I noticed that there were only small pockets of posts on helping ease dysphoria or helping you feel more at home with your gender/identity so I decided to compile what I could here!
TERFS are not welcome to interact with this post. But, I always seize the opportunity to block gross people!
Spells (dysphoria):
Dysphoria healing spell
Dispelling dysphoria
Dysphoria spell bottle
Gender protection jar
Voice dysphoria glamour
To stop chest dysphoria
Menstruation dysphoria tea
Spells (gender identity):
Gender affirmation spell
Gender orientation validation spell
An enchantment to be seen as the gender you identify with
Gender clarity switch
Gender euphoria incantation
Confidence mirror glamour
Glamour to prevent misgendering
Sigils:
Dysphoria is banished
I am free of dysphoria
I do not have gender dysphoria
Dysphoria does not effect me
Relieving dysphoria for trans people
My gender is accepted
My voice gets deeper
For feeling more masculine:
Glamoured masculinity potion
The emperor’s reform spell (to strengthen masculine energies)
Bath spell for transmasculinity
Dapper magic
I am full of masculinity sigil
I look more masculine sigil
For feeling more feminine:
Potion for trans-feminine people
Glamoured femininity potion
The empress reclaim spell (to strengthen feminine energies)
I appear feminine sigil
My appearance is feminine sigil
Increased femininity sigil
For feeling more non-binary (any “non-traditional” gender):
Androgynous glamour
My body is an agender body sigil
Non-binary confidence sigil
Ambiguity / Androgyny / Genderlessness sigils
General:
Dysphoria tarot spread
Crystals for dysphoria
Gender identi-tea
Other resources:
@sylvaetria‘s masterpost
@witchy-woman‘s LGBT masterposts [masculine] [feminine]
@magicusersresource‘s masterpost (spells for trans and nb folks)
@neurodwitches‘ masterpost (dysphoria and witchcraft)
OH. THE. TEA!
Louis Tomlinson’s Walls cover art:
This moment from Todrick Hall’s music video for “I Like Boys,” after he literally kicks the closet door down:
BONUS (I Like Boys lyrics):
Lights off, doors shut Tall, dark, clean-cut Thick with a bubble butt, yup Mama, I like boys Styles like they named Harry Sizzlin’ like grease By day his name Gaston By night I call him Beast
Bitch! B to the O to the Y to the S Boys will be boys and with boys I’m obsessed Boys in their gym clothes, boys in a dress And if boys are a crime then I’m under arrest
Haven't seen the update yet so ScarAether request will come later.
For now may I please requests Aether being comforted by Venti?
Specifically, if you are ok with extra prompting, Aether comes home crying because the world is too stressful: he feels betrayed by Zhongli(because gnosis deal), he technically still lost to the fatui despite going through so much, and various other problems like how everything seems to want him dead.
Aether goes through so much I want him to be comforted T_T
Well... We didn't get much new information on Scara, so it won't majorly change how I write him for now.
Btw, I prefer more, so the 'extra prompting' is a perfect request! Here you go.
[[ Summary: Overwhelmed by the world, Aether comes back to the first nation that had welcomed him, and the one he found himself returning to time and time again, and its Archon.
Word Count: 756 ]]
Aether was shaken when he had first defeated the poor dragon, Stormterror, and had nearly fallen to the ground, saved just barely... He was torn up when he had seen an entire nation be nearly consumed by the ocean and the beasts deep within, only surviving by those who have yet to abandon again. And once again, he was rattled when his own life was taken, and he had been forced within the mind- the heart- of the Electro Archon herself.
And all of that, all of that, the Fatui had still gotten the third Gnosis-- Perhaps fourth, if you count the Tsaritsa's... but he just didn't understand anymore. More and more, he felt that he was little more than a pawn in the massive game of chess that the Fatui had forced him through.
"Aether?" Paimon asked, fluttering beside, "So... We can't do much right now. The Chasm's locking us off from, uhm, Sumeru... what should we do now?"
Aether looked down at the Serenitea Pot in hand.
"Home." He said, softly. Paimon looked at the Teapot, then back up at him,
"Home?"
He turned his gaze to the north.
"Home."
And, as always, she knew what he meant.
Home was not a place, but a person. And while his sister would always be his first home, his family, he found a home away from home.
Him.
How mushy- Lumine would tease him over it, but right now, his heart ached and there were tears in his eyes. Maybe he had a right to be a little mushy.
But it was time to go home.
To Mondstadt.
...
Common as it were, Venti had not been in the Angel's Share as of yet, nor was he singing before his statue, in the Cathedral, in the palms of the statue...
And Aether even tried to check the Cat's Tail, but both Diona and Margaret attested to not knowing where Venti was.
"Aether?" Paimon asked, softly, "It's okay... Maybe we should go check Windrise again, that silly bard it-"
She was cut off by the choked up sob, Aether rushing behind the nearest building, and sitting down, his head on his knees, hugging his legs to his chest, and he sobbed.
