Skills you shouldn’t have to learn to survive yet child abuse forces you to:
moving around without making any noise
moving around the place without turning on the light
locking/unlocking doors in complete darkness
staying stoic in the face of screaming, threats, and violence
pretense of being calm even if in deep panic
perfect pretense of being fine even in the middle of breakdown
silent crying, crying without making any noise or even tears
doing physical work while crying or injured and not stopping
sensing when someone is angry or stressed because now they’re a danger to you
comforting and calming people down in desperate attemt to lower the amount of danger you’re in
recognizing a person by their footsteps, or a car by the noise it makes when turning to a stop
turning all injustices and anger inwards and making it into self hatred
hiding scars and injuries
expertly making excuses for marks or scars on yourself
dissociating in a second if there’s danger of new trauma
repressing mountains of trauma
surviving emotionally completely on your own
Liz Fosslien
If you hate hearing “everything happens for a reason”, that’s really valid. And I’m here to say that some things are fucked up and should never happen. You didn’t deserve it. It should have never happened to you.
here’s an idea: notice toxic trends in your behavior and, idk, change them
they're burning ballots in the US now btw. in case you wanted to know where things are at.
Edit: to clarify, locations mentioned are Vancouver, Washington and Portland, Oregon. This news story does not involve Canada.
Important info: Context: Dropbox location was Fisher's Landing Transit Center near Southeast 162nd Avenue Hundreds of ballots lost, voters should contact the Clark Auditor ASAP Clark Auditor contact info: clark.wa.gov/auditor Can confirm your ballot was received on: vote.wa.gov
It's a grey goose for dinner kinda night ifkyk
"i would kill for you" "i would die for you" okay but would you forgive me if i forgot something important for the 51204th time in a row even though i tried my best to remember
My heart aches for our community and what we've all been facing lately. Please hang in there, everybody.
nothing has made me feel like an ancient grumpy crone more than the “using chatgpt for school is fine actually” sentiment among youths
something that’s so frustrating to me is when people (usually able-bodied people lol) tell disabled people how sad/uncomfortable their very existence makes them.
“it makes me so sad to look at u” “just thinking about how hard everything must be for u makes me want to cry” “i cant imagine living like that”
like. that’s your fucking problem to deal with. don’t put your feelings on us like that. we are not a receptacle for your ableism and guilt.
disabled people are not doing anything wrong by just existing. we don’t need to be told how uncomfortable it is to see a person who looks different from most other people existing in public, or even in their own homes. it just feels so unnecessarily cruel, even if it isn’t “intended” to be. it’s not our job to process your feelings + it’s not our job to change for you. fuck off.
33. she/her. disabled. did & cptsd. sex trafficking survivor. posts might be triggering.
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