Calm Down, Maam

You probably are not gay but just straight (or bi idc) girl. Its okay tho, you are still special the way you are :)

Gender dysphoria is mental disorder that can be cured by accepting yourself and by therapy, it’s not convention therapy. You are making from illness whole cult like movement.

At white radfems who bitch about video games sexualizing white cis women: maybe sit out the HL discourse. Trans, Jews and racial minorities are talking. And we're allowed to call out media we know will harm us just as much as you are.

this is how trans people sound

Ppl should stop putting so much pressure on gay ppl to "come out" and more pressure on straight ppl to stop assuming everyone's sexuality is fucking straight

i highly recommend for women and girls to be intellectually curious and difficult to shame

^^^

female breasts being censored makes me uncomfortable, female breasts being deemed sexual make me really uncomfortable, people who censor female nipples give me an ick and they give me SUCH an ick that I cannot even tell in words, I deem it a redflag on sight

female nipples being shown only in pornographic context makes me uncomfortable, it makes me fucking angry and sad

Gender can be a touchy topic. Ever since chopping off my hair I’ve been asked multiple times “when I’m transitioning”. I’m 100% confident in my identity as a masculine female. Hell, cutting my hair short, almost makes me feel even MORE female.

A big ambition of the LGBTQ+ community is to eradicate gender roles. My confusion lies in the fact that since I cut my hair, which enhances my masculinity, the only reasonable explanation must be that I am transitioning. However, it is perfectly okay for me to be a masculine female, just as it is to be a feminine male. It is also okay that I desire to look more like a man, without wanting to identify as one. I love having female body parts - yeah, I wish I had smaller boobs and narrower hips, but for me that’s just for aesthetics.

I feel as though we as a community have lost touch with those of us who fall in between the lines, and not even to the point of identifying as non-binary. Some of us may never find a label that fits us perfectly, and that’s fine, we’re all just somewhere on a spectrum. Someone’s identity should never be assumed or questioned - and it is entirely up to them to decide who they want to be. I’ve never felt more happy with myself as I have since cutting off my hair. Hopefully some of you can relate to this message and I’m always open to discussion in the comments.

Suggestion to women: stop wearing makeup

Suggestion to feminists: stop wearing makeup

Suggestion to radfems: stop wearing makeup

Benefits:

Girls will see bare faced women

Society will be less accustomed to expecting women to wear makeup

A male CEO will not have your money in their pocket

Your money will be in your pocket. You can buy weed with that

Your skin will feel better without harmful chemicals on it

Eventually they'd have to stop making that shit

Less microplastics in the ocean

Less animal testing

You'll have more confidence in yourself

Probably will make capitalism feel bad or something

It makes me sad that people think radical feminists/gender abolitionists hate trans people and want them to die. In reality we just don’t think gender exists and biological sex is the only real reality. Everything else is just personality and interests.

A male can never know what it’s like to grow up socialized as a female. They will never experience going from girlhood to being sexualized by grown men in a matter of a year or so. They will never menstruate. They will never miscarry and they will never go through child birth. They will never experience sexism. They have and always will benefit from the patriarchy as long as it’s upheld.

If women aren’t a real social class then how did men know who to not allow to vote or to buy property? How do men know who to assault on the street? Women have been forced to marry men, bear their bastards, and depend on the male to make the income because we weren’t allowed to work. For Christ’s sake, western women weren’t even allowed to wear pants for decades. We were burned at the stake and called witches for simply for being female.

Women (transmen) are trying to identify out of their biological sex because they don’t like the way society views women and expects them to look or behave. You can’t identify out of oppression.

I think everybody should have the freedom to dress how they want, to wear makeup, or express themselves any ways they see fit. But liking “feminine” things does NOT make you a woman. And liking “masculine” things does NOT make you a man. Please just be human and stop complicating it. I love people and I’d never want to intentionally offend anybody but people need a wake up call.