3 & BIGGER DICK
41. HEALED ED & DESIRED BODY
42. CLEAR SKIN, FIXED VOCAL CHORDS & BETTER COLLARBONES
43. MANIFESTED 6 INCHES OF HEIGHT AND BIGGER BOOBS
44. MANIFESTED 21 INCH WAIST OVERNIGHT
45. CHANGE OF EYE COLOUR, SIZE 8 AND SLIMMER BODY
46. DESIRED APPEARANCE IN FOUR DAYS
47. DESIRED APPEARANCE IN TWO DAYS
48. 4 INCHES TALLER BY A SPECIFIC DATE
49. BIGGER ASS
50. WOKE UP FROM A NAP WITH A 20 INCH WAIST
51. MANIFESTED MOLE AWAY
52. WOKE UP WITH DESIRED FACE
53. CHANGED BIRTHDATE
54. WEIGHTLOSS
55. BEING REALTED TO ROYALTY
56. HEART FLUTTERS AT THE SIGHT OF BEAUTY
57. BECOMING A KPOP TRAINEE
58. BIGGER AND WIDER EYES
59. MANIFESTED MOVIE OUT OF ABUSIVE HOME
60. MANIFESTED BECOMING AN ACTUAL PRINCESS
61. CANCELLED EXAMS
62. MANIFESTED LEARNING JAPANESE WITHOUT LEARNING
63. MANIFESTED SPECIFIC PERSON
64. WOKE UP WITH DESIRED FACE AND LOST 5KGS
65. GOT RID OF LOVE HANDLES IN 3 DAYS
66. CHANGED FACE SHAPE IN AN HOUR
67. MANIFESTED EVERYTHING THEY WANTED DOING NOTHING
68. MANIFESTED DESIRED APPEARANCE BY RELAXING
69. BIGGER EYES & BRUISE REMOVAL
70. PERFECT SELF CONCEPT
71. MANIFESTED EXAM ANSWERS BEING LEAKED
72. MANIFESTED MILLIONS
73. MANIFESTED BEING A HOLLYWOOD EXTRA
74. EVERY GUY FELL IN LOVE HER
75. MANIFESTED SYMMETRICAL FACE
76. HEALING FROM BULIMIA AND ANOREXIA
77. MANIFESTED HEARING BACK
78. STRAIGHT TEETH
79. MANIFESTED MARILYN MONROE BEAUTY
80. HETEROCHROMIA
81. MANIFESTED 100% ON A TEST
82. MANIFESTED A NEW TRUCK FOR MOM & NEW CAR
83. MANIFESTED GETTING DREAM JOB
84. CLEAR SKIN
85. MANIFESTING MOVING TO NYC
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so yeah, that's it! i hope this motivates you. and if you're new here, hit that follow button! :)
i entered the void state and it was literally sooo effortless, i just woke up in it aware and manifested my void list.
all i did was listen to subs, delete all social media, and work on my mental diet for the past 3 weeks.
subs (listen for an hour each):
https://youtu.be/z2K99Ppkzuw?si=1aPZQdb5RE17J3MU
https://youtu.be/NVyvn7rsRfw?si=uMBSVfPoOmOt6Gpn
https://youtu.be/c_fpXSYYWNk?si=qeblRunQVE5jNSlx
https://youtu.be/dFLlNWQpuUo?si=7FrcwPxGJinYorFG
https://youtu.be/6giXS3UU8rs?si=GfKVuNC5wHa2yFhv
I just wanted to thank you and @gorgeouslypink and @piercedblunt! 💛
congrats bb!! 🎉🎉🎉
for those who struggle
i recently got sent an anon message about frustrations surrounding the law, and how non-dualism hasn't made it any easier for them, but actually just more frustrating to the point where they're officially walking away from everything and wanting to just go back to live as they knew it before any of this.
the truth is that, oversimplification runs rampant in this community. as well as, hiding behind the realities of how difficult it all can be, because people are afraid of affirming that it's difficult or identifying with difficulty... but when we hide from this experience and try to come off as if it doesn't affect us, while simultaneously trying to give out advice, there tends to be more damage than good happening. the oversimplifying isn't the fault of anyone, as the truth is most of this is simple. but in actually living it, it tends to not be simple at all. the ego will fight till the very end to keep things the way they are, even when they hurt us. and that is worth being honest about.
