Idk If I've Talked About This Before, But I Saw Someone Post About Why People Who Have Been Trying To

Idk if I've talked about this before, but I saw someone post about why people who have been trying to shift for so long might not be shifting (this might not apply to everyone, but it really clicked with me). They only explained why, so I'm gonna talk about the solution I came up with.

They specifically said that it was not tough love, but psychological facts: it's possible that your mind registers shifting as a goal in THIS reality.

Think about that for a second. This is the part that really got me when I started to think about it. When you are here, in your CR, your goal is to shift, right? So what if our minds interprets that as a goal IN THIS REALITY, as simple as going to bed thinking "oh, I'm going to unload the dishwasher in the morning." Because shifting is just aligning with your DR self, and guess what?? Your goal in your DR is not to shift! That blew up my brain a little bit.

"But i want to shift" you know how everyone keeps saying "you are already in your DR"? I interpreted that for so long as motivation. It's not. It's the process. To align with your DR self, just like aligning with another person in your CR you have to have the same goals.

So your goal is no longer to shift. Stop thinking like that. Your goal IS NOT TO SHIFT. Waking up where you are meant to has never been a goal, but an expectation. Your goal is to wake up and go downstairs to have breakfast with your DR friends or family. Your goal is to wake up and get to class on time to ace that Defence Against The Dark Arts quiz you totally forgot to study for until the night before. Your goal is to wake up and win that Oscar, to break that curse, destroy the One Ring, you fucking name it babes.

I don't know if this is really dumb and obvious, but it wasn't for me before, so I really hope this post helps someone else too.

XO

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Hello! <3 I would love to read some cuddling h/c about Venti, Xiao, Childe and Albedo! Whenever you got time, of course!

cuddling with the genshin boys

pairing gn!reader x venti, xiao, childe, albedo

genre fluff

warnings none

synopsis the genshin boys' habits when you cuddle

Hello!

venti

ehe

in all seriousness, venti will probably giggle at how cute you are when you're in his arms, especially when you fall asleep in them or blush at one of his many overbearing compliments

isn't afraid to brag about you in public... after all, he's a bard and will probably sing all about you in his songs too, even more so when he's completely drunk lol

probably loves to twirl you around in the tavern and make you blush or hook your arms together

whatever form of cuddling you're proposing today, he loves all of it. big or little spoon, whether you're sitting on his lap or not, he doesn't mind as long as he can feel you snuggled up against him

venti has the ability to bring you to his favourite places in all of teyvat; beautiful meadows of flowers, mountaintops with views of entire nations below, shimmering pools and lakes that look surreal, caverns filled with glittering crystalflies

but he'll often bring you to a favourite spot of his under the large tree at windrise, the place where he first met you

lets you lean against his chest or his shoulder as he brings out his lyre, the sweet music filling the otherwise silent air around you, and literally every word he sings is just gushing about how amazing and beautiful he thinks you are

smiles like an idiot if you go out to collect flowers to braid into his hair,,

if you wake up from a nightmare or you're having trouble falling asleep anytime, he'll kneel down next to your fatigued form, lulling you to sleep with that melodious voice of his and the calming notes of the lyre

xiao

at first, he's not used to displays affection or physical touch, he probably hasn't touched another being in a gentle way for as long as he can remember

xiao was a little stiff and awkward the first time you tried to cuddle with him

over time though, he grows to crave the feeling of your touch- why does he look forward to it so much? why does he yearn for the way you hold him?