Could nothing go right? Could nothing be okay?! Was he just meant to wander endlessly, and to lose all he loves save for the one he has to take care of? Was-
The tickling breeze, and Aether gasped, suddenly his sobs were gone, only dramatic breathing, and with a light touch atop his head, he saw Venti floating down from above, landing gracefully, and shifting to stand on one knee, "Hey, sorry, Dvalin wanted to talk... But I'm okay."
The words Aether didn't know he needed.
He leapt at Venti, wrapping him in a tight hug, knocking him back onto his ass, barely keeping himself from falling back further and hitting his head on the hard, stony ground, Aether hiding his face in the crook of his neck...
"Hey, it's alright, it's alright... I'd say 'I missed you too', but I have a feeling this is about more than missing me."
Aether nodded against him, and just hugged him tighter, prompting a soft squeak from Venti.
"Don't-Don't crush me, I'll turn back into a spirit... It's okay, I'm not going anywhere." He reassured, tilting his head to the side slightly, "Talk to me, my little warrior, what's wrong?"
"Hurt," Aether said, between his pathetic little whimpers, "Hurt..."
"You're hurt?" Venti asked, "Inside or outside?"
"Inside."
Venti's hand was able to worm between their bodies, resting on his stomach, resulting in it tensing from old wounds that still had yet to fully heal, "Outside..."
"Aether..." Venti sighed, smiling... and... he laughed. "You're ridiculous, you're hurt and beat up and you go all the way from Inazuma just to get back here..." He pressed a kiss to Aether's forehead, "Why? Did you really miss me that much?"
"You," Aether sat up, "You," he braced his hands on Venti's chest, "You", he pushed him to the ground, "You," he was already lying on him, "Home."
Home.
This was his home. The only home not so quickly to be taken from him.
Venti, once again, laughed, a melodic sound that echoed through the alley, "Look... I love you too, but maybe we should get into the Teapot before some guards yell at us."
Aether froze, and still straddling Venti's waist, sat up, a light flush over his features... Embarrassment.
"And then I'll stay next to you aaaall night long, okay?"
"... okay."
Venti is Aether’s peace in this world 🤍
🚫 This art is mine. Please do not reupload.
This was the first method of sigil making I ever learned, from a post by @the-darkest-of-lights. I decided to make my own tutorial on it with my spare time. Happy sigil making! I’ll be making more of these on other methods of sigil making I think, because there’s so many different methods, and this was quite enjoyable to make. (I know that you can make sigils with the other various planetary numerology squares but honestly I still haven’t figured out how, I only know this one.)
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Inspired by this 💫ABSOLUTE MASTERPIECE💫! I hope you don`t mind <3 Also this is my first time writing and english is my second language, so don`t judge,pls. Lets dive in!
He can`t talk, but he squeaks and chirps a lot. You might even consider him talkative (pun intended)
He jiggles little "feathers" on his head every time something picks his interest.
His "wing" thingy is like his arm.
If there's something on his head or face, he will rub it away with his little wing like a kitten.
Talking about interest : he will circle around anything that he's interested in and make funky noises!
When he is frustrated or annoyed ( or both) he pouts and inflates a little, like specters, change my mind.
When angy, he's making short squeaks and throws tantrum, "stomping" his little legs in the air
When he's really sad he melts on the closest surface and sobs.
Doesn't necessarily cries with tears, but can produce liquid from his eyes.
Don't ask how...
Talking about his eyes: they're literally GLOWING when he's happy.
Glowing eyes and small wiggly up-down dance if he's sitting on something!
And chirps!
And this is a recipe for happiness, kids.
Oh, yes, you get me right. He sits on surfaces a lot. He can float, but sitting relaxes him for some extend.
He can fall asleep while sitting, and when he does he might fall down on his face like a tired kitten.
He purrs while sleeping, if he dreams about something nice.
I highly doubt that he has bones, so I think you can squish him how you want, without hurting him!
He might even like it, in fact.
Rub his head and he'll melt
I think he really likes sitting on your lap, head or shoulder
Small *thud* on your head means that now it's his spot.
Will listen to your singing ( no meter how bad it is) or instrument playing and chirp along!
TOTALLY will nuzzle into your neck and hug it with his wing thingy.
And purr
For now that's it. Tell me if you wanna more, you even might request a scenario with wisp! Venti and I'll try to do it <3
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venti with a florist! reader, where he passes by your flower stall everyday before going to play his lyre in front of the cathedral.
venti, who always makes the excuse of "but windblume, your flowers look the best!," and then proceeds to tuck a cecilia with his hat and happily takes the extra flowers you set aside just for him.
you, who gets worried whenever you don’t see him in the mornings, but then sigh in relief when he walks towards you, quite sloppily as he explained that he had a "bit too much" to drink last night in the tavern.
venti, who plays a newly composed serenade as he accompanies you to pick the sprouted flowers in your vast garden.
you, who invite him to pick windwheel asters in windrise, catching crystalflies and weaving together flower crowns as you both giggle at the sight of the other adorned in sparkling crystal cores and flower petals.
venti and florist! reader, where the both of you lay across the top of starsnatch cliff, just gazing at the stars. just talking and telling stories to each other while bundling him a little bouquet of cecilias, using long blades of grass to tie them together as he tumbles you both over in a hug. laying on top of you, you don’t think you’ve ever seen such a prettier sight.
masterlist!!
