I’m A Trans Man! I Love You All, No Matter What You Identify As.

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Charles Lee, the original historical bitch boy, has had a terrible day at work so far and decides to spend his lunch break in a coffee shop. He hopes to find some peace but will he coincidentally end up finding love as well?

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If I had to write this y’all have to read this.

I don’t have a taglist so  @jefferoni-quotes I love you but please kill me after this

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ALL LGBTQ+ PEOPLE ARE VALID PT. 3! (pt. 1 and pt. 2) 

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Good news for you, this August 23rd.

We all cry at three am once in a while.

trying to prove a point to the boys at school

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My counselor once told me to make sure I wasn’t doing things to distract myself from the boredom rather than try to sate it. I feel its one of the most important things he ever said to me.

When I’m distracting myself from the boredom, I read or game excessively so I don’t feel the emptiness of boredom. It’s a short term thing, and it only staves the boredom as long as I’m doing the thing.

When I’m sating myself from the boredom, I pursue things I am genuinely interested in and so find myself feeling fulfilled and happier for a longer period of time. Even if I stop doing it temporarily, I don’t immediately fall apart as I would with the distraction.

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Jamelia: Embrace Your Roots [x]

When I say, “My anxiety is acting up,” I’m really saying, “There’s no reason to be afraid. It’s just my disorder talking, and I can do something to calm down.” It’s positive.

When I say, “My depression is bad today,” I’m really saying, “I’m not worthless and I don’t deserve to die or give up. It’s just my disorder talking, and I should get up and look for what’s good about today.” It’s positive.

When I say, “My ADHD means my brain is wired differently,” I’m really saying, “I’m not a stupid piece of shit who will amount to nothing. It’s just that my brain needs help making certain connections and chemicals, and with certain processes, and there are lots of things I can try to work with it instead of against it.” It’s positive.

Talking about and accepting my disorders is the most radically positive thing I can do. It isn’t pessimism; it’s optimism. It isn’t defeatism; it’s hope. It’s direction, and action, and learning to regain control of my life.

So I don’t give a fuck if it annoys you or makes you uncomfortable. I don’t care if you think I need to think of myself as “more than my disorders”. Because I don’t think that having disorders makes me lesser. And I’m not going to silence myself because you disagree.

You’re fucking wrong, and I won’t let my own silence be the death of me.

Wow. The patience, kindness and calm communication skills. Outstanding.

From raindovemodel