Aiming To Have Arjun's Focus, But Instead Of The Bird's Eye, All I Am Able To See Is My Goal

Bitch everything you love to do rn gon hurt if you can't crack that exam

normalize having favorites. in fact, normalize me being your favorite. normalize loving me more than you’ve ever loved anyone else. please please please please please please

one of the biggest things I can advocate for (in academia, but also just in life) is to build credibility with yourself. It’s easy to fall into the habit of thinking of yourself as someone who does things last minute or who struggles to start tasks. people will tell you that you just need to build different habits, but I know for me at least the idea of ‘habit’ is sort of abstract and dehumanizing. Credibility is more like ‘I’ve done this before, so I know I can do it, and more importantly I trust myself to do it’. you set an assignment goal for the day and you meet it, and then you feel stronger setting one the next day. You establish a relationship with yourself that’s built on confidence and trust. That in turn starts to erode the barrier of insecurity and perfectionism and makes it easier to start and finish tasks. reframing the narrative as a process of building credibility makes it easier to celebrate each step and recognize how strong your relationship with yourself can become

tiny babies engulfed her lol 💜

let's go on an adventure with mama 💕

this is where i am mentally rn

I can't say hello to you and risk another goodbye

studying can actually be so much fun if you feel like you have enough time and are not burdened by the prospect of a deadline or something

idk whats going on here but if it involves me eating hair then sure

Yaarr I want to go bald.

I've rarely seen a more validating sentence in my entire life.