There’s this big thing going around people saying he looks tired and sad and that means something will happen, like a warning, or damage control bc of the whole Louis Styles debacle.
This is my opinion:
Yes he does look tired maybe even sad or upset. It could be that he legit is tired, had a long night. Or it could be that he’s playing his part. The hints to the “breakup” are being made. El’s videos that match with Max’s, her being in Max’s video, all those are supposed to be little things that one should have noticed right? And those things are things that will be used as examples in their breakup articles. So Louis has to play his part too. He has to act like he’s upset that his long time relationship is done (even if it’s not “officially” done) I mean he did say he would “marry” her not too long ago. He can’t just act like nothing, like it doesn’t bother him especially if they are trying to push the narrative of two former close friends reuniting and one supporting the other through a hardship.
With that said I think Louis will be the one to officially come out. It can be used as an “explanation” as to why he and El really broke up. It caused them problems (along with other reasons) but even though he now knew he is bi or gay or whatever he decides to label himself he still “loved” her and the break up hurt = sad and tired looking Louis selfies and a great reason for him to have/get support from his friend.
Also I completely believe he is in LA, both him and Harry (together, obviously). Louis will say he wanted to see Freddie (which he probably did) and the break up made it easier for him to hop on a plane and leave London. Harry was “already” in LA. They “hang out” for the “first time in years” and they get papped, “unbeknownst” to them and voila we have the beginning of a whirlwind storm.
*rember this is just my theory, I can be and I’m probably am completely way off. *
Still (and forever) thinking about Louis recording himself reading for Harry. Does he send him files chapter-by-chapter? What’s he read to him? All I want are reading details 🤣 Also, related, I would probably kill a man for an audio book read by either of them 🥺
oh yes let’s talk about hl + books in my fics !!!!! sharing books/story is my love language which is why it’s tts (and moy tbh) hl’s love language as well because i have no shame i guess.
well, my headcanon is that the first time he does it it’s a secret/surprise and he hides the file on h’s phone. so i’m thinking prob. a whole book. most likely poetry though because he knows harry loves the rhythm of poetry and finds it soothing and it’s his first big tour since he got sober so he’ll need all the soothing stuff he can get.....
as time goes on though, it changes and yeah he starts sending him stuff chapter by chapter, or in smaller chunks if it’s not something that has chapters (like a poetry collection, or short stories). i like to think that maybe louis starts having a routine where he wakes up, he goes on his run with Clifford and records a chapter for harry in the morning before officially starting his day. and he loves it because it’s a way for them to stay connected, cos once harry has listened to it, they can discuss the story together.
and as for what he sends him... well it depends! i think they pick stuff together; stuff they’re both interested in. a lot of poetry of course and biographies, esp. musicians, because louis loves to know more about harry’s world and harry just love music and learning about it. novels, obvs. cheesy historical romance when louis knows harry needs a pick me up, because they make him smile & laugh, and they both enjoy it. and there's always a big supply in the lighthouse anyways since people drop them off/swap them all the time. the ones set in scoltand are h’s favourite because it makes him feel closer to home when he’s away. and louis’ fake scottish accent is terrible and it brightens his days to listen to it. rarely contemporary romance though, it just doesn’t have the same Drama to it and that’s what they both enjoy. mysteries only if harry has been doing well and can handle the stress of Not Knowing what’s going to happen, but they’re more a ~louis thing than a hl thing so it doesn’t happen very often. lots of sad books. harry does love sad books. even though they upset him. he likes the catharsis though, even when he’s in a bad mood. sometimes erotica when louis is in A Mood. he never warns when a chapter gets naughty though, loves the idea of teasing harry/taking him by surprise like that. if it’s Het (like in some of the romance novels), louis puts on the most ridiculous voices because he knows it’ll make harry laugh. if it’s actually hot, well........
and letters. louis sends him little files of himself reading famous correspondences all the time on top of the regular books. just very romantic letters. esp. gay ones. harry sends him romantic postcards and louis reads him famous love letters. it’s their Thing.
sometimes they do the thing on facetime or on the phone.... they like having that connection where louis is Acually Reading for harry. but most of the time, harry prefers to have the recordings. he can listen to them before going to sleep, or before a show if he’s nervous, or during long flights/long bus rides, or when he goes out for a walk after a show, calming himself down under the cover of darkness, his bodyguard walking a few paces behind him.... or when he’s having a wank tbh.
i like to think that sometimes if there’s a book harry really wants louis to read to him, he’ll have it shipped to the lighthouse instead of asking and louis teases him for being such a needy dork but he complies ofc.
whatever you do, don’t think about elderly hl in this verse, still living in their lighthouse though it’s not a b&b anymore because they don’t want the hassle, still reading together.... louis’ eyes aren’t what they use to be, his voice cracks a lot more, but he’ll put on his glasses and strain and he’ll read to harry every night before bed because it’s what they Do and that’s his baby.