Autism & Fluctuating Support Needs

I hate this:

I don't know what's wrong. I can make as many lists. As many notes. As I possibly can but I'll never know what's wrong.

Is it the bpd? Did someone trigger some unknown trauma that's hidden deep? Did they say something that scared me?

Is it the autism? Am I just overstimulated? Am I hungry? Sleepy? Thirsty?

Is it the ADHD? What. Is. Wrong?

i've never understood the argument "I just can't use they/them for a singular person, it's grammatically incorrect." first of all that's not even factually correct, it's grammatically correct. second of all, why do you care more about grammar than the mental health and well-being of other people? grammar is fake, we made it up. other people and their feelings are real. reconsider your priorities

How can this....

Turn into this..?

Best/favourite bucky barnes headcanons? (Yours or others)

Thanks for the ask!!!

I think that one of my favorite 40s Bucky headcanons is that he was a pro of breaking into Steve’s place

Either by the window or by picking the front door lock (with sisters’ hair pin or something?) and would use this talent to drag Steve out on double dates or to make sure that he wasn’t wallowing in self pity (or just being his old introverted self) alone in his apartment before they moved in together a few weeks after Sarah’s death (time period in which Bucky repeatedly broke into Steve’s place to make sure he was still alive).

My favorite thing about this headcanon is that the neighbors were so used to Steve and Bucky’s bullshit that if they walked by and saw Bucky kneeling in front of the door picking the lock it was just another day of those silly lads’ adventures, they would just say hi and move on with their day and not worry too much about the trouble they would get into.

Life in an Autism World

He knows exactly what he’s doing with that look

12.16.91

| UNSTOPPABLE WASP (2018) #7

By Jeremy Whitley and Alti Firmansyah

some days i'm okay, and then i remember that not only are steve and bucky so in love it hurts, not only are they best-friends-since-childhood, inseparable by definition, they are first and foremost family. and not by blood either - they found each other. they chose each other.

and that's literally all they've been telling each other throughout the entire fucking trilogy

“I choose you”

“I choose you”

“I choose you”

“I choose you”

“I choose you”

“I choose you”

“I choose you”

“I choose you”

AND BY THIS POINT I'M NOT OKAY ANYMORE