when it comes to non-identification and indifference, this is not meant to be used to as yet another way to pretend something isn't happening or push down your feelings or gaslight yourself. i see these posts like, "just ignore the 3d and don't identify with it and you would have already have what you wanted" ..... this doesn't actually really help anyone, unless you're a person who strives on that kind of mentality. but i think a lot of people need a little more gentleness and realness, otherwise this journey wouldn't have been so difficult and painful. we'd all just get it overnight, but clearly, this community stays extremely active for a reason. because the million ways its already been explained still leaves so many confused and frustrated.
indifference is a daily practice, and it is NOT one that includes pretending something doesn't exist in exchange for getting what you want. it is actually, the extreme opposite. it's by acknowledging what's there... and allowing that to be what it is. the non-identification comes in from how you choose to see YOURSELF in relation to whatever that thing is. "this is painful, this sucks, i hate it... but that doesn't mean tomorrow won't be better for me. it doesn't mean my life is doomed..." etc etc etc. it's this very small flip within yourself, that actually leads to results. not trying to force yourself into believing you aren't even who you are when you've identified as yourself this entire life. remember that god's name is I AM, and literally nothing else.
and doing something to get something else is just... not it. it's time for you to truly want to feel better, regardless of anything else. that's why so much of this starts to get trickier than it needs to be.
non-identification is literally as simple as realizing... you are bound to no past, and you have the opportunity of every future you can possibly imagine. why ? because non-identification is literally just non-attachment. when you're not attached to this idea of who you were, of the struggles you used to face, you're able to allow in different experiences. and y'all... this as simple as being able to say to yourself, "i am allowed to experience something new" and don't let your fear of the unknown stop you from experiencing something new.
here's where it doesn't feel so simple though. how can you just stop identifying with this whole human self when the traumas of the past keep coming back to haunt you ? thats the thing. you don't just stop identifying with it. you let this be a process, a non-linear path to liberation. slowly, but surely, if you keep at it everyday, even when you feel you're only going backwards... one day you will realize how much more free you are. how much more easier it is to move into a new beautiful story for yourself, one that isn't contiminated by your past. but let today be today ! and whatever may come, let it come.
this is why just focusing on yourself is so helpful because if you're simply doing the best you can for yourself and your feeling state, the daily dramas are no longer your ruler.
the gag is that, the more you just do these small daily practices of sitting with yourself, choosing to not engage in the stories you used to identify with in the past, and allow new experiences to come to you... the more easy it gets, the more the truth of yourself begins to show itself on its own. you have to realize that the days are going to keep passing by anyway... so stop counting them, and just commit to yourself.
i also want to quickly note that so many seem to leave out the fact that behind all of this, within the pure nothingness that is also everything. behind our human identifications and all the things we have experienced in our lives, there is unconditional love. and when we actually begin to stop identifying so deeply with who we thought we are, we are lead right back to unconditional love. love in its purest form. so, use love as your guide when things get too difficult. it's the truest thing to who you really are.
you have to let allow yourself to experience the beautiful, despite how strange it may feel. because it's going to feel strange if you've never really experienced it before, and the ego is going to fight because even when it's good, the unknown is still strange and scary. and you never have to be perfect at this to get to experience the things you want, believe it or not. i know that i still have a long way to go on this journey, there may be much more time before i ever get to fully experience the promise in full, but that hasn't stopped me from experiencing the desires of my heart on a daily basis. that's because i used these simple things, these small little flips in how i chose to see life. even if the anxiety never went away, or it was a more difficult day full of tears... this is way more possible for you than you realize. if only you're willing to allow your life to be different than it's always been. just that small allowance, opens up all the doors.
xo dream 🕊
Hello, I am writing to you as a 22-year-old girl who managed to enter the void on the night of May 17 and changed her whole life.
I started my void challenge in December 2021. It was very difficult for me both physically and psychologically. Because I had an environment that was abusive and violent. And my conditions were very terrible. I had an exam that I couldn't win for 3 years, an alcoholic father who beat me, and a mother who never let up on it. I have lost a lot of things in my life in 3 years, but I have never given up on emptiness. If there are people who are still struggling with the gap, I hope my success story will be a motivation for you.
One morning when I woke up with failure again, I was feeling extremely unhappy and hopeless. But an incident at home during the day made me say, ‘That's enough, I'm going to fuck everything up tonight and wake up in a void.
When I wasn't feeling very sleepy- or even sleepy at all- I lay down on the bed. Because I'm afraid to fall asleep. In order of;
15 min Holotropic breathwork
20 min Silva method
10 min Alpha State meditation
After lying motionless for about 45 minutes, the brown noise started playing. It is very natural that there is a desire to move, to be overwhelmed,to give up in this part. Please continue for your dreams. When the brown noise was playing, I used a single affirmation.