doesn't have much time during the day to waste because of his duties, but you always manage to pull him into bed at night to cuddle before you attempt to convince him to go to sleep (which he never does bc "adepti don't need sleep" but,, he might just try for you)

always the big spoon. always insists to protect you

secretly loves being held by you though. he's never felt so comforted in someone else's presence. so please hold this poor touch-starved boy. maybe even give him a massage because i know for a fact he's stressed out

he feigns reluctance for cuddling but in all honesty, he's always craving your tenderness and the feeling of holding you

secretly loves it when you run your fingers over his scars or kiss them gently

makes sure his arm is always wound around your waist or wrapped around your wrist or grasping your hand, he has to be holding onto you tightly somewhere. it makes him feel more secure

kisses your forehead when he's feeling brave

when you fall asleep in his arms, he'll cradle you like a precious treasure, and set you down on the sheets ever-so-softly like you're made of glass. afraid that he might be too rough for your fragile mortal body

never lets you go, even if you both end up falling asleep

childe

childe will cuddle you at any time of the day, anywhere in the world. this man is so in love with you and isn't afraid to show it regardless of what the situation is

always has his hands all over you. even in public. will sling his arm around your shoulders whenever he's introducing you to people or intertwine his fingers with yours while you're walking together

in love with the feeling of your skin on his

because he's often away for missions for days or weeks at a time, he always wants to make the most of being with you and will absolutely shower you in his love whenever he has the chance

teases you a little too much. when you think you're just about to get comfortable he'll start prodding at you or tickling you. worst part is, he knows all the spots that make you squirm, and will not hesitate to chase you around the house just to pick you up off the floor, and then carry you back bridal-style

thinks you're absolutely adorable when you protest and always squishes your cheeks together, and then leaning in to press a kiss to your lips. maybe a few more

he loves to stretch out on the couch or the bed so you can lay down on his chest, one arm draped lazily over your body and another twirling a strand of your hair around his fingers

talks his head off around you, he just can't shut up but you adore him and all the stories he tells you about his missions, his family, and snezhnaya and all the things he's planning to do with you in the future

will definitely be the kind to pull you back into bed in the mornings, whining with those endearing blue eyes for you to stay just five more minutes

when you flash him that sleepy smile of yours his heart will melt. he'd do anything just to see you like that on the daily

albedo

like xiao, albedo is usually quite hesitant with physical shows of affection

people might frown at the way you're sitting on him in the library but who honestly cares. he's often busy reading something or sketching or planning his next experiment, but he can't help but give in to you

lets you perch on his lap, his non-dominant arm wrapped around your waist while he scribbles something on a notepad, his chin resting on your shoulder

king of multitasking

will absentmindedly press soft kisses to the back of your neck, his warm breath sending a jolt up your spine, sometimes even letting his hand fall to your thigh

doesn't speak much but you'll know by the way he holds you how much he adores you

albedo is constantly hyper-aware of your feelings, body temperature, whether you're feeling stiff from sitting down too long... etc

he'll drape his coat around your shoulders if he feels you shiver, or put down his work to move you closer to the fireplace, gently rubbing his hands up and down your form to warm you up a bit before leaving to "get you something"

will definitely come back to you with warm drinks or meals (or strange-looking potions that he insists you take)

holds onto your chin gently as he tips your head up to feed you. he will definitely not let you resist his spoon-feeding. he doesn't do it as a joke or to tease you but seriously just wants to take care of you because he knows how the bitter cold of dragonspine can affect humans sometimes

will use the fact that you're cold to cuddle you even more

3 years ago
“We’re Home.”

“We’re home.”

3 years ago

im just picturing dancing through the sky with venti. like youre sitting on top of the ruins of decarabians tower, and he does that whole 'do you trust me?' scene and when you take his hand, he leads you out, and he manipulates the wind and you two float out, and he chuckles when he sees how tightly youre gripping his hand, and says 'cmon, itll be alright! i wont letcha fall!', and you to dance together, swirling in the wind to a song just for the both of you.

3 years ago

YESSSS IM BACK WITH ANOTHER VENTHER ART!!!

Venti really wants to buy that new maid 😏😏

YESSSS IM BACK WITH ANOTHER VENTHER ART!!!

aether: */wears a maid outfit

venti: 💳💥💳💥💥💥💳💳

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