‘I'm simply deciding that I'm in a void.’
I can't remember how many times I repeated it. After a while, everything became quiet and I felt so peaceful for the first time in my life. I had a 30-page document and I said that everything in there would be manifested.
A day ago, when I had nothing, I now have a house on the Mediterranean coast, a black bmw ix car, a Harvard math degree, an online job where I earn 25 thousand dollars per month by working only 4 hours a day 4 days a week (Dollars are very valuable in the country where I live, and my salary is multiplied by about 30.), I have a beautiful face, body and skin. I also showed that I can ride horses professionally and draw pictures. I confirmed that the apple products, books, cosmetics and skin products in my wishlist are also in my house. I have also declared the person I will meet about 1 year from now and who will become the man of my dreams.
THIS IS AMAZING!!!! I’m so happy that you’re now living your dream life 💗
This is such a good example of showing people that they can truly do anything. Thank you for taking your time to share this 💗
my success story
last night, i told myself i would FINALLY induce the void state for fun or simply meditation purposes so i simply got comfy on my side and just affirmed “I am” for 1 minute then i felt a floaty feeling and i got excited but i didn’t place my awareness on my body i kept affirming then my senses went out. it felt like peace, i was everything but nothing at once, thats when i affirmed for my void state list repeating the phrase “i have all my desires from my void state list right now. i have all that i want right now, i have my subliminal results from my void state list right now that are full and permanent.” then i felt some sort of excitement, i left the void state feeling weird but then i felt a sudden urge to turn on my light and look at myself through my phone, thinking nothing changed but OMGG i was wrong. when i turned on my camera my heart was beating so fast. i looked DIFFERENT i did NOT look the way i did before i felt literal tears in my eyes. i looked at my body and it also looked the way i desired, my voice sounded different i started taking pictures of myself and they all came out absolutely perfect, i went to the mirror in the bathroom just to sob because i looked completely different. i wanna say i cried for like 7 minutes straight, i felt so free and confident. my anxiety was gone, depression gone i felt like i was genuinely reborn. my first thing ever was to post a picture of myself on instagram and literally all my followers were confused to who that was, new people in my dms and it was just crazy (my account is private) so people who followed me were absolutely flabbergasted and confused. (which is what i wanted, i wanted people to be confused on how a person can change appearances over night or within a day when they didn’t look the same before.) the next morning i’m getting ready for school parents came and told me i’d be staying at my original school for about 3 days before we move out of the country and back to our home country. but when i went to school because i came a bit late its like i was walking in a movie eyes were on me everywhere i was getting attention (positively) and compliments back to back, a few jealousy there but who cares? my life is change for the complete better and i’m never looking back at my past ever again, if you would love to know what other things i manifested then i can list them here.
* money never ever being a problem for my parents anymore + bills not existing for my parents anymore
* inducing pure consciousness whenever and however i want
* no matter how i sleep i’m always comfy (i sleep weirdly sometimes)
* permanent “makeup” but it looks like extreme natural beauty (you guys will know me real soon, thats if i decide to be known worldwide)
* no more morning breathe
* my life feeling like 2000-2019
* theres always something fun going on
* immunity to racism
* top student in absolutely everything + straight a’s without EVER trying, even when i guess its always right
* weighing exactly 111lbs forever
* being able to shift to any reality i want without EVERY “trying” (like for example if i say i wanted to shift to sailor moon, then i would like instantly and everything would follow script)
* love confessions left to right
* my past being altered
* if i wanted to go back in time and change or do something then i would be able to do that. like as of now if i wanted to go back to the year i was in 9th grade and relive that year just to restart my high school experience then i can
* the embodiment of luck
* reminding people of my once desired aesthetics
* subliminals working instantly for me
theres so much more i can list but im off to enjoy my new life, i hope to see some of you around one day! im unforgettable <3 i wanna thank you, @cinefairy , @salemlunaa @etherealkissed88 @itsrlymine @empyrealoasis @luvmanifesting @luckykiwiii101 AND @b4ddprincess (idk why i can’t tag her)and a few others out there! it took me a while to actually understand and apply the loa to my advantage to manifest my dream life.
to everyone else, you can do this too! i struggled with circumstances but here i am sharing my success story! bye bye!!!
OMGGGG YAYYYYYY IM SO SO HAPPY FOR YOU, FINALLY A SUCCESS STORY IN MY INBOX 😓😓 CONGRATS BABY